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The Starfish!

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After just reading a post where the poster said he had fond memories of spending time with a wg who was a 'starfish' it made me realise that I had a different opinion on the word depending on if it is the male or the female adopting it.

 

If a man adopts the 'starfish' pose, I think he is looking to have all the attention lavished on him.  This could be because he is wanting to treat himself, as usually he is very giving or it could be because he doesn't give a toss about the women, as he's paid his money and will have what he wants.  it could also be inexperience. 

 

However, if a woman adopts the startish pose, my automatic thought was that she didn't really want to be there (as an Escort).  I'm guessing this is me being rather cynical, so am I?  What are your thoughts on differences?

 

I suppose I assume the man does want to be there, as he paid for the experience, so that isn't a consideration in my thought process, whereas she (I would have thought) would be more involved if she was happy to be there?

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What if the client is returning a massage and the girl lies "starfish".  When getting massaged for me it is the most relaxed position to be.

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I thought this was going to be a thread anuses. 

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I also was expecting to hear about the chocolate starfish...

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What if the client is returning a massage and the girl lies "starfish".  When getting massaged for me it is the most relaxed position to be.

 

Sorry I'm thinking starfish through the whole booking, not just a part of it where it might be appropriate for purpose.

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I thought this was going to be a thread anuses. 

 

I had to look that up... I wish I hadn't :wacko: I'm so innocent! :huh:

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Well I would think if the guy is lying starfish then he is wanting pampered and why not, that after all is what he paid for.

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Well I would think if the guy is lying starfish then he is wanting pampered and why not, that after all is what he paid for.

I agree, but what if it is the working girl?

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Hi Kate

 

I can guess you are referring to my recent post, so maybe I should add the background info.

 

The starfish concerned was a Thai girl working in a massage parlour in Koh Samui.  The parlour wasn't clearly identifiable as offering erotic services, but I just asked on the off chance.  There were two girls present and I asked one, whose name I established was Pen, if she would offer a 'special'.

 

The girl didn't come across as remotely used to providing an erotic service, although to be clear at no time did I get any indication that she didn't want to provide the service or was unhappy. 

 

However, she had to ask her friend for help in respect of where to take me, where are any condoms etc.  All this in Thai, and between us we had almost no language in common. 

 

Further, just when we were getting started the friend walked straight into the back room where we were making ourselves comfortable just as I was removing Pen's top, and she (Pen) was completely mortified by this (which I have to say I found immensely cute).  

 

From time to time Pen would offer me the sweetest smile, which went a long way to telling me that she was comfortable being with me.

 

Throughout the service she completely lacked any initiative, although she still went along with whatever I wanted and on the odd occasion would repeat that enchanting smile.  She didn't return kisses and only laid a hand on my member when I guided her hand towards it, although once placed there she was happy to offer some stimulation with it. 

 

The contradictions continued as when I put my hand between her legs I could tell she was completely turned on, but at the same time, she lay relatively reactionless throughout the sex. 

 

Between r1 and r2 she seemed not to have a clue as to how to handle herself without my specific guidance but moving to r2 in lying down doggy I was once again met by that cutest of smiles.

 

I loved this punt, but was she a starfish?  Undoubtedly.  You may have to draw your own conclusions as to how you might feel in the same situation.

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Hi Kate

 

I can guess you are referring to my recent post, so maybe I should add the background info.

 

The starfish concerned was a Thai girl working in a massage parlour in Koh Samui.  The parlour wasn't clearly identifiable as offering erotic services, but I just asked on the off chance.  There were two girls present and I asked one, whose name I established was Pen, if she would offer a 'special'.

 

The girl didn't come across as remotely used to providing an erotic service, although to be clear at no time did I get any indication that she didn't want to provide the service or was unhappy. 

 

However, she had to ask her friend for help in respect of where to take me, where are any condoms etc.  All this in Thai, and between us we had almost no language in common. 

 

Further, just when we were getting started the friend walked straight into the back room where we were making ourselves comfortable just as I was removing Pen's top, and she (Pen) was completely mortified by this (which I have to say I found immensely cute).  

 

From time to time Pen would offer me the sweetest smile, which went a long way to telling me that she was comfortable being with me.

 

Throughout the service she completely lacked any initiative, although she still went along with whatever I wanted and on the odd occasion would repeat that enchanting smile.  She didn't return kisses and only laid a hand on my member when I guided her hand towards it, although once placed there she was happy to offer some stimulation with it. 

 

The contradictions continued as when I put my hand between her legs I could tell she was completely turned on, but at the same time, she lay relatively reactionless throughout the sex. 

 

Between r1 and r2 she seemed not to have a clue as to how to handle herself without my specific guidance but moving to r2 in lying down doggy I was once again met by that cutest of smiles.

 

I loved this punt, but was she a starfish?  Undoubtedly.  You may have to draw your own conclusions as to how you might feel in the same situation.

 

Hmmm... I think I would put that down to inexperience then, which is a consideration I had for the guys, but not for the girls.  I can buy that though.  Thanks for the explanation.  There is something endearing about innocence when the experience is being offered and not taken.

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I too thought this was going to be a thread about butt holes.

 

I met a girl who was a starfish. I didn't like it. She was new in the business and as far as she was concerned it was what men wanted, use her to get themselves off. She didn't want to cum with clients, she had no interest in enjoying herself, she was there for the money. She said what she enjoys most is the chats after it's over. It didn't make me feel good. I'd much rather meet a lady who wants to enjoy the time together as much as me, and does have an interest in meeting her needs as well as mine.

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Hi Kate

 

I can guess you are referring to my recent post, so maybe I should add the background info.

 

The starfish concerned was a Thai girl working in a massage parlour in Koh Samui.  The parlour wasn't clearly identifiable as offering erotic services, but I just asked on the off chance.  There were two girls present and I asked one, whose name I established was Pen, if she would offer a 'special'.

 

The girl didn't come across as remotely used to providing an erotic service, although to be clear at no time did I get any indication that she didn't want to provide the service or was unhappy. 

 

However, she had to ask her friend for help in respect of where to take me, where are any condoms etc.  All this in Thai, and between us we had almost no language in common. 

 

Further, just when we were getting started the friend walked straight into the back room where we were making ourselves comfortable just as I was removing Pen's top, and she (Pen) was completely mortified by this (which I have to say I found immensely cute).  

 

From time to time Pen would offer me the sweetest smile, which went a long way to telling me that she was comfortable being with me.

 

Throughout the service she completely lacked any initiative, although she still went along with whatever I wanted and on the odd occasion would repeat that enchanting smile.  She didn't return kisses and only laid a hand on my member when I guided her hand towards it, although once placed there she was happy to offer some stimulation with it. 

 

The contradictions continued as when I put my hand between her legs I could tell she was completely turned on, but at the same time, she lay relatively reactionless throughout the sex. 

 

Between r1 and r2 she seemed not to have a clue as to how to handle herself without my specific guidance but moving to r2 in lying down doggy I was once again met by that cutest of smiles.

 

I loved this punt, but was she a starfish?  Undoubtedly.  You may have to draw your own conclusions as to how you might feel in the same situation.

 

I'd be mightily uncomfortable and very disappointed

If theres any hint that I'm coercing someone into doing something that they dont really want to do then I may as well call a halt to all proceedings right then and there (not that I'm implying that was the case in your example, I wasnt there, but thats how I'd personally feel if i was in a similar situation)

 

I always want a girl who really knows what she's doing, is experienced and happy to 'take charge', a very willing, and very eager, and at least as equally active as I am, participant, mildly dominant even, is what really does it for me

Edited by BillGoldberg

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Hi Kate

 

I can guess you are referring to my recent post, so maybe I should add the background info.

 

The starfish concerned was a Thai girl working in a massage parlour in Koh Samui.  The parlour wasn't clearly identifiable as offering erotic services, but I just asked on the off chance.  There were two girls present and I asked one, whose name I established was Pen, if she would offer a 'special'.

 

The girl didn't come across as remotely used to providing an erotic service, although to be clear at no time did I get any indication that she didn't want to provide the service or was unhappy. 

 

However, she had to ask her friend for help in respect of where to take me, where are any condoms etc.  All this in Thai, and between us we had almost no language in common. 

 

Further, just when we were getting started the friend walked straight into the back room where we were making ourselves comfortable just as I was removing Pen's top, and she (Pen) was completely mortified by this (which I have to say I found immensely cute).  

 

From time to time Pen would offer me the sweetest smile, which went a long way to telling me that she was comfortable being with me.

 

Throughout the service she completely lacked any initiative, although she still went along with whatever I wanted and on the odd occasion would repeat that enchanting smile.  She didn't return kisses and only laid a hand on my member when I guided her hand towards it, although once placed there she was happy to offer some stimulation with it. 

 

The contradictions continued as when I put my hand between her legs I could tell she was completely turned on, but at the same time, she lay relatively reactionless throughout the sex. 

 

Between r1 and r2 she seemed not to have a clue as to how to handle herself without my specific guidance but moving to r2 in lying down doggy I was once again met by that cutest of smiles.

 

I loved this punt, but was she a starfish?  Undoubtedly.  You may have to draw your own conclusions as to how you might feel in the same situation.

 

 

  and if you paid her more than 500 bht for that you got stung ! 

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What literally a starfish legs out arms straight out to side?  Who does that?

 

The first couple of times I was nervous I just lay down didn´t chat and expected them to initiate everything but no stupid pose!

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Ah, I´m up to date now.  We used to call it potato-sack when we were kids.

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I also was expecting to hear about the chocolate starfish...

I fondly remember trying to get rid of my chocolate starfish with bleach and did myself a mischief @)

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What literally a starfish legs out arms straight out to side?  Who does that?

 

The first couple of times I was nervous I just lay down didn´t chat and expected them to initiate everything but no stupid pose!

I've had 2 clients do it during my time Escorting.  The first one was issuing instructions at the same time and the 2nd one was almost in a coma, as he had not slept all night and had a hangover.  I didn't really enjoy it with the first one, but the second one was quite young and fit and I imagine he would be ok if he was awake lol.

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I fondly remember trying to get rid of my chocolate starfish with bleach and did myself a mischief @)

ouch! bleach and skin, especially sensitive skin, rarely compliment each other :eek:

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The chocolate star.

 

OR a new one I learned about recently but it's been kicking about for a number of years...

 

The Balloon Knot.

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The chocolate star.

 

OR a new one I learned about recently but it's been kicking about for a number of years...

 

The Balloon Knot.

never heard it called that before either, but I can see the resemblance.

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<blockquote class='ipsBlockquote'data-author="Sarah Summers" data-cid="474016" data-time="1357482907"><p>

I fondly remember trying to get rid of my chocolate starfish with bleach and did myself a mischief @)</p></blockquote>

Ouch! Hope it didn't do too much harm and soooo unnecessary. A lady's dark bum hole is sooo beautiful

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