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so the subject of timewasters has come up again

so what is a timewaster. how does a wg know if an enquiry is from a timewaster or form a prospective punter.

in the real world they talk about conversion rates, and convertng 10% of enquiries into business is reckoned to be good.

so why do wg's reckon only to get enquiries from blokes who will actually make a booking, and blokes making enquiries are timewasters?

and yes, i know repeating data that is on their webby is annoying. but no-one reads termes and conditions on civilian websites.

sorry about the rant but i have made several enquires about availability to a-wank girls and never received a reply. girls with no 'phone number so no other way of contacting them.

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so the subject of timewasters has come up again

so what is a timewaster. how does a wg know if an enquiry is from a timewaster or form a prospective punter.

Oh I genuinely feel like a timewaster now. My morning went like this...

"Hi, I'd like to book a massage for about 12oc please. Nothing free until 2oc? Ok let me check to see if I can make that, I'll ring straight back"

"Hi it's Manny again, 2oc will be fine..... 2oc is booked up now you say! Oh that's a shame as I was looking forward to seeing you. 4oc? No that's a little late for me but thanks anyway"

"Oh hi, sorry to bother you again but I was so looking forward to coming over that I must see you today. I can be there at 4oc after all...... What! Oh no! Nothing else available today! Agh! I will call back next week, thanks, bye"

I'm worried about calling back!

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sorry about the rant but i have made several enquires about availability to a-wank girls and never received a reply. girls with no 'phone number so no other way of contacting them.

Then shes either not working at the moment, shes fake or she doesnt want to see you.

Theres a last login date on their pages. If shes logged on a few times since you emailed but not responded, then forget her and move on....

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Then shes either not working at the moment, shes fake or she doesnt want to see you.

Theres a last login date on their pages. If shes logged on a few times since you emailed but not responded, then forget her and move on....

how does she know she doesnt wanna see me iif she has not even opened the a-w message?

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how does she know she doesnt wanna see me iif she has not even opened the a-w message?

I dont know, perhaps she doesnt like your username of Kinky1956?

If shes been logging on shes either too busy with clients who have already booked or shes fake.

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To me a timewaster is someone who calls everyday asking who is on then says he will come along makes an appointment & then doesn't show! I try and give everyone the benefit of the doubt but after the 3rd time number gets noted as timewaster & I don't bother describing the girls as he just wants to talk to the receptionist for some odd reason. :mad:

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To me a timewaster is someone who calls everyday asking who is on then says he will come along makes an appointment & then doesn't show! I try and give everyone the benefit of the doubt but after the 3rd time number gets noted as timewaster & I don't bother describing the girls as he just wants to talk to the receptionist for some odd reason. :mad:

xx

And ties up the phone when a genuine client is trying to get through.... :mad:

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And ties up the phone when a genuine client is trying to get through.... :mad:

Precisely! I had one call 4 times a day on unknown number.. I recognised his voice after a few days and would answer saying 'hello ***' when he asked who was working he was shocked and would hang up now he doesn't call anymore :mad:

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so the subject of timewasters has come up again

so what is a timewaster. how does a wg know if an enquiry is from a timewaster or form a prospective punter.

in the real world they talk about conversion rates, and convertng 10% of enquiries into business is reckoned to be good.

Whenever you try to sell an article or a service you will get calls that can be deemed timewasters, anyone has tried to sell a car from a newspaper advert will know what I mean.

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Oh I genuinely feel like a timewaster now. My morning went like this...

"Hi, I'd like to book a massage for about 12oc please. Nothing free until 2oc? Ok let me check to see if I can make that, I'll ring straight back"

"Hi it's Manny again, 2oc will be fine..... 2oc is booked up now you say! Oh that's a shame as I was looking forward to seeing you. 4oc? No that's a little late for me but thanks anyway"

"Oh hi, sorry to bother you again but I was so looking forward to coming over that I must see you today. I can be there at 4oc after all...... What! Oh no! Nothing else available today! Agh! I will call back next week, thanks, bye"

I'm worried about calling back!

I would not be worried, remember how grateful we should be:rolleyes:

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I'm afraid it's part and parcel of being a prostitute having timewasters.

The punter is the buyer.

He should be perfectly allowed to make enquiries about services without being deemed a timewaster.

A woman should not take a booking and then ignore calls and allow clients to embark on wild goose chases without cancelling.

As I've said many times some of these girls, particularly at the younger end, wouldn't last two minutes in a job in the 'real' world if they carried on as they do in the semi illegitimate world of paid sex. :mad:

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The ultimate timewaster, be it client or courtesan, is one party who has agreed with other party, by phone/sms/email correspondence regarding a firm booking, then doesn't fulfil the booking without conveying any advance/timely warning about cancellation, be it by sms/phone or email.

I'm not totally convinced that for eg, from a "particular site", where you have made an enquiry via email and you get no response equates to lady definitely being a complete timewaster.

There's a lady who has reviews on PN, based in London who originally did not reply to two emails I sent her (she read them), but subsequently I did make a booking with her and have seen her frequently over past two years (highly recommended IMO).

She mentioned that she was inundated with emails when she first registered there, and was at times slow to respond, or simply "overwhelmed" to respond to all enquiries (plus I would imagine she was early in her escort career wasn't too clued on regarding etiquette at that time).

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As I've said many times some of these girls, particularly at the younger end, wouldn't last two minutes in a job in the 'real' world if they carried on as they do in the semi illegitimate world of paid sex. :mad:

NIK, I agree but it is not just at the younger end of the market, why do you think so many girls retire and come back --------- because they would starve alive in the real world. :mad:;)

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As I've said many times some of these girls, particularly at the younger end, wouldn't last two minutes in a job in the 'real' world if they carried on as they do in the semi illegitimate world of paid sex. :mad:

NIK, I agree but it is not just at the younger end of the market, why do you think so many girls retire and come back --------- because they would starve alive in the real world. :mad:;)

Am I missing something here:confused:

Where is this real world.??

NIK we have met and correct me if I am wrong but we were both in the same room which would equate to the same world.

Jim

A job is a job. The fact you will not accept prostitution as an profession does paint a picture that you resent us.

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I was very much alive in mainstream careers and well respected as a youngster over those more qualified and experienced than myself.

Back to TW. A TW is someone who repeatedly phones asking the same questions and expecting you to describe exactly what you will wear and/or do on a short appointment. Other TW will habitually book in advance, confirm then string you along with excuses which result in you realising they aren't about to turn up.

Some will also offer to pay by business cheque whilst on their way to a long booking - sure Jimmy wouldn't accept such pay. Then others will tell porkie pies about where they are staying. Yet others will text you continuously and some try MSN to "get to know you" on the premise of a 1 hour booking.

Ooops and then there are those who habitually book, cancel, book cancel, book, cancel etc.

Until you simply say "No".

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Am I missing something here:confused:

Where is this real world.??

NIK we have met and correct me if I am wrong but we were both in the same room which would equate to the same world.

Jim

A job is a job. The fact you will not accept prostitution as an profession does paint a picture that you resent us.

To spell it out for you.

If they failed to turn up for work without giving a very good reason.

If they failed to communicate and to keep appointments.

If they were regularly late for work.

If they failed to fulfil their alloted working hours for the time paid.

If they failed to have the right equipment to do the job (ie in a wg's case for example a phone fully charged and in credit).

If any or all of the above kept happening consistently they wouldn't keep their job. All have happened to me over the years. Yet girls who perform like this regularly continue to work as prostitutes.

Just because you are good and efficient Lou does not mean to say the majority of girls are.

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Jim

A job is a job. The fact you will not accept prostitution as an profession does paint a picture that you resent us.

Why on earth would I resent you, most prostitutes provide an excellent service, what I am saying is that in the real world people do not earn £150 an hour ------------ unless they have a top job in the City.

Suppose you got a job on £40K a year (highly unlikely in the current climate), you would be on £20 an hour ------ and every penny of that would be subject to tax on PAYE.

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Am I missing something here:confused:

Where is this real world.??

NIK we have met and correct me if I am wrong but we were both in the same room which would equate to the same world.

Jim

A job is a job. The fact you will not accept prostitution as an profession does paint a picture that you resent us.

The 'real world' is that place where the likes of NIK and Jimboy don't get any sex :mad::mad:

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To spell it out for you.

If they failed to turn up for work without giving a very good reason.

If they failed to communicate and to keep appointments.

If they were regularly late for work.

If they failed to fulfil their alloted working hours for the time paid.

If they failed to have the right equipment to do the job (ie in a wg's case for example a phone fully charged and in credit).

If any or all of the above kept happening consistently they wouldn't keep their job. All have happened to me over the years. Yet girls who perform like this regularly continue to work as prostitutes.

Just because you are good and efficient Lou does not mean to say the majority of girls are.

These points I can agree with but you state prostitutes are not in the real world. It irks me that guys refer to what I do as not a real job. Whats more annoying is its usually the same guys that want to buy/rent my services.

The real world is what we are in and how we derive our income is irrelevant

For you or anyone else to dismiss what I do in a belittling fashion because someone else doing the same job has let them down or been undependable is quite annoying.

Is a poet a job

Dart player

Footballer

All professions that rely on the skill of the individual yet we accept they are in the real world

Up your Viva

Lou4fun x

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Ive used emails to contact indies and agencies,I find that agencies dont reply,whats the point of giving an email address if you are not going to answer legitimate questions.Indies,a mixed response,more pro than neg.Ive had 2 very good working relationships with girls through emails,one is now a regular.The 1 negative was a lucky escape.a certain Chelsea girl had very good frs so back in august I emailed her to ask if she was available at a certain time on a certain day,if she was could I make a booking,this was 4 days in advance,no reply until the morning of the requested booking.An email saying she was available,I certainly wasnt,I had made other arrangements and didnt read the email till later that evening. A more recent fr suggests that a different girl is now working from this site and doesnt offer the same level of service. In defence of the ladies,I think we all operate in the real world,my job can be dangerous not just for me but for other people but the dangers are a known quantity and can be worked around,A WG unless she is meeting a regular is in danger every time she opens the door to someone,she is in a face to face,body to body meeting,getting down to the real fundamentals of human life.Is somebody in the City glued to a computer screen for hours on end living in the real world.Hasnt the profession been there in the real world since the start of recorded history and beyond.Im a cynical old git,but even I recognise mistakes are made in all areas of life,put it down to experience. Sorry for longish post,cant sleep again:(

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I would not be worried, remember how grateful we should be:rolleyes:

I still don't get your attitude on this one lou??? On the one hand you are telling everyone that you are in a 'real' profession, on the other hand you are saying that you girls shouldn't be grateful for the business you get from your customers?

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so the subject of timewasters has come up again

so what is a timewaster. how does a wg know if an enquiry is from a timewaster or form a prospective punter.

in the real world they talk about conversion rates, and convertng 10% of enquiries into business is reckoned to be good.

so why do wg's reckon only to get enquiries from blokes who will actually make a booking, and blokes making enquiries are timewasters?

and yes, i know repeating data that is on their webby is annoying. but no-one reads termes and conditions on civilian websites.

sorry about the rant but i have made several enquires about availability to a-wank girls and never received a reply. girls with no 'phone number so no other way of contacting them.

Hi Kinky,

A time waster to me- is someone that persists in asking the same questions over email/text, in a repetative manner that already states on website........

not being forthcoming and direct in what they require-

Lack of information on their part-

I take emails/texts serious that would let me know where they have seen me/my website, give a brief discription on what they are like- and services they like, have a specific date in mind.

Quite simple really.

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A job is a job

A service job that doesn't take account of the need to refund for poor service isn't a real job (for our purposes).

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A service job that doesn't take account of the need to refund for poor service isn't a real job (for our purposes).

When receiving the service it suits your purpose well and good.:mad:

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I still don't get your attitude on this one Lou??? On the one hand you are telling everyone that you are in a 'real' profession, on the other hand you are saying that you girls shouldn't be grateful for the business you get from your customers?

You most certainly do not.

You are the one saying we should be grateful.

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