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Hi all,
 
I'm a newbie but I've been lurking on this forum a while and decided that I'm going to build up the courage to make my first punt in the next couple of weeks.
 
I had a few questions though and would really appreciate answers/advice from those of you who have been before:
 
1) I want to book an incall through a reputable agency, but what is the exact procedure? Do I/they need to confirm on the day? When do I know the address etc?
 
2) When I arrive what is the etiquette? Does she ask what I want or do I just tell her? To be honest as it's my first time I don't really have any preferences or expectations to what is done, I just want to have an enjoyable experience, is it okay to just ask to go with the flow and not specify anything beforehand?
 
3) Is it likely when I arrive I will bump into house mates? No problem with them being in other rooms of the flat/house but would rather not see them and have an awkward "hi.. errr" conversation!
 
4) I've noticed on some other threads people are warning not to as questions that are too personal. What conversation topics are typical and what are "too personal"? Is asking open questions like "so tell me about yourself" better because it leaves it for her to decide what she wants to disclose?
 
5) Any other tips for 1st time?

Thanks guys!

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Pretty new to this myself. Took me a long time to make that first call - but after the first one I realised just how easy it is.

I researched many agencies for my first one - and despite the advice I'd read here - I made the elementary mistake of not checking what was definitely on offer (despite what the website said) - and ended up having to pay extra for kissing - which for me is most important. So going with the flow is fine - but make sure you confirm in advance anything that you definitely want.

You'll usually have to phone to confirm the meeting then they'll text you the address.

After one agency encounter I started researching indies - and using the purple site - and have had some great experiences since. Being able to talk to the girl in advance and talking about what I want - seems a lot better than just talking to the agency receptionist.

In the less than a dozen meetings I've had I've never been anywhere where there was anyone else at the venue.

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I would for a first time pick a girl with a good and willing service attitude!  so Sexyparisstripper (expensive but great) or go to a Thai Girl...

 

For a TG use 007escorts or Invaision escorts co uk (with dots inbetween) ---- all are good providers if you believe the reviews. I have tried a few girls here and my favourites are Zizzi and Pamela. Very good service - they will do almost anything !! and if you just follow what they do as a default you will have a good time.

 

Not forgetting when going Thai add 6-8 years to their stated age and you will be nearer the truth (they still look young and fit though!) ..

 

Happy punting...

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I don't use agencies as I like to know who I will be meeting. There are plenty of indies both here and on AW, many of who state on their web sites that they welcome newbies. Pick one and talk to her on the phone. Tell her the truth and if she sounds receptive make a booking. This will probably be 2/3 days ahead.

 

You will be asked to confirm by phone, usually before 10.00 on the day in question. At that time you will be given a post code, or approximate location with instructions to call 5 mins before your date for the final location.

 

Turn up clean, tidily dressed, teeth sparkling etc and with your money, carefully counted out, in an envelope. Most indies work alone and there is minimal chance of meeting a house mate etc.

 

Ring the bell and enter when the door opens. You will be nervous but a good escort will put you at your ease. Hand over the envelope, and don't be offended if she counts it in front of you.

 

Since you are new suggest that she makes the running for your first time and let her lead you into the delights of paid for sex.

 

As for topics of conversation these can extend to holidays, favourite foods, places you have visited etc. In fact, any of the topics you would discuss with a potential GF on a first date.

 

Finally book for an hour and hope to have 2 pops. That way the first one will be fast, due to the adrenaline, but the second will be more relaxed and more fun!

 

Good luck.

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Thanks very much for the replies; they're really helpful and allow me to understand what to expect far better! Any other opinions would be much appreciated too.


Thanks!

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I don't use agencies as I like to know who I will be meeting.

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I don't know what agency you used P, but I always know exactly who I am getting when I have chosen an agency girl.  This is mainly due to their profiles, including services, generally being clearly on display on the website.

 

Some agencies don't really want you to book in advance and tell you to call back on the day.  Some do.  If you're in London, try Top Secret Escorts if you're booking in advance.  They don't care how long in advance you're booking.  You will always need to re-confirm on the day however.  On the day, you will get a text to confirm where you are going.

 

Before you go, make sure you are clean.  A small quantity of breath freshener for use just before you arrive, can be sensible.

 

When you arrive at an incall things will generally take the following course:

- girl quietly opens door, often standing just behind it so that you only really see her when you walk through (mainly cos she's often not wearing too much).

- exchange of hellos, and a kiss on the cheek is appropriate.

- girl leads you to her bedroom (other flat mates will generally also be WGs and will know to keep out of the way)

- girl will soon ask you if you want a shower.  TAKE THE SHOWER!  It doesn't really matter that you just had a shower 1/2 an hour earlier.  She will invariably provide nicer services if you have spent time in her shower.  Full stop.

- confirm the length of booking and pay up. Don't pay up at the door, but in her bedroom. It should be discrete. If she counts it in front of you, this is for your benefit too.

- if you are uncomfortable heading straight for the shower, agree to the shower, but ask if you can get to know her a bit first.  I suggest getting to know the girl should consist of a smooch and a cuddle (much more interesting than a chat).  She will probably offer you a drink.  Beware that requests for cappucino, Latte or any other hot beverage may mean she disappears for a long while.  I had a girl disappear for 5 mins just cos I asked for water!!

- Agency girls will disappear off for a little while anyway as they will always text the agency to confirm that you have turned up and how long you intend to stay.

- TAKE THE SHOWER!  She will lead you to this and offer you a towel.  If you don't want to instantly be naked after the shower, just wrap the towel round yourself when done, then re-join her in the room.  She won't be wearing too many clothes herself, but if she is they won't be staying on long.

- she may ask you what you want.  You can either be explicit, or just tell her you'll go with the flow, depending upon whether you really have any specific desires.

- move in.  You've paid your money and you both know why you're there.  Conversations can kill the mood and can lead you off on tangents from where you want to be going.  Get your lips on her, followed by your hands. Followed by...

- You will be offered another shower before you go.  If you have an OH, a shower is sensible.  Otherwise it is quite pleasant to spend the rest of the day with the smell of beautiful girl lingering on you to help you reminisce post event.

- beware the fact that you may have a problem removing the smile from your face for the rest of the day.  Whistling and humming to yourself may also occur.  Any and all of these can give rise to questions from your OH, if you have one.

Enjoy.

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Prepare yourself as though you are going on a date: shave, clean teeth, shower. (don't drench yourself in aftershave tho).

You will be ridiculously nervous as you approach the punt. This is normal.

Once you get started the nerves will vanish.

 

If you visit a parlour you will usually be met at the door by the receptionist and shown into a bedroom. After a couple of minutes the varous girls will come in one at a time for a very short visit, a quick hello and a peck on the cheek. The receptionist will return and you tell her which girl you want to see. The girl returns to the room and you agree what service you want. This is usually half hour, hour, etc. You can also make any specific requests at this time. I'm very tactile and love DFK so I always explain to the girl that I want to touch/kiss her and make sure she is happy with this. Pay the money in cash. An envelope is not necessary. Girl will leave the room. Now is the time to remove clothes shoes etc. Girl may appear to be away for ages (it sometimes feels like ages!). When she returns you are already mostly undressed and she won't be wearing much, so it's easy to go for a hug and a kiss to get started. Most parlours offer massage, which I usually decline as It's often a feeble waste of time and I don't want to end up smelling of baby oil (OH would spot it straight away). But it is entirely up to you, the session is yours to enjoy, take it at your own speed and enjoy yourself. As said above, a good punt will leave you with a silly grin for the rest of the day!

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Independant escorts are the best option as you can talk to them before you make the booking,that way it is possible to get some sense of the ladies personality.

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Independant escorts are the best option as you can talk to them before you make the booking,that way it is possible to get some sense of the ladies personality.

 

Maybe so, but he does state in point 1 of his post that he wants to book an incall through a reputable agency.

 

Personally, I think he would be better off seeing a very reputable escort with high feedback as she will almost certainly be experienced with newbies and perhaps have her own methods of easing him through his nerves.

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Hi all,
 
I'm a newbie but I've been lurking on this forum a while and decided that I'm going to build up the courage to make my first punt in the next couple of weeks.
 
I had a few questions though and would really appreciate answers/advice from those of you who have been before:
 
1) I want to book an incall through a reputable agency, but what is the exact procedure? Do I/they need to confirm on the day? When do I know the address etc?
 
2) When I arrive what is the etiquette? Does she ask what I want or do I just tell her? To be honest as it's my first time I don't really have any preferences or expectations to what is done, I just want to have an enjoyable experience, is it okay to just ask to go with the flow and not specify anything beforehand?
 
3) Is it likely when I arrive I will bump into house mates? No problem with them being in other rooms of the flat/house but would rather not see them and have an awkward "hi.. errr" conversation!
 
4) I've noticed on some other threads people are warning not to as questions that are too personal. What conversation topics are typical and what are "too personal"? Is asking open questions like "so tell me about yourself" better because it leaves it for her to decide what she wants to disclose?
 
5) Any other tips for 1st time?

Thanks guys!

Relax!

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Thanks again to everyone who has given their 2 cents. 

I am certainly aware of the advantages of going through AW/independents in terms of prior-communication etc. For me though, as it's my first time, I'd quite like the feeling of (relative) absolute security by booking through an agency.

 

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@Thurson  I have never used an agency. Just my preferred modus operandi. Everything else you say is good.

 

@Slimguy  I don't think the OP would be happy in a parlour.

 

@OP Take the advice offered and enjoy yourself.

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Thanks again to everyone who has given their 2 cents. 

I am certainly aware of the advantages of going through AW/independents in terms of prior-communication etc. For me though, as it's my first time, I'd quite like the feeling of (relative) absolute security by booking through an agency.

 

What kind of security are you expecting the agency to offer?

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I would tell who ever you decide to meet up with that you are an escort virgin as well.

I like to know these things so possibly other ladies may do as well.

It may be best if she takes the lead.

Chill ou and just go with the flow, and you will leave her place with a spring in your step an a smile on your face.

 

Lucy  :)

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What kind of security are you expecting the agency to offer?

 

I am a newbie, as I said, but from reading other threads I get the impression advantages of a *REPUTABLE* agency are:

- Ability to organise quick appointments if the first choice girl has to unexpectedly cancel at short notice

- A point of contact if things go wrong (which may/may not result in anything actually being done about it though)

- Knowing they have a good reputation with many girls that they would not want to jeopardise with a bad appointment

- I'm looking at Central London and believe agencies offer more central and convenient locations than independents (which I'm willing to pay a premium for)

 

I do understand the advantages of independents and would certainly look into for 2nd/3rd time...

 

Thanks once again to everyone who has given their advice and I really appreciate it

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Thanks once again to everyone who has given their advice and I really appreciate it

That's good to see. Now make a booking and have a ball. Then, after you have come down off cloud 9, submit a FR so we can all see how well you got on.

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I am a newbie, as I said, but from reading other threads I get the impression advantages of a *REPUTABLE* agency are:

- Ability to organise quick appointments if the first choice girl has to unexpectedly cancel at short notice

- A point of contact if things go wrong (which may/may not result in anything actually being done about it though)

- Knowing they have a good reputation with many girls that they would not want to jeopardise with a bad appointment

- I'm looking at Central London and believe agencies offer more central and convenient locations than independents (which I'm willing to pay a premium for)

 

I do understand the advantages of independents and would certainly look into for 2nd/3rd time...

 

Thanks once again to everyone who has given their advice and I really appreciate it

 

That is very level-headed. I think one of the good London agencies should deliver what you are looking for just now. Have a good one!

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Take a look at the field reports from London and see if you can find an agency that keeps on popping up; that will be a decent one for you to start with. Anywhere with quite a few reports will be reliable by definition.

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Hello all,

 

Yet another newbie here - although I did once get a completely over priced handjob in Germany once!

 

I think somebody may have already asked but what's the typical rate for 'going all the way' around the Guildford area?  Agencies seem to be a bit elusive as to the cost on their sites.

 

Apologies if I've broken any protocols asking :)

 

Thanks all

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£150 for an hour is a fairly typical.

 

I recommend looking into independents as well as agencies.  AdultWork is the Amazon of escorting services.  You'll see deals all the way from £50 for a 15minute  quickie to many hundreds, if not thousands for overnighters, and everything inbetween.

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Hello all,

 

Yet another newbie here - although I did once get a completely over priced handjob in Germany once!

 

I think somebody may have already asked but what's the typical rate for 'going all the way' around the Guildford area?  Agencies seem to be a bit elusive as to the cost on their sites.

 

Apologies if I've broken any protocols asking :)

 

Thanks all

It will depend somewhat on what you want 99Flake, plus also, I am not sure that Guildford is prime punting ground is it?

 

A local monger may be available really cheap, but otherwise somewhere between £80 and £200 ph may be appropriate.

 

It's only a short train journey to London, where a whole punting world opens up for you. :)

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Just to say thanks to the OP because he posted pretty much exactly what I was planning on posting.  And thanks to all the advisors. 

 

I will have my first punt on Tuesday!

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