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Just Didn't Fancy Her!

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Have any of you guys gone a long to a punt and not fancied the WG when you got there? If so, would this be a case of not researching properly?

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yeah Ive had that before, most the time I bail out or some times try not to be rude and act like im enjoying it and get over it fast.

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Of course it is disappointing if someone doesn't fancy you, but as I don't show my face I do understand this can happen and would rather the person saved their money and dipped out gracefully than go ahead feeling obliged.

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I fancied all the WGs I've seen so far, never had that problem.

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So, as well as being in the right location, price range and offer the services you require you have to fancy us too! Bloody hell! What a liberty,

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So, as well as being in the right location, price range and offer the services you require you have to fancy us too! Bloody hell! What a liberty,

:lol: :lol: :lol:

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Use to get it in MPs so had to make excuses and leave - one of the reason I don't go anymore.

Have bailed out once on an incall. Same girl as photos, but clearly under the influence of something stronger than my experience and in an extremely grim flat.

Now prefer an outcall and no such problems as yet.

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I have had a couple in my time that I didn't fancy but I can cope with that, even enjoy the time and come away well satisfied. It is the miserable and lazy ones which affect the little man the most. Serves them right for not getting an erection to work with. Leaving early just plays into their hands and gives them the motivation to perfect their tedious ways so I always stay the full length of time, getting them to perform a half hearted massage or something. I once got one to put her clothes back on sexily, like a strip in reverse, soppy tart tried to do it too, badly of course.

I can recall only two or three bad experiences like this, and in the early days before I found PN otherwise I would have definately posted a FR.

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Have any of you guys gone a long to a punt and not fancied the WG when you got there? If so, would this be a case of not researching properly?

Yep, phone box ad girls and soho walkups, quite a few times in the past before I'd even heard of PNET, but not in many years.

Sometimes I've gone along with it anyhow and really enjoyed it surprisingly to myself, sometimes I've just walked after saying "youre not really my type", but its literally only twice that I've gone along with it nevertheless, cum, and disgusted with myself, thought afterwards "what the hell have I just done, she should be the one paying me ?!! :eek: "

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Yep, phone box ad girls and soho walkups, quite a few times in the past before I'd even heard of PNET, but not in many years.

Sometimes I've gone along with it anyhow and really enjoyed it surprisingly to myself, sometimes I've just walked after saying "youre not really my type", but its literally only twice that I've gone along with it nevertheless, cum, and disgusted with myself, thought afterwards "what the hell have I just done, she should be the one paying me ?!! :eek: "

See that is not nice or necessary. Just because someone is not attractive to you, it does not make them second rate or less entitled to a bit of respect. You should feel disgusted with yourself, but not for being with someone you don't fancy, but for your attitude.

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The lady I saw in November had changed her hair from white-blond to a dirty blonde with red-tints and it was a dingy box basement flat in Kensington.

I went through with it but it didn't help help with my anxiety and comfort level.

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The lady I saw in November had changed her hair from white-blond to a dirty blonde with red-tints and it was a dingy box basement flat in Kensington.

I went through with it but it didn't help help with my anxiety and comfort level.

Lmao, that is funny. You are joking... right?

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See that is not nice or necessary. Just because someone is not attractive to you, it does not make them second rate or less entitled to a bit of respect. You should feel disgusted with yourself, but not for being with someone you don't fancy, but for your attitude.

As he stresses that it was only twice, I would guess that there may be more to it than just not fancying someone.

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I always thought punters arrived with an erection! If she opens the door and your liittle friend goes floppy, I commiserate. It must be quite a scary prospect for a man and I never thought about it in this way. I have had some punts which started off slowly and worked up to some really steamy sex. Other sessions have been the other way around, and I so hate flogging a dead horse.

It does not matter how sexy the girl is or hot hot she looks - if she isn't doing it for you and there is no chemistry between you then the only consolation is that you know not to return?

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I've had punts where the girl wasn't really my type, facially or whatever, and they've turned out really well, with great sexual chemistry.

About 4 months ago, I took a bit of a chance on a lady quite local to me. She was not quite what I expected, but the sex was really hot and I came out a perfectly happy punter.

To put it crudely, if the lady is giving you a really good BJ, or shagging your brains out, and it feels wonderful, does it really matter if she's not the most attractive girl you've ever seen?

I'm talking here about physical, surface attraction, which is subjective anyway - not dirty, bad attitude, on drugs etc.

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To put it simply it's not just about the looks, is it? Attitude counts for 9/10 and looks might be the 1/10. A clean location helps too.

I have punted with ladies who I don't find absolutely stunning, but have had a really good time because we have both tried to give each other a great experience.

I have also met stunners who could barely stir themselves to remove their chewing gum before starting to kiss. They are the ones who make my willy droop. :mad:

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Thank you Southern Man and Porker Paul. This was why I wrote my comment. Just because someone is physically unattractive to you, it does not make them less of a person or not good at their job. I have already said I would rather someone walk away if they found me that physically repulsive, but you would be surprised that it is still possible to have chemistry with someone you would not expect to be able to hit all the right buttons. I found this out well before I started Escorting and it's proved itself to me time and time again. Often it can also alter the way you see someone, as I find people become a lot more attractive when you have got all frisky together and you then notice, the sparkle in their eyes, the little dimple in their cheeks etc.

Also, there is no one perfect on this planet, so imagine to yourself how many of those stunning Escorts have thought the same about you? Ie, wouldn't touch you with a barge pole without payment. Would you still think the only quality you bring to the table is your looks, or is there more to you than that?

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To put it simply it's not just about the looks, is it? Attitude counts for 9/10 and looks might be the 1/10. A clean location helps too.

I have punted with ladies who I don't find absolutely stunning, but have had a really good time because we have both tried to give each other a great experience.

I have also met stunners who could barely stir themselves to remove their chewing gum before starting to kiss. They are the ones who make my willy droop. :mad:

Its not mad, for some its about the experience more than the visual thing. Some of my not so handsome clients were the ones I looked forward to seeing most so it works the other way round.

One thing I will say, while its obvious that you guys are not going to find us all the right one for you, please, if you have made a bad choice politely say so and move on. Don't let your little head rule your big one, that's a disaster for both of you and don't be rude when you tell her. Remember the bad choice is yours and whilst she may not be for you, she will be perfect for others, its not right to leave her feeling bad if you are the one that's got it wrong. Of course if there is some false advertising going on or bait and switch that's different.

I had a guy turn on his heels once at the doorstep and he was quite rude about it too, really upset me that because I was always open and honest in my advertising so couldn't work it out. It wasn't until much later that I learnt he had mixed up my number for Hannah Gold's and was expecting her at the door. His mistake, but I was the one upset by it and it made it worse knowing that Hannah, a friend, had this rude client to deal with.

In retrospect I'm glad he walked because if he had stayed I would have done my best to accommodate but will have known something wasn't right.

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Have any of you guys gone a long to a punt and not fancied the WG when you got there? If so, would this be a case of not researching properly?

I don't think he meant going on looks only.

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I don't think he meant going on looks only.

But that's the way us shallow blokes interpreted it.

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I have been lucky in that virtually all the escorts I have met, would have turned my head if I saw them in the street.

Probably the one least likely to have caught my attention visually, gave me one of the best punts of my career.

Would I walk if I didn't fancy her when she opened the door? Probably not unless she was significantly different from her profile and I felt I had been tricked.

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Have any of you guys gone a long to a punt and not fancied the WG when you got there? If so, would this be a case of not researching properly?

To answer the 2nd question, no, I research as thoroughly (properly?) as I'm able but it's disappointing when, for example agency info is just plain inaccurate :(

I once turned up to a punt and the lady was nearly 1' shorter than advertised. Fortunately height isn't too much of an issue when you're horizontal.

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Yep, I ran a mile .. saw she had been whacked a few times ..... not good

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Yep, I ran a mile .. saw she had been whacked a few times ..... not good

What? You mean you saw she had been physically abused and had bruises?

I wonder what other punters would do in this situation. Walk away and mind your own business? Try to help her? Anonymously call the police to report someone had been assaulted in the hopes that she can get real help?

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What? You mean you saw she had been physically abused and had bruises?

I wonder what other punters would do in this situation. Walk away and mind your own business? Try to help her? Anonymously call the police to report someone had been assaulted in the hopes that she can get real help?

Not sure that's what he meant but if it was I can imagine lots would just walk instead of trying to help. Sadly many have the same attitude towards others that Andyaaa has.

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