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Field Report I Find Disturbing

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I have been seeing a young Lady for some time now, and we have more than just a WG / Punter relationship. But She has recently received a FR which I find really disturbing and I would really like to know other people's views on it, including WG's please.

Without going into great detail the theme of the meeting is a "Daddy" will teach you situation which ends with don't tell "Mummy" and "Daddy" will teach you some more.

I feel that even in a role play situation this is just a step to far. Any thoughts ?

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Without knowing which FR you are talking about it is difficult to form an opinion but going on what you have just posted then yes, I feel it would be a step too far.

Can you post a link to the FR so we can make a more informed opinion?

Also have you contacted the WG and told her what you think?

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Is there anything at all within the FR which suggests the lady was not a completely willing participant in any of the activities described? Because if there isn't it sounds like a fairly standard age/incest roleplay scenario to me, and whilst it's obviously at the taboo end of the spectrum, provided everybody taking part is a consenting adult then it's really nothing to do with what you find 'disturbing' or not. Nobody's asking you to do it and if the lady wants you to comment on whether you approve of what floats other people's boats then I daresay she'll ask.

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Not something I would want to do with a client, but we are all different and have different boundaries about services we wish to provide. It is not illegal to provide roleplay and although you may not like it you really can't judge her to provide this service if she has agreed to do it nor the client who wanted it.

Once again...not my thing at all I won;t even do schoolgirl.

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If a client suggests anything that has even the slightest wiff of paedo-play / incest-play, I try to stay as calm as possible and try to find out why. And then I tell them to get therapy and to please NEVER act on these urges in real life. One potential client was abused himself and this was his way of dealing with it, to re-enact what had happened but I couldn't/can't do it, not good for my head.

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I have been seeing a young Lady for some time now, and we have more than just a WG / Punter relationship. But She has recently received a FR which I find really disturbing and I would really like to know other people's views on it, including WG's please.

Without going into great detail the theme of the meeting is a "Daddy" will teach you situation which ends with don't tell "Mummy" and "Daddy" will teach you some more.

I feel that even in a role play situation this is just a step to far. Any thoughts ?

I'm surprised that nobody else has picked up  on this. I think the OP is concerned, because a lady for whom he has developed "feelings" indulges in sex play which is outside his comfort zone. He should move on to see another SP. If asked, I bet 80% of ladies indulge in activities which a significant majority of the general public would find hard to accept.

 

I too find the play described as disturbing, but if the SP is a willing participant then we should let her and her client get on with it. The lady can decide how to play it if and when things take a more sinister turn.

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Just thought I'd throw it in here, I understand your concern but I find it a bit disturbing that you have crossed the boundary of the punter/WG relationship and are critically examining the girl's FRs and getting upset about what she consents to do with other guys, maybe you need to get some distance.

 

If she had approached you with 'I've got this weirdo and I don't know how to get rid of him, can you help?' then maybe you could get involved, but you're on a sticky wicket if you want to try and police what 'your' WG does and doesn't do with other clients.

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If a client suggests anything that has even the slightest wiff of paedo-play / incest-play, I try to stay as calm as possible and try to find out why. And then I tell them to get therapy and to please NEVER act on these urges in real life. One potential client was abused himself and this was his way of dealing with it, to re-enact what had happened but I couldn't/can't do it, not good for my head.

 

I agree with this.  This guy has a problem, but then many do, on the other end of the scale I've had guys wanting to be serviced in schoolboy outfits and go shopping dressed like that.

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Great minds think alike porker paul! :)

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Well I think this is the key thing that Paul has pointed out, would you be going through other ladies reports and commenting about what you find distasteful? I think you are projecting your feelings on her. She is a service provider remember that, she will see hundreds of clients a year as well as you and will do things with them that she won;t do with you and vice versa...have a good think about why this is really bothering you and as Paul says perhaps think about seeing other working girls. 

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An icky subject matter for me, but I can't see the problem if it's played out within the paramaters of consensual agreement.

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while i find it disturbing, i also find it admirable that these clients have chosen to do this act with a consenting adult, and not a child. they get respect for that in my book, because many people with these types of fantasies actually act on them for real. 

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I know plenty of people (in real life and clients) who get off on age play and even incest roleplays. It's just that, a game, nothing to do with pedophilia at all. It's not everyone's cup of tea I agree, but quite frankly an actual pedophile isn't going to be booking me in a school uniform at the age of 37 to get their kicks. 

 

You have to see it in the same way as other roleplay scenarios. Many men wouldn't dream of sexually harassing their staff in real life, but enjoy playing out a boss coming on to a 'slutty secretary'. Plumbers/workmen/estate agents/insurance sellers don't touch up their clients in reality, but these make for common fantasies and roleplay themes. These men are no more sexual predators than a man requiring schoolgirl/daddy roleplay is an incestuous pedophile. In the same way women who enjoy these scenarios are very likely to be repulsed by actual pedophilia and incest, but have excellent imaginations and open minds. 

 

As has been said, the OP needs to not think about what his favourite SP gets up to when she is not with him and if he is getting stirrings of jealousy and thinks he has "more than a  WG/Punter relationship then that needs addressing first. 

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If a client suggests anything that has even the slightest wiff of paedo-play / incest-play, I try to stay as calm as possible and try to find out why. And then I tell them to get therapy and to please NEVER act on these urges in real life. .

I applaud your approach in dealing with situations like this (hopefully not very often) but would urge caution when giving such advice. From your posts you do come across, with all due respect, as being quite assertive in getting across your views. That's fine in the anonymity of this forum but can be potentially dangerous in a face to face situation. Particularly with a man who is asking for role play that is a bit dubious. Seemingly nice people can change personality within seconds. I would urge caution to any lady in these circumstances.

As for the OP. It really is none of your business what the lady gets up to (or down to) with another man. It's the job she has chosen. Because you have apparently seen her several times you have, accordinging to you, more than the standard WG/punter relationship. With all due respect the extent of this "relationship" is in your mind. What's in the mind of the lady is likely to be completely different.

I think that you are on very dangerous ground. You seem to be wanting more from seeing this lady than she is perhaps prepared to give. If you tell her that you have been reading her FR's to see what she does with other clients she will want to know why. The hole will get bigger and bigger and swallow you up. You will then have lost the opportunity of seeing a lady of whom you are obviously very fond.

On the bright side have you considered that the FR might be an exagerration of what occurred? They are after all written by the punter and I have read FR's that are nothing more than an ego booster for someone who wants to appear better than he actually is. Everyone has an image of themselves in their mind of what they think they are or would like to be. I think the maxim with FR's is "don't believe everything you read".

Having said all the above the "daddy will teach you something" is a scenario which gives concern. But it is up to the lady to deal with if she is concerned about it. Hopefully she might read this thread and pick up on your concerns.

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It would help us all if the OP would identify the FR concerned. Then we could make more informed comments.

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I applaud your approach in dealing with situations like this (hopefully not very often) but would urge caution when giving such advice. From your posts you do come across, with all due respect, as being quite assertive in getting across your views. That's fine in the anonymity of this forum but can be potentially dangerous in a face to face situation. Particularly with a man who is asking for role play that is a bit dubious. Seemingly nice people can change personality within seconds. I would urge caution to any lady in these circumstances. As for the OP. It really is none of your business what the lady gets up to (or down to) with another man. It's the job she has chosen. Because you have apparently seen her several times you have, accordinging to you, more than the standard WG/punter relationship. With all due respect the extent of this "relationship" is in your mind. What's in the mind of the lady is likely to be completely different. I think that you are on very dangerous ground. You seem to be wanting more from seeing this lady than she is perhaps prepared to give. If you tell her that you have been reading her FR's to see what she does with other clients she will want to know why. The hole will get bigger and bigger and swallow you up. You will then have lost the opportunity of seeing a lady of whom you are obviously very fond. On the bright side have you considered that the FR might be an exagerration of what occurred? They are after all written by the punter and I have read FR's that are nothing more than an ego booster for someone who wants to appear better than he actually is. Everyone has an image of themselves in their mind of what they think they are or would like to be. I think the maxim with FR's is "don't believe everything you read". Having said all the above the "daddy will teach you something" is a scenario which gives concern. But it is up to the lady to deal with if she is concerned about it. Hopefully she might read this thread and pick up on your concerns.

 

 

Gibbs you won't believe some of the situations the girls have to deal with and I'm sure Randombird is more than capable of dealing with them. 

 

I can remember one young man coming to see me and I noticed things weren't all as they should have been down there.  I had no choice but to sit him down and tell him he needed medical care, if you get my drift, and I couldn't carry on with the booking.  He broke down and the whole situation was difficult.  He cried a little and then admitted he had only ever been with two women, one was a one off with a girl he knew as a student, the other a close SP friend of mine and then booked to see me.  After a little chatting I agreed to accompany him to the clinic, contacted my friend and she came with us.  She was clear, so he then had to find this other woman and let her know.

 

There are times we do have to cross that line and have a responsibility towards others and there are ways that can be dealt with.

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It's important not to confuse fantasy and roleplay with real-world desires. People who are into age-play are no closer to paedophiles than people who are into being dominated are to wanting to be genuinely assaulted. 

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There are times we do have to cross that line and have a responsibility towards others and there are ways that can be dealt with.

Not so much crossing it, more termporarily moving it IMO

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Gibbs you won't believe some of the situations the girls have to deal with and I'm sure Randombird is more than capable of dealing with them. .
I'm sure that RB, yourself and the majority of ladies who frequent this forum plus many others are very capable of dealing with potentially difficult situations.

There are, fortunately, thousands of ladies out there willing to satisfy the carnal desires of us men. Many of them will not be as experienced as you and the other ladies that I mentioned. Some of them will be amongst the hundred or more people that are at any one time guests on this site. That was the primary reason for my comments about taking care and not to any one person in particular. I only mentioned RB because it was her post that prompted me to comment.

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It's important not to confuse fantasy and roleplay with real-world desires. People who are into age-play are no closer to paedophiles than people who are into being dominated are to wanting to be genuinely assaulted. 

But what will the sex police do then? Squawking about people who like bareback is going to get old pretty quick.

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Maybe by enacting out this wierd roleplay, she is preventing it happening in reality.

 

Maybe she is fuelling his incestual desires. The punter clearly has issues, but while it is between two consenting adults it is no more wierd than many other things WGs have to cater for.

 

If it is outside her comfort zone, surely she is capable of saying no. 

 

Personally I would find someone dressing up in a purple spandex gimp suit and wearing a gas mask would freak me out, but different strokes for different folks.

 

If we were all "normal" we wouldn't be logging onto this website. 

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I have been seeing a young Lady for some time now, and we have more than just a WG / Punter relationship. But She has recently received a FR which I find really disturbing and I would really like to know other people's views on it, including WG's please.

Without going into great detail the theme of the meeting is a "Daddy" will teach you situation which ends with don't tell "Mummy" and "Daddy" will teach you some more.

I feel that even in a role play situation this is just a step to far. Any thoughts ?

 

 

 

I think it is up to the lady in question to decide what she wants to do or not in a role play situation.

What ever they get up to is between the two of them.

If she has received the review as one on AW and she has linked it for all to view, she must clearly in my opinion not have a problem with the mans words of type and therefore linked it to her profile.

If she thinks it is not at step too far, well that is that.

 

Us lot on here are not punter and prostitute police to say what is right or wrong.

Of course the OP has asked for our opinions, but in the end if the two who did the role play situation are happy with it all, that is good enough for me.

 

In regard to the OP having more than a punter/escort relationship.

I know what you mean, as that can happen if you see a lot of each other, but in the end please do not forget that us ladies do see lots of guy and she may not feel the same way about your punter/escort relationship as you do.

 

Anyway if you like her enough, what she gets up to with another gentleman should not really worry you.

All the best.

 

Lucy  :)

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I should think many of us here have kinks that would make others skin crawl..  

 

Several years back I had a guy kept badgering me to play out the rape thing, there was absolutely no way that was going to happen with me, but I mentioned it on here at the time.  Several girls contacted me asking to pass their details on because they were happy to do it which really surprised me.

 

What is right for one is not right for another, but as forward as I am there are some things that even I find a step too far.

 

As for whether a guy will rape or commit sexual crimes against children after seeing an escort or playing the fantasy out, or even whether playing the fantasy out will fill that gap and stop them going further I'm not sure, but slipping a fair bit of Cyproterone Acetate in the tea would definitely sort the problem...

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I have been seeing a young Lady for some time now, and we have more than just a WG / Punter relationship. But She has recently received a FR which I find really disturbing and I would really like to know other people's views on it, including WG's please.

Without going into great detail the theme of the meeting is a "Daddy" will teach you situation which ends with don't tell "Mummy" and "Daddy" will teach you some more.

I feel that even in a role play situation this is just a step to far. Any thoughts ?

 

As long as the role play was agreed with the WG and she offered it i dont see a problem. Its fantasy not reality assuming the author can distinguish the difference of course, what adults do with consent is up to them, not my bag though.

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Thank you all for your comments/advice

 

And Gibbs you where spot on having contacted the Lady it turns out it was an ego thing

Not one I understand but it takes allsorts

 

       Once again thanks to one and all

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