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Am I Doing Something Wrong?

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Hi all

 

I'm a newbie to punting. I've only ever met two girls both in early 2012. For my third booking I hoped find someone to dress up. Nothing weird... sexy secretary wear, skirt, blouse etc. Being new I like to take things slow more foreplay, kissing rather than just having sex. Using AW I choose girls who offer the services listed FK, OWO etc with good feedback, even checking the feedback of those who left ratings etc to ensure they're legit, only English girls and within my price range, no more than 100-140ph.

 

As I find it uncomfortable saying it over the phone. I message the girls on AW but i find the messages mostly remain unread or read with no reply. One girl who did reply with her contact number (not shown on the site) but when I texted her to arrange a booking a week later I had no reply.

 

Am I doing something wrong?

 

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Hi all

 

I'm a newbie to punting. I've only ever met two girls both in early 2012. For my third booking I hoped find someone to dress up. Nothing weird... sexy secretary wear, skirt, blouse etc. Being new I like to take things slow more foreplay, kissing rather than just having sex. Using AW I choose girls who offer the services listed FK, OWO etc with good feedback, even checking the feedback of those who left ratings etc to ensure they're legit, only English girls and within my price range, no more than 100-140ph.

 

As I find it uncomfortable saying it over the phone. I message the girls on AW but i find the messages mostly remain unread or read with no reply. One girl who did reply with her contact number (not shown on the site) but when I texted her to arrange a booking a week later I had no reply.

 

Am I doing something wrong?

Haven't a clue, do bear in mind text messages even to reliable folk can go astray and even I've been guilty of accidentally deleting a text before replying to it. Assuming it wasn't an open ended "Hi ru ok?" "Are you available?" text I'd give her a call, if you get an answer great if not find someone who will answer your messages. By the way if you do call and don't get an answer do listen to any voicemail greeting - many ladies do put messages about their availability/when to call back on their numbers, and many guys just don't listen assuming they're just ignoring them(same goes for vacation/auto responses to emails).

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You're probably not doing anything wrong, some girls are just unreliable at best or are suffering  from 'full purse syndrome' when you contact them.

 

Recommendations are best, especially from sites like this. Tell us what area you are in and someone will be along to help.

 

 

 

 

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Remember AW can be hit n miss. Services listed are not always available.

 

I presume as your new you won't have much feedback, some girls might not take you seriously.

 

As Strawberry mentioned above make sure your email is not a couple of lines.... Introduce yourself, say your new, & outline how you would like the booking to go.

 

A few girls you might like to try & see if you can get a booking with.( London based)

 

- Tayla Fox

- Kirsten

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I'm probably not the best person to answer this being as I've only had 3 punts, but none of the 3 girls I've booked have displayed phone numbers. I've just sent a brief friendly, polite email and asking about availability for an incall/outcall on a certain date & time. The girls I've contacted have been a fair bit younger than me, so I've also asked them if they are ok with that.

At that stage I don't mention services, and have always had a reply. I check about services just before making a booking either wgen the girl gives me her number or again by email.

On my third punt I made the mistake of not confirming what was available, and found owo wasn't offered despite being on her enjoys list. Sort of ruined the punt really but no one to blame but myself.

Don't know if the above is accepted practise, but it seems to have worked for me so far.

Good luck :)

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Short answer is i'm afraid that yes you are doing something wrong, telephone call contact is mostly preffered and some, if not most, indipendent WGs state they will not respond to text messages.

 

Your experience with AW messages is about normal i'd guess, this is a business and the time consuming process of logging on, reading messages, replying, awaiting another reply etc is just not efficient, and if a WG has guys calling the phone to make bookings keeping her busy she is unlikely to put too much into the to and froing of messages.

 

With all due respect if you find telephone contact with a WG uncomfortable perhaps you need a different hobby?

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Thanks for the replies! The emails are essentially a few lines about myself, the services I like, requests like dressing up and whether it would be possible to book a meeting. I find it easier to write it in an email rather than call. The girls I'd like to see are of a similar age to me. I don't have any feedback on AW at present.

 

I'm sure the right girl is out there somewhere :)

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keep trying.

 

approach politely, 

explain what you want in (not too long) emails.

 

keep trying, it will take time to find the right person to communicate and intereact.

 

 

oh, and in the abbreviation dept - how can I resist.
AIDSW ?   (am I doing something wrong)

YANDAW (you are not doing anything wrong)

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Have you tried the reverse booking system mate? I find it to be an excellent tool for finding new girls without the hassle of trawling through profile after profile, sending emails, waiting for replies that may never materialise etc.

Its easy, just enter the date/time and approx location you want to meet, then fill out the box...I tend to write a little bit about myself, no need to write an autobiography though, then I write down which services I am looking for, and finally maybe tell the girls what type of girl you are looking for, personally I keep it very open ended, I don't restrict myself to a certain "type" so I always stress that I'd like to hear from any ladies who are interested regardless of age/race/dress size/hair colour etc

I always place the reverse booking one week before the planned meet and usually get about 15-20 bids,, some girls reduce their rate when bidding on reverse bookings too, even the ones who say "don't ask me to reduce my rates" in their profile!

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I have found that it helps to suggest that you will call her at a time of her convenience in 2 or 3 days time. That way she can let you know when the best time is to call.

 

Also bear in mind that plenty of the escorts on AW are from abroad and their written English may not be too good (a bit like mine!). They may prefer a phone call. 

 

Remember that you can tell so much more about someone in a phone call than you can from a text or e-mail.

 

And as Bert suggests tell us where you are and you will find guys popping up to recommend their favourites.

 

Keep trying and good luck.

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You're probably not doing anything wrong, some girls are just unreliable at best or are suffering  from 'full purse syndrome' when you contact them.

 

Recommendations are best, especially from sites like this. Tell us what area you are in and someone will be along to help.

A bit like Ghostbusters! :o

 

Short answer is i'm afraid that yes you are doing something wrong, telephone call contact is mostly preffered and some, if not most, indipendent WGs state they will not respond to text messages.

 

Your experience with AW messages is about normal i'd guess, this is a business and the time consuming process of logging on, reading messages, replying, awaiting another reply etc is just not efficient, and if a WG has guys calling the phone to make bookings keeping her busy she is unlikely to put too much into the to and froing of messages.

 

With all due respect if you find telephone contact with a WG uncomfortable perhaps you need a different hobby?

What a load of crap.

 

AW is full of unreliable WGs along with the better ones.  Some reply to emails, some don't.  Some answer their phone, some don't.  Some will answer their phone and still be totally unreliable.

 

It's the nature of the game, but don't pay attention to fkinhrny.  He's talking b******s.

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I've never had a problem making booking on AW and always start with just a more general email, rather going into services you're after, after she gets back to you then start to describe what you're after. If you go straight in saying you're after this and that it may put her off, even if its something as simple as a uniform.

I'd usually email saying how great she looks, that I'd like to meet her etc a bit about me and hope she gets back. Always worked for me this way!

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Hi all

 

I'm a newbie to punting. I've only ever met two girls both in early 2012. For my third booking I hoped find someone to dress up. Nothing weird... sexy secretary wear, skirt, blouse etc. Being new I like to take things slow more foreplay, kissing rather than just having sex. Using AW I choose girls who offer the services listed FK, OWO etc with good feedback, even checking the feedback of those who left ratings etc to ensure they're legit, only English girls and within my price range, no more than 100-140ph.

 

As I find it uncomfortable saying it over the phone. I message the girls on AW but i find the messages mostly remain unread or read with no reply. One girl who did reply with her contact number (not shown on the site) but when I texted her to arrange a booking a week later I had no reply.

 

Am I doing something wrong?

 

You are what i call a slow starter, a member here since 2007 but a newbie punter. I only contact WGs by phone, i need to chat to them before i make a booking.

 

If email is the only way you wish to continue then i advise posting a thread up saying so asking for recommendations for WGs in your area who offer what your looking for, give as much detail as you can.  I wish you luck. :)

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fkinhrny may have been a bit brusque but he is basically right.  If you email a wg and she sends you back her number it means you should give her a call not a text.  A brief, to-the-point email may be a reasonable first contact (unless she expressly requests some other form of contact on her profile) but it will need to be followed up with a phone call.  I do understand it can be difficult to discuss things on the phone when starting out in this hobby but it is just so much easier to sort things out that way that you will have to make the effort.  No WG will want to get involved in email/text tennis and if your initial contact gives a whiff of things heading that way then the lady is unlikely to respond even once.

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That is an odd history, on here 6 years and 2 punts but none of our business really.

 

I have found email replies are completely unpredictable.

 

I have been begging for info on two AW girls on the Requests board with no responses.

 

But one of them answered my emails, albeit with a request I phone her.

 

The other one hasn't read my email.

 

Where your answer to an email is a telephone number and/or a request to ring her, that is the way to go - or walk away, however reluctantly.

 

If there is a phone number, try biting the bullet and seeing how you get on mentioning your requests. practice will help for sure.

 

You will also get an impression of the SP and may find your wish to see her confirmed or quite the reverse.

 

Given you care with choice of SP, it may be the girls you are in contact with are busy enough without having to answer email questions for more than the most basic info.

 

Many SPs do get pestered to death with emails and questions and simply grab their life back by installing an auto reply saying phone me or just ignoring them.

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A bit about my history... I looked into punting several years when I first registered on the site but never booked or contacted a WG. I don't punt when in a relationships hence the time gap. Started looking again last year after being single for a while.

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Whilst phoning may be useful / desirable.  A reluctance to phone is hardly a reason to give up on punting.

 

Agencies will take online bookings or email bookings complete with all your requirements, and AW SPs don't all insist on a telephone call so it really is nonsense to suggest to the OP that he considers finding a different hobby /gives up on punting, just because he may be uncomfortable on the phone.

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Whilst phoning may be useful / desirable.  A reluctance to phone is hardly a reason to give up on punting.

 

Agencies will take online bookings or email bookings complete with all your requirements, and AW SPs don't all insist on a telephone call so it really is nonsense to suggest to the OP that he considers finding a different hobby /gives up on punting, just because he may be uncomfortable on the phone.

 

 

 

I totally agree.

There will be many a lady who will like his sort of approach, he just is not finding them........yet!

 

Lucy  :) 

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Oh and one guy I know used to do all stuff on line with an agency as he hates the phone call sort of thing too.

Worked for him  :) 

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I find it difficult to TX on my phone, as I don't use it. I far prefer email or normal phone calls.

 

One WG on AW took me a month before I managed to get to see her, but it was well worth. She also had two good reviews on PN.

 

everyone to their own.

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You can never tell.  Sometimes an email is fine.  Sometimes it's too short or it can be too long.  A text may be welcome, or not.  A girl may be hostile when you ring, or friendly.  A successful approach to one girl might be interpreted as rude by another.

 

Just keep at it until you secure a booking, stop trying to fathom how their minds work.  

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