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On the second of my three punts last week I met up with a regular lady. I didn't cum and I think at the time she felt worse about it that I did. However, on reflection isn't ultimately that what I paid for?  Wnen I pay my cleaner I know my house is clean.

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Depends for me.. I was so into a girl last year.. and we liked each other I didn't mind not coming two meetings in a row, it was great just being with her.  If I didn't really get on with a girl though, but she looked great however, then it would be more about just the physical side of things and so yeah I would agree.

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I only ever cum during about 70% of my punts, I just can't lay off the porn sometimes even with a punt lined up, I know it isn't going to happen or that I will have to finish myself off, don't really mind as its my fault for not staying off the porn and I usually have a great time anyway.

Maybe if you are not okay with not cumming, you should consider not having two punts in quick succession 

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I have the same problem, how long does it take to get back to 'normal'?

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it's not really the same thing. A cleaner has full control over the performance of her job. A WG can't guarantee to make you cum as you are the factor outside of her control. You could have had a wank 10 minutes before visiting her or be having an off day due to being tired or stress or having had many meets in one week.

You can't blame the girl if she tried her best.

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On the second of my three punts last week I met up with a regular lady. I didn't cum and I think at the time she felt worse about it that I did. However, on reflection isn't ultimately that what I paid for?  Wnen I pay my cleaner I know my house is clean.

 

The point is its your body so up to YOU if you come or not, a WG can only do her best but she doesnt have total control over YOUR body.

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I have the same problem, how long does it take to get back to 'normal'?

 

about 3 months mate, google deathgrip cure and yourbrainonporn for more information.

I don't think I have full blown deathgrip but I deffinatly have a porn addiction that needs crushing

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I have the same problem, how long does it take to get back to 'normal'?

It depends on your age, your current medication, your general physical fitness and the time of the month (where did that come from?)!

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On the second of my three punts last week I met up with a regular lady. I didn't cum and I think at the time she felt worse about it that I did. However, on reflection isn't ultimately that what I paid for?  Wnen I pay my cleaner I know my house is clean.

If you ordered too much food in a restaurant and couldn't eat it all, would you expect the restaurant to refund part of your money?

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about 3 months mate, google deathgrip cure and yourbrainonporn for more information.

I don't think I have full blown deathgrip but I deffinatly have a porn addiction that needs crushing

I'll never watch porn again, because I have difficulty cumming, sometiems it takes only 10 min, but it can also take 35 mins or even longer! I've also got the feeling I don't feel much from (protected) sex (depends though), is that also caused by wanking too often?

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I'll never watch porn again, because I have difficulty cumming, sometiems it takes only 10 min, but it can also take 35 mins or even longer! I've also got the feeling I don't feel much from (protected) sex (depends though), is that also caused by wanking too often?

Yes too much "self abuse" can lead to all sorts of problems, starting with insanity, going on to sterility and ending up in the poor house; that's what we were told in the 50's at school so it must be true.

 

Seriously it isn't good for you

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Yes too much "self abuse" can lead to all sorts of problems, starting with insanity, going on to sterility and ending up in the poor house; that's what we were told in the 50's at school so it must be true.

 

Seriously it isn't good for you

 

:P

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reminds me of that classic graffiti in a toilet

 

here i sit broken hearted

paid a penny and only farted

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Yes too much "self abuse" can lead to all sorts of problems, starting with insanity, going on to sterility and ending up in the poor house; that's what we were told in the 50's at school so it must be true.

 

Seriously it isn't good for you

Also makes you go blind - now where are my glasses?

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reminds me of that classic graffiti in a toilet

 

here i sit broken hearted

paid a penny and only farted

One I read one in a ladies loo was:

If you use this loo stand on the seat because the crabs in here jump six feet.....

And if you think six foot is high, go next door the b*****d's fly!

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Since this thread is now about toilet grafiti:

Here I sit in clouds of vapour

Some bastard has stole the paper

How much longer must I linger

Until I'm forced to use my finger

Edited by Trident83

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I had a session once with a regular and it seemed I would never come. I did eventually. She half-jokingly told me that as I was a regular she kept trying til she got a result.

 

But to coin a an old phrase, you cant get blood out of a stone. If there's a physical or mental reason why you can't cum, a WG tugging or banging away aint gnona fix it.

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It may be that - you don't come because your body/mind is telling you something is wrong. I sometimes think it's a miracle that I can come at all in a paid situation. When I was in my 20s I saw the occaisonal hooker and could not come - or even get an erection. I think my body was not tuned it to that situation - and could not be. Obviously it is different from guy to guy.

 

When you are with someone who you have connected with - mutually - you can get a rock hard erection from just holding hands in the street. All is correct and your body and mind knows it - the energy flows.

 

But when you are paying someone to like you - don't be surprised your body doesn't do as it is told.

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reminds me of that classic graffiti in a toilet

 

here i sit broken hearted

paid a penny and only farted

The happy ending went....

 

I'm back again

Twice as heartful

Paid a penny

And done a cart-full ^_^

Edited by partylover

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Edited by partylover

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It is a popular myth that the male penis is a machine, rev it up and off it goes. But sometimes we are reminded that it ain't and it needs a bit of a help along the way.

T

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Hmm... I only cum at around 70% of meetings, I've narrowed it down to 3 reasons :-

 

1) Drunk too much water before hand

2) Time pressure........ "you've only got 5 mintues left !"

3) You could have quite easily cum in the first 5 minutes but wanted to hang on , and now its not happening lol.

 

Combination of all 3 is fatal !

 

The only thing that sorts it out is a finger up my ass ( dont know why ! )

 

Absolutely nothing to do with not being attracted to the lady, my mind just wanders !

 

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I hate it when a girl takes it personally, as much as I stress it is not her fault but mine some still seem to think it is a slur on their attractivness or bedroom skills, it is neither though!

It can be difficult explaining that to foreign girlsbecause of the language barrier and they always seem to get a bit frustrated

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I hate it when a girl takes it personally, as much as I stress it is not her fault but mine some still seem to think it is a slur on their attractivness or bedroom skills, it is neither though!

It can be difficult explaining that to foreign girlsbecause of the language barrier and they always seem to get a bit frustrated

I doubt that any pro is seriously bothered whether you cum or not in the way you think - she has had enough guys get off on her tits and ass not to have any insecurities about herself.

She has also seen enough guys to understand that chaps can have bad days as well as good and some are just too nervous oe whetever - it is just your ego talking to think she would take it personally.

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I hate it when a girl takes it personally, as much as I stress it is not her fault but mine some still seem to think it is a slur on their attractivness or bedroom skills, it is neither though!

 

Even worse getting pelters from the Mrs like "why didn't you cum aren't I sexy enough?"

 

That's what started me punting - great sex with GORGEOUS women but without the pressure to perform, brilliant!

Edited by toxical

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