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Making The Action More Exciting... In A One Hour Meet

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I have seen a few dozen escorts and too often fell into the vanilla meeting for 1 hour, quick BJ, short foreplay RO, doggy mishy cum whenever.  I didn't bother thinking about the meet beforehand..

 

Tonight I'm going to see a girl for the first time and she has lots of glowing reviews already even though only been around for a few weeks and seems 'adventurous' as you could say.  Based on that I am going to take along one of those sex positions card games and whip them out at the beginning, as a surprise and see if she's up for that... and ask if she has any toys around or (ice) cream if I remember..

 

What else do you do to make things more exciting than plain boring vanilla sex?  Remember this is just one hour with one girl, ofc more girls and longer would give more options..

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I tend to think that being enthusiastic and being energetic and being polite goes a long way.

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I am polite enough (at least offline and moreso to girls I want to shag), but can be overly so.. and a little reserved and not really assertive with them, which leads to problems with regular girls which I moan about as I have here.  I am not the most imaginitive guy so having a prop like that should help me, usually I would get stuck for ideas.

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Suggest a game of hide and seek.

 

Do handstands against the wall.

 

:blink: 

 

If clients tell me they "want to explore all possibilities and what can you suggest" then I do just that and suggest things.....

which usually results in looks of doubt and comments such as "oh I don't think I would like anything too unusual"

 

Can't win really.  

 

Perhaps a step up from the vanilla could be:

 

Tie and tease

Above with blindfold too

Roleplay

Have sex anywhere but on the bed

Tell each other your filthiest experiences while pleasuring each other  ;)

 

A hundred other ideas but I will leave it to others to help out here.   :) 

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I really think going with the flow during meets is a good way to do things.

However if you are wanting a bit more than what you class as vanilla sex, it may be best to mention a few things before hand rather than catch the lady by surprise.

 

Possibly choose a lady who had reviews that suggest she is game for stuff.

Food coming out to play can be fun, a nice thick chocolate mousse to lick off each other possibly.

Sex in another place other than the bedroom, set out to shag in every room maybe.

 

Lucy 

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Tell each other your filthiest experiences while pleasuring each other  ;)

 

 

 

Sex of the mind as well.....excellent  :)  

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Suggest a game of hide and seek.

 

Do handstands against the wall.

 

:blink: 

 

If clients tell me they "want to explore all possibilities and what can you suggest" then I do just that and suggest things.....

which usually results in looks of doubt and comments such as "oh I don't think I would like anything too unusual"

 

Can't win really.  

 

Perhaps a step up from the vanilla could be:

 

Tie and tease

Above with blindfold too

Roleplay

Have sex anywhere but on the bed

Tell each other your filthiest experiences while pleasuring each other  ;)

 

A hundred other ideas but I will leave it to others to help out here.   :) 

 

Funny you should say that one of the positions in the deck involves a handstand against the wall :).

 

I wouldn't just come out with a random vague thing like that, as you say, what can you say to that?  Thanks for the suggestions I like the idea of elsewhere I'll remember that one.

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I tend to think that being enthusiastic and being energetic and being polite goes a long way.

 

Also having the right amount of cash in used notes helps!!!

Suggest a game of hide and seek.

 

Do handstands against the wall.

 

:blink: 

 

If clients tell me they "want to explore all possibilities and what can you suggest" then I do just that and suggest things.....

which usually results in looks of doubt and comments such as "oh I don't think I would like anything too unusual"

 

Can't win really.  

 

Perhaps a step up from the vanilla could be:

 

Tie and tease

Above with blindfold too

Roleplay

Have sex anywhere but on the bed

Tell each other your filthiest experiences while pleasuring each other  ;)

 

A hundred other ideas but I will leave it to others to help out here.   :) 

Don't forget that the major sex organ is the one between your ears. Use your imagination, talk to your partner, try to re-live your fantasies, most escorts will have heard and done far more than you will even dream of.

 

Blind folds are great, a little tie & tease, mild spanking, play with ice cubes, hot wax (if you dare), food sex, 

 

Just let your imagination run riot and once you have started you won't want to stop.

 

Good luck.

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I have seen a few dozen escorts and too often fell into the vanilla meeting for 1 hour, quick BJ, short foreplay RO, doggy mishy cum whenever.  I didn't bother thinking about the meet beforehand..

 

Tonight I'm going to see a girl for the first time and she has lots of glowing reviews already even though only been around for a few weeks and seems 'adventurous' as you could say.  Based on that I am going to take along one of those sex positions card games and whip them out at the beginning, as a surprise and see if she's up for that... and ask if she has any toys around or (ice) cream if I remember..

 

What else do you do to make things more exciting than plain boring vanilla sex?  Remember this is just one hour with one girl, ofc more girls and longer would give more options..

 

You could arrange a PSE punt, lots of make-up, high clear porn heels, a mouth like a sewer, spitting on your cock while sucking it and finishing off with shagging her up the arse, anal not being my bag though.

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It seems odd seeing someone that see's different girls rather than regulars complaining about boring sex. Your handing over the money baby so you should be getting what your paying for instead of just going along with it.

There are a million and one games you can play to make it more exciting, god I've had guys tied to the clothes line, bonked them on the London Eye, gone to wanking cinema's with them, had fun the in the disabled toilets at car shows and so much more besides. If your imagination doesn't stretch that far check out some porn in the tinternet for some ideas and sound the lady out pre punt. You'll be surprised at how far a lot of them are willing to go.

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Anal fisting! Really get her to test your limits!

You'll be walking like a cowboy for a walk, but gain a happy memory you will treasure for ever.

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Anal fisting! Really get her to test your limits!

You'll be walking like a cowboy for a walk, but gain a happy memory you will treasure for ever.

 

 

 

:D     :D

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Anal fisting! Really get her to test your limits!

You'll be walking like a cowboy for a walk, but gain a happy memory you will treasure for ever.

I'm sure that Bonkers welcomes all suggestions but anal fisting is not one that I'll be trying for size personally. The thought of it is bringing tears to my eyes. I'm certain it would be a memory for ever but whether it would be one to treasure would be debatable. :D

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Anal fisting! Really get her to test your limits!

 

Just so long as she puts on a condom and not a boxing glove!

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Tonight I'm going to see a girl for the first time 

 

 

 

So have you done the deed with her now?

Spill the beans on what you got up to ......or do we have to wait for the review?.

Good job Minxys idea about a bit of anal fisting came in to late though possibly  ;) 

 

 Lucy  :)

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So have you done the deed with her now?

Spill the beans on what you got up to ......or do we have to wait for the review?.

I just hope he lasted 5 minutes :D

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Well we started off as normal and the standard positions.. she was friendly and happy to kiss.. kissing is a big thing for me I love snogging throughout so I was happy enough.  Then.. because I had a drink (downed in a rush..) before I left to visit her.. I decided I needed a break after 15 minutes of various positions.  Then we argued for about 15 minutes.  That was fine difference of opinions and her doing the arguing and me trying not to and trying to change subjects but she wasn't nice chatting.  And also she didn't like me smiling a lot and laughing which made me uncomfortable.  I laugh or giggle a bit when I'm with a new girl especially if I have a little drink beforehand.. no girl has really disliked it before.

 

I was thinking I would save the adventures for a repeat visit but she wasn't really as pse as advertised and we didn't get on so I will save it for another girl.. booo

 

She has enough reviews I only do them to help out girls without many reviews if they need some, if it was OK or good.

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That was fine difference of opinions and her doing the arguing and me trying not to and trying to change subjects but she wasn't nice chatting.

 

And I didn't go on any rants, plainly stating my likes/dislikes - I do this/that, I like this/that.  Found her a little rude but meh.

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To be fair she gave a blinding BJ to finish especially given it was covered up, and was friendly enough, very outgoing before and after.  I didn't walk away unhappy

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