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Advice And Recommendation Request (A Bit Of A Labyrinthine Post)

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Hi!

Being a total new guy, so apologies in advance and if you happen to bear through the post or are as kind as to offer some advice / feedback I'd be very thankful!

So, breaking it down: I'm looking for an Incall, In or around Glasgow but I'm not really just looking for a quick and easy punt. Rather looking for a lady who can provide something a bit more particular, experience wise. I've had a good look through the FRs and although several of the ladies seem nice and come well recommended I'm not really sure they're what I'm looking for exactly.

To give it a bit of context: I have for a few years tried the whole "Pua" / Pickup artist thing. Found most of it to be rubbish but it did work for a bit. Over the last year though I've been finding myself increasingly busy with juggling two jobs as well as keeping up with my personal life otherwise. I just don't have the time to go out 6/7 nights a week for two weeks straight to earn myself a night spent in the company of the right kind of girl. Similarly don't have the time to get into and invest in a relationship ( also veering towards not really being interested in one anyway ). So I'm kinda hoping this is a workable alternative ( and likely cheaper one too.. Taxi fares, pints and entry fees mount up awful quick when you need to be out that often. ) I'm kinda looking for the whole package in one, enjoyable company in a social and intimate sense. Oh, well, minus the often inexperienced awkward intimacy.

In short what I'm looking for is to spend some time in the company of a girl who not only provides that GFE but is actually the kind of girl who'd potentially make a good girlfriend ( Clarfication : I have no odd dilusions about the nature of things. I'm not actually looking for a girlfriend or expecting anything silly to come of it. ) I'm kinda very picky to that end and have got into contact with a grand total of one escort after a few weeks of mulling around and finding myself bumping into the same escort's profiles / websites repeatedly. Hoping that one will turn into a fruitful meeting but still at the initial contact stage, more or less.

In long ( and missing out the probable no brainers ) I'm interested in arranging an apointment with someone who is :

Cute (not necessarily the most amazing looking girl ever, but with a nice charm to her. The kind of girl I'd fancy taking home if I saw out at a club/pub.)

Aged 20-30 (I'm on the early side of 20 myself so looking for something similar. )

Friendly, chatty beyond the usual procedure.

Has a touch of class / sophistication about her, cultured even.

Does incalls

Very discrete ( In my 9-5 career even the slightest rumour that I might be seeing an escort could completely ruin my five to fifty year plan... So the more inconspicuous the better.)

Non robotic (as mentioned above, I'm in the market for a meet which satisfies a pleasant social experience as well as intimate... As odd as that may seem. Going off on a tangeant but the odd post referring to regulars seems to suggest this isn't an impossibility though. I'm not going to pretend I'm the greatest lover ever but I do give it a fair try.. Don't think it'd be too confidence boosting to be going down on someone who's got their eyes squarely fixed on a nearby clock or who's mind is in a completely different place the whole time.)

Communication - plays into the above, but a provider who's open to talking about the matter at hand and making it as enjoyable for both parties as is possible rather than getting it done and by with and moving on would be awesome. Doubly so on account of the skittish new guy act I'll probably end up putting on if either of those parties aren't feeling comfortable.

Either within Glasgow, or in reasonable travel distance from it ( 40min drive is probably the line, although I suppose if it's worth it a little longer back and forth might not be so bad. )

Actually finding this a bit difficult to pin down exactly. There's a lot about a girl's posture, manner of speaking, dress sense and attitude in general that generally results in me being interested or not. But in any case I tend to like the following: Blondes, redheads, geeky types, glasses (stylish ones!), skinny to a bit curvy and natural or smaller chest sizes. In terms of what I'm looking for.. Well, "the usual" minimum I guess. I understand not everyone is into absolutely everything. For starters being open to covered oral, penetration and a bit of reverse will be enough however for a regular thing I'd probably prefer a few kinkier options also. Anything above the usual is a plus, though.

About the geeky type thing - I don't mean stereotypical geeky girl. Hard to explain, there's just something about the type that you can pick out from as little as five minutes of conversation. I guess they're often a bit quirky, slightly odd and very passionate about the things they are into. It often rubs off on my side as being a very interesting trait.

Anyway, hoping the above isn't a total mess and is somewhat followable. If anyone's survived the gauntlet that is this post and think they could recommend a name or two I'd really appreciate it!

Oh also, £200 for an hour is the max budget I'm putting down for it.

Addendum: Any tips on actually going about making that booking by the way? I know there's a huge risk involved for the girls when meeting someone they don't know and I'd rather not land myself on someone's blacklist just because I made a bit of a new guy mistake somewhere down the line. Like, for example, should I be friendly and chatty on initial contact or should I stick to a very formal, to the point approach? Also, how long on average does it usually take to confirm a booking or just hear back when dealing via emails and messages? Is it generally better just to phone? I noticed a few are phone up only... I'm a wee bit hesitant to phone up though, just incase the receiving party is a bit untrustworthy... Read some semi scary FRs and posts.

Thanks and apologies again for the stupid new guy questions!

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Oh also, £200 for an hour is the max budget I'm putting down for it.

Addendum: Any tips on actually going about making that booking by the way? I know there's a huge risk involved for the girls when meeting someone they don't know and I'd rather not land myself on someone's blacklist just because I made a bit of a new guy mistake somewhere down the line. Like, for example, should I be friendly and chatty on initial contact or should I stick to a very formal, to the point approach? Also, how long on average does it usually take to confirm a booking or just hear back when dealing via emails and messages? Is it generally better just to phone? I noticed a few are phone up only... I'm a wee bit hesitant to phone up though, just incase the receiving party is a bit untrustworthy... Read some semi scary FRs and posts.

Thanks and apologies again for the stupid new guy questions!

I'll confine myself to a few generalities. Others will know the local scene better than I.

Your budget seems fine to me. You might even get a little change from £200

I would always pick up the phone. You can both tell so much more about each other during a phone call than you will ever get from a series of txt msgs or e-mails. I think that this would be very important to you given your specific requirements. I would go further and suggest that the type of girls who is content to talk by teat alone is certainly not the one for you.

My plan would be to identify from AW or whatever source you choose 2 or 3 likely sounding ladies. Send a polite e-mail setting out the sort of date you have in mind and the locations you are prepared to visit. Keep it fairly light and do resist the temptation to talk over much about the sexual side of the meeting; that is a given.

End your e-mail by asking when it would be convenient for you to give her a call to discuss it further. Most ladies would be happy so far, but don't try to prolong your queries much longer. Give her a call, and if she sounds like someone whose company you would enjoy make a booking. If she doesn't sound right just say so and apologise for wasting her time. Then move on to number 2.

You must be positive about making a booking otherwise you will be identified as a TW (time waster) and get blacklisted by the sisterhood.

Good luck.

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Porker Paul's advice on contact is good. Main thing I would say is not to expect to find the ideal at the first time of asking. I had about 10 punts before I even went back to the same girl. And in 30ish, I've only found two I would consider making a regular thing of. Then again, variety is more important to me, and you're coming at it from a different angle. Your parameters are fairly narrow just now - keep an open mind!

That said, I think Little Lori should be on your shortlist. Rest of my hotlist are too old for you :D

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Definitely NOT Lori. No way. Far too unreliable and far too much baggage.

Holly Summers, Kendra or Sophie Thomas would be MUCH more appropriate options.

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Definitely NOT Lori. No way. Far too unreliable and far too much baggage.

Holly Summers, Kendra or Sophie Thomas would be MUCH more appropriate options.

Definitely NOT Lori. No way. Far too unreliable and far too much baggage.

Holly Summers, Kendra or Sophie Thomas would be MUCH more appropriate options.

Is this the Kendra who has just stormed off in a huff over a little disagreement on a thread in the discussion section? If so I would be wary of sending a newbie there. She seems very immature and short tempered.

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Is this the Kendra who has just stormed off in a huff over a little disagreement on a thread in the discussion section? If so I would be wary of sending a newbie there. She seems very immature and short tempered.

For your information, my bacon-flavoured friend, my comments are based on direct acquaintance and intimate knowledge, not purely the content of this forum.

I confidently stand by my recommendation.

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I'll second that recommendation for Kendra. I think the impression people have of her from recent arguments on here is totally false, which is a real shame. I've met with her six or so times, one of which was an overnight. Left feedback on her profile. I found her to be very good company socially, as well as sexually. She was easy to get on with, took an interest in me as a person, was sweet, funny, kind, genuine, head screwed on correctly, etc. I definitely felt comfortable and unrushed around her. Obviously in this game physical attributes are important and she certainly has those in her favour, but she also has a good attitude and is good company. Basically, I've always experienced a great GFE, not just a disinterested shag.

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I'll 3rd Kendra (ooer!) :)

Found her stunning and bubbly, polite and thoughtful.

Having read through some of those posts, I dont blame her for leaving, one or two people who cant help with giving "good advice" and one or two who lack any respect for women.

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Thanks all for the recommendations & seriously solid advice Porker Paul!

I'll have a look at the recommended girls and scour the web for profiles, etc.

Did actually manage a meeting with that one I contacted yesterday and she was pretty awesome. Definitely a enjoyable first time and one I would go back to. Think the only real complaint I could have made was that the flat was a bit messy but I wasn't too bothered by this. Have seen worse :P Could be a mood spoiler for some though. If every other experience in this whole punter thing goes a similar way I won't be complaining.

Wasn't really the same as all the getting to know a girl & closing. Guess there's that rush when you finally get them home but even still I did get the impression that she was into me for the time ( wether that be a real thing or not ) and yeah, even if it's all part of the "customer satisfaction" I honestly think I had a more passionate time than I have had with some previous girlfriends.

To address some feedback directly though! Halfhitched - Yup, I'm probably being a bit too narrowminded. Variety = spice of life and all that. Kendra seems to be highly recommended though, will try to find some more info on her online and maybe branch out a little. Actually kinda dawning on me now that there's a lot I could get out of this. Could look for a girl who's open to a few odd kinks I've always felt like trying but have been given a flat "no" in the past by ex girlfriends / fb's... One step at a time though :P

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To address some feedback directly though! Halfhitched - Yup, I'm probably being a bit too narrowminded. Variety = spice of life and all that. Kendra seems to be highly recommended though, will try to find some more info on her online and maybe branch out a little. Actually kinda dawning on me now that there's a lot I could get out of this. Could look for a girl who's open to a few odd kinks I've always felt like trying but have been given a flat "no" in the past by ex girlfriends / fb's... One step at a time though :P

It sounds as though our new friend Draidz is beginning to enjoy himself. That's great. Just so I hope he doesn't get addicted to paid for sex. Then he'll end up like one of us :eek:

Seriously, though, it's great to see that a newish guy can suddenly see the attraction of punting that it took some of us years to work out.

I'm delighted his first punt went so well.

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Did actually manage a meeting with that one I contacted yesterday and she was pretty awesome. Definitely a enjoyable first time and one I would go back to. Think the only real complaint I could have made was that the flat was a bit messy but I wasn't too bothered by this. Have seen worse :P Could be a mood spoiler for some though. If every other experience in this whole punter thing goes a similar way I won't be complaining.

Care to share who she is and any more details?

Tat's what this (sub-)forum's for!

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It sounds as though our new friend Draidz is beginning to enjoy himself. That's great. Just so I hope he doesn't get addicted to paid for sex. Then he'll end up like one of us :eek:

I'm pretty sure I don't make enough to get addicted, fortunately... But I can see the attraction.

Care to share who she is and any more details?

Tat's what this (sub-)forum's for!

Sure! Sort of avoided naming as I don't want to be seen as touting or anything like that when I've only been around for less than a week! It was Grace, she's also featured on FR 110480. Quite happy to say the FR is very true to the experience.

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