daftpunk

Inexperienced Punter, Fear Of Being Outed By Wg

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Hi there, I'm a newbie so please be gentle :)

I'm a fairly inexperienced punter, having punted 3 times in total, but every time was a very enjoyable and memorable experience.

Like some here, I am married and do have great fears about getting caught. Every time I've went to a punt, I've researched thoroughly the wg and make sure she has decent feedback. I get a rough idea of the location during the initial contact so I can plan exactly how I'm going to get there and park the car, etc.

One thing that has crossed my mind recently is the idea of being outed by a wg. I guess the chance is slim but I worry about being photographed or filmed at the act and the material being used to out me or other sinister motives such as blackmail. I know it's difficult for a wg to identify me and get private details. Has anyone heard stories about this happening to punters? Maybe I worry too much. It's just the city I stay in is quite small and I just want to be extra careful.

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Welcome to PN.

 

If the lady is well reviewed etc. then it's highly unlikely.

Discretion is a two way street and is just as important for her.

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They will have to go to a lot of effort to find out who to out you to. Following you, getting information etc etc.

 

If you are just a bog standard punter/bloke, no one cares.

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Like (probably) all on here, I'm just a regular guy. Not a "face" or politician - thank god!

Please take it from me,in what must have been over 1000 punts in 26 years, I have never once had the threat, or even so much as the remotest of feelings that I might be "outed" by the WG.

My main concern has been, and still is, to punt as discreetly as possible, avoiding territory near where I live/ work or near where others I know live.

Trust me - it ain't going to happen!1

Good luck with your punting -lie back and enjoy!

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To put it bluntly....

I could earn far more money lying on my back than having to go through the hassle of chasing clients around to blackmail them and its a lot more fun. Unless your a multi millionaire and even then your more likely to be outed by the press than a girl.

As long as your careful you should be ok.

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Unless you have a public profile, or have any history of denouncing "paid for sex"  or extra marital sex, there is no reason for any escort to waste her time and energy.

 

However if you are the type who steals back your money, is indiscreet or obnoxious then they just might. Like somebody above (I am too lazy to look) I have never had any problem in well over 30 years.

 

Just relax and enjoy!

 

Actually it was Willbred!

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Unless you are, perhaps, someone famous?  Many people are prepared to swear that they have seen David Cameron coming and going. 

 

Is this you, David?

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low risk. because of all of the above.

plus... a wl. can out or con or blackmail any customer only once.and then only at a certain risk. but if she treats him right she can milk him for ever...

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Just enjoy yourself! Sounds as though you are being discrete and not taking

unnecessary risks ... cover the basics and you'll be fine.

Edited by LickOrSuck

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oh, and Welcome to the forum ! 

 

have a nose around, on here, on saafe, and check if you have all the bases covered. 

Punting phone, correct routine and behaviour, not asking funny questions, cover tracks on laptop/tablet etc... 

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actually its more likely to be the girl that's at risk of getting outed than you thinking about it. You wouldn't believe how many guys are careless and the other half gets hold of the girls details. Many of us have had to deal with irate wives and children over the years.

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To put it bluntly....

I could earn far more money lying on my back than having to go through the hassle of chasing clients around to blackmail them and its a lot more fun. Unless your a multi millionaire and even then your more likely to be outed by the press than a girl.

As long as your careful you should be ok.

 

 

Said much better than I could have. The time, effort and reward in blackmail make no sense!

 

 

Take steps to protect your identity OP. Punting sim card- about £1 and easily disposable. If you are very paranoid get a disposable punting phone. Tescos have the for less than £15 and it's a small amount to pay for piece of mind.

 

The beauty of visiting an escort can be the anonymity  so don't worry. But if the worry is too much then just don't do it :) x

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Thanks for all the replies. It's certainly helped rest my mind a little.

Oh I'm just a regular guy, not David Cameron or anyone famous :)

Yeah I've been very careful with my activities, punting phone, Internet history and careful planning of my visits. Hopefully have covered all bases but its always the unexpected thats concerning.

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Hi there, I'm a newbie so please be gentle :)

I'm a fairly inexperienced punter, having punted 3 times in total, but every time was a very enjoyable and memorable experience.

Like some here, I am married and do have great fears about getting caught. Every time I've went to a punt, I've researched thoroughly the wg and make sure she has decent feedback. I get a rough idea of the location during the initial contact so I can plan exactly how I'm going to get there and park the car, etc.

One thing that has crossed my mind recently is the idea of being outed by a wg. I guess the chance is slim but I worry about being photographed or filmed at the act and the material being used to out me or other sinister motives such as blackmail. I know it's difficult for a wg to identify me and get private details. Has anyone heard stories about this happening to punters? Maybe I worry too much. It's just the city I stay in is quite small and I just want to be extra careful.

 

Never happened to me in 30 years which includes punting with some well dodgy WGs. For me the important thing is to do what i view as the basics, have a dedicated punting phone and not divulge my real details.

 

Remember the penalties for blackmail are serious and rightly so in my view, that will put at least some scumbags off trying it. So my advice is do the basics and all a WG will have is a number and description of you.

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The blackmail of punters is very rare, the risks are high and most ladies simply want to provide a service in exchange for your hard earned. I sometimes do not know where guys get the idea they could be being filmed for anything like this, at worst some ladies might have CCTV on the premises but 99% of the time it's for their own security, as do many homes and businesses these days.

 

Whilst you can never be too careful majority do not want any sort of outing or publicity themselves and why try and extort a few thousand when you can see 10 - 15 clients and obtain the same cash quite legitimately without having to break the law, or take dangerous chances. The papers also would not be interested, unless you are some sort of high profile superstar.

 

A guy walking up, double checking he's not being followed, pulling collar up, hat down, looking for potential cameras only makes himself look suspicious, as if he's about to commit a crime, or is just wasting his own nervous and mental energies worrying about something that just isn't there.

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Thanks for all the replies. It's certainly helped rest my mind a little. Oh I'm just a regular guy, not David Cameron or anyone famous :) Yeah I've been very careful with my activities, punting phone, Internet history and careful planning of my visits. Hopefully have covered all bases but its always the unexpected thats concerning.

That's a pity because I have got some home truths I would like to share with you, about how to run the country. It will now have to wait till I am the emperor! (If confused, search for another thread. It makes sense there!).

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If the name Heidi Fleiss doesnt mean anything to you, go look up her story, you'll find it reassuring that she didn't spill the beans although her clients allegedly included loads of A-list celebrities.

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Please do not worry.

The chances of a lady wanting to do any harm to you that way are so slim.

Just get on with it and enjoy .......

 

Lucy  :) 

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Hi there, I'm a newbie so please be gentle :)

I'm a fairly inexperienced punter, having punted 3 times in total, but every time was a very enjoyable and memorable experience.

Like some here, I am married and do have great fears about getting caught. Every time I've went to a punt, I've researched thoroughly the wg and make sure she has decent feedback. I get a rough idea of the location during the initial contact so I can plan exactly how I'm going to get there and park the car, etc.

One thing that has crossed my mind recently is the idea of being outed by a wg. I guess the chance is slim but I worry about being photographed or filmed at the act and the material being used to out me or other sinister motives such as blackmail. I know it's difficult for a wg to identify me and get private details. Has anyone heard stories about this happening to punters? Maybe I worry too much. It's just the city I stay in is quite small and I just want to be extra careful.

Hi there daftpunk and welcome to the forum.  I think you should stop worrying otherwise your head will get in the way of your enjoyment if you get me?  I am more concerned about my privacy than I am about my client's to be honest.  I have far more to lose x

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As others have said, being outed is the least of your concerns.  Punters are scammed and ripped off on occasions (and still surprisingly rarely given the circumstances) - read this forum going back years you find the occasional moan/warning about a scam, but I can't recall anyone saying they had been outed by a WG, or even threatened with it.

 

There are various ways a dodgy WG can rip you off without the hassle of outing you.  You are far more likely to out yourself by being careless - religiously follow the basic punting precautions as others have said.  If you don't trust yourself to do this, and have a wife/girlfriend/children to lose then don't punt.

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oh, and Welcome to the forum ! 

 

have a nose around, on here, on saafe, and check if you have all the bases covered. 

Punting phone, correct routine and behaviour, not asking funny questions, cover tracks on laptop/tablet etc... 

good shout and unanimously sound comments through the thread, unless you are instantly recognisable public personality your odds are next to zero

 

one occasion I visited a house in bayswater and the door had a peep hole, on entering the flat I noticed the peephole was a digital LCD type that can take pics - nothing sinister - obvious protection issues however you don't know how or how long these images or clips are stored

 

it's common to have open laptops and webcams on PC's in the play area, now I'm genetically paranoid BUT I know I have been filmed or watched during a punt on the odd occasion or at least 90% sure, I went for a b2b massage, table set up in living room, laptop (with camera) open and facing the table, itunes playing music but in the status bar the skype icon was connected then would spin disconnected then connect - hard not to think there was someone on the other end ???

 

one of the first WG i reviewed as a newbie on this board had a husband with a voyeurism and interracial fetish so he wanted her to have a phone filming in the room and if i recall he was in the next room texting her what he wanted me to do to her - WTF?, it was super wierd and it basically killed the punt - guy like that could easily have a hidden camera for his own pleasure.

 

certainly higher odds of getting videod for private material by a voyeur, on a very recent punt with I couldn't help redirecting a webcam which seemed to oddly be pointing away from where a PC user would logically sit and instead aimed at the bed with the monitor off but the led light on the PC flashing and the hard disk whirring - hmmmm (maybe nothing but bit suspicious)

 

anyway for the most part unless the room is lit up to a high standard any video will be inevitably low quality or grainy due to low light

 

maybe it's just me but it's hard not to notice an oddly angled webcam when you are butt naked pacing across a strangers bedroom while she stashes the cash or fetches a drink - it's like those faces on billboards that are always looking at you wierd :wacko:

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<blockquote class='ipsBlockquote'data-author="dami3n" data-cid="484484" data-time="1359549401"><p>

good shout and unanimously sound comments through the thread, unless you are instantly recognisable public personality your odds are next to zero<br />

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one occasion I visited a house in bayswater and the door had a peep hole, on entering the flat I noticed the peephole was a digital LCD type that can take pics - nothing sinister - obvious protection issues however you don't know how or how long these images or clips are stored<br />

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it's common to have open laptops and webcams on PC's in the play area, now I'm genetically paranoid BUT I know I have been filmed or watched during a punt on the odd occasion or at least 90% sure, I went for a b2b massage, table set up in living room, laptop (with camera) open and facing the table, itunes playing music but in the status bar the skype icon was connected then would spin disconnected then connect - hard not to think there was someone on the other end ???<br />

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one of the first WG i reviewed as a newbie on this board had a husband with a voyeurism and interracial fetish so he wanted her to have a phone filming in the room and if i recall he was in the next room texting her what he wanted me to do to her - WTF?, it was super wierd and it basically killed the punt - guy like that could easily have a hidden camera for his own pleasure.<br />

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certainly higher odds of getting videod for private material by a voyeur, on a very recent punt with I couldn't help redirecting a webcam which seemed to oddly be pointing away from where a PC user would logically sit and instead aimed at the bed with the monitor off but the led light on the PC flashing and the hard disk whirring - hmmmm (maybe nothing but bit suspicious)<br />

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anyway for the most part unless the room is lit up to a high standard any video will be inevitably low quality or grainy due to low light<br />

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maybe it's just me but it's hard not to notice an oddly angled webcam when you are butt naked pacing across a strangers bedroom while she stashes the cash or fetches a drink - it's like those faces on billboards that are always looking at you wierd :wacko:</p></blockquote>

After reading this. I think I have to start looking out for signs of filming taking place on my punts. The thing with me is that as soon as I am in the same room with a stark naked woman, nothing else matters.

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While you can never say there isnt a remote possibility how many exposes do you hear of from WGs?   I really think WGs have very high ethical standards - it is not hard to think that in elevated circles, royalty even, professional ladies are involved, yet how many talk?   I suppose the thought of a one way trip down the Parisian tunnels if you spill the beans on Harry might be an inducement but really, a decent lady (not a crack head desperate for News of the World cash) - and IMHO, most are very decent - is not going to out you.

 

Be sensible, then lie back and enjoy!

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Dami3n's post has got me worried.  As soon as I remove my glasses I can just about see the screen, much less the icons in the status bar.  

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It's unlikely to happen amongst punters and wg. But some people I swung with got into an outing thing with the press. In the case of the swingers, they got a bit reckless and just didn't check on people. The press saw enough to make a thing out of it, and the problems escalated from there.

 

This is largely due to the fact that just about any kind of major club event or adult activity will have members of the press attend in order to seek out prospective victims. Many are out of work or freelance, and desperate to make a living. So they find out stuff and set people up by going along to their private activities, and hang about long enough to see some action, then usually scarper. If the victims are in a compromising situation, its a disaster for them.

 

There will be press and those associated with such on this site as well.

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