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1/2 hour appointments

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Advice from you experienced guys and girls please. I am fairly new to punting but have had ten punts in three months and loving it....but Bookings for an hour come twice nice time no problem, yet half hour punts, I am an eager beaver and do the deed with mebbe 10mins or so still remaining. The problem being with the come once only once rule being prevelant on 30 minute punts, I have shuffled off feeling uncomfortable before the time/company I have paid for has expired. What do you w/g's think is it ok yo stay for a kiss and cuddle etc ?

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Apart from a few Soho walk-ups you're not likely to find many girls who will do less than 30 mins ( although House of Divine MK/London does 20 mins ). I do 30 minute appointments myself as (1) cash is short these days and (2) when I need unloading desperately 30 minutes is usually sufficient and (3) try as I might - and I have - I can't rise to the occasion twice in an hour. Cuddling/massage etc for 30 mins is all very well but I can't really afford it often - I'd prefer one 30 min 'sex' appointment per week than one 60 minute 'sex and relax' appointment every fortnight.

I find 30 minutes flies by. To stretch if out so you're not unloading after ten minutes try a few things:

1. Ask the girl to change clothes: putting on something a little more 'elaborate' ( full set of lingerie including stockings/suspenders/high heels ) will take time

2. Let her undress you if she will

3. Slowly remove her clothes and appreciate each 'unveiling' as if gives you slowly more access to her intimate areas

4. By this time you've probably got a raging hard-on but try just to enjoy the feel of it against her soft flesh as penetration at that stage will probably end it early

5. Gentle rubbing between her boobs / soft oral / rubbing against her ( (partly clad ) bottom

By now you are probably into the second half ( at least ) of your 30 mins and can happily ease the tension and unload into her pussy/mouth without feeling you've wasted time paid for. After all, cleaning up/dressing has to be completed within the time, too.

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After all, cleaning up/dressing has to be completed within the time, too.

Really? :mad::confused::mad: Is that really the case though? Not in my experience......

Some men think the time starts when they are naked and finishes when they get into the shower... this line of thought seems to be common in 30 min appointments!

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30 minute bookings can sometimes seem a bit rushed, 45 minutes is ideal but only with a girl I have seen before. :mad:

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Lots of guys stay for the kisses and cuddling afterwards. Look at how many complain about being rushed!

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Really? :mad::confused::mad: Is that really the case though? Not in my experience......

Some men think the time starts when they are naked and finishes when they get into the shower... this line of thought seems to be common in 30 min appointments!

I can't speak for others but the 'small print' for most WGs says I'm paying for their time. Therefore, to be fair, my 30 minutes starts when I enter their bedroom and ends when I leave it. It's nice not to be rushed, but I would not presume to be entitled to 30 minutes 'bed' time and five minutes either side for prep/post.

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Kissing and cuddeling is usually part of GFE, i usually wait for the guy to lead, if he starts to get dressed then so do i, if he lies on the bed so do i.

its nice to just relax some times. if you have time left dont let the girl rush you, jus sit, or lie, and ask her to join you, if she hasnt already.

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My last half hour booking saw me stay an extra 20mins (no extra charge), and I came twice in that time. I'm not expecting all 30min bookings to be like this, but if you finish early there's no reason why you can't stay for the remaining time.

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Lots of guys stay for the kisses and cuddling afterwards. Look at how many complain about being rushed!

1. tried a 30 min incall today for the 2nd time ever and I just cant get used to the tempo of the damn thing . :D it seems to be so mechanical, so impersonal, so commercial. maybe its just me,its not that I prefer the longer punt, its because I actually dislike the shorter punt. there is no real time for lead in [ drink, conversation etc ] , there is pressure to dive in and you tend to have one eye on the clock, even sub-conciously. Is it just me ? maybe there is something wrong with my approach-- maybe practice will make perfect but I dont think so !!

2. kissing and cuddling after completion ?? first, so far I have found the 30 min punt is not conducive to creating that relaxed atmosphere that easily permits kissing and cuddling. secondly, where's the damn time for it ?

3. now here is where I might get controversial and please I genuinely do not want to upset any sensibilities here as I respect all WGs but I do wonder if an escort encourages 30 min punts-[- because she needs to see more punters in order to achieve her financial targets---], how can she be in the right frame of mind for relaxed chat, kissing and cuddling with her clients ?

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1. tried a 30 min incall today for the 2nd time ever and I just cant get used to the tempo of the damn thing . :D it seems to be so mechanical, so impersonal, so commercial. maybe its just me,its not that I prefer the longer punt, its because I actually dislike the shorter punt. there is no real time for lead in [ drink, conversation etc ] , there is pressure to dive in and you tend to have one eye on the clock, even sub-conciously. Is it just me ? maybe there is something wrong with my approach-- maybe practice will make perfect but I dont think so !!

2. kissing and cuddling after completion ?? first, so far I have found the 30 min punt is not conducive to creating that relaxed atmosphere that easily permits kissing and cuddling. secondly, where's the damn time for it ?

3. now here is where I might get controversial and please I genuinely do not want to upset any sensibilities here as I respect all WGs but I do wonder if an escort encourages 30 min punts-[- because she needs to see more punters in order to achieve her financial targets---], how can she be in the right frame of mind for relaxed chat, kissing and cuddling with her clients ?

30 minute punts are too short for me for some of the reasons you mention, another for me is i just cant be bothered travelling for a punt that is so short. An hour is my minimum which suits me.

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I prefer the whole hour, not least because I often drive some distance to find the right punt, and it seems a waste for the filling between the two slices of being on the road to be so thin. And I do like the kiss and cuddle, especially with regular favourites - who can often arouse me to go for a second time.

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My last half hour booking saw me stay an extra 20mins (no extra charge), .

Then why didn't you book an hour?

Oh silly me, there's no need to pay for an hour of the ladies time if you can pay for half an hour and stay the extra anyway.

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Unfortunately there are guys who think they can do this and develop a nasty habit. It's not fair on those who do pay for the full time and can often mean a lady is rushing to the next appointment.

If someone does this on their first appointment it does make you quite watchful during future meets.

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My last half hour booking saw me stay an extra 20mins (no extra charge)

Of course, you did offer to pay for the 'extended' booking... :confused:

... but she refused to accept :eek:

With regards to OP's question:

What do you w/g's think? Is it ok you stay for a kiss and cuddle etc ?

Sure it is. Doesn't sex and kissing/cuddling go hand in hand? As long as you have paid for the time, nothing stopping you! :)

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Of course, you did offer to pay for the 'extended' booking... :confused:

... but she refused to accept :eek:

...because she knew she'd look a right tight-fisted cow if she said 'Yes, please, because thanks to you I'm now running late and am going to have to have a 30 second shower and sort the room out in 5 minutes flat...'

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I tend to go for 1 or more recently 1.5 hours which as said gives time to relax potentially enjoy yorself twice etc

I have once or twice done the 1/2 hour with agency girls but found it a bit rushed / unsatisfactory given the set up

As Smiths - there is also issue that I cannot be bothered to travel for such a short encounter

If horny an I do want a quick 1/2 hr empty out I would tend to go for a working flat scenario where they are effectively geared up for shorter encounter ie - lady is 'waiting' and ready to go and there is little or no time spent on showering / chit chat etc --

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I only go for 1 hour bookings, if I did a 1/2 hour one I would just be getting to the interesting bit when it was time to go.

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some parlours dont have the 'cum once rule' so you should check before hand :confused::D

If they do how about having a nice steamy shower together after, a perfect ending.

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...because she knew she'd look a right tight-fisted cow if she said 'Yes, please, because thanks to you I'm now running late and am going to have to have a 30 second shower and sort the room out in 5 minutes flat...'

Maybe she is one of the many ladies who claim to only see a couple of clients a day. :confused:

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Maybe she is one of the many ladies who claim to only see a couple of clients a day. :confused:

No, sweetcheeks, those people tend not to do 30 minutes :eek:

Now me, I am the exception to the rule - I offer 30 minute incalls but only see very few clients. This, I am sure Jimmy will agree, is because I am old, fat and ugly :)

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some parlours dont have the 'cum once rule' so you should check before hand :confused::D

If they do how about having a nice steamy shower together after, a perfect ending.

x

Most Indies i have punted with dont have a cum once rule either, in my experience some EE ladies have a cum twice rule, i always ensure its the time i pay for not how many times i cum in that time, although i have been misled on this matter many times over the years.:eek:

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No, sweetcheeks, those people tend not to do 30 minutes :eek:

Now me, I am the exception to the rule - I offer 30 minute incalls but only see very few clients. This, I am sure Jimmy will agree, is because I am old, fat and ugly :)

No you are not ugly --------- what I can't understand is why you have a clear face photo on your homepage but the gallery photos all have the head cut off. :confused::confused:

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Maybe she is one of the many ladies who claim to only see a couple of clients a day. :confused:

yes ---- whilst I dont agree with guys deliberately overstaying their paying welcome with escorts, I also wonder why many ladies complain of slow business and increased competition and yet claim that any over-staying can ruin their very busy schedule. if that were truly the case, they'd be knackered by lunchtime but multi- millionaires at the same time !! :eek:

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yes ---- whilst I dont agree with guys deliberately overstaying their paying welcome with escorts, I also wonder why many ladies complain of slow business and increased competition and yet claim that any over-staying can ruin their very busy schedule. if that were truly the case, they'd be knackered by lunchtime but multi- millionaires at the same time !! :eek:

Maybe these ladies who complain about slow business need to rethink their pricing structure ---------- girls who charge £100 an hour will get as much work as they can handle.

Four clients a day, Monday to Friday and they would be on £100K a year, many professional people earn far less than that :confused:

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Four clients a day, Monday to Friday and they would be on £100K a year, many professional people earn far less than that :confused:

That is assuming they all turn up though.

Uh oh, think I've just hijacked the thread :eek:

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