lancelot

When A Cup Of Coffee Is Too Much Trouble.

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Somone who I have seen 4 times always asks me when i arrive if I want a coffee. I always say no. (1 hour slot). On my last (4th) visit I said no - but as I had finished what I wanted out of the session and seeing as I had 15 minutes left - I did ask politely if I could take her up on the offer. That is the first time I ever saw her look at the clock. Oh well, i suppose you have 15 minutes. She dashed off to the kitchen and came back with one coffee - which I had standing by the bed. I had at least expected we might sit down and chat for those 10 minutes but i drank up and left quickly. Talk about hospitality.

 

Now I don't feel like going back!

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Manners on both sides are to be expected, she might have been in a rush, but if she was she could have said something,

 

When you buils up a rappour as you must have did as it was your 4th booking with escort, its sad to see something that does not please, but you are right to walk away from the escort, maybe an e-mail or text to her saying why is your next course of action, and see what she replies.

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Just puts the lady's attitude into perspective: youv'e paid your money, youv'e had the service and now go.

A bit like paying for your shopping in the supermarket. Next customer please.

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I think my point was that I was under the illusion that we had a good rapport and I thought it was a bit shoddy that she did not make me feel welcome in those 15 minutes. It was that look at the clock and comment about my remaining time which I thought was insensitive. I watch the clock myself and take care.

I usually use the entire hour so this issue did not arise before but now I know what my value as a customer is I shant go again.

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Even if its someone your seeing for the first time she should have said yes. Easy (lets admit this now) to check your phone or another clock once you have left the room if you really feel the need too. Even if time was up a cup of coffee only takes minutes to make and not that long to drink.

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It doesn't sound great to me and I would feel the same way as you had the shoe been on the other foot.  Admittedly I may have put a drop of cold water in it, so you didn't have to wait for it to cool down before drinking, but I'd certainly have been relaxed (in your time) and continued chatting with you on the bed or wherever was most comfortable until your time was over.  There is no rush to be had in *your time*, so no excuses there.

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Somone who I have seen 4 times always asks me when i arrive if I want a coffee. I always say no. (1 hour slot). On my last (4th) visit I said no - but as I had finished what I wanted out of the session and seeing as I had 15 minutes left - I did ask politely if I could take her up on the offer. That is the first time I ever saw her look at the clock. Oh well, i suppose you have 15 minutes. She dashed off to the kitchen and came back with one coffee - which I had standing by the bed. I had at least expected we might sit down and chat for those 10 minutes but i drank up and left quickly. Talk about hospitality.

 

Now I don't feel like going back!

 

Then don't! :)

 

This is poor service. Don't reward it.

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Somone who I have seen 4 times always asks me when i arrive if I want a coffee. I always say no. (1 hour slot). On my last (4th) visit I said no - but as I had finished what I wanted out of the session and seeing as I had 15 minutes left - I did ask politely if I could take her up on the offer. That is the first time I ever saw her look at the clock. Oh well, i suppose you have 15 minutes. She dashed off to the kitchen and came back with one coffee - which I had standing by the bed. I had at least expected we might sit down and chat for those 10 minutes but i drank up and left quickly. Talk about hospitality.

 

Now I don't feel like going back!

This made me smile (but it should not have)

 

The mere fact that she only made one cup of coffee and you had to drink it standing by the bed is a good indicator that you asked for too damn much!

 

LOL

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This made me smile (but it should not have)

 

The mere fact that she only made one cup of coffee and you had to drink it standing by the bed is a good indicator that you asked for too damn much!

 

LOL

Yes - it seems a friendly cup of coffee and chat with a regular client during my paid time was not on her list of likes.

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The cynic in me thinks that the coffee is offered at the start of the punt as a means of reducing the available time for sex.

 

It somewhat loses its effectiveness once the main event has concluded.

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The cynic in me thinks that the coffee is offered at the start of the punt as a means of reducing the available time for sex.

 

It somewhat loses its effectiveness once the main event has concluded.

 

My kettle is hot before they arrive if I know a chap likes a drink and on the bedside by the time they come out of the bathroom.  Some drink straight away, but mostly it gets cold or just right for half time.  Most guys ask for water though.

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My kettle is hot before they arrive if I know a chap likes a drink and on the bedside by the time they come out of the bathroom.  Some drink straight away, but mostly it gets cold or just right for half time.  Most guys ask for water though.

 

water is good.  main thing is it costs nowt so if it doesnt get drunk no0one cares.

 

but i like water after. helps recovery!

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I generally accept the offer of a coffee, but, 99 times out of 100, it gets put on the bedside table, and is cold by the time I get around to drinking it.

 

I am appalled at her behaviour. She could have taken a look at the clock in the kitchen while making the coffee. If she was running back to back bookings that is also her fault for not leaving sufficient time for a wind down and a clean up before you left.

 

I cannot believe that she thought so little of you after 4 meetings that she would give you the bum's rush. Do not return.

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water is good.  main thing is it costs nowt so if it doesnt get drunk no0one cares.

 

but i like water after. helps recovery!

I bought a water purifier for my apartment and the refills are not cheap, so not free in my gaff, but I like to look after my guests :)

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The cynic in me thinks that the coffee is offered at the start of the punt as a means of reducing the available time for sex.

 

It somewhat loses its effectiveness once the main event has concluded.

 

I totally agree.  This was OPs paid for time so WG should have been more accommodating whether in a hurry or not.  If he had "gone for another round" then she would have still been there.  Cant understand why she had a problem with making the coffee unless she really just wanted shot of the client.

 

Not good working ethics by any manner of means.

 

I would also be giving a wide berth too, she does not deserve your custom.  There are many WGs about who will.

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but i like water after. helps recovery!

 

 

Ditto! :)

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I normally offer a glass of water or a glass of juice and go get it when popping the money into my kitchen.Or I'll get them a drink while they have a shower at the beginning.Would have no problems making a hot drink at half time or near the end.I think this lady sounds rude and hasn't grasped the meaning of customer care!

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I normally offer a glass of water or a glass of juice and go get it when popping the money into my kitchen.Or I'll get them a drink while they have a shower at the beginning.Would have no problems making a hot drink at half time or near the end.I think this lady sounds rude and hasn't grasped the meaning of customer care!

 

 

While Bibi, on the other hand, has grasped it exactly

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I hope I haven't done her an injustice as I had been quite happy up until that point. Maybe things upset me that shouldn't have - like not being invited out of the bedroom into another area of the flat (she never seemed to mind which room we went into at the start of the meet) - her coming back with one coffee and standing with folded arms waiting for me to drink it. I think it was the phrase "I suppose you have 15 minutes left" which I thought was less than courteous.

 

I think given that I had become a regular - I expected something that probably should never be taken for granted in these situations - a more casual less business like approach. I never overstayed the hour previosly and I would never have suggested a drink if there was just 5 minutes to go. 15 minutes is enough time to wind down and have a few laughs over a coffee. I expect it's all down to the provider which I accept - but it does not change my intention not to return.

 

Foreign by the way - but i suppose that is not relevant.

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Foreign by the way - but i suppose that is not relevant.

unless there was some misunderstanding due to English being he second language?

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unless there was some misunderstanding due to English being he second language?

Her English is par excellence.

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I wouldn't call 5 times "regular". I'm currently approaching 150 with my favourite girl (and Paris did make me a cup of tea for the early morning bookings - we had an arrangement, I brought the milk and donuts, she provided the tea............and pussy ;) ).

Edited by raylondoner

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Maybe you should of asked for a cup of tea  ;)

I get amazed to read some threads on here at times about how some punts go for you guys.

Her comments are not going to get you rushing back now, how ever good she is sexually with you.

It bought it all home I suppose that you are just the paying customer who had received what he came there for and that was that, job done, goodbye to you and shut the door on your way out!

Not good customer service at all.

 

Lucy  :)

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I have read this thread several times as it is subject matter that does interest me greatly.   I am not someone who arrives, blasts away for 57 minutes, and then dresses and leaves.   We all know, whichever side of the fence you're on,  that it is only a business transaction no matter how well you get on together but that doesn't mean that you can't be friendly.   I have been offered a cup of coffee only twice at the start of a visit and as it happens both were 2 hour bookings.   One of them was from a very nice, instantly sociable, full on the lips lady and was very welcome.   It occupied about 10 minutes of the time before it was drunk and we weren't sat at opposite ends of the room whilst I was drinking it.   The actual visit was very very nice and I went back for seconds a few weeks later.    The other booking was the exact opposite.   It was a good job it was during the summer because there was noyjing warming about it.   The coffee was offered and delivered similar to when you go for a job interview and have to wait in the reception area.   I would go so far as to say that the coffee was the best thing about being there.   Knowing that there would be no refund I kept hoping that things would improve but unfortunately not.    Another one down to experience. 

 

It wouldn't happen now.   If I am now on a first visit I am quite prepared to hang on to the cash for 5 minutes until I'm sure that I am happy with proceedings.   I would hope that no genuine lady would object to that.   As well as that I am also now prepared, which I wouldn't have done a few months ago, to turn and leave even though in my case it would probably mean at least 2 hours drive home.    I'd rather waste half a day plus petrol than a full day plus petrol together with the lady's fee and my dissatisfaction.

 

Lancelot paid for an hour.    Now as I see it, unless he asked the lady to do something outlandish etc., that hour was his to do with as he wished.   If he wanted to spend 30 minutes on the naughty stuff and 30 minutes reading his paper then that was up to him.   But that wouldn't mean that she could start doing her weekly laundry or go to the supermarket shopping.    As long as he was reasonable in his behaviour then his money had bought her time for an hour.    That does not mean that he was entitled to a cup of coffee.   If it's offered that's fine but if not you can't ask in my opinion.

 

As for leaving an FR that's another problem.    If you leave a poor FR on AW then the lady does not have to display it.   if you just leave a few words then she would no doubt put a rebuttal which you, of course, have no answer to.    You can put an FR on here but really it's the guys looking at AW that you want to warn.

 

I don't expect 45 minutes for my money.   I don't expect 75 minutes.   I expect 60 minutes of the lady's attention.   If she has to rush around after I'm gone as if her a**e is on fire because she has someone else ariving then that's her problem.    Time management is important when you are in business.   If I want to leave after 45 minutes then that's up to me and likewise if she runs over by 15 minutes that's up to her.   No complaints and no expectations.

 

I can think of at least a couple of ladies who I have seen more than twice that, at the back of my mind, I wish would invite me to stay for a few minutes for a coffee and a chat but I would never suggest it to them.  If it happens then it happens and I will be delighted but I don't think any the less of them for not offering whether it is a conscious thought on their part or not.

 

If a lady behaves in a discourteous manner towards me then I wouldn't be going back no matter how good her other skills were and I'm glad that Lancelot feels the same.   Putting it bluntly none of the ladies that I have seen would really be bothered if I never went back because as the saying goes "plenty more fish in the sea" and the same applies to us gentlemen.   There are far too many genuine ladies and gentlemen out there to bother worrying about the bad ones.

 

It does of couse hurt more when you think you have built up a rapport with the other person be they man or woman.

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I believe, a few years ago, the airlines and some other large organisations suddenly became aware of the simple fact that it cost less to appease a disgruntled customer, than it did to recruit a new customer to replace him or her.

 

I have no idea whether this has any relevence in the punting context.  Does anyone?

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