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Taking the foreplay as a given what makes for a good penetrative sex session?

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An erection???? :wacko:

 

Oh....and a female partner to put it in  :ph34r:

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Taking the foreplay as a given what makes for a good penetrative sex session?

Are you expecting a stream of replies from men describing their willy insertion techniques and an equal number of ladies explaining how they like their men giving them a seeing to?

 

I am not quite sure why you ask..... perhaps I am missing the point of your question.  :huh: 

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Reading about this part of the session I have been surprised how short people find is ideal (talking about sex in general not just paid).  

 

Something like 10-15 minutes penetration is seen as ideal in surveys.  That's short to me... I like it to be 20-40 minutes.. or longer if broken up with further licking and sucking.

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Reading about this part of the session I have been surprised how short people find is ideal (talking about sex in general not just paid).  

 

Something like 10-15 minutes penetration is seen as ideal in surveys.  That's short to me... I like it to be 20-40 minutes.. or longer if broken up with further licking and sucking.

I guess it's all in the name!

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Are you expecting a stream of replies from men describing their willy insertion techniques and an equal number of ladies explaining how they like their men giving them a seeing to?

 

I am not quite sure why you ask..... perhaps I am missing the point of your question.  :huh: 

Ditto  :huh:

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Reading about this part of the session I have been surprised how short people find is ideal (talking about sex in general not just paid).  

 

Something like 10-15 minutes penetration is seen as ideal in surveys.  That's short to me... I like it to be 20-40 minutes.. or longer if broken up with further licking and sucking.

 

APPARANTLY - according to things like Embarrassing Bodies and other media surveys/studies, the average penetration (from insertion to male orgasm) lasts approx 3 minutes.

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Both of you like or really fancy each other.

Plenty of DFK.

She shows a lot of initiative, and doesn't need to be told what to do... she actually takes the lead sometimes.

No condoms, no pulling out.

Hard deep grinding. Slower to keep going, faster to cum sooner.

With, and in order of usual preference: lover>fuck buddy>escort>one night stand.

 

Im not one for changing into all sorts of positions. Missionary mostly, followed by cowgirl, then folded deck chair, and sometimes doggy.

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APPARANTLY - according to things like Embarrassing Bodies and other media surveys/studies, the average penetration (from insertion to male orgasm) lasts approx 3 minutes.

 

I do seriously wonder about the 20 minute + stayers who seemingly frequent this board. I can't help thinking they're either a). lying, B). can't tell the time, or c). have a medical problem because I've heard the statistic you quote above often enough to believe it to be true. To be honest, these days (unless I'm really overstimulated or have simply not had sex for weeks) I reckon I'm in the 3-8 minute range, the latter with a little concentration and the former if I just let go (don't laugh...that's more than it was a decade ago) and I'm pretty satisfied with that. The thought of having to hammer away for 25 minutes before coming sounds horribly dull to me. On the rare occasions I've been stuck in front of a porn film (jeez, is there anything duller than a porn film?) sex even looks boring after about the 17th stroke/2nd minute.

 

As for what makes a good fuck, a spark always comes first, whether it's paid or unpaid sex. Any kind of chemistry is a prerequisite and if it's there, pretty much everything else falls into place.

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I do seriously wonder about the 20 minute + stayers who seemingly frequent this board. I can't help thinking they're either a). lying, :cool:. can't tell the time, or c). have a medical problem because I've heard the statistic you quote above often enough to believe it to be true. To be honest, these days (unless I'm really overstimulated or have simply not had sex for weeks) I reckon I'm in the 3-8 minute range, the latter with a little concentration and the former if I just let go (don't laugh...that's more than it was a decade ago) and I'm pretty satisfied with that. The thought of having to hammer away for 25 minutes before coming sounds horribly dull to me. On the rare occasions I've been stuck in front of a porn film (jeez, is there anything duller than a porn film?) sex even looks boring after about the 17th stroke/2nd minute.

 

As for what makes a good fuck, a spark always comes first, whether it's paid or unpaid sex. Any kind of chemistry is a prerequisite and if it's there, pretty much everything else falls into place.

Yes the surveys do say the average is just a few minutes. Of course if you want to last 30 minutes you can - the only way that would be fun is if you fancied the girl like mad and had a rod of iron to play with. What makes for good sex? Whatever the time spent inside - it's got to be topped off with a mind shattering orgasm that really leaves you walking away feeling it was money well spent.

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Personally, for me to last more than a few minutes, she has to be good looking, the chemistry between is nice, she's a good kisser, and she's well into the sex - a lot of escorts arn't (doing it just for the money), and during my 2nd round with her, and if ive had some drinks (just merry, not drunk at all), and i dont fuck fast for ages, then i can last for quite some time. But thats a bit of a rare occasion.

 

I've been to some sex parties, and i've been utterly amazed at some of the mens performance, they go hard and fast for such a long time, they're sweating like pigs and they just do not cum...

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Personally, for me to last more than a few minutes, she has to be good looking, the chemistry between is nice, she's a good kisser, and she's well into the sex - a lot of escorts arn't (doing it just for the money), and during my 2nd round with her, and if ive had some drinks (just merry, not drunk at all), and i dont fuck fast for ages, then i can last for quite some time. But thats a bit of a rare occasion.

 

I've been to some sex parties, and i've been utterly amazed at some of the mens performance, they go hard and fast for such a long time, they're sweating like pigs and they just do not cum...

 

That could be down to Viagra.  I've seen them at clubs and parties too, but also seen the copious amounts of blue pills being sold from under the counter at these places.

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I think it is one of those zen thingies. If you have never had great sex, it cannot be described to you. If you've had great sex, you do not need to ask the question.

Years back I heard a radio interview from the Durex factory. The designer (?) Said that the condom could cope with the average session of 50 thrusts!

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Taking the foreplay as a given what makes for a good penetrative sex session?

 

Genuine chemistry, mutual arousal, passion, a lack of inhibition and physically your bodies fitting well together.

 

I've been in a relationship with a woman who physically ticked all the boxes and then some, we had chemistry and passion but when it came to the nuts and bolts mechanics of penetrative sex, our bodies just didnt fit well together and it felt almost like a chore

 

It lasted about a year and the sex never really improved purely down to our bodies just not 'fitting'

 

I think sometimes the physical aspect just doesnt work no matter how much you try or attempt to 'work it out'

 

The best sex for me always feels effortless, flowing, ecstatic and like a seamless confluence of heightened sensation and emotion

 

On a punt the 'emotional' part is a big ask and is rare, but the rest can and often does happen with the best escorts.

Edited by BillGoldberg

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As for what makes a good fuck, a spark always comes first,

 

Just make sure you never fuck in a dynamite factory :eek:

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I do seriously wonder about the 20 minute + stayers who seemingly frequent this board. I can't help thinking they're either a). lying, :cool:. can't tell the time, or c). have a medical problem because I've heard the statistic you quote above often enough to believe it to be true. To be honest, these days (unless I'm really overstimulated or have simply not had sex for weeks) I reckon I'm in the 3-8 minute range, the latter with a little concentration and the former if I just let go (don't laugh...that's more than it was a decade ago) and I'm pretty satisfied with that. The thought of having to hammer away for 25 minutes before coming sounds horribly dull to me. On the rare occasions I've been stuck in front of a porn film (jeez, is there anything duller than a porn film?) sex even looks boring after about the 17th stroke/2nd minute.

 

As for what makes a good fuck, a spark always comes first, whether it's paid or unpaid sex. Any kind of chemistry is a prerequisite and if it's there, pretty much everything else falls into place.

 

25 minutes is about right to me, it's not hammering away in the same position it's 5 different positions with the variety of that fun and visually stimulating and the sensation gradually building to a climax.  Watcing porn is going to be different than acting it out isn't it.  My last few meets have been about the 15-25minute penetration length and I'm happy with it.  If a girl wants multiple Os then I can choose different positions to last longer if she wants.  Doggystyle is the easiest for me to come and then missionary if it's hard.

 

On the downside sometimes it is difficult to get off and it's tiring and the girl may get worn out so sometimes it's frustrating.  After about 90minutes maybe not even that long it's almost time to give up and it goes numb!

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Good Sex. you know it when you find it. 

and the lady will also notice when she delivers excellent service.

long may it last.

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Looking for more female input on this one

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BillGoldberg summed it up brilliantly. Call me lazy, but what he said! 

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Looking for more female input on this one

 

Its doubtful you will get it because the ladies already know that you can't define good sex.  What's good for one will not be good for another.  Its that simple. 

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Its doubtful you will get it because the ladies already know that you can't define good sex.  What's good for one will not be good for another.  Its that simple. 

 

Exactly

 

Which is why I think he's after a range of individual opinions, ladies especially

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Why does good sex need to have penetration!...surely foreplay and a multitude of vivid imagination is equaly as important, or more so.

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Why does good sex need to have penetration!...surely foreplay and a multitude of vivid imagination is equaly as important, or more so.

 

 

It doesnt, but I think the gist of the OP's question was 'what constitutes good penetrative sex for the individual' ?

 

Hence, the 'on topic' answers

Edited by BillGoldberg

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Exactly

 

Which is why I think he's after a range of individual opinions, ladies especially

 

Ok I'll bite, if its individual likes and dislikes he's looking for.  I prefer slow sensual sex, lots of touchy feel, kissing, stroking, that sort of thing, in the morning.  In the evening (especially if tiddled), I like it hard and fast for as long as possible with as many as possible.  In other words, depends on the moment and how I'm feeling at the time.

Edited by Holly Maddison

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