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ever had that post-punting malaise where the real world just feels insanely mundane and boring? during a punt it's such a feast of sensual stimulation and afterwards the real world is so flavourless

 

overhearing corporate retards excitedly discussing percentages and business deals makes me wonder what planet am i on

 

i don't give a crap about anything anymore except fornicating with really attractive girls as much as possible, to be honest i think i never did but now that i'm punting my dream has become more real and the effects can be pretty devastating to your bearings in life

 

things don't make much sense these days but hey

 

MY DICK IS HAPPY!!!

 

roll on the punting

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I only went back to 'employment' from freelance so I can go back to having threesomes on a weekly basis...sadly, it's pretty much my only reason for working my guts out

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ever had that post-punting malaise where the real world just feels insanely mundane and boring? during a punt it's such a feast of sensual stimulation and afterwards the real world is so flavourless

 

overhearing corporate retards excitedly discussing percentages and business deals makes me wonder what planet am i on

 

i don't give a crap about anything anymore except fornicating with really attractive girls as much as possible, to be honest i think i never did but now that i'm punting my dream has become more real and the effects can be pretty devastating to your bearings in life

 

things don't make much sense these days but hey

 

MY DICK IS HAPPY!!!

 

roll on the punting

good on you! note the lower case reply :)

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I only went back to 'employment' from freelance so I can go back to having threesomes on a weekly basis...sadly, it's pretty much my only reason for working my guts out

Ditto, well done, see above.

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ever had that post-punting malaise where the real world just feels insanely mundane and boring? during a punt it's such a feast of sensual stimulation and afterwards the real world is so flavourless

 

overhearing corporate retards excitedly discussing percentages and business deals makes me wonder what planet am i on

 

i don't give a crap about anything anymore except fornicating with really attractive girls as much as possible, to be honest i think i never did but now that i'm punting my dream has become more real and the effects can be pretty devastating to your bearings in life

 

things don't make much sense these days but hey

 

MY DICK IS HAPPY!!!

 

roll on the punting

Good post Tharg.

 

Since taking up punting last September, my world perspective seems to have gone to hell.

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Pre-punting hobbies seem stale, and I carry on with them in a distracted way, as I contemplate punts gone by, punts arranged, and punts that may yet come to pass.

 

I was worried my Christmas holiday abroad would be ruined by spending all my time only looking forward to punting on my return.  Except that I punted five times during the holiday instead!

 

My focus on work has diminished as my time in front of a pc is taken up by research as to who to punt with next, and then after that, and then...

 

Still, I am smiling a lot more these days. :D

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I feel the same way, you need to find little sources of pleasure to get you through the day. I find having a good breakfast and lunch helps, not taking work too seriously and finding the funny side in all the chaos and madness.

 

Have you tried having lucid dreams? Making love to a beautiful woman knowing it's a dream and doing exactly what you want to her. I try to force myself to bed early to stand a better chance of having a lucid dream.

 

Since punting, I don't enjoy wanking to porn anymore. I treat it like a medical condition, like draining a cyst.  

 

Anyway, having my first punt of the year on Sunday, can't wait! It's been 3 weeks since my last punt and I need a big dose of medicine....and then back to reality Monday morning. 

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I know I'm a WG but I have to disagree about 'normal life' being boring. I've recently gone back to study wile still escorting part-time, and I'm going to study for the highest qualification in my chosen work and will ideally be finished escorting in the next 5 or so years. Don't get me wrong I love escorting, honestly I do, but I do believe for most there is a cut off point and you have to go back and learn how to live in the real world and also follow you're dreams and ambitions before its too late. If someone's passion is for escorting and as a long time career though then that is different. Personally I have always had other ideas and a career path that I want. I know many women do but I also would not being doing this once I'm in a relationship and ready to settle down, but that definitely won't be for a few years yet!

As a punter though if this is what makes you happy then good on you! Just don't let it take over other hobbies and commitments in you're life I'd say.

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For reasons I may divulge over the coming months, I have also only recently started enjoying the delights of the punting scene, and it does help you get through the days, weeks and forthcoming months that would otherwise seem mundane and not worthwhile.  Having still been employed but not actually working for several months, the prospect of returning to the corporate bullshit, endless meetings and mind blowing dull boring people, it’s great to have the escape and adventure of escorts \ WG’s, as real life can be shit sometimes.  First visit of the year arranged for tomorrow, then back to work on Friday!

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We all need to escape from reality once in a while,being in the company of a beautiful and sexy girl even for a short time can be a great relief.

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Good post Tharg.

 

Since taking up punting last September, my world perspective seems to have gone to hell.

No wonder the country is deep in the shit if Thurson has lost the plot.

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I know I'm a WG but I have to disagree about 'normal life' being boring. I've recently gone back to study wile still escorting part-time, and I'm going to study for the highest qualification in my chosen work and will ideally be finished escorting in the next 5 or so years. Don't get me wrong I love escorting, honestly I do, but I do believe for most there is a cut off point and you have to go back and learn how to live in the real world and also follow you're dreams and ambitions before its too late. If someone's passion is for escorting and as a long time career though then that is different. Personally I have always had other ideas and a career path that I want. I know many women do but I also would not being doing this once I'm in a relationship and ready to settle down, but that definitely won't be for a few years yet!

As a punter though if this is what makes you happy then good on you! Just don't let it take over other hobbies and commitments in you're life I'd say.

Good on you --- and the very best of luck!!

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Work to live, and not live to work. Took me over 40 years to get to this staggering conclusion though. :confused:

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In response to the original post, I know what you mean, but I kind of disagree with you as well, as the ideal is to achieve some kind of balance in life.

Punting does undoubtedly offer an incredible high, but it seems a shame if it makes everything else seem grey and meaningless. I don't mean to sound like I'm full of shit, but some of the small everyday stuff in life can be amazing as well : friends, walking, cycling, reading, nature, food, sleep, exercise, and so on. I think we all know that punting can put a real smile on your face, and ideally that mood can enhance the way you look at the rest of life as well. You only live once, so it's worth trying to find the key to being happy : but I do agree on one thing, that corporate bullshit and the mindset that goes with it is a big yawn and best avoided.

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I know I'm a WG but I have to disagree about 'normal life' being boring. I've recently gone back to study wile still escorting part-time, and I'm going to study for the highest qualification in my chosen work and will ideally be finished escorting in the next 5 or so years. Don't get me wrong I love escorting, honestly I do, but I do believe for most there is a cut off point and you have to go back and learn how to live in the real world and also follow you're dreams and ambitions before its too late. If someone's passion is for escorting and as a long time career though then that is different. Personally I have always had other ideas and a career path that I want. I know many women do but I also would not being doing this once I'm in a relationship and ready to settle down, but that definitely won't be for a few years yet!

I suspect it's not as easy as you think, Kylie. Given your declared enjoyment of the job, and, presumably, your fairly high sex drive to go with it, I think you might find it more difficult than you think to turn it off just like that.

 

I’ve known several ladies over the years who have ‘retired’ – maybe as part of a relationship - but subsequently returned, and it’s not just for the money.

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I suspect it's not as easy as you think, Kylie. Given your declared enjoyment of the job, and, presumably, your fairly high sex drive to go with it, I think you might find it more difficult than you think to turn it off just like that.

I’ve known several ladies over the years who have ‘retired’ – maybe as part of a relationship - but subsequently returned, and it’s not just for the money.

I do know where you're coming from as so many escorts never truly leave and say they are giving up only to keep coming back, but that really is something I won't do. I have already happily gone very part-time, even when i was working more in the past I still only wanted to see a couple of guys a day max. I definitely don't want to be doing this when I'm in my 30s, no offence to anyone who is I just hope to be settled down by then and have my other career. Plus like I said I would never do this if I was in a relationship even if the other person accepted it. It's just not me. Edited by MissKylie

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ever had that post-punting malaise where the real world just feels insanely mundane and boring? during a punt it's such a feast of sensual stimulation and afterwards the real world is so flavourless

 

overhearing corporate retards excitedly discussing percentages and business deals makes me wonder what planet am i on

 

i don't give a crap about anything anymore except fornicating with really attractive girls as much as possible, to be honest i think i never did but now that i'm punting my dream has become more real and the effects can be pretty devastating to your bearings in life

 

things don't make much sense these days but hey

 

MY DICK IS HAPPY!!!

 

roll on the punting

 

The honest truth? I find the complete opposite. I punt because it's an easy way to scratch a physical itch that, once every couple of weeks, needs scratching but generally, while I enjoy the punt, "it is what it is" (I mean, I'm not stupid...I'm paying someone for sex...the earth isn't moving). Then, I get out of the punt and go to a job that I love, that's both challenging and massively stimulating (if tiring and demanding) and that frustrations aside, pretty much excites and challenges me every single day. Punting is a bit of fun, but it doesn't come remotely close to offering the rewards that my job does.

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In response to the original post, I know what you mean, but I kind of disagree with you as well, as the ideal is to achieve some kind of balance in life.

Punting does undoubtedly offer an incredible high, but it seems a shame if it makes everything else seem grey and meaningless. I don't mean to sound like I'm full of shit, but some of the small everyday stuff in life can be amazing as well : friends, walking, cycling, reading, nature, food, sleep, exercise, and so on. I think we all know that punting can put a real smile on your face, and ideally that mood can enhance the way you look at the rest of life as well. You only live once, so it's worth trying to find the key to being happy : but I do agree on one thing, that corporate bullshit and the mindset that goes with it is a big yawn and best avoided.

 

 

 

Nice post, very good comments.

 

Lucy  :)

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It's like taking drugs or gambling. High for a short while then low until the next fix. Sooner or later you will fall flat on your face.

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Surely its the adrenaline rush that's doing it. We all need that or some sort of escapism at sometime in our lives don't we?

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In response to the original post, I know what you mean, but I kind of disagree with you as well, as the ideal is to achieve some kind of balance in life.

Punting does undoubtedly offer an incredible high, but it seems a shame if it makes everything else seem grey and meaningless. I don't mean to sound like I'm full of shit, but some of the small everyday stuff in life can be amazing as well : friends, walking, cycling, reading, nature, food, sleep, exercise, and so on. I think we all know that punting can put a real smile on your face, and ideally that mood can enhance the way you look at the rest of life as well. You only live once, so it's worth trying to find the key to being happy : but I do agree on one thing, that corporate bullshit and the mindset that goes with it is a big yawn and best avoided.

 

Great post. I would only really take exception to the last line. While I don't work in the corporate world anymore but have done in the past and agree that things there can be "mannered" to say the least, really blaming a cliche like the "corporate world" is a bit of a cop out. I know what you're getting at, but it doesn't wash. In reality, everything in life has it's bullshit aspects...even punting is awash with ritual behaviours that comments on this board alone prove punters and ladies alike would often wish to see dispensed with.

 

What's clear is that -- warning: cliche upcoming -- life is what you make it. And if punting, fun as it is, plays a very large part in your happiness then without being judgmental, I would argue that you might have a problem. I think the original post thus says for more about the poster than it does about anything else.

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ever had that post-punting malaise where the real world just feels insanely mundane and boring? during a punt it's such a feast of sensual stimulation and afterwards the real world is so flavourless

 

overhearing corporate retards excitedly discussing percentages and business deals makes me wonder what planet am i on

 

i don't give a crap about anything anymore except fornicating with really attractive girls as much as possible, to be honest i think i never did but now that i'm punting my dream has become more real and the effects can be pretty devastating to your bearings in life

 

things don't make much sense these days but hey

 

MY DICK IS HAPPY!!!

 

roll on the punting

 

To be honest, this is one of the few things about my punting that makes me uneasy. Don't get me wrong, I love being able to have sex with amazing looking women... but sometimes I worry if I'm beginning to think about it a little too much. I see a beautiful girl on the bus and I think - I wonder how much...?

 

That's got to be not great, right?

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To be honest, this is one of the few things about my punting that makes me uneasy. Don't get me wrong, I love being able to have sex with amazing looking women... but sometimes I worry if I'm beginning to think about it a little too much. I see a beautiful girl on the bus and I think - I wonder how much...?

 

That's got to be not great, right?

I do that so your not alone...lol

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I understand about post-punt blues but I'm not sure I completely buy into the idea that the real world and punting world don't affect one another. Yes, I keep my punting activities discreet and separate but, my God, they have hugely enriched my life. Perhaps I do think about punting a bit too much (I do enjoy the planning and anticipation :) ) but there are other things I do (including work, incidentally) which i really enjoy.

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What's clear is that -- warning: cliche upcoming -- life is what you make it.

That is just patronising nonsense really. Who would do all the shit jobs in the world that are essential if everyone was out living their "ideal dreams"??

 

That cliche is only true for a select few.

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