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I have a role play scenario planned for the next time that I visit a certain lady. I'm uncertain as to whether I should tell her what I would like her to wear or just explain the scenario and leave it up to her what to wear.

Also on a more general note, and this is a question for all parties concerned, what does the lady wear if no specific request is made? What would the lady normally choose to wear? How would the client normally expect the lady to be dressed?

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How would the client normally expect the lady to be dressed?

I like my sexual partners to be naked, so whatever the lady is wearing when I arrive I want it off fairly quickly. :)

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I have a role play scenario planned for the next time that I visit a certain lady. I'm uncertain as to whether I should tell her what I would like her to wear or just explain the scenario and leave it up to her what to wear.

Also on a more general note, and this is a question for all parties concerned, what does the lady wear if no specific request is made? What would the lady normally choose to wear? How would the client normally expect the lady to be dressed?

Love role play. For it to work best you have to start from the moment she or you opens the door. What to wear is helpful but not necessary IMHO. It all depends on you as the paying customer tho'. It's your call. :)

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I haven't made any specific dress requests so far, have been too embarrassed to enquire (all through agencies so far) but I'm sure that will change over time. I've found that on outcalls, the ladies bring a selection of sexy outfits anyway and these slip on and come off during the evening. On the occasions I have had to meet a lady in a hotel reception (key card access to lifts) they have always been dressed very elegantly, rather than too sexy that may cause raised eyebrows from reception.

Not done any role play yet - may be something for the new year.

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I like my lady to be dressed as if we are going out for dinner, or a few drinks. The mutual undressing is very erotic.

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I like my lady to be dressed as if we are going out for dinner, or a few drinks. The mutual undressing is very erotic.

This is how I would say I generally like to dress for meetings Smart/Sexy. I don't mind some outfits but I would refuse to dress like a cheap hooker in tacky PVC garments for example and thigh high boots from the market lol my worst nightmare! But I know this actually turns some people on haha each to their own:)

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My default dress code is stockings,suspenders, high heels,dress or skirt and blouse.Very occasionally I might wear hold-ups if they suit the style of skirt or lingerie better.

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I like the escort to feel comfertable in what she chooses, but have an inkling that Lady Gagas meat dress in not available, so tend to request jeans and a blouse.

Course if its a role play scenario, then its open to the imagination, and like Sarah said, it starts as soon as the door is opened, unless she is playing a street girl I picked up from a corner.

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I have a role play scenario planned for the next time that I visit a certain lady. I'm uncertain as to whether I should tell her what I would like her to wear or just explain the scenario and leave it up to her what to wear.

Also on a more general note, and this is a question for all parties concerned, what does the lady wear if no specific request is made? What would the lady normally choose to wear? How would the client normally expect the lady to be dressed?

I want WGs naked asap, ideally from when they open the door to me until i leave. If not practical wear as little as possible.

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My ideal dress code for the ladies to wear are stockings, suspenders, g string and low bra....all set of under a mini mini skirt, tight blouse and killer heels........maybe I am showing my age but I really love this

My all time favourite lady Collette (anyone remember her) used to wear a red basque, g string and red fishnet stockings held up by suspenders..naturally with killer heels and a big smile all was greeted with a "are you pleased to see me and do i look ok" whow!! never forgotten

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I'm with zipless and smiths on this one, in fact I'm happiest if they enter the room naked at the start.

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For me either naked, or figure hugging dress that can be pulled up and down and no underwear.

Edited by Rojo

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Being naked too quick for me is a no no. where is the mystery and allure of the punt when you know that you can get the lady out of her clothes quickly!.

I dont like to spend too long getting there, but a good bit of rear spanking of the escort clothed first is quite acceptable, followed by a slow strip and a further spanking, and of course I like to do the final part of the strip of the lady myself, whatever she is left with.

Then its ........whatever you require sir!... ;)

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I leave it to the client, although they often say 'just something sexy' or 'could you wear heels' or 'something low cut'. which is fine, some chaps are more specific which is fine if I have enough notice! nothing more annoying than a text 10 minutes before they arrive and I am already in one get up and he suddenly asks for something totally different.

With regards to roleplay I think it's really fun to come up with something appropriate for the scenario either in agreement with the client or using my own imagination!

I also disagree with Sarah regarding when a roleplay should start! That I think has to be decided in advance and will depend on what the client wants. Some do work well straight from the off, but other men (usually those I haven't met before) prefer a little chat and time to relax before we go into it!

Incidentally, this again highlights the need for men to communicate what they want in advance of the booking! Although any decent escort will have something 'sexy' on, there is always that gap in what some find hot and some not!

Finally, I am very reluctant to open the door naked on a first meet- just because it does make me feel a bit more vulnerable so gents who like this, don't be put off if a woman says no! Although this could be cynical over cautious me and not other women! :)

Edited by MinxyLydia

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I like my sexual partners to be naked, so whatever the lady is wearing when I arrive I want it off fairly quickly. :)

D'you know zippy, I couldn't agree more. Though when the door is opened most women like to be clothed in something. My taste then is the 'girl next door' look. Nothing more. A nice trim pair of jeans and a smart top is just fine.

Uncle Pokey

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One of my fondest memories is being at OCS for the opening punt when I got there first and my favourite girl turned up in her civies!

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My default dress code is stockings,suspenders, high heels,dress or skirt and blouse.Very occasionally I might wear hold-ups if they suit the style of skirt or lingerie better.

My type of girl :-)

I'm not a fan of the get naked ASAP school of thought. Think im becoming a sort of fan of CFNM!!

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D'you know zippy, I couldn't agree more. Though when the door is opened most women like to be clothed in something. My taste then is the 'girl next door' look. Nothing more. A nice trim pair of jeans and a smart top is just fine.

Uncle Pokey

I'd certainly be happy with that too. :)

Whatever they are wearing I don't want to spend ages peeling it off. :)

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I leave it to the client, although they often say 'just something sexy' or 'could you wear heels' or 'something low cut'. which is fine, some chaps are more specific which is fine if I have enough notice! nothing more annoying than a text 10 minutes before they arrive and I am already in one get up and he suddenly asks for something totally different.

With regards to roleplay I think it's really fun to come up with something appropriate for the scenario either in agreement with the client or using my own imagination!

I also disagree with Sarah regarding when a roleplay should start! That I think has to be decided in advance and will depend on what the client wants. Some do work well straight from the off, but other men (usually those I haven't met before) prefer a little chat and time to relax before we go into it!

Incidentally, this again highlights the need for men to communicate what they want in advance of the booking! Although any decent escort will have something 'sexy' on, there is always that gap in what some find hot and some not!

Finally, I am very reluctant to open the door naked on a first meet- just because it does make me feel a bit more vulnerable so gents who like this, don't be put off if a woman says no! Although this could be cynical over cautious me and not other women! :)

No we don't disagree on when it should start. What I did not say was the role play should be discussed beforehand and then it should begin as soon as the door opens. I just used fewer words and the point was obviously lost. Must do better :)

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I like to wear something I feel sexy in as well as what hopefully lookd sexy for the fella.I'm a basque,holdup stockings,heels and a little black dress kind of lady.I feel totally stupid dressed in uniforms and stuff like schoolgirl makes me feel uncomfortable.

I make this quite clear on my adverts.I realise that a guy is paying me for my time but if nice lingerie or me naked isn't what floats his boat then he has booked the wrong lady.If I feel sexy I provide a better service,if I feel cheap and tacky in a silly uniform then I'm sure I'm not as much fun in the bedroom.

I have done roleplay and find when it is well planned and I can wear something put together myself like say job interviewee or secretary then it can be brilliant fun.

I am also with Lydia on this though..I don't like answering the door totally nekky...better to get nekky in the bedroom.

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Short skirt long boots do it for me (not me wearing them BTW)

Or jeans and a T-shirt

Main thing is a friendly smile

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Just to reinforce something that both Sarah and Lydia have mentioned regarding roleplay. If you are meeting the lady for the first time then you need, preferably via e-mail, to firm up on the details beforehand. Then a, preferably, short discussion prior to starting the roleplay.

If you have met the lady before then the arrangements can be much looser. In those circumstances the roleplay should, preferably, commence as soon as the door opens.

Speaking of when the door opens. I prefer my ladies to be completely clothed, as if they were going out for the evening to a good restaurant, so that I can admire then prior to my disrobing them and further admiring what is underneath the outer layer.

Edited by gibbs

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I like the girl to wear something different other than the usual black bra and underwear...All WGs wear them so I just think its just unimaginative and boring...If she wants me to remember her than the usual thong and bra isnt going to do it...

And numorous times Ive requested something different. Even something from her pics....Ive mailed again after just to make sure but I dont want to come over strong or annoying......

Ive even bought stuff for her to wear..

But the number of girls who have actually done so I can count on one hand... :(

White tshirt, denim shorts, tank top, lycra, short shorts....the list is endless..... something that shows the figure. I know shes going to be naked but Id rather take time enjoying te unwrapping rather than finding that its already been done....

Edited by Overworked

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Shell suit and wellies........well it is important for the role play I had in mind....... :(

Later on as I surveyed the wreckage, it became clear that they no longer had any usage.......but they were ideal...... :lol:

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Main thing is a friendly smile

Absolutely! :)

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