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Amongst the punts that I do, I have one girl I count as a regular and two weeks back she announced she is going to return to civilian life.

 

I have been discussing with her one last meeting before she goes, when rather out of the blue, she says that although she doesn't want to be generally available any more, she would like to carry on seeing 'just' me.  I'm kind of flattered by this, although I'll reserve my judgement on whether the 'just' me part is for real. 

 

She has always kind of acted like she is a bit fond of me, says she misses me when she hasn't seen me for a while, that kind of thing.  You'd think it was just marketing, but in reality she always gets more booking requests than she is prepared to take on.  I do admit that I am fond of her too, although never beyond a client / service provider context.

 

She's an agency girl, who works out of agency premises, so this would be rather a whole new ball game for her as well as me.  TBH I'd sort of adjusted to the idea of her not being around, so on the one hand this sounds like a new adventure, on the other I think maybe it's just easier to move on.

 

What would you do?

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Amongst the punts that I do, I have one girl I count as a regular and two weeks back she announced she is going to return to civilian life.

 

I have been discussing with her one last meeting before she goes, when rather out of the blue, she says that although she doesn't want to be generally available any more, she would like to carry on seeing 'just' me.  I'm kind of flattered by this, although I'll reserve my judgement on whether the 'just' me part is for real. 

 

She has always kind of acted like she is a bit fond of me, says she misses me when she hasn't seen me for a while, that kind of thing.  You'd think it was just marketing, but in reality she always gets more booking requests than she is prepared to take on.  I do admit that I am fond of her too, although never beyond a client / service provider context.

 

She's an agency girl, who works out of agency premises, so this would be rather a whole new ball game for her as well as me.  TBH I'd sort of adjusted to the idea of her not being around, so on the one hand this sounds like a new adventure, on the other I think maybe it's just easier to move on.

 

What would you do?

I have seen girls advertise that they are retiring - vanish for 1 week - and suddenly re-appear with different rates, username, profile - I would not read anything into it at all and assume that for her - your money is more important than you are. If you assume anything else - somebody should put a metal bucket on yoru head and give it a good whack.

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If you want to carry on seeing her then do so if you don't then don't.Not really seeing an issue or a dilemma here.

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Amongst the punts that I do, I have one girl I count as a regular and two weeks back she announced she is going to return to civilian life.

 

I have been discussing with her one last meeting before she goes, when rather out of the blue, she says that although she doesn't want to be generally available any more, she would like to carry on seeing 'just' me.  I'm kind of flattered by this, although I'll reserve my judgement on whether the 'just' me part is for real. 

 

She has always kind of acted like she is a bit fond of me, says she misses me when she hasn't seen me for a while, that kind of thing.  You'd think it was just marketing, but in reality she always gets more booking requests than she is prepared to take on.  I do admit that I am fond of her too, although never beyond a client / service provider context.

 

She's an agency girl, who works out of agency premises, so this would be rather a whole new ball game for her as well as me.  TBH I'd sort of adjusted to the idea of her not being around, so on the one hand this sounds like a new adventure, on the other I think maybe it's just easier to move on.

 

What would you do?

 

I would continue punting with her for as long as she is about, as long as the price was right for me, good regulars can be hard to find.

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If you want to carry on seeing her then do so if you don't then don't.Not really seeing an issue or a dilemma here.

It's not that hard to see some issues, really.

 

Firstly, no agency premises, so each new punt would need accommodation.  Day use hotels, maybe?  These cost however, and who picks up the tab?  We would have to re-negotiate prices for this reason if no other.  Plus, if using day use hotels it then become sensible to consider longer appts to make it more cost viable, but this all makes the punting probably more expensive overall, and more of an issue to plan around than it is now.

 

Also, if she is only seeing me, is there not more of a risk of boundaries getting blurred?  If I become genuinely the only guy in her life, what if she becomes more than a bit fond of me?  It's not as though she has a boyfriend / partner, or at least she hasn't had in the time I've known her.

 

What if she becomes more reliant on my money to top up her civilian income, does this not risk making problems at whatever point I may wish to move on?

 

To me, it's not so straightforward.

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It's not that hard to see some issues, really.

 

Firstly, no agency premises, so each new punt would need accommodation.  Day use hotels, maybe?  These cost however, and who picks up the tab?  We would have to re-negotiate prices for this reason if no other.  Plus, if using day use hotels it then become sensible to consider longer appts to make it more cost viable, but this all makes the punting probably more expensive overall, and more of an issue to plan around than it is now.

 

Also, if she is only seeing me, is there not more of a risk of boundaries getting blurred?  If I become genuinely the only guy in her life, what if she becomes more than a bit fond of me?  It's not as though she has a boyfriend / partner, or at least she hasn't had in the time I've known her.

 

What if she becomes more reliant on my money to top up her civilian income, does this not risk making problems at whatever point I may wish to move on?

 

To me, it's not so straightforward.

I highly doubt you will be the one and only regular she will still see if she retires.Its not your problem if she gets reliant on your money or not.If she is retiring it suggests she has something else in place to finance herself.Has she said it will be from a hotel?Maybe she is willing to see the odd regular from her own place?Perhaps you should have that conversation with her first?But if it seems to raise more questions than happiness at still seeing your regular maybe you should decline.

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Also, if she is only seeing me, is there not more of a risk of boundaries getting blurred?  If I become genuinely the only guy in her life, what if she becomes more than a bit fond of me?  It's not as though she has a boyfriend / partner, or at least she hasn't had in the time I've known her.

What is blurred is your sense of reality - if she really is fond of you she will stop charging.

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Sorry if some of us seem rather cynical with this one but being told you will be the only one she will see when she retires seems to me like a bit of a tall story.

 

I can think of several regular clients I could run this by and they would be none the wiser if it was true or not..... but maybe it does not matter to you that much if you would be her sole pocket money supplier.

 

She could be seriously wanting to give it up but knows her bills need paying and see you as her rent/mortgage payment donor.

 

Only you know the lady so it has to be your judgement alone.  As long as you do not baffle her with all those long highfalutin words (or perhaps it turns her on :P )  then just do what your urges tell you to.

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I kept seeing my Para Andy long after I retired simply because he was brilliant in bed.  Its not unheard of.

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Sorry if some of us seem rather cynical with this one but being told you will be the only one she will see when she retires seems to me like a bit of a tall story.

 

I can think of several regular clients I could run this by and they would be none the wiser if it was true or not..... but maybe it does not matter to you that much if you would be her sole pocket money supplier.

 

She could be seriously wanting to give it up but knows her bills need paying and see you as her rent/mortgage payment donor.

 

Only you know the lady so it has to be your judgement alone.  As long as you do not baffle her with all those long highfalutin words (or perhaps it turns her on :P )  then just do what your urges tell you to.

I have to say that I agree with this, but to add to it - if you really like her then carry on seeing her until/unless it starts becoming complicated and you can't be bothered with the fuss

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I would carry so long as she provided the premises and the usual standard of visit. My bet is that she has offered this "only you" status to a few guys but that is not too important to you.

 

If it gets too difficult just stop seeing her (unless she has some other hold over you that you have not disclosed)

 

Good luck.

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Dont miss out on what could be a good escort/punter relationship with frills etc.

 

If she seems honest from the outset, why do you think she wants you as a regular.

 

Its hard to just go from working in a parlour to that of civvy life i would inagine, money for one thing.

 

so your regular income would help her adjust.

 

Why would it mean getting a hotel room somewhere, does she not have a place of her own.

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Agree with Paul. Carry on so long as it works OK for you.

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Amongst the punts that I do, I have one girl I count as a regular and two weeks back she announced she is going to return to civilian life.

 

I have been discussing with her one last meeting before she goes, when rather out of the blue, she says that although she doesn't want to be generally available any more, she would like to carry on seeing 'just' me.  I'm kind of flattered by this, although I'll reserve my judgement on whether the 'just' me part is for real. 

 

She has always kind of acted like she is a bit fond of me, says she misses me when she hasn't seen me for a while, that kind of thing.  You'd think it was just marketing, but in reality she always gets more booking requests than she is prepared to take on.  I do admit that I am fond of her too, although never beyond a client / service provider context.

 

She's an agency girl, who works out of agency premises, so this would be rather a whole new ball game for her as well as me.  TBH I'd sort of adjusted to the idea of her not being around, so on the one hand this sounds like a new adventure, on the other I think maybe it's just easier to move on.

 

What would you do?

 

One of my regulars is an independent WG who told me last year that, when she hangs up her thong [no date specified], she'd like to continue to see me.  Although I'm not so naïve as to think that I'll have been the only one of her clients she's said this to, I believe that we're both genuinely fond of each other and we have such a good time together that I'd be loth to stop seeing her, "under the usual terms and conditions".  Neither of us is looking for a relationship with the other; but I have once "seen" her at her home, not the flat she rents as her workplace. 

 

If you enjoy seeing her and she gives you the impression of enjoying seeing you, why quit?  But, as she was the one to say that she'd like to carry on seeing you, then I think she's the one who has to make the arrangements about where you meet - you'll still be be paying her, after all.

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Dont miss out on what could be a good escort/punter relationship with frills etc.

 

If she seems honest from the outset, why do you think she wants you as a regular.

 

Its hard to just go from working in a parlour to that of civvy life i would inagine, money for one thing.

 

so your regular income would help her adjust.

 

Why would it mean getting a hotel room somewhere, does she not have a place of her own.

 

Indeed and as she would of given at least a third of her fees to the Agency before assuming her rate stays the same she will now be getting 100% of the OPs money, if she is that keen that extra could go towards the hotel room costs. Personally i wouldnt pay for a hotel room myself nowadays just to punt even with a great regular, Incalls only for me, happy to visit WGs in hotels where they have paid for the room though.

 

As to the relationship, yes the lines can get blurred but thats down to the OP to judge in my view. If getting too attached go elsewhere would be my advice unless he really wouldnt mind a relationship with her.

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I would continue punting with her for as long as she is about, as long as the price was right for me, good regulars can be hard to find.

Excellent advice.

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I kept seeing my Para Andy long after I retired simply because he was brilliant in bed.  Its not unheard of.

I didnt see that when I posted.....oh what a rascal that Para Handy was, I used to love the programne, he was the Captain of a Clyde puffer the Vital Spark.

 

His ship mates were a fine body of men, and if you ever did see anyone like Para Handy Holly, then im so envious.

 

When I was 20 years younger I could pass for him very easily, What a claim to fame that is!.

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Thanks for the feedback everyone.  All good stuff! :)

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Good luck Thurson, my reg went from a parlour to civvy street and only sees one other client at her place, we still have bounderies, but have raised the bar so often that we now have a very differant relationship. its still based on escort/punter, and sex happens because money exchanges hands, but we have an agreed price.

 

I know when its okay to text her, and she knows when its okay to text me, and it works.

 

We use both her house and a hotel, depending on how long the booking is for, and what we wanted to get up too!.... :eek: .

 

But it works, and I hope it does for you both also.

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Hmm not what I'd expected when I looked him up !   :wacko:

 

http://www.creaturefeature.co.uk/images/gallery/ParaHandyCaptBull.jpg

 

 

I didnt see that when I posted.....oh what a rascal that Para Handy was, I used to love the programne, he was the Captain of a Clyde puffer the Vital Spark.

 

His ship mates were a fine body of men, and if you ever did see anyone like Para Handy Holly, then im so envious.

 

When I was 20 years younger I could pass for him very easily, What a claim to fame that is!.

 

Ha Ha what are you two like?

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I would not read anything into it at all and assume that for her - your money is more important than you are. If you assume anything else - somebody should put a metal bucket on your head and give it a good whack.

 

Enjoyed that. Thanks for the giggle :D

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To me, it's not so straightforward.

 

Maybe you are attracted to the whole situation and want more than ' doing the sex and walking away ' in which case you may be deluding yourself and reading into her situation far more than what is actually happening. It's not really any of your business what she does and you'll soon find that once you decide to cease being a paying customer your opinions will not be of any interest to her at all. 

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I suppose its a good case for the 'comeback syndrome'. not sure if it was Frank Sinatra or James Brown who ran up the highest score on that one.

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