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I know you ladies are not machines and a visit usually is a mix of action and small talk (rest)

But it seems to vary a lot, and some ladies seem take a little advantage of nice clients by running down the clock with just chit-chat while some rough clients can just run a lady down by expecting non stop action.

I ask the question, as I have done 1hr, 90min and 2 hour visits. All seem to involve the same amount of action but a lot more chat, are the longer visits worth it since the extra time seems to be taken up by he ladies fascination of my stamp collection

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I think it boils down to you being upfront in your communications before the punt. If you are also chatting and showing no signs of wanting to move things back to the sex, the lady might well assume you are enjoying the chat bit etc.

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Had a one hour booking last week. After cumming once. The lady was in talk mode. After advancing my play with french kissing to show her I wanted a 2nd go. She came up with lots of excuses. Finally I got her to give me a handjob with much convincing. After not being able to cum a 2nd time she proceeded in shouting at me.

Its really a shame... I dont care much for chit-chat and just want sex for the full hour. I've only had 2 1 hour appointments and the lady always takes advantage with a small chat about stuff I dont really care about. IMO best to stick to 30 mins so I can do the deed and then leave without feeling like I've wasted my money.

Some guys love a GFE and chit-chat. But not me unfortuantley. Doubt ill ever do a 1 hour appointment in the near future again. But if I do, will make it alot clearer to the lady of what I would like to do...

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I think it boils down to you being upfront in your communications before the punt. If you are also chatting and showing no signs of wanting to move things back to the sex, the lady might well assume you are enjoying the chat bit etc.

So if I let the lady know before hand that I don't want too chit-chat it would okay?

I always worry it will come across rude, same with breaking a flowing conversation during a visit and initiating another round

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Yeah obviously if you have just shot your load you are going to need a little break in between bouts but just politely say to the lady before you book her something like 'although I like a little rest in between cums, I mainly like lots of action, during rest breaks could we still do lots of kissing and foreplay?'. Take the bull by the horns. The lass isn't a mind reader if you are laid next to her wittering on as well.

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So if I let the lady know before hand that I don't want too chit-chat it would okay?

I always worry it will come across rude, same with breaking a flowing conversation during a visit and initiating another round

Let the lady know you'd like to have several rounds, saying no chit-chat can imply you are going to run her ragged and it's something often associated with guys who go at it like a detached robot, or who push the boundaries of a booking. Chit chat is also a too way thing, if you don't engage and start kissing that tends to get things going!

I personally don't mind either way I'd rather be involved in action than chatting to someone who isn't interested, but quite often those who stipulate no chit-chat can also arrive with a list of activities to be crammed into the time, which can end up being a bit cold for both parties rather than letting things flow.

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I know you ladies are not machines and a visit usually is a mix of action and small talk (rest)

But it seems to vary a lot, and some ladies seem take a little advantage of nice clients by running down the clock with just chit-chat while some rough clients can just run a lady down by expecting non stop action.

I ask the question, as I have done 1hr, 90min and 2 hour visits. All seem to involve the same amount of action but a lot more chat, are the longer visits worth it since the extra time seems to be taken up by he ladies fascination of my stamp collection

I manage my punts to suit the amount of action i require. Talking the clock down which does happen on ocassion wont fool me. With newbies to me i have my watch clearly on the side and make a point of looking at it between rounds, this usually ensures the WG is aware i am aware of the time gone and left.

My advice is be more assertive and say you want to do this and that now, not let her dictate the time. After all its you thats paying, i happily chat assuming the WG speaks English in the breaks i need and afterwards off the clock. As Bibi says clear communication is essential.

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As I am always saying communication is important. We are not mind readers and don't know what you want. Often when a man has come that's him done for the session and it can be awkward if you leap on him and are madly trying to get him hard again if if just isn't going to happen.

However if you expect more action then it's not hard to initiate it is? A kiss or putting her hand on your cock or telling her you're feeling horny again should indicate pretty clearly what you want. She'll only refuse if she's not a very efficient escort or one of those who clearly states she will only let a man come once *rolls eyes*

Oh and che666999- if you don't want any chitchat it might be worth considering how you communicate this. If a potential client called me and said 'I don't want any talking, just sex' I would be hugely put off. because as much as I don't mind a full session of the sexy stuff I don't actually want to be made to feel like a blow up doll with no feelings. As long as you're lovely and polite when you book and when you arrive and make some attempt at conversation you'll be alright.

Incidentally with shorter bookings I give client the option of sitting down in the lounge or going straight through to the bedroom. This often gives me an indication of whether he needs some breaking the ice chit chat or wants to get straight down to the action.

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..... since the extra time seems to be taken up by he ladies fascination of my stamp collection

I was always told that Philately would get you nowhere.

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So if I let the lady know before hand that I don't want too chit-chat it would okay?

I always worry it will come across rude, same with breaking a flowing conversation during a visit and initiating another round

Yeah obviously if you have just shot your load you are going to need a little break in between bouts but just politely say to the lady before you book her something like 'although I like a little rest in between cums, I mainly like lots of action, during rest breaks could we still do lots of kissing and foreplay?'. Take the bull by the horns. The lass isn't a mind reader if you are laid next to her wittering on as well.

Let the lady know you'd like to have several rounds, saying no chit-chat can imply you are going to run her ragged and it's something often associated with guys who go at it like a detached robot, or who push the boundaries of a booking. Chit chat is also a too way thing, if you don't engage and start kissing that tends to get things going!

I personally don't mind either way I'd rather be involved in action than chatting to someone who isn't interested, but quite often those who stipulate no chit-chat can also arrive with a list of activities to be crammed into the time, which can end up being a bit cold for both parties rather than letting things flow.

I manage my punts to suit the amount of action i require. Talking the clock down which does happen on ocassion wont fool me. With newbies to me i have my watch clearly on the side and make a point of looking at it between rounds, this usually ensures the WG is aware i am aware of the time gone and left.

My advice is be more assertive and say you want to do this and that now, not let her dictate the time. After all its you thats paying, i happily chat assuming the WG speaks English in the breaks i need and afterwards off the clock. As Bibi says clear communication is essential.

As I am always saying communication is important. We are not mind readers and don't know what you want. Often when a man has come that's him done for the session and it can be awkward if you leap on him and are madly trying to get him hard again if if just isn't going to happen.

However if you expect more action then it's not hard to initiate it is? A kiss or putting her hand on your cock or telling her you're feeling horny again should indicate pretty clearly what you want. She'll only refuse if she's not a very efficient escort or one of those who clearly states she will only let a man come once *rolls eyes*

Oh and che666999- if you don't want any chitchat it might be worth considering how you communicate this. If a potential client called me and said 'I don't want any talking, just sex' I would be hugely put off. because as much as I don't mind a full session of the sexy stuff I don't actually want to be made to feel like a blow up doll with no feelings. As long as you're lovely and polite when you book and when you arrive and make some attempt at conversation you'll be alright.

Incidentally with shorter bookings I give client the option of sitting down in the lounge or going straight through to the bedroom. This often gives me an indication of whether he needs some breaking the ice chit chat or wants to get straight down to the action.

So if I let the lady know before hand that I don't want too chit-chat it would okay?

I always worry it will come across rude, same with breaking a flowing conversation during a visit and initiating another round

Nothing wrong with saying how you want the visit to go. It's your money and I'm sure the lady will appreciate it. Whether you come across as rude or nice us up to you. If you have close friends ask their opinion as to how you come across when meeting strangers.

Yeah obviously if you have just shot your load you are going to need a little break in between bouts but just politely say to the lady before you book her something like 'although I like a little rest in between cums, I mainly like lots of action, during rest breaks could we still do lots of kissing and foreplay?'. Take the bull by the horns. The lass isn't a mind reader if you are laid next to her wittering on as well.

Exactly. Go get a bull.

Let the lady know you'd like to have several rounds, saying no chit-chat can imply you are going to run her ragged and it's something often associated with guys who go at it like a detached robot, or who push the boundaries of a booking. Chit chat is also a too way thing, if you don't engage and start kissing that tends to get things going!

I personally don't mind either way I'd rather be involved in action than chatting to someone who isn't interested, but quite often those who stipulate no chit-chat can also arrive with a list of activities to be crammed into the time, which can end up being a bit cold for both parties rather than letting things flow.

Ask any lady that I have seen and if they are honest they will tell you that I talk too much. The last lady I saw actually climbed on to my lap and started kissing me and told me it was to shut me up. That's my type of lady. I am quite happy to multi-task but it can be taken as just wanting to chat which means that the memory of the event is not what it should be and it's my fault.

My advice is be more assertive and say you want to do this and that now, not let her dictate the time. After I happily chat assuming the WG speaks English.

Exactly right again. Assertive but definitely not aggressive. Also I had a couple of disappointing visits caused partly by the ladies english being so poor.

As I am always saying communication is important. We are not mind readers. However if you expect more action then it's not hard to initiate it is? A kiss or putting her hand on your cock or telling her you're feeling horny again should indicate pretty clearly what you want. - if you don't want any chitchat it might be worth considering how you communicate this. As long as you're lovely and polite when you book and when you arrive and make some attempt at conversation

Can't think of anything to add to this except try to be yourself when you visit and not try to be the person who you think the lady is expecting. I'm always myself with a lady. I'll say no more.

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Surely the reality is that there will always be some WGs that are more into non stop action than others, and there will always be some punters who are more into non stop action than others.

I notice that there are also differences in the way I act and what I want in different meetings. This may depend upon my mood, whether or not I'm tired after a day of work for example (ha, ha, not that the words 'day of work' actually apply to me very often) or what girl I'm with. Doubtless the same applies with WGs.

Frankly, when I'm in the right mood, with the right girl who clicks with me, I appreciate it when there is zero gap between R1 and R2. It can be: remove condom, quick wipe and straight on whilst little T has stood to attention unceasingly. It's lovely when a WG can click with this.

If I am not in the mood / physical shape to progress immediately to R2, or if R2 never truly gets going, I have no problem in a girl showing enthusiasm for the action (that's what I'm paying for) but it's also nice if she can be relaxed and move into chit chat mode to match where I am at.

I don't agree that a punter can just uniformly say in advance 'I want this and then I want that' etc etc. I never really know how things will turn out for me. Sometimes it's going to depend upon what happens in the meeting.

What is never good are the girls who deliberately avoid intimacy once they think their job has been done, and who position themselves to create a distance between you so as to send the message 'this session is over'. It happens, and it has very little to do with WGs not understanding what you want, in my experience.

Doubtless some girls are like this with most, or all, of their clients. Some will only be like this if they don't click with you, or if they're in a bad mood / tired etc.

The only time it really got to me was when it happened with a girl who I had previously always clicked with :( . This has left me with the dilemma of whether I give up on this WG and take this as a sign that I should move on, or whether I should be more forgiving and remember the excellent service I have received in the past.

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I was always told that Philately would get you nowhere.

Brilliant :lol:

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Unless the client has given me a multiple orgasm after which I am totally useless, I usually offer to give them a massage, which keeps the physical contact going and makes it easy for the client to show he's up for more without him feeling he has to ask. Some actually like to just relax and talk, some go to sleep while being massaged, raising the question - to wake or not to wake? ;)

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I happen to LIKE the chat, drinkie-poos and smokes before, in between and after the main events ;)

OK, Smithy, maybe a waste of time and money to you, but each to his own, eh ?

I'm too effing OLD for the "Non Stop Action" that's the title of this thread :( , so I love it when a Lady gets up from the bed, bare-assed naked, to go re-fill our glasses and then lies back down with the ash-tray on her slim belly and lights me another ciggie :wub::D

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Do you ask the girl if she smokes and drinks before booking? ;)

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I happen to LIKE the chat, drinkie-poos and smokes before, in between and after the main events ;)

OK, Smithy, maybe a waste of time and money to you, but each to his own, eh ?

I'm too effing OLD for the "Non Stop Action" that's the title of this thread :( , so I love it when a Lady gets up from the bed, bare-assed naked, to go re-fill our glasses and then lies back down with the ash-tray on her slim belly and lights me another ciggie :wub::D

Of course its each to their own. :)

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Take the bull by the horns. The lass isn't a mind reader if you are laid next to her wittering on as well.

Funniest thing I have read on here in ages.............. wittering............ priceless !

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Do you ask the girl if she smokes and drinks before booking? ;)

Yes :D

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Do you ask the girl if she smokes and drinks before booking? ;)

yes, if she has 'smoking fetish' (whatever this actually means :) ) on her likes then I will confirm as it's usually a smoking allowed signal, if as often is the case she makes it clear she does not smoke or would appreciate you didn't smoke prior to the visit then I will abstain but my best ever punts have somehow involved smoking with a WG, actually my top 3 for some reason ???

and chatting to a naked woman with a ciggie in her mouth is almost guaranteed to get me back in action before the ash hits the filter - it's like a built in countdown timer! ;)

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... I love it when a Lady gets up from the bed, bare-assed naked, to go re-fill our glasses and then lies back down with the ash-tray on her slim belly and lights me another ciggie :wub::D

now you're just turning me on, PM this lady :wub: :wub: :wub:

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hehe. Recognizable topic by OP.

I do like the chat and cuddle, both pre- and post-action, leading to more action...

2nd, 3rd and 4th shot will either have to come naturally, and they will be Good...

or you have to accept that she isnt up for it...

And sometimes the conversation is an excellent ramp up to more action. Some women just know how to..

If a woman turns into a talkie-time-waster, there simply wont be a re-vist.

One reason why first-visits should be brief (test-drive, so to speak).

Speaking of interlude, I had an escort (40s!) do some impressive gymnastics (including a few cartwheels) recently. Lovely!

After that, who wouldnt want to ...you know, "have" her again.

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There are lots of factors to take into consideration. It is best to mention it, as she may have had a busy day and not feel up to it, or she may be feeling very horny and more than up for it. You will be surprised how often an Escort can go a whole day without penetration, as the guys just don't want it, so then it is almost a relief to have one that wants to follow through and clear out the cobwebs and pent up frustration.

Me, I'm naturally chatty and I know I can get carried away, but I'm not a huge clock watcher and if I feel I have talked too much I'll add a bit of extra time on at the end to compensate, but believe me there are guys out there that will chat for England too and not take the hint when you need them to move on lol.

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I know you ladies are not machines and a visit usually is a mix of action and small talk (rest)

But it seems to vary a lot, and some ladies seem take a little advantage of nice clients by running down the clock with just chit-chat while some rough clients can just run a lady down by expecting non stop action.

I ask the question, as I have done 1hr, 90min and 2 hour visits. All seem to involve the same amount of action but a lot more chat, are the longer visits worth it since the extra time seems to be taken up by he ladies fascination of my stamp collection

the following clip is dedicated to the punter known as Che666999 who resents escorts that bunny rabbit into his paid punting time :angry:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBz8MPzpuIk

Ace has left the building.

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believe me there are guys out there that will chat for England

This will only be seen as funny by ladies who have met me but I couldn't resist responding.

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There has got to be a bit of balance in a punt because its a human contact, and i don't think that guys that go for quickies only contribute much to the wg's sense of fulfilment that will contribute to her staying in the business as a career. Presumably some consider it a waste of time to thank the girl afterwards as well?

I go for longer punts because I like to mix social and sexual intercourse, because one feeds off the other. After a chat following round 1, there's nothing better than when you naturally turn to each other to start round 2, much more intimate. Or do some try and avoid the intimacy?

Maybe thats why many girls say they prefer more mature guys

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