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hey just wondered about this, whats the best way to break up with your escort?

I was thinking of “breaking up” as I dont really want services that much with her any way at the moment and at the same time I feel like I should tell her and not just disappear off the face of the earth its best to be that way. But at the same time I know people will say that she should just accept it but I feel like it wont be as simple as that and she will ask why? And say all this other stuff like, she likes seeing me and all this other stuff such as come out for coffee with me and to be fair I must be a OK client for her one of her regulars and she realise a lot on me and makes a OK ish amount from me in money. So she might find it hard to accept if I decide to stop seeing her like this. So whats the best action to take should I tell her? Should I email her? Any one else had any experiences of doing this much and how is the best way to deal with this without hurting any ones feelings? and get her to understand as well.

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You don't need to tell her anything. 

The point of punting is that it's a no strings attached arrangement and if you're going to fret about how to 'break it off' it defeats the object,.surely?

 

If you feel compelled to say something, just say you won't be around for a bit because you're skint, or your goldfish has died or something, but really it shouldn't be a problem.

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hey just wondered about this, whats the best way to break up with your escort?

I was thinking of “breaking up” as I dont really want services that much with her any way at the moment and at the same time I feel like I should tell her and not just disappear off the face of the earth its best to be that way. But at the same time I know people will say that she should just accept it but I feel like it wont be as simple as that and she will ask why? And say all this other stuff like, she likes seeing me and all this other stuff such as come out for coffee with me and to be fair I must be a OK client for her one of her regulars and she realise a lot on me and makes a OK ish amount from me in money. So she might find it hard to accept if I decide to stop seeing her like this. So whats the best action to take should I tell her? Should I email her? Any one else had any experiences of doing this much and how is the best way to deal with this without hurting any ones feelings? and get her to understand as well.

 

You pay to walk away so you don't have to say anything or justify anything. Simple.

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You don't need to tell her anything. 

The point of punting is that it's a no strings attached arrangement and if you're going to fret about how to 'break it off' it defeats the object,.surely?

 

If you feel compelled to say something, just say you won't be around for a bit because you're skint, or your goldfish has died or something, but really it shouldn't be a problem.

 

You choose to spend your hard earned where ever you like :P

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The whole point of punting is just this, "no strings sex". If it will make you feel better, think up a lie (along the lines that Sarita has suggested) and send her some flowers with a note to say just that.

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You do go slightly round in circles, but I think I understand your problem. You've been seeing this WG for quite a while, and you have become "a regular". Suppose you've been going to one particular butcher in your neighbourhood, and by now he knows what sort of cuts you like, and when you come in, he say, "Ah, Mr Whoosit - I've just put a nice free-range whatever aside, its just as you like them."

 

For your own reasons (and you don't have to justify them or explain them) you've decided not to see the WG again, and not to go to that butcher again.

 

I think it would be good manners, but no more, to say to both of them words to the effect of, "I don't think I'll be coming this way again. You've given me good service, and believe me, I'm very grateful. So, Good Bye!"

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Breaking up with your escort? That's a new one.

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Sure a 'relationship' of sorts can build up, but there is no need to explain yourself at all. She'll just think you are off doing your own thing which is absolutely fine.

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I see no obligation to say anything, any more than the girl would have to you if she suddenly decided to stop escorting.

However, if I had been a regular with a girl and at the end of a punt with her, knew I wouldn't be returning I'd have no problem saying thanks and goodbye, out of good manners if nothing else.

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Saying less may be more in this case...less complications

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Downy

 

The man in post 6 used the "butcher" analogy.

 

You can tell your devoted butcher you have turned veggie.

 

Tell your special lady you have given up sexybusiness.

 

No one is then hurt or feels rejected.

 

or................

 

say nowt and just stop ringing her...... she will forget you...... believe me....  :) 

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You can tell her that you won't be seeing her again in the foreseeable future without having to get into explanations.  You can just say: 'thanks, I don't think I'll be back again, so just want to tell you I appreciate all the good times we've times we've had'.  

 

Do you really thinks she will want to know more?  Don't forget she won't want to hear anything unpleasant any more than you would want to say it, so I think she would accept this at face value without any interrogation.  Unless all her clients are walking away at the same time, it's not really going to be so important to her is it?

 

Otherwise option b from Lynn is totally correct.

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To be a little more serious about this ............

 

As a wg I would rather not be told a client has no intention of coming back... whether he has seen me once or 20 times.

 

If you sincerely care about her and her feelings then why make her feel uncomfortable or embarrassed to know you don't want to see her again.

 

Just stop going.

 

I look forward to down's next new thread by the way.... always inspiring and that little bit different.  ;) 

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hey just wondered about this, whats the best way to break up with your escort?

I was thinking of “breaking up” as I dont really want services that much with her any way at the moment and at the same time I feel like I should tell her and not just disappear off the face of the earth its best to be that way. But at the same time I know people will say that she should just accept it but I feel like it wont be as simple as that and she will ask why? And say all this other stuff like, she likes seeing me and all this other stuff such as come out for coffee with me and to be fair I must be a OK client for her one of her regulars and she realise a lot on me and makes a OK ish amount from me in money. So she might find it hard to accept if I decide to stop seeing her like this. So whats the best action to take should I tell her? Should I email her? Any one else had any experiences of doing this much and how is the best way to deal with this without hurting any ones feelings? and get her to understand as well.

 

What strange wording; "break-up", its paid sex not dating so there is no break-up involved. If you are no longer interested either tell the WG your not sure when you will next be contacting her, thats if you wish to be very polite, or just dont bother contacting her again, its very simple.

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You don't need to tell her anything. 

The point of punting is that it's a no strings attached arrangement and if you're going to fret about how to 'break it off' it defeats the object,.surely?

 

If you feel compelled to say something, just say you won't be around for a bit because you're skint, or your goldfish has died or something, but really it shouldn't be a problem.

 

I agree its the point for me, but after reading many threads and posts on here especially in recent months i think some cant tell the difference between punting and dating. Some get deeply entrenched in a WGs life and most often it all ends badly, the last thing these people seem to want is no strings. Personallly i feel sorry for the WGs lumbered with a clinging punter, must be a right pain in the arse dealing with the deluded.

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hey just wondered about this, whats the best way to break up with your escort?

I was thinking of “breaking up” as I dont really want services that much with her any way at the moment and at the same time I feel like I should tell her and not just disappear off the face of the earth its best to be that way. But at the same time I know people will say that she should just accept it but I feel like it wont be as simple as that and she will ask why? And say all this other stuff like, she likes seeing me and all this other stuff such as come out for coffee with me and to be fair I must be a OK client for her one of her regulars and she realise a lot on me and makes a OK ish amount from me in money. So she might find it hard to accept if I decide to stop seeing her like this. So whats the best action to take should I tell her? Should I email her? Any one else had any experiences of doing this much and how is the best way to deal with this without hurting any ones feelings? and get her to understand as well.

By the way, Down, how is your girlfriend, the one with cervical cancer? In your posts last November you seemed quite concerned. 

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hey just wondered about this, whats the best way to break up with your escort?

I was thinking of “breaking up” as I dont really want services that much with her any way at the moment and at the same time I feel like I should tell her and not just disappear off the face of the earth its best to be that way. But at the same time I know people will say that she should just accept it but I feel like it wont be as simple as that and she will ask why? And say all this other stuff like, she likes seeing me and all this other stuff such as come out for coffee with me and to be fair I must be a OK client for her one of her regulars and she realise a lot on me and makes a OK ish amount from me in money. So she might find it hard to accept if I decide to stop seeing her like this. So whats the best action to take should I tell her? Should I email her? Any one else had any experiences of doing this much and how is the best way to deal with this without hurting any ones feelings? and get her to understand as well.

 

 

 

 

I think it is quite nice that you care about her feelings in one way if you are now going to move on to pastures new.

But as many will say on here, it is what it is this punting lark, so you really do not need to say anything at all in one way to explain why you will not be calling on her again.

 

You will probably be one of many men that she sees on a regular basis, so worry thee not about her financial situation.

I am sure she will manage ok in that respect.

 

I personally would prefer not to receive a "goodbye I am breaking up with you" type of message.

You guys move on, us ladies know the score.

 

All the best.

Lucy  :)

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hey just wondered about this, whats the best way to break up with your escort?

I was thinking of “breaking up” as I dont really want services that much with her any way at the moment and at the same time I feel like I should tell her and not just disappear off the face of the earth its best to be that way. But at the same time I know people will say that she should just accept it but I feel like it wont be as simple as that and she will ask why? And say all this other stuff like, she likes seeing me and all this other stuff such as come out for coffee with me and to be fair I must be a OK client for her one of her regulars and she realise a lot on me and makes a OK ish amount from me in money. So she might find it hard to accept if I decide to stop seeing her like this. So whats the best action to take should I tell her? Should I email her? Any one else had any experiences of doing this much and how is the best way to deal with this without hurting any ones feelings? and get her to understand as well.

Oh, bless your little cotton socks for being sensitive and nice.  Do you intend to see her again at some point mucho later?  is this 'the end'  as they say?  Either way - you don't need to tell her.  if you do, you will only get tongue tied and probably say something you maybe should not and then when you decide to see her again she might think - 'oh no - not that weirdo', and block you.  You never know really.  Best to just move on, and no harm done to either her - or yourself by shooting yourself in the proverbial. x

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hey just wondered about this, whats the best way to break up with your escort?

I was thinking of “breaking up” as I dont really want services that much with her any way at the moment and at the same time I feel like I should tell her and not just disappear off the face of the earth its best to be that way. But at the same time I know people will say that she should just accept it but I feel like it wont be as simple as that and she will ask why? And say all this other stuff like, she likes seeing me and all this other stuff such as come out for coffee with me and to be fair I must be a OK client for her one of her regulars and she realise a lot on me and makes a OK ish amount from me in money. So she might find it hard to accept if I decide to stop seeing her like this. So whats the best action to take should I tell her? Should I email her? Any one else had any experiences of doing this much and how is the best way to deal with this without hurting any ones feelings? and get her to understand as well.

 

Next time your wallet's empty my friend, ask her for a freebie. I think you may find your answer, and just how much she likes seeing you.

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This may be another case of pure delusion - punter seeing himself as important in an escort's eyes - the reality may be quite different.

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Thanks guys i dont think you understand cos i know for a fact it wont be that easy and she wont let me off the hook that easy. I will get texts asking why I Dont have a service and sayin stuff asking me how I am I can guarantee it. so not sure how to deal with that as in just to blank her or just to be nice back?

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say nowt and just stop ringing her...... she will forget you...... believe me....  :) 

Lynn has given you the best advice. Take it and move on as you are apparently intending.

When any punter exits the premises the lady thinks one of three things. (1). Thank heaven he's gone and I hope the w****r doesn't call me ever again. (2). Must get ready for my next punter. What was the last guy's name? (3). I enjoyed that and hope he calls me again.

But whichever it is I'm absolutely certain that she in no way expects or is relying on you returning.

I did an impulse booking a few days ago which is very unusual for me. Rang the lady at an hours notice; arrived on time; had a very enjoyable hour; extended it by a further hour; got dressed and left. We discussed a few things but at no time did she ask me my name. She was a very nice lady and gave a good service; got paid; and I got the impression that if I went back I went back and if I didn't then I didn't. End of story.

I know it sounds very harsh but Lynn's advice to just stop ringing is exactly what you should do.

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Thanks guys i dont think you understand cos i know for a fact it wont be that easy and she wont let me off the hook that easy. I will get texts asking why I Dont have a service and sayin stuff asking me how I am I can guarantee it. so not sure how to deal with that as in just to blank her or just to be nice back?

If that happens then text her back and tell her the truth.

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Thanks guys i dont think you understand cos i know for a fact it wont be that easy and she wont let me off the hook that easy. I will get texts asking why I Dont have a service and sayin stuff asking me how I am I can guarantee it. so not sure how to deal with that as in just to blank her or just to be nice back?

I don't understand why some ladies behave like this.  To randomly text a client is so out of order.  Where is the discretion here?  Next time she texts, just tell her you are having a break from punting.

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Thanks guys i dont think you understand cos i know for a fact it wont be that easy and she wont let me off the hook that easy. I will get texts asking why I Dont have a service and sayin stuff asking me how I am I can guarantee it. so not sure how to deal with that as in just to blank her or just to be nice back?

 

If you get unsolicited texts and have a dedicated punting phone just turn it off, if you havent such a phone or Sim and dont want to put up with it tell her politely to stop contacting you and if that doesnt work tell her to fuck off. Then get a dedicated punting phone or Sim so in future you only have to turn it on to arrange punts and such unprofessional WGs who cold contact you will soon get tired of getting no response.

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