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Revealing Your Real Full Name

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Has anyone ever revealed their full name to a WG, either accidentally or intentionally through conversation?

Would you be worried if you did?

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Has anyone ever revealed their full name to a WG, either accidentally or intentionally through conversation?

No

Would you be worried if you did?

Definitely. They'd probably stalk me or their pimp would blackmail me. I'd be really worried. That's why I never tell them my real name.

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Has anyone ever revealed their full name to a WG, either accidentally or intentionally through conversation?

Would you be worried if you did?

Yes, I have.

No, because I've only revealed it to three escorts, all of whom I trust.

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Yes, I have; no, I'm not, because I trust that person 100%

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An awful lot of guys reveal not only their full name, but also sometimes their wives names and even more often the name of the company they work for. Consider what your vm message says on the phone you use to book an escort with. How many times a guy has no showed me over the years and when I call to see if he is a bit lost I hear..."hello you have reached the phone of Charles and Davinia Braithwaite for e.g." or Hi your through to collin barnstable of ABC acme finance ltd Luton, just leave a message and I will get back to you" seriously guys???

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Only once, because I trusted the girl. However one of my favourite regulars I would never reveal my full name to, because although the sex is hot, I'm not sure how much I can trust her.

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That works both way. I know lots of guys real names, addresses, their kids names and so on, even know some of my ex clients bank details as they know mine. One chappie even has my birthdate as his pin number. Its all down to trust.

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Yes I have revealed my real name to several escorts - my gmail account which I used to email them has my full name.

But each time it was with escorts I trust. So I don't have a problem with it.

I've also revealed it on other occasions by giving the girls my name and room number when booking outcall hotel visits. Again I have no problem with that.

Escorts have the right to make sure they are safe and that trumps any minor privacy concerns I might have.

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When you travel abroad with clients, it gets difficult not to. But you also know theirs so it's not been a problem so far...

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Escorts have the right to make sure they are safe and that trumps any minor privacy concerns I might have.

Exactly my reason for giving my full name.

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So many gentlemen have their real names on their email addresses without realising it...

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I don't, but then I don't need to reveal mine. They do need to tell me theirs for security checks, it's not like I'm going to do anything with it, what would I do with someone's name exactly?

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That works both way. I know lots of guys real names, addresses, their kids names and so on, even know some of my ex clients bank details as they know mine. One chappie even has my birthdate as his pin number. Its all down to trust.

I thought we all used 1066 since it is so easy to remember!! :wub:

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Funnily enough I nearly did last week. I phoned the lady I was about to visit for last minute directions, and when she picked up the call I said "Hi it's Bartholomew here" before I realised and changed it to "Hi this is Paul and I................................."

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Funnily enough I nearly did last week. I phoned the lady I was about to visit for last minute directions, and when she picked up the call I said "Hi it's Bartholomew here" before I realised and changed it to "Hi this is Paul and I................................."

I always give my first name. I have no problem with that. And anyway I'd probably forget what name I'd given the girl in the first place.

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It is funny how many guys dont think ahead of a name and all you here down the phone is errrr, er, errr so I just say, shall we call you Bill? Relieved sound then yes...BILL.

I also do take real names for outcalls only, if a guy cant trust me with that then why should I put my trust in him either. The name goes no further and isnt logged anywhere. Sometimes I think some guys assume there is a national ho database where we squirrel away all info we can glean on every guy we meet. It really isnt so x

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Sometimes I think some guys assume there is a national ho database where we squirrel away all info we can glean on every guy we meet. It really isnt so x

I bet it is. :)

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Many men have given me their real names (mainly for security checks when I did outcalls to hotels), some have even given me a fake name over the phone and then slipped up when we've actually met. I've no reason to use their real names against them though, unless I was attacked.

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I would have no issues giving my second name to a trusted WG, in fact I have just remembered I once did, she asked me to be a reference and gave my details on the paperwork. It was rather sweet really, she got all coy and did not want to read my details herself, just folded up the paperwork and sealed the envelope, I posted it for her.

I introduced myself as Tim to my TCM place and sometimes they use my name when booking an appointment so must have put my name against the number on their phone.

I would only offer my name to totally trusted providers and would be very concerned if I was asked for it unless it was for security at a hotel or something like that. I do not need or particularly want to know Jenny, Katie or Nina's real names either.

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Yes, and no, it's never worried me. Assuming you're not punting at the really questionable end of the scale I think you can generally assume the average girl or parlour represents no higher a risk than Amazon or iTunes (perhaps less, as she's unlikely to sell your name on so that you can receive unwanted marketing offers). What I don't understand is why someone would punt who felt any other way. I mean, if you think the industry is so malign that you are precluded from showing any degree of honesty with regard to your identity, why would you want anything to do with it? I certainly wouldn't want to have sex (paid or unpaid) with someone I felt so uncomfortable with that I was unable to reveal my name...

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My punting alibi has been a constant for many years and I slip into that persona when I leave the house for a punt. It has only slipped once (see above) and has served me well.

I would have no problem with divulging Mr P's real name if I had an out call booked into a hotel. I think that an escort visiting a guy in a hotel room needs that for security, and if she is going to trust me with her body for a couple of hours then she is entitled to be trusted with my name. I am sure that all such identifying details get deleted as soon as a punt is over.

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I always use my real first name and there are two girls out there who know my surname, my business, my wife's name, the dog's name etc etc. If you spend considerable social time with a girl and know her for several years I think it is inevitable.

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1 lady knows my full name and address and I know hers, we have built up trust between each other

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Always give my real first name and one lady knows my surname.

Happier being me, feels more intimate when a lady calls me by my real name.

DG

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Happier being me, feels more intimate when a lady calls me by my real name.

DG

Likewise. :)

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