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I was just thinking about the discussions we have regarding how old ladies are and whether they reduce their age or perhaps even say that they are older. Then I thought about it the other way round. I know that some ladies set age parameters and they are perfectly entitled to do so. But how often does a lady know what is waiting on the other side of the door she is about to open.

When contacting a lady to make a booking I have never been asked in any way to say how old I am. I appreciate that you can get some indication from the sound of the voice and the words used but that in itself is in no way accurate. I know that when the lady first sets eyes on me it tends to not be what she expected. The two heads usually takes them by surprise. We have a vision in our mind that can and probably is very different from what was expected.

So, without naming names, how about the ladies telling us about the surprises, good and bad, that they have experienced. Also that perhaps, 30 minutes later, the impression they gained at the door had changed either for the better or the worse. Funny or otherwise.

The guys must have some stories to tell about their first visits to ladies regarding the reaction they got from the lady when she opened the door and saw them for the first time.

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... I know that when the lady first sets eyes on me it tends to not be what she expected.

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I'd be interested to hear how you know that.

I always watch very carefully for any sign of disappointment / distaste / panic, and I'm pleased (and a bit surprised) to say that I've never yet seen any. :unsure:

I should say that this says more about the girls than it does about me.

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I'd be interested to hear how you know that.

Because they tell me.

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A good escort will look delighted to see anyone come through the door!

I don't make guesses anymore- I just wait and see who rocks up!

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A good escort will look delighted to see anyone come through the door!

I don't make guesses anymore- I just wait and see who rocks up!

+1

Yes we may well be disappointed but at the same time if we are doing our job properly you should never know.

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A good escort will look delighted to see anyone come through the door!

I wouldn't think anything else.

Yes we may well be disappointed but at the same time if we are doing our job properly you should never know.

The question wasn't aimed at the lady necessarily being disappointed by what she saw when she opened the door. Perhaps, for example, the lady opened the door and saw someone who would give Brad Pitt a run for his money.

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I wouldn't think anything else.

The question wasn't aimed at the lady necessarily being disappointed by what she saw when she opened the door. Perhaps, for example, the lady opened the door and saw someone who would give Brad Pitt a run for his money.

That happened to me.. Wasn't Brad Pitt but Patrick Swayze stood in the doorway, well looked like him anyway.. Mmmmm that was a night to savour...

Another booking but just as special in its own way was my oldest client, had to be 90+ and very sweet.

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So, without naming names, how about the ladies telling us about the surprises, good and bad, that they have experienced. Also that perhaps, 30 minutes later, the impression they gained at the door had changed either for the better or the worse.

When I first started solo escorting I got a really nice mail off a younger man who had excellent feedback off quite a few ladies who were much of the same age as me.

So we agreed to meet up for an hour at a serviced apartment I then used to rent for my liaisons.

On the day the buzzer to let someone in was not working so I went down to let him in via the car park entrance.

I opened the door to the underground car park and saw this stunningly attractive young man walking over to me.

So there was me thinking I was in for a good time.......why.......as I was judging him on his age and looks.

Lesson learned that day, mind you I did already know this lesson.

He was the most arrogant toss pot who thought he was Gods gift to women and thought he had the perfect cock......yawn.

Looking like some Hollywood superstar means not a jot really, it is all about having a good personality and just enjoying yourself.

If a bloke walks in to my lair and has a good attitude and appreciates me and lets me do my stuff to him, all will be hunky dory :)

One of my best times recently with a bloke who was new to me, was with an older bloke who had a medical condition which he not told me about before hand.

Possibly as I may of said no to meeting up with him.

He was a rieal laugh and entered in to my world fully and we enjoyed each other a lot.

I can recall about 18 months ago now opening my door to a shy guy who looked like Paul O'Grady.

My he was nervous and tongue tied with me at first, I thought this was going to be a long hour.....

I have now been corrupting that gentleman for the last 18 months ;)

I like the surprise in one way of who is going to be there when I open the door on a first visit to me with a new chap.

I always ask an age now though so that is not a surprise to me any more,, unless the bloke lies of course and takes a few years off his real age ;)

All good fun........usually.

Lucy :)

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I always ask an age now though so that is not a surprise to me any more,, unless the bloke lies of course and takes a few years off his real age ;)

A man lying about his age? Saying that he's 68 instead of 75? Surely not? Thank you Lucy. :D

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Once in a while I get a new caller who sounds about 15 on the phone so of course I politely ask his age.

I have got used to this now...... hearing I am 57 .....etc

One client first called me with this gruff booming voice and I imagined he was 7ft 6 and a man mountain.

He was tiny and thin.

It works the other way too..... hearing a soft gentle voice and then meeting a monster sized man.

I too like the element of surprise but don't forget we have spy holes in our front doors so we have a second or two

to view before we unlock the door. If we can see a candidate for the rocky horror show through that little hole we can

compose ourselves and greet him with a lovely smile. :ph34r:

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Ive also noticed that "puny little guys" are very often compensated in the trouser department. So it is sometimes a pleasant surprise too.

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Never had anything less than a smile and a friendly welcome from the ladies I've seen. :) I suppose I'm quite normal looking and I've got a brief description on my AW profile (do many guys fill theirs in? Wasn't sure so I just wrote a few lines), so they'll have some sort of idea what I'm going to look like. Even if I was some hideous looking creature I'm sure the welcome would be the same though, all have been lovely, professional girls.

The last girl I saw had a little extra time to check me out before I arrived as she saw me coming through her window as she was guiding me to her place over the phone. "Ooh, you've got a shaved head, I like that!" :D Was nice, but a little different from the first glimpse of each other you usually get when she opens the door - though this was actually the first girl I'd seen with face pictures on her profile.

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A good escort will look delighted to see anyone come through the door!

I don't make guesses anymore- I just wait and see who rocks up!

This is me and has been for a long time. Voice, emails,text messages aren't always representative of the person. I just wait and see.

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I was just thinking about the discussions we have regarding how old ladies are and whether they reduce their age or perhaps even say that they are older. Then I thought about it the other way round. I know that some ladies set age parameters and they are perfectly entitled to do so. But how often does a lady know what is waiting on the other side of the door she is about to open.

When contacting a lady to make a booking I have never been asked in any way to say how old I am. I appreciate that you can get some indication from the sound of the voice and the words used but that in itself is in no way accurate. I know that when the lady first sets eyes on me it tends to not be what she expected. The two heads usually takes them by surprise. We have a vision in our mind that can and probably is very different from what was expected.

So, without naming names, how about the ladies telling us about the surprises, good and bad, that they have experienced. Also that perhaps, 30 minutes later, the impression they gained at the door had changed either for the better or the worse. Funny or otherwise.

The guys must have some stories to tell about their first visits to ladies regarding the reaction they got from the lady when she opened the door and saw them for the first time.

I will not see men under thirty unless they particularly like ladies over forty and they email me first. I have no age limit the other way, and to be honest if it is a man standing there when I open the door then that's good enough :) I remember once having an argument with someone on a forum because they said you can tell what someone is going to be like in the first ten seconds of meeting and I said that was not so for me. You never can tell how a punt is going to pan out and hope that what you do and how you look will be good enough. I generally find the punt gets better once I have got over the initial nerves, and stopped talking so much and kicked the wine across the room or drunk it and poured it down my front :)

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A good escort will look delighted to see anyone come through the door!

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Not entirely sure what that was meant to mean, but it highlighted to me that me phrasing was a bit off!

I meant, of course that whoever came through the door a good escort would look happy to see him regardless of looks.

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I will not see men under thirty unless they particularly like ladies over forty and they email me first. I have no age limit the other way, and to be honest if it is a man standing there when I open the door then that's good enough :) I remember once having an argument with someone on a forum because they said you can tell what someone is going to be like in the first ten seconds of meeting and I said that was not so for me. You never can tell how a punt is going to pan out and hope that what you do and how you look will be good enough. I generally find the punt gets better once I have got over the initial nerves, and stopped talking so much and kicked the wine across the room or drunk it and poured it down my front :)

Age never bothered me, its only a number after all, as long as I could provide the service they were looking for then I was game for it regardless of their age but have to say I totally agree when you say that you can never prejudge a meeting especially if the client is new.

Many a time I've put the phone down and thought 'I've got a bad feeling about this' and its gone on to be a brilliant punt and vice versa, or misjudged someone when they first walk through the door. I can remember one guy that took four or five punts before he opened up properly and let go, those early punts by my reckoning were pretty dire but eventually they again became brilliant.

I agree with you Sarah.

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As far as first impressions, I can never tell what's going through their mind, and they don't ever say anything that would let me know.  I can sometimes tell after an hour if they may possibly be attracted, but usually I have no idea, and wouldn't go asking and expect an honest answer, so it's always a mystery.

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Age never bothered me, its only a number after all, as long as I could provide the service they were looking for then I was game for it regardless of their age but have to say I totally agree when you say that you can never prejudge a meeting especially if the client is new.

Many a time I've put the phone down and thought 'I've got a bad feeling about this' and its gone on to be a brilliant punt and vice versa, or misjudged someone when they first walk through the door. I can remember one guy that took four or five punts before he opened up properly and let go, those early punts by my reckoning were pretty dire but eventually they again became brilliant.

I agree with you Sarah.

Holly, I have had one or two clients like this, who had something they wanted to say but dare not, and only after several visits and an outpouring of their emotional turmoil, the punts became fab!

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Not entirely sure what that was meant to mean, but it highlighted to me that me phrasing was a bit off!

I meant, of course that whoever came through the door a good escort would look happy to see him regardless of looks.

 

Basically, WG needs to look welcoming to ensure the punter doesn't feel he is wasting his money.

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Holly, I have had one or two clients like this, who had something they wanted to say but dare not, and only after several visits and an outpouring of their emotional turmoil, the punts became fab!

I am a disabled guy and cannot believe the things i have said and disscused with my lovely regular lady,we really are great friends.I think all you ladies do a fantastic job,it's a pity the rest in their perfect moral little worlds don't understand.

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