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When An Escort Says Its Only For A Few Years....

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We have one escort who has recently said they plan to retire in a few years time.

 

I dont know about others, but it puts me off seeing that escort, because I want to see an escort and in time build up some sort of relationship along the escort/client lines, without crossing over the lines, but to see a few of them as regulars, and knowing that the escort was gouing to retire in a few years time would definetly make me think hard about seeing them.

 

Unless it was a one of thing, so its hardly a good business model by my way of thinking.

 

I know that things can change, and its hard to accept that a reg can retire, thats why I would find it hard to make a booking with someone who has limited shelf life as an escort.

 

But I do understand the reasons why an escort can make that decision.

 

 

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We have one escort who has recently said they plan to retire in a few years time.

 

I dont know about others, but it puts me off seeing that escort, because I want to see an escort and in time build up some sort of relationship along the escort/client lines, without crossing over the lines, but to see a few of them as regulars, and knowing that the escort was gouing to retire in a few years time would definetly make me think hard about seeing them.

 

Unless it was a one of thing, so its hardly a good business model by my way of thinking.

 

I know that things can change, and its hard to accept that a reg can retire, thats why I would find it hard to make a booking with someone who has limited shelf life as an escort.

 

But I do understand the reasons why an escort can make that decision.

 

Even if they don't say they intend to retire in a few years, most of the twenty-somethings do seem to vanish in a puff of smoke, and we have to start a new search. It's one of the chores of the game. :(

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Not all of us plan this as our full time career forever, why is that a bad thing? And why is it a bad thing for my business me admitting that? I love escorting but I have other ambitions and goles and I want to achieve. Plus once I settle down in the future and have a family, I definitely won't want to be doing this so I need a plan. Lots of women 'say' they are going to retire and always end up coming back, but that won't be me. I have build up a great working relationship with some of my regular clients and I'm not going anywhere for at least the next few years so I honestly don't see what the problem is?

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I am not saying it is a bad thing Kylie.....

 

Or there is a problem....these are your words.

 

I only stated what I felt, and that it is hard to see a good regular retire, and from that reason, when i see a escort saying that she will not be around for the escorting business ina few years I tend to think, that its not for me.

 

I did state that I understand why some escorts make this decision, so i was not having a go at anyone, and certainly not aiming at you, even though you seem to take some of this personaly...not everyone is out to get you!.

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Some guys thinking that they actually "investing" in the client/WG so called relationships.

 

I've heard it more then few times, when clients mentioned that they spent more then a few thousands pounds on the some escort, established great rapport and connection and they hate to see that theirs investment gone wasted. They also have few perks: like extra time, girls make them a meal, (and not just a bacon sarnie) providing services which are not advertised, etc.  When they retire from escorting, it can be right a downer on the client, considering he invested many thousands, got attached, and now he need to seek some other WG and start from the scratch. (without guarantee he ever will be successful with the next).

 

Anyway: girls come and go. Same applies for the clients, even when you seen them for decade. I never met any escort who planned to be a "happy hooker" till she snuffed it, no matter how she "enjoys it" (or claim to) to earn average weekly wage in a matter of the 10-15 hours, instead of 40 hours.

 

Many have unachievable plans to start theirs own business, but most of them end up either working with theirs partners/ ex clients running bog standard business, which just enough to make a living, or become a "mature students".... for eternity.

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Its not a question of getting attached, or expecting anything that others would get for thier time.

 

Its when you see a profile and its said that the escort is only going to be available for a set time, some clients will avoid because they are looking for a escort who will still be available in a few years time.

 

Its not about getting anything extra, its about knowing the escort is committed, and that a escort/client relationship can be built, even if you were to see her 3-4 times a year.

 

Clients dont invest money in a booking, they spend money, and escort/client lines should be firmly established.

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Well if it's any consolation, I plan to be around for another 20 years (providing nothing happens and I still look good at 60) :)

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Nothing is forever so you should be enjoying the moment surely... I think by passing up on the delights of young women that are bright and know what they want out of life could be short sighted in the extreme.

Besides how about putting the boot on the other foot, surely you don't think these girls are going to stick around just to make you happy for the next god knows how many years. I'm saying this in the nicest possible way, but none of you are getting any younger so how long do they have to wait?

You boys in the main are lovely but this is a slightly selfish point of view isn't it? You should be enjoying girls like this while you can and then wishing them the very best for their future choices in life.

If I had my time again I would certainly be getting as much out of it as I can, then using that to afford me a great future.

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Nothing is forever so you should be enjoying the moment surely.

You boys in the main are lovely but this is a slightly selfish point of view isn't it? You should be enjoying girls like this while you can and then wishing them the very best for their future choices in life.

 

So you suggesting that a repeat booking is out of the question then, and we should wish them all the best as we depart a booking, as otherwise we would then be seen as keeping escorts to a  way of life they dont want to continue with!.

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Of course some ladies use the old..I'm retiring/moving on thing as a marketing ploy to get clients to panic book them..

However I am not sure most guys would be put off as it were.Not all guys want regulars,alot want to go around sampling the many delights in the sweetie shop.

As has been said nothing is forever..it is I guess frustrating to see a favourite girl quit but many quit without advertising it as such you can't get frustrated over that.

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Nothing is forever so you should be enjoying the moment surely.

You boys in the main are lovely but this is a slightly selfish point of view isn't it? You should be enjoying girls like this while you can and then wishing them the very best for their future choices in life.

 

So you suggesting that a repeat booking is out of the question then, and we should wish them all the best as we depart a booking, as otherwise we would then be seen as keeping escorts to a  way of life they dont want to continue with!.

[/quoteNot sure what you meant by your last paragraph spklors..I don't think she was suggeating any such thing.

If a lady is still working and you enjoy her then rebook.If she has stopped working then she has stopped working end of storu.

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well in which point is it a selfish point of view, To hope to see the escort again!.

 

If that is selfish, then so be it, im pleading guilty to that.

 

but if the escort sees it as me being selfish if I want to book again, then im going to have to have a major re-think about the way i punt.

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Nothing is forever so you should be enjoying the moment surely... I think by passing up on the delights of young women that are bright and know what they want out of life could be short sighted in the extreme.

 

Wise words, but it doesn't have to be either/or does it? Having the pleasure of a few regulars with whom each experience builds on the last is brilliant but so is the excitement of meeting new ladies. Works for me anyway, and I guess ladies appreciate and come to value their regular guys because they tend to turn up and don't make demands that are above and beyond the lady's list of 'likes'.

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well in which point is it a selfish point of view, To hope to see the escort again!.

 

If that is selfish, then so be it, im pleading guilty to that.

 

but if the escort sees it as me being selfish if I want to book again, then im going to have to have a major re-think about the way i punt.

I might be wrong but I don't think anyone meant you were selfish for wanting to rebook a lady but if she has reitired then its kind of a moot point?If a lady says she might retire in a few years then thats alot of rebookings you can make?

The lady might get run over by a bus next week..you might het bored of her in a few months..the whole world might explode between you seeing her and her retiring.

Just not seeing what the issue is here?

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I have no wish to be patronising, or insulting to anyone, and I apologise if my posts come over with that thought.

 

But I am not a "fuck em an leave em" type of booking guy, neither am I a " high mainenance client", I prefere to just book an escort who is known to me and make a booking so we know what time and date is okay by us both.

 

When I read that someone is only going to be around for a few years I dont want to know,

 

but when I hear escorts saying that "its a selfish point of view", and is seen as "investing in an escort", then it raises the question of just what some people see in a client, and sadly as I dont want to fit into either of these catagories, it makes me realise that I view things differant from some others on the forum, regardless of what they have said in the past.

 

My present thought is to just cancel a booking i have pre-arranged, as I dont want any investment in her, or to be seen as selfish.

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<blockquote class='ipsBlockquote'data-author="spklors" data-cid="476045" data-time="1357827893"><p>

We have one escort who has recently said they plan to retire in a few years time.<br />

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I dont know about others, but it puts me off seeing that escort, because I want to see an escort and in time build up some sort of relationship along the escort/client lines, without crossing over the lines, but to see a few of them as regulars, and knowing that the escort was gouing to retire in a few years time would definetly make me think hard about seeing them.<br />

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Unless it was a one of thing, so its hardly a good business model by my way of thinking.<br />

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I know that things can change, and its hard to accept that a reg can retire, thats why I would find it hard to make a booking with someone who has limited shelf life as an escort.<br />

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But I do understand the reasons why an escort can make that decision.</p></blockquote>

As a rule, I dont see any new escort who announces her retirement as I feel that if she is good, I'll miss her badly.

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While respecting your point, I dont imagine many punters will hesitate to book a girl, on the basis that she is only going to be doing it for a few years. IVE seen the same few girls for years a sort of squad rotation., so I understand the idea of investing time and money, its what works for some. .

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We have one escort who has recently said they plan to retire in a few years time.

 

I dont know about others, but it puts me off seeing that escort, because I want to see an escort and in time build up some sort of relationship along the escort/client lines, without crossing over the lines, but to see a few of them as regulars, and knowing that the escort was gouing to retire in a few years time would definetly make me think hard about seeing them.

 

Unless it was a one of thing, so its hardly a good business model by my way of thinking.

 

I know that things can change, and its hard to accept that a reg can retire, thats why I would find it hard to make a booking with someone who has limited shelf life as an escort.

 

But I do understand the reasons why an escort can make that decision.

 

 

I take it with a huge pinch of salt and if i rate the WG would lap up her service while i can. I always get bored sooner or later although i might return in the future if still about, so being about long-term isnt something i concern myself with.

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Of course some ladies use the old..I'm retiring/moving on thing as a marketing ploy to get clients to panic book them..

However I am not sure most guys would be put off as it were.Not all guys want regulars,alot want to go around sampling the many delights in the sweetie shop.

As has been said nothing is forever..it is I guess frustrating to see a favourite girl quit but many quit without advertising it as such you can't get frustrated over that.

 

 

A WG i punted with a few years ago uses the i am retiring soon bollocks on her A/W profile a lot of the time, and it has put me off bothering punting with her again as i know its bollocks. Not an attitude i respect seeing as its lying as i view it or a marketing ploy as you say. Honesty is very important to me, if i know a SP is lying its likely to put me right off. 

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If she's worth becoming a regular, whats wrong with "a few years". Who knows how long any of us has got. Carpe diem!!

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Well Spklors you do what you feel happy with of course but suddenly cancelling a booking with a lady you enjoy being with because she may retire in a few years just strikes me as a little petulant?

I do feel that you have taken some peoples posts in a very personal way and not as they were meant to be taken.

The bottom line is as much as most of us appreciate regular clients there will be a time when we all retire.If your g.p that you had seen for many years was to retire would you decide to jump ship to another g.p. a longtime before they actually did retire?

The lady you refer to..has she said when she is retiring?Is it a year,3years or 5 years?

I really do appreciate that it must be hard for guys when they build a rapport and then the lady decides to retire.But I do find the overall thread very confusing?

You really don't want to see this woman because of a vague thing about retiring in the future?

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I am not saying it is a bad thing Kylie..... Or there is a problem....these are your words. I only stated what I felt, and that it is hard to see a good regular retire, and from that reason, when i see a escort saying that she will not be around for the escorting business ina few years I tend to think, that its not for me. I did state that I understand why some escorts make this decision, so i was not having a go at anyone, and certainly not aiming at you, even though you seem to take some of this personaly...not everyone is out to get you!.

Spklors, you were obviously referring to me because you said 'we have one escort who has recently said they plan to retire in a few years time' I am the only person by the looks of it that has said that. It's like you assume that most escorts will be doing it forever? When I say a few years I would roughly say around 5years time but it could be less or it could possibly doing it longer I don't know. What I do know is that when I decide to stop properly and have my other career and start a family then there will be no reason for me to return. Do you not expect women who are escorts to go and have family's, start new careers ect? You're not making a lot of sense to me. If you would seriously consider cancelling a good booking with someone because they are going to quite in 5 or so years time well that really is pretty ridiculous and silly to me. Edited by MissKylie

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A WG i punted with a few years ago uses the i am retiring soon bollocks on her A/W profile a lot of the time, and it has put me off bothering punting with her again as i know its bollocks. Not an attitude i respect seeing as its lying as i view it or a marketing ploy as you say. Honesty is very important to me, if i know a SP is lying its likely to put me right off. 
I feel exactly the same. I really hate liars in this industry and otherwise.

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Sorry I don't think I make myself entirely clear in my previous post. I believe for most women in escorting there is a cut off point, unless you genuinely want to make it into a full time and long term career. As much as I genuinely do enjoy escorting, it has never been my long term plan as with many others. Wile I'm free, single and continuing to study I will continue with it, but for me I definitely can not see myself still doing it when I'm in my 30s. That is just me.

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Well Spklors you do what you feel happy with of course but suddenly cancelling a booking with a lady you enjoy being with because she may retire in a few years just strikes me as a little petulant?

 

I am not considering cancel'ing a booking because I think she may retire in a few years,.

 

its because I have been  told  by some escorts that it can be seen as selfish to do this, and that if I have a regular its because I have an investment in her.

 

I really like my regs, and enjoy their company, and what we got up to, but its not a one way thing to me, if the escort assumes these thoughts then i will walk away...end of.

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