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In a recent punt I asked about anal. The reply I got was wonderful. "Yes I do anal, but I do not like it. We are having such a great time without it, why spoil things."

Better than "You're too big" but still a refusal.

Also had on of those things that upsets me. I am not a saint and I do not like temptation placed my way. When getting dressed afterwards I noticed the envelope with my money ni it right there next to my clothes. The wg had gone off to do whatever they do after a punt. I could so easily have trousered it. I much prefer the money to be sorted at the start and vanish than left like that. (I pointed it out when she returned, she was pleased and I got two kisses on the nose before being let out back into the real world)

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In a recent punt I asked about anal. The reply I got was wonderful. "Yes I do anal, but I do not like it. We are having such a great time without it, why spoil things."

Better than "You're too big" but still a refusal.

Also had on of those things that upsets me. I am not a saint and I do not like temptation placed my way. When getting dressed afterwards I noticed the envelope with my money ni it right there next to my clothes. The wg had gone off to do whatever they do after a punt. I could so easily have trousered it. I much prefer the money to be sorted at the start and vanish than left like that. (I pointed it out when she returned, she was pleased and I got two kisses on the nose before being let out back into the real world)

1  Why do something you don't really enjoy just because the bloke wants it? I can't think many blokes would enjoy it in those circumstances. Also I think her response was right on the money.

 

2  You must have one hell of a large nose, or were they small pecks rather than kisses :wacko:

 

3  Like you I don't want temptation put in the way of any punter. There are plenty who are not as straight as you and I.

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I still believe I'm too big :) until I'm told otherwise.  I like that honesty, it's not going to be fun if the girl doesn't like it.

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I'm not too bothered about anal one way ot the other personally. I never bring it up and when a lady has mentioned that she doesn't do anal it has always been mentioned with great tact. There was one occasion when both the lady and myself were already very active. I received a command. Or it may have been a request. Or a mixture of both. But whatever no way would I refuse.

As regards the cash the ladies tend not to count it, which I choose to take as a compliment, and put it down wherever. I was with a lady once and decided to have an extra half hour. When I went to get my wallet afterwards I suddenly realised that the envelope and cash was still in my car 200 yards away. I was really embarrassed but she took it very well. I assume this was because it was our third meeting. She had known all along that I hadn't given her the money at the commencement. It is very satisfying when a lady has that amount of trust in you.

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In a recent punt I asked about anal. The reply I got was wonderful. "Yes I do anal, but I do not like it. We are having such a great time without it, why spoil things."

Better than "You're too big" but still a refusal.

 

I'm afraid I'd class that response as passive-aggressive bullcrap. She should not offer anal if she doesn't want to do it. But if she offers it she should provide it upon request. We all know that in most cases "too big" is just such an excuse. With this girl's response she is trying to offload the "choice" (such as it is) onto the punter with a very clear message that doing it is not going to happen. I would have most definitely checked in advance that anal was available and in that case my answer would have been "it's my favourite activity and you agreed we could do it". Of course I only request anal with girls that advertise it and always check with them that it is going to be available.

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I'm afraid I'd class that response as passive-aggressive bullcrap. She should not offer anal if she doesn't want to do it. But if she offers it she should provide it upon request. We all know that in most cases "too big" is just such an excuse. With this girl's response she is trying to offload the "choice" (such as it is) onto the punter with a very clear message that doing it is not going to happen. I would have most definitely checked in advance that anal was available and in that case my answer would have been "it's my favourite activity and you agreed we could do it". Of course I only request anal with girls that advertise it and always check with them that it is going to be available.

 Okay Im going to bite on this one. Its not your place to decide if your cock is within a girls limits as to what she can take up her own ass and its not for you to argue with her if it turns out you are too big in her opinion. She should though tell you what I tell my client so you can make an informed decision as to wether you book her or not.

 

I tell all guys asking about anal that I cant give them a definate yes or no till I see the willy standing up to attention unless I know him well and so can remember his willy. If a guy doesnt like that then thats fine, at least I was honest. He can decide if he still wants to book me or not based on truth. If someone doesnt bother to mention it when booking and then expects it then the same rule applies, if I can I will but if I cant I wont and no amount of huffing and puffing and saying "well its on your likes list" will change that. If after all the explaining before the booking someone said "well its my favourite activity and you said we could do it" I would probably tell him to "bend over then"!

 

I am more than happy to help any guys who have trouble understanding the size rule to understand the size rule by sliding something up his bottom thats slender...then sliding something up his bottom thats huge...he can then decide for himself if the size rule should apply. Any men not willing to undergo this waive any right to make a comment on afore mentioned size rule!!

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I once noticed the fee in my pocket as I was dressing after the event.  "Ah sorry I forgot to give you this before." "Oh my, I forgot, thanks." *Warm kiss*  Friend for life - just for being fair!

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I once noticed the fee in my pocket as I was dressing after the event.  "Ah sorry I forgot to give you this before." "Oh my, I forgot, thanks." *Warm kiss*  Friend for life - just for being fair!

The same happened to me earlier. I totally forgot to take the fee from a client who i had recognised as having me a long time ago, luckily for me he was an honest guy and gave it to me just as i reached for the door. Its guys like that who make you remember that its mostly good guys out there

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The same happened to me earlier. I totally forgot to take the fee from a client who i had recognised as having me a long time ago, luckily for me he was an honest guy and gave it to me just as i reached for the door. Its guys like that who make you remember that its mostly good guys out there

That's good to see.

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The lady had anal on her list and some reviews mentioned it. So, I did not feel my request was unreasonable. I'm getting to the age where I am thinking it will all be over soon so I may as well try everything before it is too late. I better book myself in for Chloe's little life lesson on huge things up bottoms Then !!! (laughing)

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I should imagine its a proper disappointment to be lured by the windup web into thinking a wg has some potential only to find that she offers a raft of excuses, reasons, apologies etc to simply do what she feels like doing. More so if the price was based on a false promise.

 

But equally punters should do more in negotiating with the wg prior to the session, and homing in on what they really can expect. If despite a promising advert, the wg is only likely to offer basic sex, then the price should be renegotiated prior to the meeting, or abandoned if it has been established to be pointless if it lacks the main thing it has been tendered for. ie anal 

 

After all if one booked Pavarotti, you would be exceedingly pissed off if all he did was to stand on stage and clear his throat.

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I don't see the point in offering a service that you don't enjoy, hence I don't do anal or rimming (either way).  It really is all about the money if you are doing things knowing you are not going to like it.

 

Having been offered £1000 by a client to do anal after saying I don't enjoy it, I fully believe some men would go ahead with the knowledge I was not enjoying it and some would find that a turn on.  Personally it's not a situation I would put myself in just to get clients through the door.

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I agree that if she doesnt like a service, especially if its a service you look for, she shouldn't advertise it. Does she advertise it or were you just asking?

 

Although Anal is abit of a grey area as its very specialist and it can be damaging. So if she says no then well, tough...sorry

 

I dont look for anal, never done it, but I have met girls who have DFK or CIM then found out they dont actually like it at all. So then of course I feel guilty now cos she doesnt like it but still went ahead. Makes me feel she'd be almost forced to.....

 

The same happened to me earlier. I totally forgot to take the fee from a client who i had recognised as having me a long time ago, luckily for me he was an honest guy and gave it to me just as i reached for the door. Its guys like that who make you remember that its mostly good guys out there

 

Happened a couple of times for me. Just gets forgotten about in the moment. Couple of times I had left and then sheepishly went back cos I found the envelope was still in my pocket.. "Hi me again... forgot to give you this" ....

 

Once I had left her place which was on the 4th or 5th floor of an apartment block, lift was broken, got outside and saw her on the balcony..."Oi! Me money!" Ooops! Back up the stairs again!....at least I got another DFK out of it thou. :D

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This week has been strange for me, as I'm not in my normal work place and have forgotten to ask for the money up front several times.  Thankfully I remembered with the last chap though, as he forgot his wallet and for once I geniunely believed him as he looked mortified.  I think I would have been mortified if it had happened at the end though.

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After all if one booked Pavarotti, you would be exceedingly pissed off if all he did was to stand on stage and clear his throat.

Anyone booking Pavarotti would be disappointed full stop, think he'd stink a bit by now.

I don't understand this Anal thing at all, I did it all the time and enjoyed it and would never advertise it then not offer it, nor would I refuse on size (unless they were the width of a coke can, which is highly unlikely with most clients, except for those messing about with Silicone of course but not seen many of them).

I did however state that when doing A, I had to be in control, size is irrelevant really. I hate to sound so crude but I've had bigger poo's than most guys dick size... Its the way you start off that's the problem, they can't just stick it up and go for it, lubricate, you stay in control and take your time and you'll be surprised just how much you can get up there.

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I totally agree that the right to say no lies with the provider.

I also think that prior negotiation is  a bit cold for me. Though I know some guys are very specific about what they want and double check everything before parting with the money.  

So, I punt hopefully rather than forcefully

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Why do guys expect an OBE for paying what is owed?

They deserve a kick in the nuts for forgetting to square up front like they should.

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Why do guys expect an OBE for paying what is owed?

They deserve a kick in the nuts for forgetting to square up front like they should.

 

It is surprisingly easy to forget to hand over the cash if you are with a regular and have had a particularly hot session.

 

It has happened to me twice. The first was with a girl I had seen quite a few times who had just started offering 15 minute sessions. I actually like these as there is a sense of urgency that makes things very different from a one hour meeting. After a frantic session I got dressed and was kissing her goodbye when she asked "What abouy my money?" - I was mortified, handed it over immediately and apologised profusely. Have seen her several times since and always pay at the start.

 

The second time was after an hours session with another regular. After a great session I kissed her goodbye and had driven 10 miles before getting a call from her  reminding me about the fee. Turned straight around and drove back to pay her. She invited me in for a cup of tea and we had a great chat for 20 minutes.

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I did however state that when doing A, I had to be in control, 

 

I totally understand and respect this position but it seems that some punters do not. 

 

An FR (111890) was recently published for a WG I have seen a few times where the writer seems to get off on how aggressive he was during anal. I was a bit upset when I read it as I do not like to think of her being treated like that. She is a nice girl who made great efforts to ensure I enjoyed my time with her.

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The lady had anal on her list and some reviews mentioned it. So, I did not feel my request was unreasonable. I'm getting to the age where I am thinking it will all be over soon so I may as well try everything before it is too late. I better book myself in for Chloe's little life lesson on huge things up bottoms Then !!! (laughing)

 

Haha...are you really sure you want that? I have anal on my list of likes too, but I dont like it if he willy is so big it hurts going in. x

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I totally understand and respect this position but it seems that some punters do not. 

 

An FR (111890) was recently published for a WG I have seen a few times where the writer seems to get off on how aggressive he was during anal. I was a bit upset when I read it as I do not like to think of her being treated like that. She is a nice girl who made great efforts to ensure I enjoyed my time with her.

 

If she was unhappy she should do a rebuttal and if she was hurt she should put his details on the dangerous punters list on this and every other website out there. Its guys like that who give punters a bad name.

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I totally understand and respect this position but it seems that some punters do not. 

 

An FR (111890) was recently published for a WG I have seen a few times where the writer seems to get off on how aggressive he was during anal. I was a bit upset when I read it as I do not like to think of her being treated like that. She is a nice girl who made great efforts to ensure I enjoyed my time with her.

 

Jeezus I just read that review. Its disgusting the way he has worded it. Im tending to feel that as she winced each time he put it in the moans he took for pleasure were possibly pain. Next time you see her ask her about it, if she wasnt happy with the booking you should report to G because if she didnt want that treatment a review like that will encourage others to treat her the same way. She may have been totally happy with the booking  though so who knows, some girls do like bigguns up the bum.

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Jeezus I just read that review. Its disgusting the way he has worded it. Im tending to feel that as she winced each time he put it in the moans he took for pleasure were possibly pain. Next time you see her ask her about it, if she wasnt happy with the booking you should report to G because if she didnt want that treatment a review like that will encourage others to treat her the same way. She may have been totally happy with the booking  though so who knows, some girls do like bigguns up the bum.

 

Ive come across quite a few FRs where it sounds over the top. Whether its all perfectly fine and its just poetic license I dont know...

 

But after reading FRs like this one http://www.punternet.com/frs/fr_view.php?recnum=111835  I cant help but feel is it any wonder some WGs get jaded? Even if she was perfectly fine with it, other punters while assume they can do the same.....

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Ive come across quite a few FRs where it sounds over the top. Whether its all perfectly fine and its just poetic license I dont know...

 

But after reading FRs like this one http://www.punternet.com/frs/fr_view.php?recnum=111835  I cant help but feel is it any wonder some WGs get jaded? Even if she was perfectly fine with it, other punters while assume they can do the same.....

He has three reviews and they all read in a similar way.  Some guys think like him and will treat ladies like a piece of meat to fuck.  I try hard to convey the message that I like mutual fun as I do not enjoy having my head held while the guy fucks my mouth and attempts to shove his cock all the way in and make me wretch (also make me feel wretched)..........  this is not fun and not pleasant.  Note he mentions he is good looking too so the review is all about him and his enjoyment really.    Nothing wrong with that - except it's his attitude and his mindset.  In between punts I bet he watches porn and eats quavers.  ( yellow cock syndrome:)

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Yesterday I was refused anal after being told I was too big. Many girls have told me this before so I was used to it. However, this was the second time seeing the lady so she already knew my size, and I had mentioned when booking I'd like some anal fun and she said yes then, so I was disappointed to say the least that she said no when we were actually together. However, I wasn't going to make her keep to her agreement, a no is a no. 

 

At the end as I was dressing I noticed the donation was still in my back pocket and she had left the room to freshen up. I had to tell her I left it on the bed side table.

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