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Giving Up - How?

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Been punting for years now. Been trying to give up but just can't seem to.

Has anyone got any advice on how to stop?

Anyone else in my boat? How did you manage it? I guess that if you're reading this you probably haven't really given up - you're just resting between punts!

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Try telling your wife/grilfirend/fiancee etc. Then if you have any tackle left to punt with you may carry on but if their reaction is what we would expect you will have nothing left to use while punting!

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Do not cruise Adult Work looking at ladies.

Do not look at escort agency web sites.

Do not read and join sex site forums like this  ;) 

 

Like anything that you want to give up, you have to really want to.

It takes will power!

 

All the best to you, I hope can give up if you wish to.

Lucy  :) 

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If you find out how, please tell me how...

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Also...are you a rugby fan or are you from rugby? Of its the second one you're screwed...Chantelle Fox lives up your way doesn't she? If she was near me I think I'd have such a sore knob by now

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Has anyone got any advice on how to stop?

 

 

 

Run out of money or cut your testicles off.

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It would help if you explained why you want to stop. Most of us I imagine,,would like to punt more. Is it money or something else.

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You need to really want to give up, I don't but I took a longish break of about 9 months last year and it was actually easy. All I done was stopped going onto AW and other escort sites, didn't even just go on for a look, it's too tempting and kept away from forums! The first few weeks were the hardest trying not to look, especially if you're normally on these sites daily! But it soon became easy, I'd removed the temptation. Luckily for me seeing escorts isn't my only sex option, so I guess it depends on whether you have others to see that'd mean you could walk away from this and not miss the fun it brings...

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Marry someone who is into the swinging scene

 

...or cultivate an addiction to Japanese tentacle porn that can't be satisfied by a punt unless you can find a very understanding WG with a pet octopus.

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Strong will power.

 

Stop looking at escorting websites.

 

Keep your cock in your pants.

 

And keep your money in the bank!

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Find another hobby about which you feel really obsessive.  Countryside pursuits are ideal: fishing, hunting, animal watching.  Get off the computer.

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Yes to the last suggestion   Smash your  computer!

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... and there's always the method described in the 'very odd request' thread !

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Been there, done that, got the t-shirt and failed miserably! Good luck though!

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Thanks for all the help. I'm tring to give up to save money. Can't believe how much I spend on this lark.

Sounds like best advice is to stay away from here!

Haha. Easier said than done.

Anyone seek professional help? I'm willing to pay.

R.

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Thanks for all the help. I'm tring to give up to save money. Can't believe how much I spend on this lark.

Sounds like best advice is to stay away from here!

Haha. Easier said than done.

Anyone seek professional help? I'm willing to pay.

R.

I'm sure you can get a drug to reduce your sex drive. Would that help? Try your doctor or a pharmacist.

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Even though you're straight...... find a wank buddy? The only good thing about it is that it would be free :D . But 'an arrangement' with a deprived divorcee or widow would be much much better!.... But do such women exist these days?

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Sex addicts anonymous, they have meetings in milton keynes. Problem is, when and if I decide to go, I would probably work it around a trip to annebellas :P

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I have given up - so to speak - gone months without and then relapsed. I come out of a poor or average punt thinking - not again - but a few months down the line I get the itch again.

 

There is a first time - but there is never a last ...

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Been punting for years now. Been trying to give up but just can't seem to.

Has anyone got any advice on how to stop?

Anyone else in my boat? How did you manage it? I guess that if you're reading this you probably haven't really given up - you're just resting between punts!

Stop punting and do a drop kick or a place kick.

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Try Bromide in your tea.

 

On a serious note as you said saving money is part of the reason to want to stop then try fixing your desire on something to buy with the money you save. If your spending a grand a month then find something that cost around a £1000 and buy it. Thay way unlike seeing a working girl where there is nothing to show for the money spent you have something that will last.

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The good news is that if your reason for giving up is to save money, you could simply cut down rather than give up completely.  This will be much easier to do, I think.  To me, the worst thing about giving up completely is the idea of facing the future with no naughty pleasures to look forward to ever again (of the punting kind, obviously).

 

My situation is not so different.  After 6 months or so of completely overdoing it on the punting front I am finally biting the bullet and cutting down to save money.  The process is helped by the fact that I have a different project to start later this year at what is turning out to be a fairly major cost, so I really can't afford to keep blowing thousands of pounds on girls.

 

I find that what has worked for me so far is to still have a single punt planned for the future, so that I have a pleasant future experience to contemplate, but the punt isn't actually booked, so if I get nearer the time and I'm still not desperate I can keep deferring it.  When I eventually can't stand it any more, I have the punt and start the process again.  The aim is thus to punt less, but not to walk away completely.

 

Using this revolutionary technique I have gone an entire week without punting! :D  :unsure:

 

Do I have the fortitude to defer my punt pencilled in for Wednesday though? :o

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Try Bromide in your tea.

You are showing your age with that comment.

I knew an old english chap who fought in WW2, in Italy. I knew the troops were whoring up to their eyeballs there and I also knew he had just got married before going out to the front. How did you get by? I asked with a wink. "kept it in me trousers" he said with a satisfied smirk. That must have been hard, said I. "No problem" he said, "just put some bromide in your tea - kills the fire."

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For a long time I had stopped wanking and my only ejaculations were with my wife (infrequently) or WGs. When I found the cruising of punting sites getting to be too much of a habit (and noticing the decreasing gaps in time between punts) I found that by wanking almost every morning the cravings were reduced and even if I found myself looking at the forums and listing sites I didn't need to have a punt. I became far more picky about the profiles I was reading - suddenly almost all the options didn't seem worth bothering with!

 

I am still punting but feel more in control of it.

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For a long time I had stopped wanking and my only ejaculations were with my wife (infrequently) or WGs. When I found the cruising of punting sites getting to be too much of a habit (and noticing the decreasing gaps in time between punts) I found that by wanking almost every morning the cravings were reduced and even if I found myself looking at the forums and listing sites I didn't need to have a punt. I became far more picky about the profiles I was reading - suddenly almost all the options didn't seem worth bothering with!

 

I am still punting but feel more in control of it.

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