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Punting:Has it changed you.

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Punting,has it changed you,do you feel better or worse for it. Me,Im coming up to my 1st anniversary in december,Im still a grumpy old git but now Im a happy grumpy old git.;):mad:

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Punting,has it changed you,do you feel better or worse for it. Me,Im coming up to my 1st anniversary in december,Im still a grumpy old git but now Im a happy grumpy old git.;):mad:

It's been so long, I can't remember what I was like before.

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Punting,has it changed you,do you feel better or worse for it. Me,Im coming up to my 1st anniversary in december,Im still a grumpy old git but now Im a happy grumpy old git.;):mad:

have I undergone a fundamental character change ? no. but having said that punting probably increases your confidence with the opposite sex,as you find yourself in intimate situations with them, to a degree unexperienced before commencing punting.

what I find interesting is that when I am in the "zone"-- I will do things and think things that in the cold light of day , before punting ["BP" ], I would never have contemplated.thats a change of some sorts.

also, my attitude towards prostitutes has changed. BP, I would have seen pros as being very different and somewhat darker than other girls. thats been blown out of the water. most of the girls I have met have been terrific in every way and show a real entreprenurial spirit-- I daresay many would be successful in any other chosen field.

interesting to find out what others think.

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It's something I have been doing pretty well all my adult life, so it just seems normal to me.

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It's something I have been doing pretty well all my adult life, so it just seems normal to me.

Same here mate. ;);):D

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have I undergone a fundamental character change ? no. but having said that punting probably increases your confidence with the opposite sex,as you find yourself in intimate situations with them, to a degree unexperienced before commencing punting.

interesting to find out what others think.

Prepunting I really didnt have much confidence. Now I do have the confidence. I couldnt pick up the phone to the local parlour or escort without getting nervous and tongue tied. Now I can.

I also got the courage to buy some choccys or flowers and bring them with me. Never would have been able to that before.

Although I think I may be putting too much into punting. Its getting to the point where I think "Shall I chat up that girl?" "Nah, I might as well just have a punt instead and save the effort" I used to punt 1 or twice a year, then every two month, then every other week. Now I punted yesterday and booked for a punt today too! Think after today thou I find a regular and try to "settle down".

Although it has made me take bigger risks. Mainly due to frustration about not being able to see the girl I want at the time I want. Was booked for an 11 oclock punt today, perfect as no one I know will be around, but its now been postponded till 3:30! Means when I leave I'll be driving on the same roads at the same time as all my colleuges from work. Might have to explain that one if Im supposed to be off work and someone spots me. But for some reason isnt bothering me like it would have done when I started......

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I find that my expectation has raised a lot since the early days. I have had them in so many shapes and sizes that it is difficult to get excited about seeing a new WG.

Mike, I suspect we are both suffering from punting fatigue, to be truthful I have reached the stage where I am afraid to try new girls in case they are useless.:D

Punting fatigue led me to step over the line into the world of Domination, vanilla sex can get boring when you have shagged a thousand hookers.;)

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I think punting boosts your level of confidence with women, and you do get to meet some absolute stunners which were otherwise way out of your league.

I'm 51 and love the fact I can pick up the phone and meet up with a beautiful 20 year old later that same day.

I agree with JRC. Punting too much can lead to punting fatigue. You want/need something just a bit different to add a bit of sparkle to the meeting. Thats why I always book for at least 2 hours as this gives us both time to try out different things.

I know that punting has made me a lot happier and more open minded, and has given me some of the best experiences of my life.

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Punting,has it changed you,do you feel better or worse for it. Me,Im coming up to my 1st anniversary in december,Im still a grumpy old git but now Im a happy grumpy old git.;):mad:

Yes, for me being long term single it has had quite a big effect on my general level of happiness. Being single used to get me down big style at times but no more. :D

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That is right and is exactly why I experimented with BDSM scene. My biggest problem is that I really only like outcalls. It had numerous advantages.

Yes, I agree but only if the girl arrives alone, I don't want any pimps or boyfriends sitting outside my house. ;)

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It's made me a lot more cynical.

I'm a BDSMer too and I could always find a vanilla shag inside a relationship, however, being whipped and fucked senseless with a strap-on isn't a request that is always warmly greeted. As a club player I can satisfy that side too, but punting is free from the distractions of a club environment. A punt should be a more personal one-to-one (or indeed multiple partnered) intimacy that cannot be replicated while tied to a St. Andrew's cross in front of 600 people shaking their arses to bangin' choons.

In a club I can have multiple partners over several hours for a score plus drinks. I can choose my partners too and generally have a congenial night. A punt is about £150 for an hour. For that, I expect it to be good. With a few notable exceptions, I've mostly been disappointed.

Many girls advertise a domme service, pro-dommes included, that simply don't deliver. I'm more relaxed about it now - not expecting too much from a punt, but I am continually dismayed and depressingly frustrated. It leaves me feeling quite unhappy. I'm not giving up, mind. My quest shall continue.

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Yes, I agree but only if the girl arrives alone, I don't want any pimps or boyfriends sitting outside my house. ;)

Can not see the problem unless your intentions are dishonorable.

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I think it's made me less eager to seek a prolonged relationship with a girl outside of punting. I've never had a long term relationship (I'm only 22, so it's not that bad) but my one worry about punting is that I'm not so desperate to be looking for something as I know I can get a great shag once payday comes around.

Also, after my last punt, I'm left wondering how I can ever have sex with anyone else! As Chris Rock said, men can't go backwards sexually and this girl was incredible so what on Earth am I meant to do!?

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it has given me a raison d'etre again.

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To the original question: YES.

I am much more likely to have a smile on my face and a spring in my step!;)

I would also re-iterate what has been stated previously: that after meeting and chatting to the various WG's my opinion on 'the game' has changed significantly.

I have never, and will never use a 'road worker' (as I like to call 'em)No hi-viz vests!)).

However the escorts, parlour girls, and indie's really demonstrate to me that if you want something and are prepared to go the 'extra mile' then they can not only enjoy themselves (hopefully) but prosper financially also.

My only regret from punting, is that I am even less likely to approach someone, ask someone out etc, and that really as time ticks on, may become more of an issue for me.

Hey ho, at the moment I enjoy punting - I may retur to the thread in a years time and see if I still feel he same way.

One for the ladies: How has working changed you?

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When i started punting, rue blondel about 8 years ago, I would look for the exotic, asiatics, africans, east europeans, now if they are nt anglophone, i am not really interested, so thats one change. Hasnt so far changed my view of women. Only rarely, do i think i am shagging out of my league, i tend to choose girls who look as if i might conceivalby meet socially, tend to avoid younger girls, not out of principle, but more out of a sense that you need to be around 27 before you can do the job properly.

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Nothing to say a girls minder or boyfriend is scum by any means. If a girl's going alone to a strangers house, I'd be fine with her having some form of security outside. If it was someone pimping her out, then yeah it may be dodgy, but if it's a friend or boyfriend there for security, then so be it. What difference is there between him knowing your address and the girl knowing?

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Nonesense. Nobody likes knowing that a minder, pimp or a boyfriend is hanging around outside. Descretion it is called. You don't want your home becoming known to scums.

I bet they dont Mike11,

Remind me again, why do girls have security.

You have not given this much thought have you. Do you think a girl is going to enter your house without someone else knowing your address.

You do not understand the definition of discretion and your use of the word scums is a laughable as an excuse of not wanting a girl to have security.

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Well I'd refer to them as a boyfriend/security if they were a boyfriend or security. If they were a pimp, I'd refer to them as a pimp. You're taking a very cynical look at this. Besides, if a girl has a pimp who's dying to rob you, she could give him your address anyway, absolutely no difference...

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Nonesense. Nobody likes knowing that a minder, pimp or a boyfriend is hanging around outside. Descretion it is called. You don't want your home becoming known to scums.

That's why my preffered choice is Agencies. Mind you, I still watch out of the hotel room window to see how and who she arrives with or without.

I chose my hotels and room with this in mind everytime.

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Yes, I agree but only if the girl arrives alone, I don't want any pimps or boyfriends sitting outside my house. ;)
Can not see the problem unless your intentions are dishonorable.

It's quite simple really, if the girl arrives alone, either by public transport or by driving her own car she is less likely to clockwatch -------- if the pimp is waiting outside she will get a phone call from him 5 minutes before the time is up. Nothing whatsoever to do with dishonourable intentions. :D

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It has not changed me.

It has made me more dissatisfied if anything - as the pleasures in those rare sessions are obviously missing from everyday life.

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It's something I have been doing pretty well all my adult life, so it just seems normal to me.

Same here :D - Enjoyed my time and had a few laughs. ;)

Treat the girls with respect and put punting in perspective with your normal life. :(

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any of my girlfriends have to do the things I like

I no longer accept that some girls dont like OWO

If thats the case Ill move on to a GF that likes it...

Selfish GIT

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