johnwool

First Punt And Strange Ending

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I finally booked my first lady. I carefully chosen after reading her FR (all very good). I took 90 minutes for being sure I had plenty of time. Pictures were accurate, and she was as expected very pretty. We talked a lot, almost her at the beginning of the appointment. I saw that she had a real education.

We go to the bedroom, all was Ok, she was most of the time closing eyes,and having the mount big opened... till she decided to leave the room to answer a call !

She came back after, finished me, and returned to her mobile.I took my shower and I went back to see her. It was remaining 10 minutes. She was very strange, she didn't want to talk to me, only playing with her mobile. She was the opposite person I met at the beginning, very cold and distant. I left.

Some days later, I texted her to ask what was the problem.

She only replied : I don't want anymore bookings from you.

Any comments ?

Thanks

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The #1 comment is: Write an FR! Be rigidly factual and honest.

I assume that you were clean, teeth brushed and no green cheese?

What is the possibility that she suddenly realised that her best friend is your sister?

Oh, and she didn't find your warrant card in your trouser pocket, did she? Although policemen are mostly normal, some girls feel awkward servicing "the enemy"!

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Well it kind of sounds like something happened towards the end of the punt that offended her....did you maybe ask any personal questions or something like that..hard to say without her side of things.Something upset her for her to say she does not want to see you again.

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Certainly it would be right to leave a FR.

You say she left to "answer a call". That strikes me as being very unprofessional. If I have paid for 90 minutes I expect her undivided attention for the duration. Sounds like a bad'un to me.

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This doesn't sound like acceptable behaviour, accepting a phone call and treating you so rudely is fair or professional. I'd not be very happy if I were you.

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All seems a bit odd. Yes taking a call mid way through is really shoddy behaviour, but her banning you is even odder if you didn't do anything wrong. Of course you may well have done or said something that spooked her. We're easily spooked if men ask certain questions.

With regards to 'the enemy' I have had several police officer clients and the coopers I have dealt with at my local nick are brilliantly supportive and helpful- definitely not my enemies!

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All seems a bit odd. Yes taking a call mid way through is really shoddy behaviour, but her banning you is even odder if you didn't do anything wrong. Of course you may well have done or said something that spooked her. We're easily spooked if men ask certain questions.

With regards to 'the enemy' I have had several police officer clients and the coopers I have dealt with at my local nick are brilliantly supportive and helpful- definitely not my enemies!

I think Irgen was joking. Like you I don't see the Police as the enemy, not quite sure how I do see them but they can be useful sometimes.

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Eyes closed and her gob open. at first i thought she was a corpse. but now it sounds like she is just crap at what she does.

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You dont really give enough info for anyone to give advice, as a general rule girls who answer the phone, or text during bookings have a drug prob.

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Definitely sounds like she didn't have the right attitude. I wouldn't dream of answering my phone wile I was with a client. Totally un professional and rude. She clearly doesn't want repeat custom.

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Its definatley not acceptable behaviour to play with your phone and ignore a client at the end of the booking. She is obviously a real sp though as she has good reviews so I also find it very unusual that she would tell the OP she didnt want any more bookings from him. This is a job at the end of the day so why would she turn a client away, especially one who books for a decent length of time. My feeling is that something must happened even if the OP didnt realise the faux pas during or towards the end of the booking...otherwise why would the sp switch her attitude towards him suddently and not want to see the OP again?

Perhaps OP you should just say "okay fair enough but what was it that I did wrong", if she has a valid issue she will tell you, if she doesnt then quite possibly she doesn't.

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All seems a bit odd. Yes taking a call mid way through is really shoddy behaviour, but her banning you is even odder if you didn't do anything wrong. Of course you may well have done or said something that spooked her. We're easily spooked if men ask certain questions.

With regards to 'the enemy' I have had several police officer clients and the coopers I have dealt with at my local nick are brilliantly supportive and helpful- definitely not my enemies!

Its definatley not acceptable behaviour to play with your phone and ignore a client at the end of the booking. She is obviously a real sp though as she has good reviews so I also find it very unusual that she would tell the OP she didnt want any more bookings from him. This is a job at the end of the day so why would she turn a client away, especially one who books for a decent length of time. My feeling is that something must happened even if the OP didnt realise the faux pas during or towards the end of the booking...otherwise why would the sp switch her attitude towards him suddently and not want to see the OP again?

Perhaps OP you should just say "okay fair enough but what was it that I did wrong", if she has a valid issue she will tell you, if she doesnt then quite possibly she doesn't.

All seems a bit odd. Yes taking a call mid way through is really shoddy behaviour, but her banning you is even odder if you didn't do anything wrong. Of course you may well have done or said something that spooked her. We're easily spooked if men ask certain questions.

My feeling is that something must happened even if the OP didnt realise the faux pas during or towards the end of the booking...otherwise why would the sp switch her attitude towards him suddently and not want to see the OP again? Perhaps OP you should just say "okay fair enough but what was it that I did wrong", if she has a valid issue she will tell you, if she doesnt then quite possibly she doesn't.

It is a possibility that you have said or done something that has upset the lady. Or it might have nothing to do with your behaviour. You could send her a suitably worded text but even if you receive an acceptable response should you return? From what you say it didn't seem to be the enjoyable meeting that you had anticipated.

With regards to 'the enemy' I have had several police officer clients and the coopers I have dealt with at my local nick are brilliantly supportive and helpful- definitely not my enemies!

I see that your local police officers had you over a barrel, Lydia, perhaps we could try that the next time we meet?

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You dont really give enough info for anyone to give advice, as a general rule girls who answer the phone, or text during bookings have a drug prob.

Where is the evidence for this outrageous statement? You are climbing on the mumsnet bandwagon with such a slur and should be ashamed of yourself.

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Quite an odd story. Something doesn't add up. Perhaps a detailed FR would help.

Bottom line - move on, plenty of fish out there.

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Something must have happened during the punt for that to happen. Its naughty of her not to be honest with you though.

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I finally booked my first lady. I carefully chosen after reading her FR (all very good). I took 90 minutes for being sure I had plenty of time. Pictures were accurate, and she was as expected very pretty. We talked a lot, almost her at the beginning of the appointment. I saw that she had a real education.

We go to the bedroom, all was Ok, she was most of the time closing eyes,and having the mount big opened... till she decided to leave the room to answer a call !

She came back after, finished me, and returned to her mobile.I took my shower and I went back to see her. It was remaining 10 minutes. She was very strange, she didn't want to talk to me, only playing with her mobile. She was the opposite person I met at the beginning, very cold and distant. I left.

Some days later, I texted her to ask what was the problem.

She only replied : I don't want anymore bookings from you.

Any comments ?

Thanks

Well it sounds like you really irritated her.

We'd have had to be in the room to work out how/why.

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Something must have happened during the punt for that to happen. Its naughty of her not to be honest with you though.

I agree here. If something was amiss theres no excuse not to explain later by phone even if the sp doesnt want to say at the time to avoid possible confrontation.

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A very peculiar story. Is there something you've left out, johnwell?

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Where is the evidence for this outrageous statement? You are climbing on the mumsnet bandwagon with such a slur and should be ashamed of yourself.

What has mumsnet got to do with it, I know a couple of wgs with a drug habit, one guy on a field report noted that one phoned 4 times during a 30 minute booking, he wondered what the important phone message was about,,,,,,I could have told him, another girl I knew, was texting the minute you had finished. While very few girls have a needle habit,,, a lot more than you realise are on happy pills.

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I see that your local police officers had you over a barrel, Lydia, perhaps we could try that the next time we meet?

Not sure what this is meant to mean?! And I didn't realise we had met.

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Not sure what this is meant to mean?! And I didn't realise we had met.

Did you skip escort school the day they did "pub positions"?

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What has mumsnet got to do with it, I know a couple of wgs with a drug habit, one guy on a field report noted that one phoned 4 times during a 30 minute booking, he wondered what the important phone message was about,,,,,,I could have told him, another girl I knew, was texting the minute you had finished. While very few girls have a needle habit,,, a lot more than you realise are on happy pills.

You seem to be an expert on drugs. Please tell us more of these things to watch out for

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Did you skip escort school the day they did "pub positions"?

Yeah, clearly I skived off a lot!

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Yeah, clearly I skived off a lot!

Ahem...(cough cough) ...well young lady. its an hour of detention for you for doing that, so im going to see you in my studies to see what sort of punishment you need to correct your behaviour...and I know that lines dont work, or sending a not to your parents, I will just have to thin of some other punishment for your absence,,,,does anyone else have an idea what this could be!.....or maybe you yourself could inform me what form of chastisment should be dished out.

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