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Gregarious

Long Term Arrangement (12 Months)

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Hi Guys and Gals

Dont know if I have got the deal of the year or have been fooled into something!

A reasonably regular girl that I was seeing texted me offering a deal......................... £1000 up front for unlimited quick meets for sex.

She sent me her timetable of availabilities over the next 4 weeks (which shows at least 4 or 5 times each week that are suitable to me) and she says these are reasonably consistent times as she has a "regular" job but needed the cash urgetly.

To protect myself I agreed on the understanding that I only paid her £500 upfront and if the arrangement was working the other £500 in 8 weeks time.

She says I can have as much sex as I want (2 or 3 times a week) without the need for handing over any more wonga, and the deal was till the end of 2013

This lady does not do much escort work and she no longer advertises anywhere (for a year or so) but we have always had the odd meet and she has always said whenever possible if I text her she would try to meet up because we were comfortable. (This was prior to this arrangement)

Anyway I have paid the first £500 and we have had one meet and she was actually wanting to meet today for more sex, but i was not free, although we are meeting again on Friday.

She is mid 20's slim very attractive offers everything I like in a warm and sensual manner.

Either I have hit the jackpot or there's a catch.................

Watch this space....lol

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How can you agree to that when you never know what is going to happen in a few weeks of months time.

What happens if she goes away for a month for a long holiday.

Its a very attractive proposition for you, £1000 up front is like ten bookings at many escorts, so even if you get one a month you are still doing very well.

I hope you and the escort are happy with the outcome.... :) ...but she did appear to letting herself be ripped off.

If she neede the money quick, why didnt you suggest a weekend away, or 3 longish overnights.

On reflection it seems like you are exploiting the situation, with 2-3 meets a week, but then again if she suggested it!...can you send me her details...lol.

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I think it is very hard to predict what situation yourself or she is likely to be in 6 months from now, let a lone, 8, 10 or 11 months from now. If I were you I would have agreed to a minimum requirement for that money, then if your circumstances change or hers, you are able to fulfill that minimum requirement together. For intance if you are talking 'quickies' as in 15 mins visits then, a minimum of 21 bookings or if you mean 30 mins, say a minimum of 13 to make it worth your while paying up front and helping her out of her fix. I would also suggest a maximum amount of visits too, so that you don't end up taking the Mickey out of her situation.

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Good luck , the prob with lending people money, or borrowing it from others, is you create resentment. As Polonius advised Hamlet, neither borrower or lender be. If it works you have a good deal. Funny how you never get the reverse offer, all the sex you want, and pay me at the end of the year

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If only til end of yr it is a rip off. Once u hand over cash I bet she will be hard to get hold off

The deal was till the end of 2013

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I have to say that it sounds too good to be true, but if the OP is prepared to risk £1000, which will hardly break his bank, I suspect, then good luck to them both. If I could guarantee getting away for an hour without discovery every week or so I could be tempted

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Probably going to get boohood for this by the guys but if this girl is for real and she does deliver so to speak wouldnt it be fairer to offer her some more payments down the line. She could end up seeing you a lot...fairs fair and all that.

...thats if she is real.

I had a guy offering me 1000 a month for one meet per week, payable every 4th visit. I agreed so long as the first installment is up front then he can pay the grand every 4th visit...needless to say he hasnt accepted lol

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Probably going to get boohood for this by the guys but if this girl is for real and she does deliver so to speak wouldnt it be fairer to offer her some more payments down the line. She could end up seeing you a lot...fairs fair and all that.

Very good post and exactly what I think he should do...

I applaud you for saying this Chloe. ;)

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Just a few points to clarify.

I have known this women for over a year.

I doubt she is pulling a fast one ..... But we all live and learn.

I am not taking advantage she texted me with the offer. She is not some silly naive girl but a savvy women with a career.

Also I am not lending her any money she is offering her services for a fee. A massively reduced fee but mainly up front.

It is real. I am real and she is real. I have already had the first meet.

All will become clear with the passing of time. With regard to not knowing how things will be in the future. We are both from the same part of the county and have been for as much as I can tell all our lives. My work will not change and hers unlikely too in the next few years.

If I felt the arrangement became too one sided in my favour I would probably make another payment later in the arrangement.

But first I'm going to fill my boots....... So to say.

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If I felt the arrangement became too one sided in my favour I would probably make another payment later in the arrangement.

Well said Gregarious....and it says much abut you that you have that principle... :) Its easy to see why the escort gave you that option, maybe she realised that you would not take advantage of the situation.

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Well said Gregarious....and it says much abut you that you have that principle... :) Its easy to see why the escort gave you that option, maybe she realised that you would not take advantage of the situation.

I wish you luck and I hope that you will report back from time to time to let us know that all is going swimmingly!

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you advance money up front, repayment is in the form of sex, what part of that is not a loan?

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you advance money up front, repayment is in the form of sex, what part of that is not a loan?

Bit like when you put a downpayment on something...no reason why you cant do it for services as well as goods. When you pay your god knows how much downpayment on a car, holiday etc do you call it a loan to the company and that the holiday/car etc are the means of repayment of that loan lol

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Just a few points to clarify.

I have known this women for over a year.

I doubt she is pulling a fast one ..... But we all live and learn.

I am not taking advantage she texted me with the offer. She is not some silly naive girl but a savvy women with a career.

Also I am not lending her any money she is offering her services for a fee. A massively reduced fee but mainly up front.

It is real. I am real and she is real. I have already had the first meet.

All will become clear with the passing of time. With regard to not knowing how things will be in the future. We are both from the same part of the county and have been for as much as I can tell all our lives. My work will not change and hers unlikely too in the next few years.

If I felt the arrangement became too one sided in my favour I would probably make another payment later in the arrangement.

But first I'm going to fill my boots....... So to say.

Assuming it was a sum of money that would not really hurt me if I did lose it, I would certainly have trusted her in these circumstances. I'd rather go through life trusting people (within reason) and risking being occasionally let down than always mistrust everyone. I have helped out a number of people over the years, including some escorts, and almost every one of them has repaid me in full. I admit that one was a close personal male friend who took 20 years to do so but after I had given up all hope a cheque came in the post just before he died.

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Assuming it was a sum of money that would not really hurt me if I did lose it, I would certainly have trusted her in these circumstances. I'd rather go through life trusting people (within reason) and risking being occasionally let down than always mistrust everyone. I have helped out a number of people over the years, including some escorts, and almost every one of them has repaid me in full. I admit that one was a close personal male friend who took 20 years to do so but after I had given up all hope a cheque came in the post just before he died.

For me it's not a matter of trust, it's a matter of time. Time can change everything and 12 months is a long time for a situation to stay static. Ie, people pass away, relationships form and life style changes. She could move away, or indeed he could. Then what? Do you put your life on hold in order to fulfill the obligation or offer a refund? How would that work with such a generous offer? I think if it had been offered over a shorter term it would have been both more realistic and fair. I'm not sure she really thought it through when offering a full year. Either that or is there a relationship on the cards here?

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Good luck , the prob with lending people money, or borrowing it from others, is you create resentment. As Polonius advised Hamlet, neither borrower or lender be. If it works you have a good deal. Funny how you never get the reverse offer, all the sex you want, and pay me at the end of the year

as Polonius advised Laertes ^_^

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Bit like when you put a downpayment on something...no reason why you cant do it for services as well as goods. When you pay your god knows how much downpayment on a car, holiday etc do you call it a loan to the company and that the holiday/car etc are the means of repayment of that loan lol

A deposit is essentially an unsecured non interest bearing loan though regardless of what you call it but as long as he's happy bearing that risk, which he appears to be, then fine.

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Speak to a lawyer and set up an escrow account! That way you can get screwed twice for your money.

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Speak to a lawyer and set up an escrow account! That way you can get screwed twice for your money.

Do you mean an escort account??

Grabs his coat!!

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Like Trouncer said, its better to trust someone you know and are happy to agree something with, than to speak to a third party about setting something up like speaking to a lawyer.

Id rather trust an escort i had a relationship with, then to trust a lawyer.

(puts Cool Tiger into a taxi) but it did make me laugh.. :lol:

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Sounds too good to be true and she's lost a good client if only after a short term gain and reneges on the deal. But if this means she has the money for Chrimbo without having to resort to a loan shark, pay day loan or whatever, then everyone's a winner.

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This does sound too good to be true but good luck to the OP.

I have paid my regular girl up front before but that was far more limited - £300 for 3 hours which was a £60 discount off her normal rate.

She delivered without any issues proving it is possible to trust girls in this way.

The lack clear boundaries in the OP's arrangement makes me wonder if this will end in tears. Maybe 20 x 30 minute sessions for £1000 would be a more realistic agreement. I would certainly go for this if my regular offered it.

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Hi Guys and Gals

Next meet is for tomorrow, and all is well.

The meets will generally be for between 30 and 60 minutes when mid-week but for at least an hour when at weekends.

She has agreed that there is availability once or twice a month on a weekend, and to be honest the meets will probably be just like the "normal" ones we enjoyed prior to this arrangement.

Yes there is the possibility that after the second payment of £500 in 8 weeks time here availability will decline or even vanish. I doubt it as I generally have a good feel for people and I think she understands that nice guys do exist and if i'm kept happy there is every chance she will get a nice Brucie bonus somewhere along the line. "Nice to f___ you to f___ you nice".......sorry couldnt resit a little pun....lol

Anyway got work to be doing peeps..........

Gregarious

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Don't we always pay up front without knowing whether we'll leave happy?

I pay over my money for punts, including multiples of hundreds from time to time. When I pay this over, I hope to leave with a smile on my face, but it doesn't always work that way. For example, I left a punt today feeling pretty down, as the punt was a bit disappointing (won't bore you with the details).

Only time will tell if Gregarious looks back on this as a triumph or disaster. Good luck Gregarious. If I was in your shoes I'd take that chance as well.

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