Rajan

Being Contacted By An Escort

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I started punting this year and from my short stint I've been the one to book an escort whether I've met her through an agency or aw.

A couple of indi girls I've met have started to text and call me directly asking how I am and if I'm available to meet them - is it normal for wg's to proactively go out ask a client for business??

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That's bad behaviour! Most escorts wouldn't do that. It's incredibly indiscreet, and could potentially get a client into trouble should a wife or partner answer. No decent escort would do that, unless it had already been agreed with the client.

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No it is not normal. As Jasmine said, most good escorts wouldn't do that. I would never contact a client. They sound a bit desperate for cash.

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Personally I'm ok with the agency I trust or my parlour regular contacting me as I'm single, although they still only reply if I initiate contact.

If I were to meet someone that would have to change.

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No its not on unless you say when etc.

I have a reg who knows when its okay to contcat me on my mobile by text, and at times she does contact me, there has ony ever been one call when she text asking for me to see her, in all the time we have known each other.

Like others have said, its not on really, and can easily put you on the spot with family and friends.

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No. If i was you I would either block their numbers or tell them politely but firmly not to contact you. Its not the norm but I'm hearing more tales of this. Its very poor behaviour to tout like that and to contact guys.

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Have a separate punting mobile .....

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It is definitely out of order in my view. I would never go back to a girl who contacted me out of the blue. Furthermore I would advise others to avoid her.

This is yet another reason for guys to have a separate punting phone.

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I do get polite emails from a WG I see here,I don't have a problem with this as she is very discreet and it is a simple and secure means of booking a meeting.

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Some guys invite this sort of thing. Some guys text me out of the blue and invite conversation. I never respond. i do not have the time for this sort of thing. Maybe some girls do, and maybe some girls are savvy and know which buttons to press and get work that way.

Anyway I do all of my communicating on here. This is how I relax.

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I do not mind being contacted in the slightest, in fact I would encourage it....anybody?, ANYBODY THERE????

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It's happened to me too a few times. I'm not that bothered, in fact its flattering. Also, it's something that I would do if I was in the trade: call up a client to get some work in. It seems to make good business sense to me. Simply keep your good clients from straying away to a competitor.

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I do not mind being contacted in the slightest, in fact I would encourage it....anybody?, ANYBODY THERE????

I agree. Punting can be a lonely business if all the communication is a one way street.

I would accept that not everyone wants totally unsolicited calls, but if I've met a girl and like her then I definitely would let her know she can contact me and even tout for my business if she wants to. Haven't had any of them actually do it yet though. :(

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I had this happen once in the last year, i told her no i didnt want to see her again, This led to a large amount of abusive txt mesages to me which i was only too happy to reply to her that i will be in contact with the police if she did not stop messaging me. hey presto job done!

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It's happened to me too a few times. I'm not that bothered, in fact its flattering. Also, it's something that I would do if I was in the trade: call up a client to get some work in. It seems to make good business sense to me. Simply keep your good clients from straying away to a competitor.

Really? You would call some guy up out of the blue and tout? Ot text even? What if he was with his wife or girlfrind when you called? There is such a thing as discretion. A good prostitute values her clients and would not compromise them by cold calling/texting and potentially ruining their lives.

Some guys like it and invite it.......... good for them, but not for anyone else?

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I agree with Sarah. I don't have a girlfriend or wife. I would only accept if it is free. Othrewise it is up to me when I want to spend money for sex, not to her.

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Only had one escort contact me. I tried a few times to book her when she came to my area on tour, but always failed so she sent a few texts saying "I'll be in such and such town tomorrow and can be contacted on this number"

It didn't bother me at all as it came to my punting phone, & was discreet. Eventually she put her prices over my limit so I told her. She was fine about it and never contacted me again.

I actually have one fave girl that I have told to contact me if she is heading my direction but she doesn't tour my way often and I called her, as soon as I saw she was (that'd be once!) :D

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It's happened to me too a few times. I'm not that bothered, in fact its flattering. Also, it's something that I would do if I was in the trade: call up a client to get some work in. It seems to make good business sense to me. Simply keep your good clients from straying away to a competitor.

Flattering Taffy? Really love? I've just put the phone down for the upteenth time this morning after the various spurious calls about PPI etc, I do not find that flattering and its exactly the same thing. Its touting for work. good business for some but not flattering IMHO, down right rude and not even in the right way either.

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After one session with a bar girl in Vietnam she hounded me with texts and calls until I managed to persuade her that I had literally no money left. That put an end to it.

That was irritating.

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I started punting this year and from my short stint I've been the one to book an escort whether I've met her through an agency or aw.

A couple of indi girls I've met have started to text and call me directly asking how I am and if I'm available to meet them - is it normal for wg's to proactively go out ask a client for business??

I agree with the rest of the ladies. This is absolutely irregular, unprofessional and fundamentally sloppy, disrespectful conduct. Whatever the reason the WG(s) in question have manifested such behavior, it is, in my opinion, indefensible. No self respecting WG would be caught attempting tricks like this, in a million years: hopefully you'll soon become privy to this, more 'normal' protocol sooner, rather than later! If I were you I would stamp it out, very firmly and very swiftly so as not to further encourage any ideas these ladies may have about using your relative 'naievity' against you, to their own personal advantage or whim. Indeed, this is what I suspect has been the catalyst for such unorthodox, potentially serious infringement of the golden rule of respect for mutual discretion and boundaries; their disproportionate (to you) savvy, equipping them to easily 'spot an easy target' based on what is probably the combination of your good nature, simple inexperience and lack of confidence.

Don't tolerate such a move.

Good luck.

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No its definately not ok to randomly txt someone asking for business as you don't know there situation at home. I have txted many clients or emailed them when I have been in there area but only cause they ASKED me to but other than that its a no no x

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it's generally uncommon but oddly I only ever get these sort of contacts in the build up to christmas wink wink

a while ago I actually had one call me and my OH answered the phone :eek: the WG inquired after my punting name dami3n and as realisation must have hit she said wrong number, my OH was not too bothered but since then I've gotten a punting phone which only comes on when I'm confirming a booking or clarifying directions just before I show up.

if this hobby is a secret or you have any significant other dont risk it get a punting phone/sim,

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It's happened to me too a few times. I'm not that bothered, in fact its flattering. Also, it's something that I would do if I was in the trade: call up a client to get some work in. It seems to make good business sense to me. Simply keep your good clients from straying away to a competitor.

This is not a normal business; being contacted by your plumber/hairdresser/car mechanic would not potentially destroy your marriage/career/wealth/relationship with children.

I have never been contacted in this way by a WG, so no - it is not normal.

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I dislike unsolicited texts touting for business and tend to never reply from them. I use a punting sim, which I check rarely, so usually they are a complete waste of time on the part of the WG. I exchange texts, both social and business, with a few trusted regulars, who know it's safe to do so. That works well.

If the OP is married and does not have a punting sim, he should tell the WG concerned to not contact him in future.

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