LondonPunter30

Know She's Run By A Pimp But ...

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Hi

 

Bit of a wierd one this.  I had a regular girl for about 3 years.  I used to book her for outcalls and had to pay her "driver" extra money to drive to my place.  After several years together we became friends and at one point I was deluded enough to try and have a relationship with her.

 

I knew all the time she was still in contact with this "driver" but she told me that was all he was.  Eventually she confided in me he took half the money from all her bookings as well as the driver money.  if she needed to pay for a hotel for a booking he would pay for it on his CC and then she would pay him back the money plus half the money from any bookings she did there.  She did modelling work he he took money from that as well as setting up her website.  I also know he hits her and beats her up to make sure he gets his money.

 

This is where it all gets a bit complicated.  The girl is of very low intelligence and just does whatever he tells her.  She's obsesses with money and can earn being pimped out by him than she can if she was on her own she she is complicite in all of this and happy with the situation to continue.

 

I know this is wrong but not sure how to proceed.  I'd like to report this anon to the police but not sure if that is possible or even a wise move. 

 

Would be greatful for advice from others on here

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What this guy is doing is despicable and I can understand how you feel about this, but experience tells me your best of leaving well alone unless she asks for help.  You said its been going on a while so I very much doubt you can wean her away from this man after all this time.  Sometimes people have to hit rock bottom before they wake up and smell the coffee I'm afraid and no amount of interference from you is going to help her.

 

 

On the other hand if you know a few handy men and feel brave enough to take this lovely gentleman down a dark alley that might work, but then how is she going to earn?

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Hi

 

Bit of a wierd one this.  I had a regular girl for about 3 years.  I used to book her for outcalls and had to pay her "driver" extra money to drive to my place.  After several years together we became friends and at one point I was deluded enough to try and have a relationship with her.

 

I knew all the time she was still in contact with this "driver" but she told me that was all he was.  Eventually she confided in me he took half the money from all her bookings as well as the driver money.  if she needed to pay for a hotel for a booking he would pay for it on his CC and then she would pay him back the money plus half the money from any bookings she did there.  She did modelling work he he took money from that as well as setting up her website.  I also know he hits her and beats her up to make sure he gets his money.

 

This is where it all gets a bit complicated.  The girl is of very low intelligence and just does whatever he tells her.  She's obsesses with money and can earn being pimped out by him than she can if she was on her own she she is complicite in all of this and happy with the situation to continue.

 

I know this is wrong but not sure how to proceed.  I'd like to report this anon to the police but not sure if that is possible or even a wise move. 

 

Would be greatful for advice from others on here

The bill, definitely

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Is this not a case for Crimestoppers?

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Please don't take this the wrong way but if she is of limited intelligence maybe you could plant a seed of thought in her head

Maybe make up a thread in your head and recite some of the answers by the very helpful lady's who post on said forum and reading it made you think of her

Very tricky situation she may not pick up on the intended hint and may possibly mention something to the driver

If you have a tablet etc maybe visit the saafe website again for research purposes with her .

she might find some help or at least get her thinking

Good luck

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Is this not a case for Crimestoppers?

 

Should have mentioned I filled out there form about 6 months ago and they didn't do anything.  I tried to report him for tax fraud as I know he can't pay any tax on these earnings and again that didn't get anywhere either.

 

We aren't in contact much any more as I got fed up with the situation but I know her "driver" as already given her stuff to say if she ever gets questioned about it.

 

The trouble is she can't see any way of earning the same money she does on her own so she's happy to get used and abuse by him.  She doesn't realise despite me telling her seveval times she could double her earnings without this piece of ****

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Hi

 

Bit of a wierd one this.  I had a regular girl for about 3 years.  I used to book her for outcalls and had to pay her "driver" extra money to drive to my place.  After several years together we became friends and at one point I was deluded enough to try and have a relationship with her.

 

I knew all the time she was still in contact with this "driver" but she told me that was all he was.  Eventually she confided in me he took half the money from all her bookings as well as the driver money.  if she needed to pay for a hotel for a booking he would pay for it on his CC and then she would pay him back the money plus half the money from any bookings she did there.  She did modelling work he he took money from that as well as setting up her website.  I also know he hits her and beats her up to make sure he gets his money.

 

This is where it all gets a bit complicated.  The girl is of very low intelligence and just does whatever he tells her.  She's obsesses with money and can earn being pimped out by him than she can if she was on her own she she is complicite in all of this and happy with the situation to continue.

 

I know this is wrong but not sure how to proceed.  I'd like to report this anon to the police but not sure if that is possible or even a wise move. 

 

Would be greatful for advice from others on here

 

Is this a typical case of Sharon Stone's character in the movie "Casino"? 

What was her name ? Jewel ? What ?

 

Anyways, you're wasting your time.  

Do have a good reason to believe that you're the first one to have told her that she can do much better without this creep ?

 

I have married female friends. They cook, do the washing/ironing, receive orders, told to shut up, and ignore the affairs in their marriage. Some of them got even beaten up. I tried to intervene only to see what a sickening love they had for their husbands. It made me sick. 

 

Some people are like that. They are too afraid/dumb to get out of an abusive relationship. 

Even if they do, chances are that they will end up in another abusive relationship. 

 

There isn't much you can do. 

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Blimey. Why after several years of being happy with situation do you suddenly become concerned? I'd have stopped seeing her double pronto as soon as I'd realised that she was being controlled for gain.

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What this guy is doing is despicable and I can understand how you feel about this, but experience tells me your best of leaving well alone unless she asks for help.  You said its been going on a while so I very much doubt you can wean her away from this man after all this time.  Sometimes people have to hit rock bottom before they wake up and smell the coffee I'm afraid and no amount of interference from you is going to help her.

 

 

On the other hand if you know a few handy men and feel brave enough to take this lovely gentleman down a dark alley that might work, but then how is she going to earn?

I admire your sentiments,however,i dont think most people would be willing to escallate things to the level needed to guarentee no comeback for either the punter or the lady involved.Also,its kind of similar to a case that happened round my way a while back.Fella was beating his mrs/gf up in the street,really lamping her.Bloke saw it,came out of his house and stopped it by basically lamping the bf.whilst he was now engaged with dealing with the bf,the girl stabbed him for attacking her dearly loved other half.

 

Should have mentioned I filled out there form about 6 months ago and they didn't do anything.  I tried to report him for tax fraud as I know he can't pay any tax on these earnings and again that didn't get anywhere either.

 

We aren't in contact much any more as I got fed up with the situation but I know her "driver" as already given her stuff to say if she ever gets questioned about it.

 

The trouble is she can't see any way of earning the same money she does on her own so she's happy to get used and abuse by him.  She doesn't realise despite me telling her seveval times she could double her earnings without this piece of ****

Trouble is,this sounds like he has his hooks in deep.I remeber reading once about good pimps being able to make the girls truly believe that they need them and that they have their best interests at heart etc.If she's swallowed this hook and sinker then theres not a lot you can do.For the police to act they need her to make a statement against him.From what youve said,she isnt going to do that.As for tax.Lets say,for arguments sake,he isnt declaring his half of her money,he may well be doing returns for his drivers income and whilst he has a visible source of income and he's not exceeding that the tax people have no reason to investigate him

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You can only help her if she wants to help herself. I doubt very much that there's anything that you can do for her at the present time.

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I admire your sentiments,however,i dont think most people would be willing to escallate things to the level needed to guarentee no comeback for either the punter or the lady involved.Also,its kind of similar to a case that happened round my way a while back.Fella was beating his mrs/gf up in the street,really lamping her.Bloke saw it,came out of his house and stopped it by basically lamping the bf.whilst he was now engaged with dealing with the bf,the girl stabbed him for attacking her dearly loved other half.

 

Trouble is,this sounds like he has his hooks in deep.I remeber reading once about good pimps being able to make the girls truly believe that they need them and that they have their best interests at heart etc.If she's swallowed this hook and sinker then theres not a lot you can do.For the police to act they need her to make a statement against him.From what youve said,she isnt going to do that.As for tax.Lets say,for arguments sake,he isnt declaring his half of her money,he may well be doing returns for his drivers income and whilst he has a visible source of income and he's not exceeding that the tax people have no reason to investigate him

to the first paragraph. So true. I have known old friends who have had a regular slapping from their husbands but the minute you make the mistake of saying something like "you deserve better" all you get back is "dont you slag off my husband".. 

 

to the second part. The girl probably isnt thick, she is probably beaten into submission and permenant emotional numbness 

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I think the problem is he's found a way to control her.  She is obsessed by money and through him she earns money so she is happy with the situation.  Not sure if the police will do anything even though what he is doing is illegal.  I've seen e-mails where they have spoken about this but it's all a bit circumstantial.

 

I'm a bit annoyed about the whole situation to be honest and this piece if **** has got half the money I paid to her and didn't do anything to earn it other then beat her up

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I think the problem is he's found a way to control her.  She is obsessed by money and through him she earns money so she is happy with the situation.  Not sure if the police will do anything even though what he is doing is illegal.  I've seen e-mails where they have spoken about this but it's all a bit circumstantial.

 

I'm a bit annoyed about the whole situation to be honest and this piece if **** has got half the money I paid to her and didn't do anything to earn it other then beat her up

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it may be less an obsession with money and more a fear of being penniless if she is unable to make any on her own

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No i'm afraid she is obsesses by money and that is the only real thing she cares about.  She's obsessed by it to the point of ugliness which is one of the other reasons I ended up walking away.  She has no friends so they can't help you make any money just her pimp.  She used to earn money on her own working as a lap dancer then moved into modelling \ porn where she met this piece if **** who got his hooks into her and started to run her as an escort taking half her money.  Her earnings went up through the work so she didn't seem to care that much.

 

Think I might be better just walking away completely, I feel i'm part motivated by bitterness about the situation and loss of my own money.  I don't really want to get involved in this going to court which I may need to be if I reported this to the police.

how have you lost money? If you had a service with her everytime you saw her then you havnt lost anything, you chose to spend it on a hooker who is in love with someone else

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