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Premature Ejaculation Frustration

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Hi

 

Just needing some advice as I have now visited 2 girls over 6 months 30min each and have major problems cumming too quick!   I am very inexperienced (27 yrs old) just a few full goes in my life, and both girls i have visited I have cum within 30 seconds of oral (protected) after 5 min of slow foreplay.   The last girl i mentioned the issue so she just lay back and didnt touch me this made me last 15 minutes but i never could have penetration with either of them

 

I thought about booking longer but the feeling just goes so would be a waste and i dont feel like doing anything for hours after so no "round 2"

 

does anyone have any tips? 

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At your age you should easily be able to go for a round 2 in a one hour booking. Of course the urge disappears after ejaculation, but that's when you spend a few minutes chatting which then progresses to sensual touching, then kissing and before you know it you'll be at full mast again.

 

Listen, if I can do it (and I can) at 20 years your senior then it really should be ok ;)

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You need an appointment where your willy is not the focus of attention. Go for a slow sensual tie and tease as your willy wont be even touched till near the very end (and only just after your balls have had some attention too) and you will be tingling all over by then. There are posts on here from the past, do a search and have a read so you know what you should expect and receive.

Edited by Chloe Kisses

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and ensure on the phone that you will be able to come twice just in case you pop when your  not expecting it. Have you tried literally getting the first one out of the way at the very beginning of the booking...kind of an appetiser?

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Wank 1 hour before the appointment.

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Age isn't necessarily the only factor in being able to have more than one pop per hour / whatever. The OP has to get over the feeling that once hes popped that's it. I speak from experience as at about the same age I used to suffer PE big - time. After one session when I felt I had come too soon, I started pleasuring the lady with my tongue. This opened up a whole new skillset I didn't know I had and gradually took the focus ( and pressure) off me.

 

Now 30 years later, I wish I could cum a bit quicker sometimes - I give the girl jawache and myself backache until that unmistakable tingling at the base of the spine that means it's time!!!

 

Good luck, NN

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Sounds like you need a few sessions with a lady that knows how to do the delay method. Its a very simple technique but means you may have to have a few sessions with no actual sex to start with. It does work though.

As an aside, PE is VERY common in men your age and it will get better over time.

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Wank 1 hour before the appointment.

 

This.

 

In the two instances you mention, how long ago had it been since you knocked one out?

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This.

 

In the two instances you mention, how long ago had it been since you knocked one out?

 

Maybe one/two days?  Im not sure of the delay method i have read about it online, but when do i start to delay when im to cum immediately! 

 

Maybe in a one hour i could..but iv only done 2 30min before, and each time its been an awkward "what do we do now" after 5-10min!  I ended up just massaging her!

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Wank 1 hour before the appointment.

But not if you are on public transport

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I think your best bet is to work on speeding up your recovery time, rather than slowing down your first pop. Your problem is that you don't have enough experiece of being in a room with a naked horny woman, so it over-exites you. Use that to your advantage - you'll cum fast, but you'll also recover fast. At your age, I was pretty quick the first time too, but 3 times in a 30 minute session was possible with a willing accomplice.

Practice when you're on your own - knock one out as quick as you can, THEN watch your favourite porn and do it again as soon as you're able. If you can manage that in about 45 minutes on your own, then with female asistance twice in 30 minutes should be easy. If you can, arrange in advance that the session will be a cum twice one that allows reverse oral... there's nothing better in a non-paid situation to do if you've been a bit quick than to go straight down on a your partner until you're hard again, and this is a great opportunity to learn some skills - and I don't know about you but if you're like me then having your tongue between a girl's legs while she's either faking or actually having an orgasm is more likely to make me hard again quickly than almost anything else.

Good luck, have fun, and don't worry - it will stop happening with experience

Edited by DDGLazing

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I have the same problem, I book an hour, get the first one out of the way straight away. Then spend a while doing RO etc. until I'm ready to go again. I'm 41.

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+1 for having a wank or two beforehand as late as you can leave it..

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The dreaded PE. I know that feeling all too well. I'd literally be feeling the urge to cum the second the girl jumped on top of me.

 

When I had that problem, I used to have a partial wank and twice bring myself to the brink without actually coming. It made me far less sensitive afterwards. Not the best idea if you're travelling though.

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I feel your pain, I have the same problem. I'm a bit safety conscious all my my own reasons and don't do RO. I find a little blue pill helps and I have no problems. Have you seen the thread regarding Jamaican Stone in the health section? That could help.

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First and foremost, don't make it an issue. 

You come early. So what ? 

 

Find a lady that agrees to "as many times as you wish".

This gets rid of the "Oh, shit, I lost one shot. Now I have one more chance. What if I come again? " anxieties. 

Don't visit girls that put a bound on how many times you can come in an hour. 

 

Second, enjoy sex. Just enjoy it mate. Coming early thing will disappear sooner than you think. 

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Seriously , stop thinking about it.You come quickly , no big deal.There are people who have the exact opposite problem.

 

So enjoy it while you are doing it.A wank before the meeting is good advice.

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do the delay condoms help at all ?

and would WG mind me bringing one along ?

or would see prefer ribbed for her pleasure?

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do the delay condoms help at all ?

and would WG mind me bringing one along ?

or would see prefer ribbed for her pleasure?

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Everyone says this gets better with age. When did that happen for you guys?

Im better than i was but still want to go for longer, especially with OWO.

For those that go for round two, do you find that you have to put in a lot of effort to get yourself going again? The urge just evaporates for me but i think this is just in the mind.

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Everyone says this gets better with age. When did that happen for you guys?

Im better than i was but still want to go for longer, especially with OWO.

For those that go for round two, do you find that you have to put in a lot of effort to get yourself going again? The urge just evaporates for me but i think this is just in the mind.

Edited by Thurson

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