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Wanking Before An Appointment

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Just wondered out of interest how you fellow punting enthusiasts physically prepare for an appointment? Do you "bash the bishop" the night before or perhaps even have a practice run with the wife in an attempt to last longer with your chosen WG or do you refrain from any self abuse for several days in order to have as many pops as possible during the punt?

I can see advantages and disadvantages to both approaches!

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Just wondered out of interest how you fellow punting enthusiasts physically prepare for an appointment? Do you "bash the bishop" the night before or perhaps even have a practice run with the wife in an attempt to last longer with your chosen WG or do you refrain from any self abuse for several days in order to have as many pops as possible during the punt?

I can see advantages and disadvantages to both approaches!

You worry me .......

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Nothing more annoying than a bloke who can't come because he thought it was a good idea to knock one out before he visits. 

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Nothing more annoying than a bloke who can't come because he thought it was a good idea to knock one out before he visits. 

 

 

Yep, ditto, can make the visit a total waste of time. :(

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For me there is nothing better than going 4 to 5 days of abstinence prior to a punt. I then arrive for the punt as horny as hell and everything seems 100 times better and harder.

May be don't last as long in the sack but boy the feeling is AMAZING :-)

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Jeez, I thought most of us abstained for a few days to build it up. The only time I knocked one out was before a date in my twenties when I needed to keep my cool with some bird I was very into. Would just go for multiple sessions than try and have 1 round last so long.

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I have turned up to punts knowing I'm not going to get a shot off because I havn't been able to lay off the porn for a few days, I know it is going to happen but I still derive pleasure from the punt, cumming isn't the be all and end all!

Why do you ladies find it annoying or a waste of time?

I know some girls take it personally but in all honesty, if the punter has enjoyed his time with you and he has paid the fee why does it matter?  Both parties have got what they wanted from the meet, no?

I always explain that I am unlikely to cum during the booking...these types of bookings I will usually spend a lot of time doing RO, recieving oral and probably a bit of fucking too, although I can see how sucking/wanking a cock for 40 minutes straight can become tedious and probably quite tiring on the arms/mouth....

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Just wondered out of interest how you fellow punting enthusiasts physically prepare for an appointment? Do you "bash the bishop" the night before or perhaps even have a practice run with the wife in an attempt to last longer with your chosen WG or do you refrain from any self abuse for several days in order to have as many pops as possible during the punt?

I can see advantages and disadvantages to both approaches!

 

 

I dont change my usual routine so might have a wank the night before but with me i wouldnt know then that i wanted a punt until i woke up the next day, i am virtually a completely on the day punter nowadays. When i used to book in advance i didnt change my routine as it wasnt necessary to do so.

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One day of abstinence for every one hour of punt is my usual ratio.

No wanking or scud.

Went for nine days once and when I did have an orgasm it was actually slightly painful.

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Wank 4 hours before helps helps me last - but it kills my enjoyment of the meeting.

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Wank 4 hours before helps helps me last - but it kills my enjoyment of the meeting.

A bit counter productive is it not?  :huh:

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A bit counter productive is it not?  :huh:

Well - in a one hour slot I like to spend 55 minutes playing around and finish off with the fuck at the end.

But I seem to have a bit of a premature ejaculation problem if the girl is hot - and I tried a wank 4 hours before just once - as I had no trouble with cumming too fast but it rather killed my desire for the bulk of the session. So I won't do that again.

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The problem is, is my punts are oral-only sessions, always with a CIM/swallow....and I never know how much juice the young lady will either a) like in her mouth and B) not choke with! Dilemmas! :cool: So I usually have 2 days worth each punt, so wanking every few days. However, one young lady I'm seeing soon insists on swallowing a week's worth! :D

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I feel that most men seem to know how to "manage" themselves before meeting up,

I find that the most who tell me about their wanking regime will abstain for quite a few days, but there are a few who will pop his cock shortly before so he then will last out for a longer time.

 

When I meet a man I want him to have a raging stiffy and expect him to cum at some stage.

So I presume that the ladies who have said its a waste of time, mean that is the bloke is not getting properly hard or can not cum, then why pop one out before hand.

 

Lucy  :) 

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If it's a short session (twenty mins/half hour) then I'll knock one off in the shower before going out for it.

 

If it's a longer session (1hr or more) then I won't, because I prefer to come two or three times with the lady.

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There are lots of questions where you have to ask what was the point of the question in the first place?

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Had a booking made at 6.30 for 8pm, then got a text at 7.15 saying, "got too excited and had to knock one out, sorry won't be visiting, see you soon". Lol, charming.

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If the lasdy in question is several floors up in  the lift, resist the temptation to knock one out on the way up!

 

I usually abstain for a day or two, but haven't decided if that is good or bad

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Had a booking made at 6.30 for 8pm, then got a text at 7.15 saying, "got too excited and had to knock one out, sorry won't be visiting, see you soon". Lol, charming.

That's awful, but I smiled when I read it :)

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If the lasdy in question is several floors up in  the lift, resist the temptation to knock one out on the way up!

 

 

Very good advice  :D 

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Before my first ever punt, I thought I might cum too quickly if I had a few days abstinence before the punt, so I had one the day before as I would normally wank at least once a day. Turns out it my problem was almost the opposite - I'd been so used to just wanking (my own strength of grip/speed etc.), no sexual contact and watching too much porn meant I didn't get as hard as I would have liked and could last a long time quite easily. Had to add an extra 30 minutes on to the end of the punt so it could reach its natural conclusion!

 

I always needed a mixture of HJ/BJ to cum in my first few punts. That, coupled with my erections not being as hard as they should meant I decided to give up watching porn and have reduced how often I wank (which used to be a lot!  :P) It certainly helped matters, no problem reaching orgasm through penetration now. So I usually leave about 3-5 days between my punt and my last wank now which seems a good balance. Any longer and I think I would probably pop quite quickly now, but shorter means the feeling isn't quite as nice or explosive!

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I like to give myself 2 or 3 days of abstinence before a punt but it is random whether I come quickly or not. Other things influence longevity in the sack. If it is a new SP, a looker and overtly sexy I will have trouble holding back, having a good chat beforehand and during keeps me going longer before I pop. My regular SPs reckon they always know whether the guy has come recently just to last longer, probably his attitude and a touch of feminine intuition at work here I think.

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Is anyone else remembering that scene from the Inbetweeners where Simon has taken Jays advice about a tactical wank before sex in order to last longer??

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If the lasdy in question is several floors up in  the lift, resist the temptation to knock one out on the way up!

 

Does it count as before the appointment if she comes down to greet you, and then take you 'in hand' as you travel back up in the lift together ???

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Does it count as before the appointment if she comes down to greet you, and then take you 'in hand' as you travel back up in the lift together ???

That'll be before your shower, right? It all depends then :-)

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