Reingold33

The Age Conundrum

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I'm a guy, in my 30s. I've had a few punts - probably about ten different girls - and was wondering if anyone had any input on the lady's age.

I'm primarily attracted to younger escorts, between 18 and 25. These are the first girls I look for when browsing. However, the best visit I've had was with a South African girl in Manchester, in her 30s herself (alas, I don't think she's working anymore - think her name was Elise).

I've seen one 19 year old lady. Stunningly fit, beautiful tattoos. However, her voice was very common, her house was unloved (no working light in the "bedroom"). In the bathroom floor was a half-open but full tin of beer, a 50p coin, a toilet roll, and a lighter, all laid out perfectly. Her performance was by the books - friendly, but didn't know what to do after the first round and didn't really understand why I wasn't erect the whole time. Had a son who lived with her aunt, etc.

Another girl, early 20s and a parlour girl, gave the best OWO I've had but seemed bored at all other times, checking her nails during doggy. The other lady in that threesome was mid-40s and was much more charismatic, interested, and relaxing, but not as attractive.

At another parlour (which I "frequent" now), a mid-30s lady gave the best girlfriend experience - doesn't normally do French kissing but did because we got on so well, and broke the "one orgasm" rule because I cuddled with her. But I didn't go to the parlour to see her - the early 20s girl I had in mind wasn't available.

What I'm saying here is, I've had the best punts with girls over 30, but I always find myself going for the younger girls, despite being disappointed with them.

Anyone have any thoughts or suggestions? Or does anyone else do this too?

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I'm a guy, in my 30s. I've had a few punts - probably about ten different girls - and was wondering if anyone had any input on the lady's age.

I'm primarily attracted to younger escorts, between 18 and 25. These are the first girls I look for when browsing. However, the best visit I've had was with a South African girl in Manchester, in her 30s herself (alas, I don't think she's working anymore - think her name was Elise).

I've seen one 19 year old lady. Stunningly fit, beautiful tattoos. However, her voice was very common, her house was unloved (no working light in the "bedroom"). In the bathroom floor was a half-open but full tin of beer, a 50p coin, a toilet roll, and a lighter, all laid out perfectly. Her performance was by the books - friendly, but didn't know what to do after the first round and didn't really understand why I wasn't erect the whole time. Had a son who lived with her aunt, etc.

Another girl, early 20s and a parlour girl, gave the best OWO I've had but seemed bored at all other times, checking her nails during doggy. The other lady in that threesome was mid-40s and was much more charismatic, interested, and relaxing, but not as attractive.

At another parlour (which I "frequent" now), a mid-30s lady gave the best girlfriend experience - doesn't normally do French kissing but did because we got on so well, and broke the "one orgasm" rule because I cuddled with her. But I didn't go to the parlour to see her - the early 20s girl I had in mind wasn't available.

What I'm saying here is, I've had the best punts with girls over 30, but I always find myself going for the younger girls, despite being disappointed with them.

Anyone have any thoughts or suggestions? Or does anyone else do this too?

Welcome to the forum Reingold. :) I disregard age as long as i believe a WG is at least 18 and simply go on whether i fancy them or not. Edited by smiths

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I am with Reingold up to a point, the younger ones are apt to not have to try too hard because they have perfect bodies (in their eyes) and they "know" that is all that counts. The more mature ladies can hold a conversation, vary their approach to each client and do not have so many self imposed rules. Now this is the average or norm and there are exceptions, oh yes siree!

 

I used to have a theory that if a blonde shared a shift with a brunette, specially where they come into the room and introduce themselves, the brunette is the one to go for because she will lose a lot of busness to the blonde and be grateful for the business. This was backed up by a lovely brunette I saw late one night when she came into the room after the blonde and said something like,"would you like me or the blonde"? I replied that she looked very nice and I would be very happy with her. I was given a right seeing too and jolly good it was as well. She backed up my thoughts after the punt and I have used this approach since with great results.

 

It is all to do with attitude and getting the chemistry right, age can be a factor but sometimes with the right words said, and meant of course, you can have a lot of fun.

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All ages are good I've seen ladies from age 22 to 56. But I intentionally avoid the 18-19 year olds just incase they are immature or in the offchance one of them is really 17 or something.

 

 

However, the best visit I've had was with a South African girl in Manchester, in her 30s herself (alas, I don't think she's working anymore - think her name was Elise

 

Coincidentally one of the best visits I've had was with a South African girl in Glasgow in her early 30s. Her name was Eve. Maybe it's the same lady who was on tour?

 

@Timbo, thx for the tip :)

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I never know their age, because 1 they´re using fake ages ofc, and 2 I am terrible at guessing somone´s age.

 

Without knowing that I would say late 20s, still young looking (for me), and should be experienced with both the fun stuff and with people and hopefully more mature.  Sometimes kids can have a good head on young shoulders of course.

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For me, my excellent punts are 98% with ladies in their 30's.

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I always found the idea of visiting someone 20 years or so younger than myself made me uncomfortable,

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I tend to prefer the 30-50 age group, simply as I tend to relate positively to ladies in that time of life. Experience has shown me that it is the overall quality of the punt that is key, not the lady's age.

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Thanks for the warm welcome and the responses so far!

I think I just need to stop using the "age range" feature on the other site and base by decision on the other factors. I might avoid under 25s for a while and see how I get on - night be enough to get over my minor obsession with 18-21 escorts, and just leave that age range for the "home entertainment" instead (all legal, of course!)

I love this forum. Been reading for a while, and like how we can talk openly about our alternative lifestyle choices without fear of "ugh, you pay for sex?!" responses!

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I never know their age, because 1 they´re using fake ages ofc, and 2 I am terrible at guessing somone´s age.

 

I was with a girl recently whose profile said age 23.  She then confides in me that she is 29.

 

I still think she was lying however, as she looks 19! ^_^

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Definately the 30 plus women. They are in their magnificent prime. As said above the younger ones who claim to be in early 20's still have that attitude you should kiss their toes for even bothering to turn up.

(Bitter, me? Yup, those teen and twenty years still hurt)

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For me the preferred age would be under 30, but I've had some great times with women in their 30's. Never seen anyone older than that though. Seen a girl a month ago claiming to be 26, she was easily 10 years older. Didn't stop it being a great time but I'd rather she'd been a little more honest in her profile :-)

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probably wouldnt stray outside 18-30 personally. i'm kinda immature for my age though so i like girls a few years younger then me

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For me the maturity and charm kicks in around 30 or so, and I never book ladies under 35 or so if I can help it.

 

P S I have a bus pass by the way!

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Isn't there a rule of thumb about relationships - don't go with a girl younger than half your age plus 7 years?

Most of my meetings have coincidentally stuck to that age (circa 29) and its worked fine. There are a few on my hot list younger though but haven't seen anyone younger yet.

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I usually go for 25+, but on several occasions I have ended up with parlour girls in their early twenties.  Happily they were sexually keen and eager to please.  It's good to get lucky.  

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Isn't there a rule of thumb about relationships - don't go with a girl younger than half your age plus 7 years?

Most of my meetings have coincidentally stuck to that age (circa 29) and its worked fine. There are a few on my hot list younger though but haven't seen anyone younger yet.

 

 

Certainly not a rule i follow in relationships or punting, being restricted by such a thing wouldnt suit me.

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For me the maturity and charm kicks in around 30 or so, and I never book ladies under 35 or so if I can help it.

 

P S I have a bus pass by the way!

Result.What you save on travel costs......................

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Certainly not a rule i follow in relationships or punting, being restricted by such a thing wouldnt suit me.

Rules are made for the guidance of wise men, and the obedience of fools.

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I did say coincidentally - but if I'm wise I should go for a younger punt to avoid being a fool.

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Rules are made for the guidance of wise men, and the obedience of fools.

 

 

Oh I like that one, can I follow them too. I always said rules are made to be broken.

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One thing to bear in mind is that a great deal of WGs knock anywhere between 3-10 years off their ages, some can get away with it, others not.

 

I normally look for ladies in their 20s, as I'm in mid-life crisis mode trying to recapture my fading youth, so prefer a lady to be at least 10 years younger than me.

 

My all time best experiences were with girls aged 22-23yo, youthful skin, firm bodies, plenty of energy and enthusiasm and just enough experience to know what they want and what to do for you, but they were also very horny, uninhibited individuals. I've also had my poorest experiences in the early 20s age range too, uninterested, even obstructive, just not trying.

 

I've had great times with women from late teens to mid 30s, great to be with a fresh, nubile thing and also with a woman of the world who has lost all her inhibitions, but as always it depends on the individual girl's attitude, even mood on the day. I've come to the conclusion that no single age range has the monopoly on great service.

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One thing to bear in mind is that a great deal of WGs knock anywhere between 3-10 years off their ages, some can get away with it, others not.

 

I normally look for ladies in their 20s, as I'm in mid-life crisis mode trying to recapture my fading youth, so prefer a lady to be at least 10 years younger than me.

 

My all time best experiences were with girls aged 22-23yo, youthful skin, firm bodies, plenty of energy and enthusiasm and just enough experience to know what they want and what to do for you, but they were also very horny, uninhibited individuals. I've also had my poorest experiences in the early 20s age range too, uninterested, even obstructive, just not trying.

 

I've had great times with women from late teens to mid 30s, great to be with a fresh, nubile thing and also with a woman of the world who has lost all her inhibitions, but as always it depends on the individual girl's attitude, even mood on the day. I've come to the conclusion that no single age range has the monopoly on great service.

I always tell people I am fifteen years older.  Problem is when they believe me :)

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If I lied about my age I'd be believed.  Most people think I'm adding to my age, but nope!  I'm one of the rare ones that actually uses her real age.  Problem is, I look a LOT younger than I am.  I'll be hitting 30 in a couple of years and if I'm still being ID'd to get into bars I'll be hitting the door staff - not really, but it does get tedious.

 

Reingold, anyone who says "Ugh, you pay for sex?" is probably trying to deflect something - maybe their reaction to initially finding out which could give away their secret. Everyone does it at some point.  Ok, maybe not everyone but even women do it ;) 

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Had a horrible experience with a girl claiming to be 18, tend to go for the more mature girls now.  Looking quite baby faced if i shave(Late 20s but still get the odd id in pubs and off licenses) tends to get a little chuckle from the ladies about how its normally older men and younger girls

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