MissKylie

Can A Certain Age Put You Off?

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Recently I honestly have had several men say to me 'I was abit concerned about you're age at first'
I even bid on a dinner date reverse booking that really appealed to me only for the guy to say that I am too young for him, and his age range was something like 24-48 but I always think that once they read about me and see the fact that I personally much prefer older men that they might change their mind. I always thought that men liked young women but it turns out that actually a lot of them don't. One guy even said and this is no lie 'You should think about adding a couple of years to you're age, you would probably get more of the type of clients you wish to see' could this really be true and something to think about doing?

I suppose it just upsets me abit that some guys think I'm 'too young' when I'm not. Of course some guys actually want an older lady and that's perfectly fine but I'm talking about guys that go for women that are say between 24-30 because they think those extra few years will mean they will be more worldly wise and experienced sexually, but I don't think that's always true and personally I feel at least 25 in my head!

Could my age really be going against me and putting some clients off? And the type of clients that are most suited to me?

What are you're preferred age ranges when punting?

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24 - 48? You could have surely made a much more accurate estimate than that!

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24 - 48? You could have surely made a much more accurate estimate than that!
That was his age range for the booking.

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24 - 48? You could have surely made a much more accurate estimate than that!

 

I think MissKylie was referring to the age range of the ladies her potential customer preferred, not the age of the potential customer.

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i dont tend to look much below aged 30 (i hope thats accurate enough) because i find young folks like to think they are all grown up but they tend not to be and older ladies tend to be less judgemental on performance and anyone in there early twenties is young enough to be my daughter

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Kylie- I really wouldn't fret. Men's preferences vary as much as women's. Some men specifically want certain age ranges for whatever reason and some will not mind about age and choose a girl based on her looks and some will pick based on a random something that appeals to them. 

 

You can't be all things to all people, so just stick with the truth. You're established as a 20 year old, if you suddenly start being 25 many will know you are fibbing and may wonder what else you've said is not true! Also, you may gain clients by adding on a few years, but you may lose some who are looking for some someone younger. 

make the most of being 'too young', it's far more depressing being told you're too old, trust me! 

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Late 20s to late 30s for me. Girls in their early 20s really do not do it for me

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I think MissKylie was referring to the age range of the ladies her potential customer preferred, not the age of the potential customer.

Stupid me. Didn't read it properly. But anyway, I keep thinking a long new post is a wind up now and/or maybe written by a man. I've lost all faith in my ability to know what is genuine and what is not.

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Hi Kylie,

I'm mid forties and find that I generally go by how a profile comes across rather than a set age range. If a profile gives a good indication that I will get what I'm looking for in a punt ( GFE with kissing as the deal breaker ) then age is immaterial to me.

Saying this I have only been with women over 30 so far but I am curious to try someone younger so if I'm down your way who knows :)

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From a punters point of view: never had a problem with the more mature Ladies, this reinforced by Monday's meeting with a 56 year old Lady. Wonderful.

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Thanks Lydia and I do get that but I want to appeal to the older gentlemen who look for more than just a shag with a young girl if you get what I mean. I'm interested in longer bookings and getting to know the guy more ect and I would just hope my age didn't turn those kind of guys off who might assume I am not old enough mentally for them.

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I think MinxyLydia is right when she says -

make the most of being 'too young' 

Like all of us, MissKylie, you'll soon be a little older!

 

I think the fact that the booking was for a dinner date may also have been a factor. I could imagine an older gentleman being happy to meet someone much younger in private (in a parlour, hotel room, flat, etc) but at the same time being a lttle wary of being seen with someone young enough to be their daughter, or even granddaughter, in a public place, such as a restaurant. He may be a little shy about what the staff and other diners might be thinking and gossiping about! 

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I think MinxyLydia is right when she says -

Like all of us, MissKylie, you'll soon be a little older!

I think the fact that the booking was for a dinner date may also have been a factor. I could imagine an older gentleman being happy to meet someone much younger in private (in a parlour, hotel room, flat, etc) but at the same time being a lttle wary of being seen with someone young enough to be their daughter, or even granddaughter, in a public place, such as a restaurant. He may be a little shy about what the staff and other diners might be thinking and gossiping about!

Yes but that's not just the type of client I want to appeal to. Dinner dates and overnights ect are my favourite kind of bookings. I wouldn't care what anyone thought, but I can understand how that might be uncomfortable for the client.

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I've enjoyed ladies from 19-35, all have something different to offer, from cute innocence to uninhibited raunchiness and everything in between.

 

I generally concentrate my search on ladies at least 10 years younger than me as I've reached that mid-life crisis age where I want to recapture my fading youth, so for me that means a girl in her 20s.

 

Enjoy being 20 Kylie, youth passes by oh too quickly!! :)

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I don't like young girls any more, say <25, at least European girls.  I used to pine after them for their young tighter bodies but now feel not many of them have much besides their looks so I don't want to chase them in the slightest.

 

Generally problems with them being immature shown usually through being shallow at that age and having a big ego because they got a 2:1 degree or something equally unimpressive, European girls are not brought up to have any humility or respect for strangers, are often unpleasant/rude, and don't appreciate good men because at that age they don't know any better yet, so chasing rich or exciting guys who couldn't give a fuck about them.  

 

I also look back at myself when I was younger and remember how little I knew about life and others.  The lies about age on agency sites makes it hard to find a girl an age I would like which is a downside of the game.

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Hi Kylie - I also don't have an age range, I would happily see anyone from 20+ with maybe a limit of a couple of years older than me (I’m not as old as a few others on here!). So far, I have experienced girls advertised as aged 24 (real age 26), 24 (real age 25), 27 (real age 30) and 29 (real age 28). Not sure why my recent lady advertises to be slightly older than she really is! All these girls have told me there real age in conversation without me asking.  I’m rubbish at guessing peoples age, so I’d just be honest and people with book you for who you are based on profile, feedback and pictures.

 

I’d also say age doesn’t matter on shorter bookings in a discreet location, but for longer bookings and overnights, I’d feel more comfortable being with someone a bit closer to my own age as I like to go out for a few drinks and I feel it would just look a bit odd if the age difference was very noticeable, especially if you can’t keep your hands off her when out in public :)

 

Saying that, an overnight with girl 2 above in Liverpool did end up with her being asked for ID to get into a club, which did make me feel very old <_<

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Recently I honestly have had several men say to me 'I was abit concerned about you're age at first'

I even bid on a dinner date reverse booking that really appealed to me only for the guy to say that I am too young for him, and his age range was something like 24-48 but I always think that once they read about me and see the fact that I personally much prefer older men that they might change their mind. I always thought that men liked young women but it turns out that actually a lot of them don't. One guy even said and this is no lie 'You should think about adding a couple of years to you're age, you would probably get more of the type of clients you wish to see' could this really be true and something to think about doing?

I suppose it just upsets me abit that some guys think I'm 'too young' when I'm not. Of course some guys actually want an older lady and that's perfectly fine but I'm talking about guys that go for women that are say between 24-30 because they think those extra few years will mean they will be more worldly wise and experienced sexually, but I don't think that's always true and personally I feel at least 25 in my head!

Could my age really be going against me and putting some clients off? And the type of clients that are most suited to me?

What are you're preferred age ranges when punting?

 

 

Based on 15 years of punting experience, roughly 28-45 for me, with the added caveat that they look roughly between 24 and 35.

 

It all feels generally more relaxed and natural and theres far more common ground if the lady in question is 30something or 40something; additionally, I'm very attracted to the confidence, worldliness and advanced skillset (social and sexual) that a certain degree of maturity often brings.

 

I'm really not particularly sexually attracted to 'innocence', am even less attracted to inexperience and a dearth of self confidence, and I have absolutely zero interest in deflowering virgins or the staged fantasy of such.

 

I agree Kylie, that there are always exceptions to these generalisations, your good self for one, youthful years can come with a mature confidence and bearing and much experience, however in the often hit n miss arena of punting with a girl you havent punted with before, and since you dont have the leisurely luxury of 'getting to know you' time as you would on civvie street, I'll err on the side of maturity vs youth when making my initial choices.

**Sorry, Kylie's quite was edited this morning to be less touty. Have also amended quote here to reflect the same - Pia**

Edited by Danish Pia

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Thanks Lydia and I do get that but I want to appeal to the older gentlemen who look for more than just a shag with a young girl if you get what I mean. I'm interested in longer bookings and getting to know the guy more ect and I would just hope my age didn't turn those kind of guys off who might assume I am not old enough mentally for them.

 

 

But you can't! You physically cannot appeal to a guy who doesn't like young women, in the same way that I can't physically appeal to those who DO!

 

You just have to accept that you are attractive to those who book you and not fret about those who don't.

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I think I can see where Kylie is coming from. I believe that younger, more classically pretty/sexy women can get more troublesome clients who are all about good looks and fucking a young women and less about a woman's personality and nature and I think they do have a harder time with less 'nice' men who see these women as an ego boosting fuck rather than a more rounded experience (ie GFE). Of course this isn't always the case before you flame me, but you only have to read other websites and a few posters on here who have the I wanna fuck a hot young thing attitude.

 

Therefore Kylie, you have to work hard on marketing yourself as a dinner date/overnighter/GFE type of escort and you'll do that through your website- the pictures you use, the language and also be discerning about the bookings you take. You blog to bring out your personality as a rounded person not a sex hungry slapper (as some women do) and more about other non sex things.

 

Another example; (and I'm not saying you will/have done) lots of pics in slutty outfits and legs akimbo will appeal to men with more base desires- those who want you for you will be tantalised by more classy, less overtly sexual photos or more natural girl next door kind of pictures. 

Edited by MinxyLydia

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Concentrate on what is good about being young and appreciate it for what it is.  You can rest assured that any problems you experience with being young will fade over time. 

 

It is important to know this and place this issue in context.  The problems that are associated with being older generally only get worse over time.

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But you can't! You physically cannot appeal to a guy who doesn't like young women, in the same way that I can't physically appeal to those who DO!

 

You just have to accept that you are attractive to those who book you and not fret about those who don't.

I agree here. The best you can do is offer up what you have to offer. Put your words and hopefully a true representation of your personality across and then you will find out exactly who you appeal too. Its not an insult if you dont appeal to the older/dinner date overnight crew. Find your natural niche dont try to force one and you will be just fine and earn your money. 

 

Of course you could always go down the route of ONLY offering dinner dates or overnighters but then you are cutting out a great chunk of the punting community who simply dont want, don't like or cannot afford this. I would rather have a handful of guys who regularly book me for an hour or two than the occasional dinner date/several hours booking. The money may be the same at the end of the day but you can guarantee the hours, you cannot guarantee the latter.  

 

I dont appeal to the older guys who want a dinner date either (or any age wanting a dinner date lol), I dont know why as I advertise it but it doesnt bother me as I am grateful for the custom I do get though my door. Dont assume its your age, Im a lot older than you and I dont get the bookings you are seeking either. Its just pot luck sometimes I think xx

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I dont appeal to the older guys who want a dinner date either (or any age wanting a dinner date lol), I dont know why as I advertise it but it doesnt bother me as I am grateful for the custom I do get though my door. Dont assume its your age, Im a lot older than you and I dont get the bookings you are seeking either. Its just pot luck sometimes I think xx

Noone takes me to dinner either :( 

 

But yes, I think you're right with regards to it being pot luck and we all fall into a natural niche, but I think you can work harder at promoting the bits you like the most! 

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Yes but that's not just the type of client I want to appeal to. Dinner dates and overnights ect are my favourite kind of bookings. I wouldn't care what anyone thought, but I can understand how that might be uncomfortable for the client.
 

I think you also need to realise that there really are not that many dinner date or overnight bookings generally and they are fairly rare. I do not do overnight bookings myself but there generally is not that much demand for overnighters. Dinner dates I tend to find I get a lot at once (usually at Christmas for example) or go many months without one but they are mainly with very established regulars and the very occasional new client.. So it is not just to do with your age but also the fact that these bookings simply are not plentiful.

 

Therefore Kylie, you have to work hard on marketing yourself as a dinner date/overnighter/GFE type of escort and you'll do that through your website- the pictures you use, the language and also be discerning about the bookings you take. You blog to bring out your personality as a rounded person not a sex hungry slapper (as some women do) and more about other non sex things.

 

Another example; (and I'm not saying you will/have done) lots of pics in slutty outfits and legs akimbo will appeal to men with more base desires- those who want you for you will be tantalised by more classy, less overtly sexual photos or more natural girl next door kind of pictures. 

This is absolutely spot on - your advertising is essential for what you want. Show your genitalia in your advertising and it will not be dinner the client will be thinking of.

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I agree with Lydia. 

 

When Lucy Love was your age she came to us and asked for help, one of my friends went out of her way to help her and got loads of flack about it on here (some didn't like the fact that an older woman was helping a youngster get into the business), but they didn't know anything about Lucy.  They didn't know that she had an old head on those young shoulders of hers and was extremely clued up, in much the same way you are and by her own admission would have gone off and done it anyway, but maybe wouldn't have been kept safe the way she was.

 

You do seem to know what your doing (if you can get the type of booking you prefer, you are far more likely to enjoy and provide a better service, so it makes sense to push for that type of booking).  On the other hand I think you will have to accept that currently your age is going to go against you with regards to that sort of booking.

 

You are going to have to really push it in your marketing and go for the classy more grown up look, take care in the type of clothing you wear, your hairstyle and so on, if you want an older gentleman to wine and dine you, that's not going to happen if your sporting a youthful hairstyle, skimpy top and mini skirt, its may happen however if your wearing a smart suit, tidy heels and hair tastefully done and try to appear older. 

 

Give your website the same image if you can (will PM you on that point).

 

Can you cook?  Is there any way you can offer a wine and dine experience at your working place so that the guy isn't uncomfortable having a young girl on his arm in public?

 

Its a problem for many and not just young girls either.  There are lots of men out there that lust after SSBBW's (you go look at the forums and websites based around them) but its doubtful those ladies get wined and dined in public.  There are lots and lots of young men that lust after mature women, but again its doubtful the bookings will take place out of the bedroom for the same reason.

 

H x

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Just another quick point, whilst PMing you I read your profile on here and you are pushing the point that you are young, that may not be such a good idea for the type of booking your looking for.

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