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Punting Nerves

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I've been doing this for years but with a longish booking on for tonight,my stomach already has butterflies,my concentration on anything is waning, I've lost my appetite. Wtf is going on ? 

 

Punting nerves. Are they good or a hindrance ?

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Is it nerves or the building excitement ?

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Nerves are good .... means you are in the zone!

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Is it your 1st time with the lady in question?..... I always get a little nervous before meeting a lady for the 1st time .... they usually tend to go in the 1st 5 minutes of the punt.... I think being a little nervous or excited is part of the enjoyment of doing what we do, if it wasn't what's the point?

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If you don't feel a few butterflies, it's time to pack up.

Enjoy!!!

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Get a shot of Jack down you  :)

But only the single! Don't want any Mr Droopy do we?

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Nerves are great. There's nothing for me that comes near that pre -punt feeling. When I no longer get it, I'll know it's game over.

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I've been doing this for years but with a longish booking on for tonight,my stomach already has butterflies,my concentration on anything is waning, I've lost my appetite. Wtf is going on ? 

 

Punting nerves. Are they good or a hindrance ?

 

Better than feeling nothing in my view. I dont feel nervous often, its exited anticipation of the fun to come. The last time i did feel nervous punting was before my first sex party when i was shitting a brick. I hope your punt went well. :)

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Better than feeling nothing in my view. I dont feel nervous often, its exited anticipation of the fun to come. The last time i did feel nervous punting was before my first sex party when i was shitting a brick. I hope your punt went well. :)

 

You are always bangin' on about how there is no relationship between price and service, well last night was once again proof of just how true that is.!

 

International jet setting blonde Brazillian type,with all the photos on her facebook to prove it. First engagement is normally when the escort kisses and embraces you and gives you those green lights which then relaxes you any nerves you have and you know you have a proper GFE on your hands. Didnt happen here . Its embarrassing because I instantly think 'is it me' ? I had prepared well, clean teeth,mouth freshner etc.

 

 We got on fine but I was always aware that the FK aspect was a problem and for me that massively detracted from the punt. Everthing else was fine  ( in particular the thigh high black boots ! :D ) but without FK, I would have preffered to watch the football on the TV and treated myself to hand relief later !  All in all, a waste of money and a bit of a hit to the ol self confidence. 

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I could say that you should always confirm that kissing is definitely on the menu before you confirm the booking (as I do) but for all I know this is what you did. I've been given confirmation and then discovered on more than one occasion that I've been deliberately lied to (after the cash has changed hands obviously). I only kiss my boyfriend; I don't kiss on the first meeting ????; my lips are dry/sore whatever. If a lady was honest and said that she would decide whether to kiss after she had met me I could accept. But it's a con to mislead you (being generous) and take your money.

However after only nine months I am now much harder about this aspect. When I arrive and before handing over the cash I judge the lady's response. I look for her to enthusiastically welcome me. If she doesn't then I will initiate first contact. Any hesitation on her part and I will leave. It's not something that I've done yet but I will if necessary.

Considering that most of my awaydays involve at least a four hour roundtrip it's not something I want to do but I will. It's better than spending my money on an hour or two of the lady's time and then face a two hour miserable drive home wondering "why the hell didn't I walk away, save my money, and have the satisfaction of the memory of the look on her face". Perhaps if more clients did it there would be less dishonesty from ladies like them.

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You are always bangin' on about how there is no relationship between price and service, well last night was once again proof of just how true that is.!

 

International jet setting blonde Brazillian type,with all the photos on her facebook to prove it. First engagement is normally when the escort kisses and embraces you and gives you those green lights which then relaxes you any nerves you have and you know you have a proper GFE on your hands. Didnt happen here . Its embarrassing because I instantly think 'is it me' ? I had prepared well, clean teeth,mouth freshner etc.

 

 We got on fine but I was always aware that the FK aspect was a problem and for me that massively detracted from the punt. Everthing else was fine  ( in particular the thigh high black boots ! :D ) but without FK, I would have preffered to watch the football on the TV and treated myself to hand relief later !  All in all, a waste of money and a bit of a hit to the ol self confidence. 

 

Would of been a waste of money to me to, i require at least FK, being a jet setting WG means the total sum of zero to me, if i saw it on a site/profile my first thought would be expensive. I always confirm services on offer when enquiring, booking and again in person before handing my cash over, if i dont get those services i never think is it me, i know the WG is a blatant liar and any interest i had is gone so i would walk nowadays. Better luck next time. :)

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Meh, I hate it when that happens.  All that trepidation and worry and then it turns to shit, and like you said, footy and a wank would have been more enjoyable and cheaper.  I've had a bad start to the year as well, so I do empathise.

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Meh, I hate it when that happens.  All that trepidation and worry and then it turns to shit, and like you said, footy and a wank would have been more enjoyable and cheaper.  I've had a bad start to the year as well, so I do empathise.

Same here, rubbish punt tonight. Nice enough girl, pleasant to chat to, fit as, but there was nothing there between us. My own fault for not following the earlier advice and checking what was on offer before the punt started. OWO at discretion was on her profile, but not tonight apparently, not much in the way of kissing either (also at discretion). Just couldn't get 'up for it' after that. Both my previous punts offered OWO (at discretion) with no problems so would hope it wasn't anything to do with me, was all squeaky clean an' all :(

Feeling pretty deflated about the whole thing at the moment, didn't feel nervous at all, was just looking forward to it before it all turned to shit. Oh well, onward and upwards....

Even the footy on Sky is crap 'coz Liverpool are winning (I'm an Everton fan).

Will nothing go right today? Lol.

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Hi Cumandgo.

 

We are in the same place my friend.  My punt today, with a girl who has had some good reviews, says at outset: no kisses allowed at all ('I've got a cough [cough, cough]' wtf?), no fingering, and no cumming in my mouth.  She could equally added: no chat, no smiling, no encouragement, no interest.  I left 30 mins into a 90 min punt.

 

This was as bad as it gets.  I've even broken my long standing rule of avoiding giving bad reviews (still awaiting approval however).

 

Would be feeling really jaded, but wtf, I support Liverpool!  Comon Suarez!! :D

 

Now, where's my Sauvignon for that matter?

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Get a shot of Jack down you  :)

Not up you mind... That could be painful.

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Would of been a waste of money to me to, i require at least FK, being a jet setting WG means the total sum of zero to me, if i saw it on a site/profile my first thought would be expensive. I always confirm services on offer when enquiring, booking and again in person before handing my cash over, if i dont get those services i never think is it me, i know the WG is a blatant liar and any interest i had is gone so i would walk nowadays. Better luck next time. :)

I normally am pretty good about my research but on this occasion , because of the particular circumstances involved it was just not possible. Having said that, given the fee I had to pay, it just never dawned on me that FK would not be on the menu. It was a done deal, I had to follow through or risk spoiling the night for others involved on the night. I felt I hasd no alternative but to make the best of it and I did just that.

 

Meh, I hate it when that happens.  All that trepidation and worry and then it turns to shit, and like you said, footy and a wank would have been more enjoyable and cheaper.  I've had a bad start to the year as well, so I do empathise.

 Well, although disappointed I had been looking at an even more expensive which didnt follow tthrough, so I suppose I can console  myself on that and perhaps treat myself to a meeting with one of my local girls who would thoroughly deserve  my money.

 

Same here, rubbish punt tonight. Nice enough girl, pleasant to chat to, fit as, but there was nothing there between us. My own fault for not following the earlier advice and checking what was on offer before the punt started. OWO at discretion was on her profile, but not tonight apparently, not much in the way of kissing either (also at discretion). Just couldn't get 'up for it' after that. Both my previous punts offered OWO (at discretion) with no problems so would hope it wasn't anything to do with me, was all squeaky clean an' all :(

Feeling pretty deflated about the whole thing at the moment, didn't feel nervous at all, was just looking forward to it before it all turned to shit. Oh well, onward and upwards....

Even the footy on Sky is crap 'coz Liverpool are winning (I'm an Everton fan).

Will nothing go right today? Lol.

Didnt have the opportunity to check services and I suppose I am big headed enough to think that FK would not be a problem. Well. I learnt my lesson on that. Just wish the money could have gone to those ladies who work locally and who would have really appreciated it.

 

Hi Cumandgo.

 

We are in the same place my friend.  My punt today, with a girl who has had some good reviews, says at outset: no kisses allowed at all ('I've got a cough [cough, cough]' wtf?), no fingering, and no cumming in my mouth.  She could equally added: no chat, no smiling, no encouragement, no interest.  I left 30 mins into a 90 min punt.

 

This was as bad as it gets.  I've even broken my long standing rule of avoiding giving bad reviews (still awaiting approval however).

 

Would be feeling really jaded, but wtf, I support Liverpool!  Comon Suarez!! :D

 

Now, where's my Sauvignon for that matter?

 That sounds particularly bad. No, my girl was fine in every way except the FkK but for me that is vital.When that is missing, I worry that the girl just doesnt want to be there in the first place or finds me less than attractive to her. A brazilian that doesnt FK -- I never heard of such a thing !!!

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Not up you mind... That could be painful.

 

:lol:  :lol:  :lol:

Voice of experience Holly?

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I always get nervous and have a huge check list of things that could go wrong from train delays to meeting friends as I enter the street. There is such a relief when I finally get throught the door everything else is a dream.

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I always get nervous and have a huge check list of things that could go wrong from train delays to meeting friends as I enter the street. There is such a relief when I finally get throught the door everything else is a dream.

 I am not normally very nervous as I tend to make bookings at relatively short notice and when I am in the zone.That way there is much less time for things to go wrong. The privacy of the incall is always one of my big concerns.

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I to was very nervous last night,lst time with a new lady,but after she opened the door, and gave me a lovely smile,all nerves disappeared and I had one of the best punts ever

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I experienced butterflies last week with a regular girl I've seen quite a lot of recently, hadn't felt like that for a long time. It felt really good, exciting, don't think it was nerves as such just excitement, but it was definitely that butterfly feeling, wish I got it more often.

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I experienced butterflies last week with a regular girl I've seen quite a lot of recently, hadn't felt like that for a long time. It felt really good, exciting, don't think it was nerves as such just excitement, but it was definitely that butterfly feeling, wish I got it more often.

I think if you have had great times in the past with a WG, it can bizarrely add to the nerves.  I think it is the worry that it won't live up to your last experience and your ardent desire.  With a new girl, there are no expectations per se, only the thrill of the unknown.

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