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Cummer's Remorse

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As described by urban dictionary:

"A sense of regret after an orgasm that results from the physiological crash combined with a wave of guilt for taboo desires that were eagerly acted out during the pre-orgasmic high"

Most girls I see offer the cum as many times as you can in the hour deal, problem is I seem to suffer from cummers remorse and after the event have a wave of guilt/regret and make my excuses and leave. left with 30 minutes left on the clock last week.

Does anyone else have this? How do you get over this

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Yes - that's me absolutely I understand this condition - which is why I always wait until the end for my moment and never bother planning a 2 cum session. It's  also why I rarely go for more than a 30 minute session and exclude any wg whose minimum is 1 hour.

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Go for 30 minute sessions with an option to extend to an hour.

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As described by urban dictionary:

"A sense of regret after an orgasm that results from the physiological crash combined with a wave of guilt for taboo desires that were eagerly acted out during the pre-orgasmic high"

Most girls I see offer the cum as many times as you can in the hour deal, problem is I seem to suffer from cummers remorse and after the event have a wave of guilt/regret and make my excuses and leave. left with 30 minutes left on the clock last week.

Does anyone else have this? How do you get over this

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As described by urban dictionary:

"A sense of regret after an orgasm that results from the physiological crash combined with a wave of guilt for taboo desires that were eagerly acted out during the pre-orgasmic high"

Most girls I see offer the cum as many times as you can in the hour deal, problem is I seem to suffer from cummers remorse and after the event have a wave of guilt/regret and make my excuses and leave. left with 30 minutes left on the clock last week.

Does anyone else have this? How do you get over this

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Happens all the time.

In my early days when a man shot his load, dressed and scuttled off as quickly as possible I used to worry I had done something wrong or he really didn't like me. Then I'd worry he would leave thinking he had been ripped off (paying an hour but only staying half), despite me saying he had more time left.

 

Nowadays I think 'Oh well!' 

 

As suggested, tell your escort to leave making you come until the end of the booking. 

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Not me...if she's a nice friendly girl, I love a bit of 'afterglow' chatting, holding, cuddling, kissing, though sadly there often isn't much time for it. :(

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Judging by one or two comments it's par for the course? or maybe 50/50

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Absolutely not !!!!

If you feel like this then don't punt.....ever !!

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I haven't felt this, but it was Aristotle who asked "why every animal is sad after coitus."

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Absolutely not !!!!

If you feel like this then don't punt.....ever !!

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It's called  'post coital tristesse' and the fact it has a name would indicate it's very common. Apparently it affects men much more than women. 

Edited by Sarita

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Not at all for me. If i cum early i usually spend the rest of the time chatting, and im normally the quiet type.

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Only if it's been a bit of a rubbish punt (more to do with money I've spent rather than any kind of irrational hang-up about the sex itself).

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"I suffer from 'snowball remorse'" "Quite normal, I gather."

 

sorry but tasting your own come is not normal...

 

OP:

 

"Does anyone else have this? How do you get over this"

 

its quite common i think and not confined to punting... i get it sometimes but its usually when I have been too hasty and punted with a new girl i should have declined, was to stupid to walk away and got a bad service...

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"I suffer from 'snowball remorse'" "Quite normal, I gather."

 

sorry but tasting your own come is not normal...

 

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"Does anyone else have this? How do you get over this"

 

its quite common i think and not confined to punting... i get it sometimes but its usually when I have been too hasty and punted with a new girl i should have declined, was to stupid to walk away and got a bad service...

So you expect a Lady to let you come in her mouth, yet you're not prepared to taste it yourself?

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its all in the anticipation for me the planning the getting myself there then having sexy time with a foxy lady

then walk away feeling embarrassed and foolish but knowing i will do it again in couple of weeks time

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Only if it's been a bit of a rubbish punt (more to do with money I've spent rather than any kind of irrational hang-up about the sex itself).

 

+1

 

this is the only time i ever feel any remorse about punting, and then its only because i wish id spent the cash on a more deserving wg and a correspondingly  superior experience

Edited by BillGoldberg

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From some of the recent posts I get the feeling some guys should find a more satisfying way a spending their money (and time). For heaven's sake it's just a fuck. You're not supposed to be agonising about it. Do you think the WGs sit wringing their hands worrying and full of angst?

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So you expect a Lady to let you come in her mouth, yet you're not prepared to taste it yourself?

 

So you expect a Lady to let you put your penis inside her, yet you're not prepared to have a penis inside you yourself?

 

 

It's not normal.

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It's called  'post coital tristesse' and the fact it has a name would indicate it's very common. Apparently it affects men much more than women. 

PCT is caused by a very-predictable flux in hormones that occurs in all humans after orgasm.

 

After orgasm, levels of dopamine – a hormone heavily associated with sexual pleasure – plummet in the brain. At the same time, dopamine is also responsible for regulating the hormone prolactin, which is secreted continuously by the lactotrope cells in the absence of dopamine.

With the lack of dopamine, prolactin levels rise, which retards the sexual arousal cycle (causing the refractory period) and, more importantly to the topic, induces the unwanted feelings of negativity. In other words, once a person orgasms, their levels of prolactin increase, which causes the depressive feelings of PCT.

 

PCT, then, is a condition in which a person’s body does not reach hormonal equilibrium quickly enough after orgasm.

 

Lots of information available on the web, regarding this.

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So I suppose if you're affected by PCT and also have some guilt lurking in the back of your mind, the combination of the two things is going to make you feel pretty bad?

 

I usually call it an attack of the guilts, but it's interesting that  hormonal changes are at the root of it. I must tell some of my clients!

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So you expect a Lady to let you put your penis inside her, yet you're not prepared to have a penis inside you yourself?

 

 

It's not normal.

Decent rationale there is suppose,however,i hardly think this is the place to be telling someone something they enjoy isnt normal.To many people the whole idea/concept of punting isnt normal.People enjoy different stuff,whether is a good straponing,water/hard sports,adult babies to that inflatable dude.Just because it may not float your boat doesnt make it wrong.Generally,if you enjoy something,and no ones being hurt(unless they want to be)who am i to judge if its wrong.

 

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Not me...if she's a nice friendly girl, I love a bit of 'afterglow' chatting, holding, cuddling, kissing, though sadly there often isn't much time for it. :(

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