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Pse... (Again)

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Okay, seems there are a lot of differences understaing terms of services 

 

eg. PSE

ep.OWO

 

etc.

 

In another thread the discussion has come around to what a PSE is??

 

I thought it was fairly obvious to the person wondering once they know what PSE actually stands for...

 

Porn Star Experience! (we all knew that right??  ;) )

 

Now, fully equipped with that knowledge peeps, what would you assume this means regarding a booking?

 

Is it a combination of services offered  plus pse attitude (fast, frantic, bit over the top) or can one still be PSE without the other?

 

Now personally I think you cant really offer a PSE properly unless you offer certain services but I know not everyone shares that view and granted, you can have a fast furious porn star fuck without offering the more extreme things, not all porn is extreme right. 

 

But does it mean that you are offering a PSE just because you do certain services even if you dont do them in the  porn star way...simply based on those services, regardless of how they are actually carried out?

 

I dont think you are offering a PSE just by which services you offer, I think all services can be performed in more than one style and with more than one attitude and that attitude comes across in what you write in the rest of your advertising blurb.

 

What do you lot think, whats your definition?

 

  :rolleyes:

 

 

p.s when I say extreme Im only talking about strap on, cim, facials, anal etc, nothing dodgy

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Okay, seems there are a lot of differences understaing terms of services 

 

eg. PSE

ep.OWO

 

etc.

 

In another thread the discussion has come around to what a PSE is??

 

I thought it was fairly obvious to the person wondering once they know what PSE actually stands for...

 

Porn Star Experience! (we all knew that right??  ;) )

 

Now, fully equipped with that knowledge peeps, what would you assume this means regarding a booking?

 

Is it a combination of services offered  plus pse attitude (fast, frantic, bit over the top) or can one still be PSE without the other?

 

Now personally I think you cant really offer a PSE properly unless you offer certain services but I know not everyone shares that view and granted, you can have a fast furious porn star fuck without offering the more extreme things, not all porn is extreme right. 

 

But does it mean that you are offering a PSE just because you do certain services even if you dont do them in the  porn star way...simply based on those services, regardless of how they are actually carried out?

 

I dont think you are offering a PSE just by which services you offer, I think all services can be performed in more than one style and with more than one attitude and that attitude comes across in what you write in the rest of your advertising blurb.

 

What do you lot think, whats your definition?

 

  :rolleyes:

 

 

p.s when I say extreme Im only talking about strap on, cim, facials, anal etc, nothing dodgy

 

A PSE means different things to different posters as shown on here in previous threads. For me it means a WG who acts in a confident in my face way, talking dirty, spitting on my cock, caked in make-up, wearing porn heels and offering services such as CIM, Swallow, Rimming and Anal Play although the services might be different to include Anal among other things which doesnt interest me but does others. So whereas the GFE is one of warmth, a PSE is more brash and wham bam, thank you mam.

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 For me it means a WG who acts in a confident in my face way, talking dirty, spitting on my cock, caked in make-up, wearing porn heels and offering services such as CIM, Swallow, Rimming and Anal Play although the services might be different to include Anal among other things which doesnt interest me but does others. So whereas the GFE is one of warmth, a PSE is more brash and wham bam, thank you mam.

with this I agree

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I think it's all in the attitude.

I've only had the GFE with the ladies I've seen so far but the list of services on offer has varied widely from lady to lady.

I believe the PSE is all about the sex and less emotional connection.

I've no desire to have a PSE although I do want a lot of services on offer that you've mentioned. Kissing and cuddling are right at the top of my list but not sure if they count as porn star stuff. :)

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I think it's all in the attitude.

I've only had the GFE with the ladies I've seen so far but the list of services on offer has varied widely from lady to lady.

I believe the PSE is all about the sex and less emotional connection.

I've no desire to have a PSE although I do want a lot of services on offer that you've mentioned. Kissing and cuddling are right at the top of my list but not sure if they count as porn star stuff. :)

 

I doubt it  ;)   I have yet to see any porno where there is cuddling going on. 

 

I have never been asked for a PSE but sometimes it just sort of happens with the right client. I can usually work out fairly quickly what kind of experience a man wants if I have not met him before.... without his needing to ask for it. 

 

I do not offer some services which may be classed as pse but that does not mean I can't give a very raunchy experience where I let myself go completely.

 Many women would like to act the pornstar and in this job we get to act out our own fantasies too.  ;)

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I doubt it  ;)   I have yet to see any porno where there is cuddling going on. 

 

I have never been asked for a PSE but sometimes it just sort of happens with the right client. I can usually work out fairly quickly what kind of experience a man wants if I have not met him before.... without his needing to ask for it. 

 

I do not offer some services which may be classed as pse but that does not mean I can't give a very raunchy experience where I let myself go completely.

 Many women would like to act the pornstar and in this job we get to act out our own fantasies too.  ;)

That's the problem with trying to fit labels to things. We seem to like things to be in neat boxes but everyone is different and every experience I've had has been unique to that lady.

Someone will call it a GFE and another will call it a PSE

I do like the fact that we can act out our fantasies whatever label you want to put on it :)

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To me Porn style Experiance, is more about the noise and agression of role-play, where the two (or more) people seem to be visual, and vocal, more so than in the GFE style.

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I think it is summed up in a phrase you hear a lot in modern porn; "that". As in "do you like that pussy?" "Want me to suck that cock?". There is no personal pronouns such as my or your. Not only is porn sex divorced from the person, it is even remote from the body.

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A PSE means different things to different posters as shown on here in previous threads. For me it means a WG who acts in a confident in my face way, talking dirty, spitting on my cock, caked in make-up, wearing porn heels and offering services such as CIM, Swallow, Rimming and Anal Play although the services might be different to include Anal among other things which doesnt interest me but does others. So whereas the GFE is one of warmth, a PSE is more brash and wham bam, thank you mam.

Smiths description does fit what my idea of a P.S.E. is and as such I've never had one. G.F.E. with occasionally some role play and other things.

I do not offer some services which may be classed as pse but that does not mean I can't give a very raunchy experience where I let myself go completely.
I think that a "raunchy experience" or "filthy fuck" whatever you may call it is in between a GFE and PSE. I have really enjoyed several GFE's but so far only one raunchy experience and it was wonderful. Edited by gibbs

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I have had a few in my time. It can be a bit disconcerting to have people standing by with cameras whirring. On the last one, the scenery looked like it had been nicked from Crossroads, and I was half expecting to be joined by Benny and Shoey McPhee, and the catering was shite.

 

But hey ho, all in a days punt.

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A PSE means different things to different posters as shown on here in previous threads. For me it means a WG who acts in a confident in my face way, talking dirty, spitting on my cock, caked in make-up, wearing porn heels and offering services such as CIM, Swallow, Rimming and Anal Play although the services might be different to include Anal among other things which doesnt interest me but does others. So whereas the GFE is one of warmth, a PSE is more brash and wham bam, thank you mam.

I have had these done in a role-play scenario, though I would not say it was in a PSE, and I very much enjoyed it, it made quite a change from a regular vanila type booking from someone, I got her on a bad day and she wanted to take it out on me as she started talking dirty and using slutty behavior, I told her to just go for it, and she spat on my cock 4-5 times and sucked me dry, stopping a few times to tell me what a perv and shit I could be, then I came she rubbed her face all over the cum, and then without batting an eye lid, went back into being her normal self, and asked if I had time to stop for a coffee, she became a regular then!.........

 

Oh yes, I love the gfe, but I aslo love the role-play and use of toys and clothes to heighten the experiances, and think that we are only limited by our lack of imagination....if it feels right then go for it.

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Hi, 

 

 I am not good in these terms, but we all know owo, cim and to me pse stands as pussy sucking experience maybe.... :unsure:

 

 I hope i am not being rude.  ^_^

 

xxx

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Looking at the replies above (especially Smiths's reply) and the punts I have had, most of my punts have GFE elements, with PSE sometimes (that is rimming (giving and/or receiving), face-sitting (WG sits on me) and dirty talk (from the WG towards me)). None of them are pornstars, but OTOH, a pornstar can give GFE and avoid PSE, if the client doesn't want that. The WGs have almost no limitations in services they give, often only fucking without a condome is what they don't do.

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Oh it's all marketing bollocks along with women who call themselves elite and courtesans! 

 

Both GFE and PSE are terms that have crept into this world and don't really have cast in stone definitions. The joys of escorting are that usually punters and escorts tailor their experiences to what they want and enjoy. So whilst a man may like a nice chat and some affectionate kissing (GFE) to start with, it doesn't mean he can't end with a facial while I beg him to spunk all over my face (PSE)!

 

A GFE isn't really a GFE unless he wants me to sit on the sofa picking my nails asking when he's going to take the bins out and I don't offer anything porn starry as a rule because I don't wish to act like a fake who pants and squeals at the merest touch and says things like 'Do it to me harder big boy!' Sorry, but I feel daft!

 

That's not to say in the moment I might get more vocal and a bit more porny, but when I do it comes naturally- I just can't fake that whole porny nonsense! 

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Oh it's all marketing bollocks along with women who call themselves elite and courtesans! 

 

Both GFE and PSE are terms that have crept into this world and don't really have cast in stone definitions. The joys of escorting are that usually punters and escorts tailor their experiences to what they want and enjoy. So whilst a man may like a nice chat and some affectionate kissing (GFE) to start with, it doesn't mean he can't end with a facial while I beg him to spunk all over my face (PSE)!

 

A GFE isn't really a GFE unless he wants me to sit on the sofa picking my nails asking when he's going to take the bins out and I don't offer anything porn starry as a rule because I don't wish to act like a fake who pants and squeals at the merest touch and says things like 'Do it to me harder big boy!' Sorry, but I feel daft!

 

That's not to say in the moment I might get more vocal and a bit more porny, but when I do it comes naturally- I just can't fake that whole porny nonsense! 

That's surely the sign of the best sort of session, isn't it?  My preference is for GFE, but occasionally, it feels like something raunchier comes more or less organically out of a good GFE session.

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Oh it's all marketing bollocks along with women who call themselves elite and courtesans! 

 

Both GFE and PSE are terms that have crept into this world and don't really have cast in stone definitions. The joys of escorting are that usually punters and escorts tailor their experiences to what they want and enjoy. So whilst a man may like a nice chat and some affectionate kissing (GFE) to start with, it doesn't mean he can't end with a facial while I beg him to spunk all over my face (PSE)!

 

A GFE isn't really a GFE unless he wants me to sit on the sofa picking my nails asking when he's going to take the bins out and I don't offer anything porn starry as a rule because I don't wish to act like a fake who pants and squeals at the merest touch and says things like 'Do it to me harder big boy!' Sorry, but I feel daft!

 

That's not to say in the moment I might get more vocal and a bit more porny, but when I do it comes naturally- I just can't fake that whole porny nonsense! 

unfortunatley no matter how much marketing bollocks it is if you mention pse on a profile you will get all the guys who want to fuck you in unimaginable positions, deepthroat you till you gag, grab your head, think its okay to wank all over your hair as well as your face, fuck you really hard for a very very long time and generally imagine they are in a porn movie, if you have a mirror you will notice that they spend a lot of time watching themselves in it  going  through their "moves" on you. Its why I specifically say I dont offer it, I used too, now I don't.  Whereas if you aim in the GFE area then yes, things get heated with some guys but they wont expect you to fuck them like a train half way between stations so if you do, its because you want too.

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and this is why I dont put dirty talking on my profile either, the best I can come up with when under pressure is something extremely cheesy sounding and I feel daft too. One of my worst nightmares is someone turning up and asking me to dirty talk for an hour, my vocabulary would be dry and verging on the ridiculous within minutes, nay, seconds lol

 and says things like 'Do it to me harder big boy!' Sorry, but I feel daft!
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...if you mention pse on a profile you will get all the guys who want to fuck you in unimaginable positions, deepthroat you till you gag, grab your head, think its okay to wank all over your hair as well as your face, fuck you really hard for a very very long time and generally imagine they are in a porn movie...

 

OMG, what on earth were those dumbheads thinking? They think that WGs are toys, but in my book they aren't, and they will not ever be.

 

BTW, I was wondering about certain kissing styles, which I usually see in porn movies. That is not DFK and/or liplocking (where the tongue goes as far as possible), but open mouth kissing combined with tongue sucking. A third person who is witness of this, will see the tongues playing with eachother. The pornstars often have long tongues. Is this porn style kissing? I am exceptionally interested in kissing, since I have a tongue fetish.

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OMG, what on earth were those dumbheads thinking? They think that WGs are toys, but in my book they aren't, and they will not ever be.

 

BTW, I was wondering about certain kissing styles, which I usually see in porn movies. That is not DFK and/or liplocking (where the tongue goes as far as possible), but open mouth kissing combined with tongue sucking. A third person who is witness of this, will see the tongues playing with eachother. The pornstars often have long tongues. Is this porn style kissing? I am exceptionally interested in kissing, since I have a tongue fetish.

 

Hans, you're barking at the wrong tree mate. :)))

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If you mean the first remark, it is my (strange) way to showing empathy: condemning those that shows no respect. The men that treat the WG as Chloe described, won't ever know what I write here about them. :)

 

(BTW, I have problems understanding idiomatic English, because I am Dutch)

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and this is why I dont put dirty talking on my profile either, the best I can come up with when under pressure is something extremely cheesy sounding and I feel daft too. One of my worst nightmares is someone turning up and asking me to dirty talk for an hour, my vocabulary would be dry and verging on the ridiculous within minutes, nay, seconds lol

I cannot do it talk dirty that is - I feel daft and more likely to end up giggling which kinda spools the mood. Same goes for dressing up, did dress up as nurse for partner years ago ................he loved it but i felt so self conscious not to mention daft

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OMG, what on earth were those dumbheads thinking? They think that WGs are toys, but in my book they aren't, and they will not ever be.

 

BTW, I was wondering about certain kissing styles, which I usually see in porn movies. That is not DFK and/or liplocking (where the tongue goes as far as possible), but open mouth kissing combined with tongue sucking. A third person who is witness of this, will see the tongues playing with eachother. The pornstars often have long tongues. Is this porn style kissing? I am exceptionally interested in kissing, since I have a tongue fetish.

I think that style of kissing is just for the visual gratification of the watcher. 

 

1st comment there, you stick to that and you wont turn into a jaded boringpants xx

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If you mean the first remark, it is my (strange) way to showing empathy: condemning those that shows no respect. The men that treat the WG as Chloe described, won't ever know what I write here about them. :)

 

(BTW, I have problems understanding idiomatic English, because I am Dutch)

your english is fine hans, dont worry. Its not entirely the guys fault unfortunatley that they expect this sometimes with the words pse, some girls do offer services like this, so then that guy assumes all girls who do it do it the same way. Some girls allow guys to rag them around a lot, the guys get used to it and think they can do it with everyone till they are told different.

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and this is why I dont put dirty talking on my profile either, the best I can come up with when under pressure is something extremely cheesy sounding and I feel daft too. One of my worst nightmares is someone turning up and asking me to dirty talk for an hour, my vocabulary would be dry and verging on the ridiculous within minutes, nay, seconds lol

Oh I'm glad it's not just me! i sometimes worry that as an escort I *should* be able to do this on demand! 

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Oh I'm glad it's not just me! i sometimes worry that as an escort I *should* be able to do this on demand! 

I used to think that too, especially when some guys used to ask me to and were so surprised that Im no good at it. Once or twice a guy didnt believe me so I said okay then, if you insist. I did my best but he soon let me know he understood what I meant the first time lol.

 

I cant really dance either, I can wiggle around the room a bit but if someone asks me to do a full on dirty dance they have noooo chance. My ex husband asked me when I was 18, so I jumped on the bed and around a minute later he just said "you really just dont have a clue do you!!", quick jump off the bed happy in the knowledge that I was off the dirty dancing hook...permenantely 

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