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I recently booked a well known indie in Manchester with a good reputation and a lot of good feedback on AW.

I confirmed everything the morning of the booking and set off for her apartment, but when I got there her phone was switched off. I waited for half an hour to see if I could try and get hold of her but had no look so set off home.

 

At first I thought there might have been something wrong, but I got a text message off her that evening saying that she had gone out for the afternoon instead. I was a little bit annoyed as I ended up making a 3 hour round trip for nothing, and wasted most of my Sunday afternoon. There is also the added cost of the fuel, but it’s more the lost time that’s annoyed me as with work etc its not often that I get the opportunity to have an afternoon to myself.

 

As I am still new to punting, and this is the first time a girl has let me down, I was wondering what you guys would normally do in this situation. For example, would you simply accept the explanation and chalk one up to experience or want something more, like a discount or extra time?

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Something similar happened to me once; there's no way I would entertain the possibility of giving such a person my custom after that.

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If the lady gives a reasonable excuse for the complete no-show then you could give her the benefit of the doubt.  Can I ask....  did she know how far you were travelling and when you confirmed the appointment did she respond?  Did she actually get your confirmation?

 

I had an appointment the other night at 7.30pm  when it snowed.  The guy texted me to say he was on his way and then the trail went cold.  I text him the next day to ask what happened and he said he called me but there was no reply.  i did not remember getting a call from him.  He said he left a voicemail but I did not receive it.  He told me he decided I had not been able to make it because of the snow.  Communication is great when both parties are involved :)

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If someone messes me around once, they don't get a chance to mess me around again.  I wouldn't care how well-reviewed she was or how good her excuse was, if she stood me up like that then she wouldn't get my business for any discount.  I do give a bit more leeway to anyone who cancels with reasonable notice but none to anyone who just leaves me waiting around for nothing as she left you.  I probably miss out on some gems following that rule but I'll cope.

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It happened to me just before Christmas. I'd seen the girl once before, & arranged another visit. When I'd parked up and texted to say I'd arrived, she said she'd have to cancel due to a family problem which had just arisen.

She then texted a couple of hours later, very apologetic, and said she would be unable to work for a couple of weeks but would give me either extra time or a discount if I re-booked.

I haven't as yet as she is a bit far from where I live, but may do at some point, so will see what happens.

I think it depends on the circumstances though. If she just couldn't be bothered letting you know and felt like going off out instead I'm not too sure I'd bother again.

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This does happen every now and again and I think you have to be philosophical about it : bear in mind that it almost certainly happens with a lot more frequency the other way round (i.e a lady waiting for a customer that never shows up). Personally I think any demands about a discount or extra time are a non starter : but equally if you are polite about it, you might find that is offered to you anyway. Manners maketh the man.

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If the lady gives a reasonable excuse for the complete no-show then you could give her the benefit of the doubt.  Can I ask....  did she know how far you were travelling and when you confirmed the appointment did she respond?  Did she actually get your confirmation?

 

I didn't tell her how far I was travelling, perhaps I should do in future? She definitely got the confirmation though as she acknowledged it.

 

If it had been an emergency or something then I would've probably just accepted it and not been that bothered.

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I didn't tell her how far I was travelling, perhaps I should do in future? She definitely got the confirmation though as she acknowledged it.

 

If it had been an emergency or something then I would've probably just accepted it and not been that bothered.

If she acknowledged your confirmation then this really isn't on. As mentioned above texts can go missing, wires crossed etc but if she's admitted to receiving it then of course you'd set off. I don't think how near or far you had to travel has anything to do with it, it's unprofessional to not let someone know their appointment is cancelled.

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There is a certain indie in Manchester I have a seen twice, both times the booking was agreed and only on the day when I sent a confirmation text, and both times she gave reasons why we should put the appointment back an hour, and both times this was increased by thirty minutes when i arrived outside her flat, and as I had travelled to see her, I was not going to turn around without trying to see her.

 

Id like to think she just had problems both times, but id never see her again, as both times I felt really messed about, shame as she is really good at what she offers.

 

At the end of the last booking, she told me she preferred evening bookings, and as I prefere lunchtime bookings I think that might be the problem.

 

But for someone to say they just went off for the afternoon instead.

 

Plan B is always a good backup,  a knowledge of who is working at the local parlours can be easily found, and a few stored escort names can get you more than just a friendly ear to listen.

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I recently booked a well known indie in Manchester with a good reputation and a lot of good feedback on AW.

I confirmed everything the morning of the booking and set off for her apartment, but when I got there her phone was switched off. I waited for half an hour to see if I could try and get hold of her but had no look so set off home.

 

At first I thought there might have been something wrong, but I got a text message off her that evening saying that she had gone out for the afternoon instead. I was a little bit annoyed as I ended up making a 3 hour round trip for nothing, and wasted most of my Sunday afternoon. There is also the added cost of the fuel, but it’s more the lost time that’s annoyed me as with work etc its not often that I get the opportunity to have an afternoon to myself.

 

As I am still new to punting, and this is the first time a girl has let me down, I was wondering what you guys would normally do in this situation. For example, would you simply accept the explanation and chalk one up to experience or want something more, like a discount or extra time?

Welcome to the world of paid sex - it's not a dentist appt so don't always imagine you will get a cancellation in good time - usually you do though.

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I didn't tell her how far I was travelling, perhaps I should do in future? She definitely got the confirmation though as she acknowledged it.

 

If it had been an emergency or something then I would've probably just accepted it and not been that bothered.

If she acknowledged it then she is well out of order.  I do think that if a guy is travelling a long way he should let the lady know if only to confirm that he can actually shower at hers first?  If someone is travelling from a distance away he usually tells me he is 'setting off now' at some unearthly hour!

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In the OP, there is no mention of contrition or offer of an another go. Assuming neither were forthcoming, I would never give the WG concerned a second chance (or a second thought)

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One Friday last year I booked an appointment for the following afternoon with an Escort who offers a reduced rate at the weekend.  She told me the best bus to get from the town centre to her place and we arranged that I'd ring for final directions when I got off the bus where she told me to ask for.

 

Which I did, and got no reply.  So I loitered around [this was about 10 minutes before the scheduled appointment] and rang again 5 minutes later.  I'd woken her up - she'd obviously been on the razzle the night before!  She told me off for not ringing her an hour ahead - that had never been mentioned when I'd booked her the day before so I decided to take my money home with me.

 

I know what's said about punters not turning up - I've never done that; but am I wrong to hope that Escorts would be sufficiently professional as to be ready for an appointment when it's booked?

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I had a poor guy drive up from way down south once.  As I was getting ready about 1/2 hour before the booking I went into the kitchen to find it flooded.  Managed to contact him and felt really bad, but unless he was into watersports in a big way then there was no point in him coming.  I offered to contact one of my friends but he declined that, so we re-arranged for a couple of days later (discount offered of course).

 

I got the plumber and assumed that it would be fixed quickly.  No chance, nothing ever runs that smoothly in my life.  The plumber discovered the leak was the wrong side of the stop tap which meant he had to turn off the water outside, which he promptly did only to have the outside tap crumble in his hand.  The upside was it then became the problem of the water board,  I had no running water for three weeks and water board men with little diggers digging up my garden because by now they realised that the waterpipes outside needed replacing.  The whole thing was a nightmare and I had to contact this client and put him off yet again to say nothing f the regulars I had to juggle.

 

I'm sure he didn't believe my genuine excuses, but as I felt so bad about it I left the water board to it, travelled down to London, booked a hotel and saw him there.  He refused the discount (which was nice of him) and we did have a nice time.

 

Sometimes things happen but IMHO a good escort should go that extra mile if they can to rectify a problem especially if its their fault.  Its not nice for a guy to travel a long way at his time and expense to be left dangling on the doorstep with no explanation.

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It's happened to me twice. Both Outcall bookings to my Hotel room. Both ladies have over 35 positive reviews on AW so I thought there's no way they would let me down in this way.

 

1st lady only contacted me 45 mins after the booking time ( which she chose, to say she had gone out to dinner with friends instead).... she offered to meet up the following week but I declined as I felt as it was a non emergency she could have at least txted me to say she decided to cancel.

 

2nd lady again chose the time but again did not show or contact me saying she would not show up.

 

Both times I had given the hotel name, phone number & my room number so they could check I was actually at the hotel.

 

If I had done the same to them( no show without contact) I would be called a timewaster amongst other things.

 

In a non emergency if they can't be bothered to send a txt you should stay away, If like holly did, contacted her client beforehand then of course fair enough they should be given the benefit of the doubt.

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Got similar teatment from Lorna aka Amy of London.  There's a thread under the London forums.  Outcome was:

 

"Actualy tried to see her yesterday and had the least professional service I'd ever encountered - and never got to meet the girl!

"Around lunchtime, made a booking for later in the afternoon through Supreme69. Text came back with details and asking me to confirm. I texted confirmation back. Appointed hour came and I got in a taxi and pulled up outside her building. Buzzed the apartment and the door was unlocked and I entered. Climbed the stairs and found her door. Knocked. Waited. Knocked. Waited. Knocked. Waited. Knocked. Waited.

"Texted agency. They said they would phone her and ask her to open. Nothing. Sent new text explaining still no answer, received text, "Sorry."

"Texted, "Wasted afternoon off work. Taxi ride. No explanation. Appreciate the 'sorry' but not a happy punter".

"Response: "She said she forgot about job, left to the shop. Can meet u in 10 mins. I'm so sorry."

"Texted, "Now at [miles away]. Too late.

"Response, "Sorry darling."

"And punters get accused of being time wasters!"

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A wg who has a meeting all set up and agreed on............ then decides to go out to meet friends or go shopping.................

 

is just a crap sp in my view.  No matter if she is hot in the bedroom.......... to let someone down like that without a valid reason just shows her disregard for others and if I was a client I would not give a second chance.  

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I had a poor guy drive up from way down south once.  As I was getting ready about 1/2 hour before the booking I went into the kitchen to find it flooded.  Managed to contact him and felt really bad, but unless he was into watersports in a big way then there was no point in him coming.  I offered to contact one of my friends but he declined that, so we re-arranged for a couple of days later (discount offered of course).

 

I got the plumber and assumed that it would be fixed quickly.  No chance, nothing ever runs that smoothly in my life.  The plumber discovered the leak was the wrong side of the stop tap which meant he had to turn off the water outside, which he promptly did only to have the outside tap crumble in his hand.  The upside was it then became the problem of the water board,  I had no running water for three weeks and water board men with little diggers digging up my garden because by now they realised that the waterpipes outside needed replacing.  .

 

 

That sounds very like what happened with me, 6 yr ago, went through to edinburgh to see cum with Nikola, she does a very good oily massage, well, it was wintertime, and her pipes in the bathroom burst flooding every room, it took 2-3 days to fix it

 

2 weeks later I returned, she knew I had traveled from glasgow, so she kindly dicounted her prices for that day, plus extended our time together

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I recently booked a well known indie in Manchester with a good reputation and a lot of good feedback on AW.

I confirmed everything the morning of the booking and set off for her apartment, but when I got there her phone was switched off. I waited for half an hour to see if I could try and get hold of her but had no look so set off home.

 

At first I thought there might have been something wrong, but I got a text message off her that evening saying that she had gone out for the afternoon instead. I was a little bit annoyed as I ended up making a 3 hour round trip for nothing, and wasted most of my Sunday afternoon. There is also the added cost of the fuel, but it’s more the lost time that’s annoyed me as with work etc its not often that I get the opportunity to have an afternoon to myself.

 

As I am still new to punting, and this is the first time a girl has let me down, I was wondering what you guys would normally do in this situation. For example, would you simply accept the explanation and chalk one up to experience or want something more, like a discount or extra time?

 

I wouldnt wish to punt with WGs like this as they dont have the good attitude i require so a discount wouldnt be relevant to me. I have had this happen to me and named and shamed the WG on here, in fact the reason in one case was the same as you were given. Sadly in my view punters cant do a FR if they so wished about this kind of punt where money didnt change hands but the punter incurred a travelling expense.

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Got similar teatment from Lorna aka Amy of London.  There's a thread under the London forums.  Outcome was:

 

"Actualy tried to see her yesterday and had the least professional service I'd ever encountered - and never got to meet the girl!

"Around lunchtime, made a booking for later in the afternoon through Supreme69. Text came back with details and asking me to confirm. I texted confirmation back. Appointed hour came and I got in a taxi and pulled up outside her building. Buzzed the apartment and the door was unlocked and I entered. Climbed the stairs and found her door. Knocked. Waited. Knocked. Waited. Knocked. Waited. Knocked. Waited.

"Texted agency. They said they would phone her and ask her to open. Nothing. Sent new text explaining still no answer, received text, "Sorry."

"Texted, "Wasted afternoon off work. Taxi ride. No explanation. Appreciate the 'sorry' but not a happy punter".

"Response: "She said she forgot about job, left to the shop. Can meet u in 10 mins. I'm so sorry."

"Texted, "Now at [miles away]. Too late.

"Response, "Sorry darling."

"And punters get accused of being time wasters!"

Whilst it wasn't necessarily the fault of Supreme69, they maybe could have handled this better IMHO.

 

When I had a last minute cancellation with a girl I'd booked through Top Secret, they found an alternative girl in the same locality and gave me a decent discount off her usual price as well.  Disappointed as I was not to get the girl of my choice, the agency defnitely scored some loyalty points with the way they handled it. :)

 

As for the OP, Spklors has it spot on with the Plan B trick.  Always worthwhile to have a couple of other numbers on you just in case.  Saved my bacon in the past, that's for sure.

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I think its the one year anniversary of having a very disappointing no-show for an overnighter.  When I later met her and asked her what had happened she said she'd had a migraine and couldn't even look at her phone on that day.  As she was telling me she broke eye contact and looked down, to the left - classic indicators of lying.

So as I had plenty of time on my hand that evening, I wrote this...



It  seems a while since you made me smile

You’ve made me curse you’ve made me swear
Gnash my teeth and pull out my hair
It makes me frown, it makes me sad
To think of the fun we could’ve had
I pace the floor and climb the walls 
Eagerly waiting for your calls
But the clock shows now its after ten, 
I realise its a no-show again
I won’t warm to your mischievous grin
I won’t caress your sublime skin
Won’t cup your boobs and suck your nips
Can’t kiss your soft seductive lips
I won’t feel my cock licked by your tongue
Or use my teeth to remove your thong
Won’t hold you tight and squeeze your bum
Go between your legs to make you cum
I won’t kiss your back all down your spine
Stick my tongue where the sun don’t shine
Can’t watch you ride me with savage grace
Coz you’re not here, there’s not a trace
Cant look across, as you just say “Hi”
Coz again you’ve left me high and dry
Snubbed and ignored it’s such an ordeal
What’s the opposite of LOL? That’s how I feel

And it seems a while since you made me smile...

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