Sarah Summers

The Dynamic Of A Punt And What We Hope To Get Out Of It

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Do you epoect to have an orgasm when you see a lady? Do you measure the punt by this maxim?

Do you intend to give the lady an orgasm or are you just wanting selfish pleasure?

Some men won't go down on a working girl but do they want to make her cum in other ways or is that the mindset - no oral - no cum.

I do not expect to get flowery answers here no swiss tony talk please.

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Yes, I do expect to have an orgasm with a wg, but I've never had issues in this dept. I also do my best to make sure the lady has a good time too, I love going down during my appointments. It's about mutual enjoyment for me, I'm not expecting the lady to find me super attractive or anything, but there's nothing better than seeing your efforts rewarded :-)

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Hi Sarah – I would imagine the responses to your question will be very varied, taking into consideration the punters age, experience, desires, needs, and general reasons for seeing a WG. Personally, as someone who is new to the scene, 37 years old and now un-attached, I am generally looking for the GFE and would hope the lady has an equally good time as myself, so would expect an orgasm or two, and would willingly try to return the favour. I like to go down on a lady, but I guess this is a personal preference and other punters will pay their money for the selfish pleasure.

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With all due respect, if you're expecting orgasms darling you should be doing it for free!

You seem to forget who is paying who here. I always do my best to try give the girl a good time, but at the end of the day she is providing me with a service, not the other way around. Yes I expect to orgasm and if the lady enjoys what we do then all the better but I am not there to make sure she has an orgasm and I do not consider that as selfish!

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Yes, I do expect an organism when visiting a working girl and have only once experienced a lady who did not expect this too. Certainly on that occasion, I judged the meeting (lowly) based on her expectations.

I enjoy giving oral so more often than not go down on the lady during meetings and genuinely hope that my temporary partner enjoys that or any other stimulus I offer. I do not expect the lady to climax, but am delighted if it happens.

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I'd certainly hope to have one and always have done so far, even during my worst visits. More than one is good as well, although it doesn't always happen, but the journey can still be very enjoyable even if you don't arrive at the destination ;)

I usually do go down on the ladies I visit, as I enjoy doing this and hope that they get at least some pleasure from it. If we're both trying to have a good time then I think that makes for a better punt overall - all part of the GFE?.

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I always go down on the lady; for me seeing her enjoying the punt is very important. Maybe girls put on an act for me but usually they seem to enjoy it as much as me. It is a risky job and i have no problem trying to be kind to someone that is being good to me. I have met some really nice women through this hobby, it cant be an easy job so if i can make it more pleasant then great.

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With all due respect, if you're expecting orgasms darling you should be doing it for free!

You seem to forget who is paying who here. I always do my best to try give the girl a good time, but at the end of the day she is providing me with a service, not the other way around. Yes I expect to orgasm and if the lady enjoys what we do then all the better but I am not there to make sure she has an orgasm and I do not consider that as selfish!

I don't think Sarah said she was expecting the guy to make her orgasm did she? She was asking guys if they like to try and give the wg an orgasm. No wg in her right mind expects an orgasm but it is rather nice if we do enjoy the session. Its a bonus and if you are wanting a mutual fun time rather than you as a client lying there like a sack of spuds while she 'entertains' you then would imagine you wouldl enjoy it more if she is obviously enjoying it.

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I enjoy a lady having fun in my company. If my oral skills result in her having an orgasm I am delighted. Generally that is the case. I also expect to cum but at my age I am honest enough to expect that to be after we have spent quite some time together. It usually happens eventually.

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With all due respect, if you're expecting orgasms darling you should be doing it for free!

You seem to forget who is paying who here. I always do my best to try give the girl a good time, but at the end of the day she is providing me with a service, not the other way around. Yes I expect to orgasm and if the lady enjoys what we do then all the better but I am not there to make sure she has an orgasm and I do not consider that as selfish!

What on earth are you talking about? Go back and read me. I did not say anything about expecting orgasms.. I simply asked a question !

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I don't think Sarah said she was expecting the guy to make her orgasm did she? She was asking guys if they like to try and give the wg an orgasm. No wg in her right mind expects an orgasm but it is rather nice if we do enjoy the session. Its a bonus and if you are wanting a mutual fun time rather than you as a client lying there like a sack of spuds while she 'entertains' you then would imagine you wouldl enjoy it more if she is obviously enjoying it.

Yup.

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Yes, I do expect an organism when visiting a working girl and have only once experienced a lady who did not expect this too. Certainly on that occasion, I judged the meeting (lowly) based on her expectations.

I enjoy giving oral so more often than not go down on the lady during meetings and genuinely hope that my temporary partner enjoys that or any other stimulus I offer. I do not expect the lady to climax, but am delighted if it happens.

LOL at your organism :D

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With all due respect, if you're expecting orgasms darling you should be doing it for free!

You seem to forget who is paying who here. I always do my best to try give the girl a good time, but at the end of the day she is providing me with a service, not the other way around. Yes I expect to orgasm and if the lady enjoys what we do then all the better but I am not there to make sure she has an orgasm and I do not consider that as selfish!

I never said that being selfish was wrong. The punter is entitled to do what ever he wants. I am there to provide a service. Personally speaking I would hope not to see that kind of punter who simply wants to be serviced and take pains on my website to make sure I see people wanting mutual pleasure, but - this was not about me - you simply didn't read the OP properly x

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Do you epoect to have an orgasm when you see a lady? Do you measure the punt by this maxim?

Well yes. Its what Im paying over 100 quid an hour for..If I left after an hour and didnt orgasm what could justify the cost at that price?

Do you intend to give the lady an orgasm or are you just wanting selfish pleasure?

Id like the lady to enjoy herself and enjoy her time with me. Enjoying herself doesnt mean she has to have had an orgasm if she doesnt feel like one...

Some men won't go down on a working girl but do they want to make her cum in other ways or is that the mindset - no oral - no cum.

I love giving ro. hopefully she'll cum. If she doesnt want to then thats fine with me. Hopefully shell let me know before I spend 90 minutes down there

I do not expect to get flowery answers here no swiss tony talk please.

Yknow buying an escort is a bit like making love to beautiful woman...

You take you time, see whats available.find someone that pops you trigger. Then you.enjoy the time together till the intense climax of what it brings...

Then look in your wallet..... and feel depressed....

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Answering questions on Punternet is like making love to a beautiful woman...you think you're saying the right things but you forget to include the fine wines, satin sheets and belgian chocolates and it all goes wrong! :cool:

Seriously though, I get almost as much out of seeing the lady enjoy herself as I do from my own pleasure. I remember one appointment, she came twice and I was so occupied with her pleasure that I ran out of time and went away half-cocked! I wouldn't have swapped that experience as her responses were totally genuine and it was amazing to see her total abandon. My aim is to come away empty, but I can get sidetracked with a lady who can let go, hopefully we can both get our rocks off! :)

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At £150/hr, my pleasure and my enjoyment is of paramount importance to me

Mutual enjoyment really does 'make' a session so it is also important in the wider scheme of things for my SP to enjoy herself too.

It is a big bonus though if the lady genuinely has a good time, but I wont be riddled with angst if she doesnt have an orgasm (compared to my usual of 2)

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Hi Sarah.

I measure my maxim by how much fun I'm having and not by the amount of times I cum.

I enjoy going down on girls recently. Its not to give her an orgasm. Although that would be a bonus. It just feels intimate doing something naughtly like that to a lady. Knowing I've gone down on a girl, is even more intimate then sex in some ways.

I also enjoy going to WGs because no request is to outlandish. I have a major foot fetish, and most non-WGs would jump at the very thought and wouldnt let me induldge in it. The beauty of punting means I can do fetish stuff, and get regular sex without much worry. I have never been that good with the ladys unfortuantley and have been single my whole life. It allows me to not worry about those things. Going slightly off-topic but thought you would value my thoughts.

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It is as important to me that the lady enjoys the session as it is that I enjoy it. In fact if I felt that the lady had not enjoyed it then it would not have been a fulfilling visit as far as I am concerned. If a man is the type that just wants to get his rocks off and as far as he is concerned that is all that matters then that is up to him. It's a mindset that I can't understand but if he is happy and the lady gets his cash and she is happy with that then who am I to criticise.

I like to have fun. It isn't just a question of cumming as many times as possible or even cumming at all. It's not a race. It's not a contest. Unless you want bragging rights. Personally when I hear a man start to give details of his encounter with a lady I switch off. I assume, rightly or wrongly, that at the minimum I'm going to hear an exagerration of what occurred. In any case I'm not interested in what happened when he was with a lady. I'm interested in what happened when I was with her.

I like making ladies cum. I like seeing and feeling the reaction. As I say that makes me as happy as what happens to me. And I seem to hve a modicum of success with this approach.

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As a punter I get a degree of satisfation if the lady has an orgasm, I then feel my part of the arrangement is then complete and we can then concentrate on me. I have no problems going down on the lady in fact it is something I enjoy. Often I find giving pleasure first means that the visit slightly over runs and I have had very few complaints about this occurance

However if the lady is robotic and says no kissing, no fingers and gives out a coldness and wants to charge for extras like Ryanair it is very difficult to show warmth towards them so unfortunately it just becomes a "wham bamm thank you mamm" coupled with a deffo no return

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I would like to meet a girl in a parlour, who could use and understand the phrase "dynamic of a punt". To answer the question, I look for an orgasm, but soley through intercourse, cant afford to waste semen or orgasms, in the girls mouth or hand. So if I cant manage a squirt through shagging, I put the little boy away for the next time. My punting is all about endorphin release for me, as long as the girl doesnt openly loathe me, thats fine. Almost always go down on a girl, wgs seem happier with a licking than a fingering, In case I come across as a selfish monster, been seeing the same three girls for about 6 years, plus the odd random , one of them last had an orgasm about five years ago, the other two I imagine have the odd little shudder, not bothered if they do or not to be honest, as most woman know, its up to them if they are going to have an orgasm, they guy has little to do with it.

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I always expect to orgasm during a punt, and would be disappointed is I didn't (thankfully this is rarely an issue).

But I also do like to give the lady pleasure as well, and hope she cums too. I am experienced enough, and realistic enough, to know that this isn't going to happen all, or even most, of the time. Even if the lady doesn't orgasm, I still hope she enjoys the encounter. I think the best punts are when you are both into what you are doing, and are both enjoying yourselves.

I do find it a real turn on if the lady does cum, and get much satisfaction from making this happen. I do of course realise that a lot of orgasms get faked, in order to make us punters feel better about ourselves, and also to let us know we can stop now before we get neck and jaw ache!

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It all depends on how I feel on the morning, and how the escort acts within the booking for me.

I dont always look for intercourse in my bookings, so getting my pleasure is counted in a few differant ways, and I dont always think that to cum is going to make or break the booking, there are many other things that happen in the time that make it pleasurable.

Like many others I get satisfaction in what I see is paramount in my booking and use that as a focal point, and play around that with the escort, which might include me taking advantage of an attractive naked lady in ways that please me and might be good for her also.

But I walk away knowing that it was my time and I tend to think that its the way it should be,

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I enjoy a lady having fun in my company. If my oral skills result in her having an orgasm I am delighted. Generally that is the case. I also expect to cum but at my age I am honest enough to expect that to be after we have spent quite some time together. It usually happens eventually.

+1 to this Paul and it's even better for me if the Lady has more than one orgasm during the meeting by any means, including oral. If I don't have one myself (also at my age :( ) it does not necessarily mean I did not enjoy myself if everything else about the time together went as I like them to go :P

What on earth are you talking about? Go back and read me. I did not say anything about expecting orgasms.. I simply asked a question !

Touchy, Touchy !! :mad:

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Up to recently every punt for me resulted in 2 orgasms - one in the 1st half hour and then the other at the top of the hour (I've even had a couple of punts where I've cum 3 times in the hour :cool: - but these have been rare). However this year I noticed that many punts have resulted in only 1 pop as I find that I've run out of time for the 2nd one. The first couple of times where I came away from a session after only 1 pop, I felt unfulfilled. But now I find that I'm satisfied if I cum only once, cos its great fun trying for the 2nd one even if I run out of time. But yes, at least 1 orgasm for me per punt

I always do RO on every punt. Its something that I like doing, as you can tell by my MB name, and its an activitiy I like to spend time and technique on. Always the lady gets into it when I do RO which I enjoy - and often she cums, which makes me more than happy. I often get compliments for my oral efforts :P which gives me a spring in my step as I leave at the end of the session

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Yes, I do expect to have an orgasm with a wg, but I've never had issues in this dept. I also do my best to make sure the lady has a good time too, I love going down during my appointments. It's about mutual enjoyment for me, I'm not expecting the lady to find me super attractive or anything, but there's nothing better than seeing your efforts rewarded :-)

Ditto, its not just about me.

That's why chatting before and after is so important to me.

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