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Nice Wg, Talks On Phone But No Show

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Hello,

I've been visiting these forums and of course the site for some time now, just reading up on all the interesting things and gathering information for my own very first go at this thing!

I am sorry about the long post but I am rather confused as to what is going on with this girl, and if I should even bother any more with her.

So, I am new at this and have read all that I could get my eyes on - I liked the looks of an east midlands girl on AW and thought she was perfect for my first punt - has 30+ feedback and even a field report.

As nervous as I was I still got on the phone and had a little chat with her and explained that I am new and rather nervous about the whole thing. She sounded nice and really friendly, so we agreed on a time and I booked an out call on AW to a hotel near east midlands airport since I can't take part in this sort of thing around my place.

Around comes the day and I am all excited and nervous about it - I ring the girl 2hrs before the hotel check in time to confirm if we're all good and she does not pick up but does send a SMS shortly after to say if the time can be changed to 3:30pm (original agreed time was 2:30pm). Not having any other option I said "bit late but sure".

So, I check in into my hotel at 2pm, fire off a quick text to the girl with my room number and how to get to it etc - no reply.

3:30pm comes and goes and I hear not a single thing from her at all, I tried calling her a couple of times and finally sent a SMS to say "don't bother any more, I have to go" around 5pm.

Later in the night, about 10pm I get a bunch of SMS from her and she couldn't stop saying "sorry", she said that her family showed up out of the blue due to her birthday happening in next few days and took her to a spa as a treat....which I suppose makes sense because she did say her birthday was coming up in the initial call.

Long story short, I decided to give her another try after a couple of emails from her where she even offered free hours if I make the in call - which I can't do since the town she lives in is my birth town and shed load of family members still live there...call me silly but wouldn't want to bump into one!

Told her I'll see her in a hotel in derby to which she said yes. I once again sent her all the details as to its location etc and she even agreed to send me a pic of her to prove that it is indeed her on the AW site (I got suspicious after the no show and asked for a pic just be sure).

This was a few days ago and since then nothing, no emails or SMS and no picture for proof. She also has not logged in AW since her last email about sending me a picture so she might actually just be sick or offline for a good reason..for all I know.

So now I am confused and wondering if all punts are this much effort?! should I even be giving her another chance considering the no show?

Thank you for your time and hope to see some feed back from guys more experienced than I.
 

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Oh dear she doesn't sound that reliable.  There are loads of reliable girls in that area love, I'd try another.

 

Good luck.

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Oh dear she doesn't sound that reliable.  There are loads of reliable girls in that area love, I'd try another.

 

Good luck.

 

What she said.

 

Unfortunately, there are girls out there who are unreliable, and you happen to have picked one.

 

Part of the reason for this Forum and the Field Reports is for you to make an informed judgement about who you book, so you don't have your time wasted - and that decent "Service Providers" are recognised as such and reap the rewards in new clients and bookings.

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You agreed a date and time with her, and confirmed this, then she changes the time  you agreed upon, and then didnt show up.

 

6 and half hours later she texts you saying she is sorry, with an excuse that is plausable.

 

You tried to give her a second chance, and it looks like she is wasting your time again.

 

Dont make the mistake of booking a second hotel, learn from this and move on, there are plenty od honest escorts who would be delighted to meet you.

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Booking and paying for a hotel for someone you've never met just strikes me as silly, just find someone who offers incall in the region, to think of doing it twice is crazy.

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Sorry to hear of your being messed around. Plenty more fish in the sea, but try an in call to a reliable escort, far cheaper and less risky.

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Hello,

I've been visiting these forums and of course the site for some time now, just reading up on all the interesting things and gathering information for my own very first go at this thing!

I am sorry about the long post but I am rather confused as to what is going on with this girl, and if I should even bother any more with her.

So, I am new at this and have read all that I could get my eyes on - I liked the looks of an east midlands girl on AW and thought she was perfect for my first punt - has 30+ feedback and even a field report.

As nervous as I was I still got on the phone and had a little chat with her and explained that I am new and rather nervous about the whole thing. She sounded nice and really friendly, so we agreed on a time and I booked an out call on AW to a hotel near east midlands airport since I can't take part in this sort of thing around my place.

Around comes the day and I am all excited and nervous about it - I ring the girl 2hrs before the hotel check in time to confirm if we're all good and she does not pick up but does send a SMS shortly after to say if the time can be changed to 3:30pm (original agreed time was 2:30pm). Not having any other option I said "bit late but sure".

So, I check in into my hotel at 2pm, fire off a quick text to the girl with my room number and how to get to it etc - no reply.

3:30pm comes and goes and I hear not a single thing from her at all, I tried calling her a couple of times and finally sent a SMS to say "don't bother any more, I have to go" around 5pm.

Later in the night, about 10pm I get a bunch of SMS from her and she couldn't stop saying "sorry", she said that her family showed up out of the blue due to her birthday happening in next few days and took her to a spa as a treat....which I suppose makes sense because she did say her birthday was coming up in the initial call.

Long story short, I decided to give her another try after a couple of emails from her where she even offered free hours if I make the in call - which I can't do since the town she lives in is my birth town and shed load of family members still live there...call me silly but wouldn't want to bump into one!

Told her I'll see her in a hotel in derby to which she said yes. I once again sent her all the details as to its location etc and she even agreed to send me a pic of her to prove that it is indeed her on the AW site (I got suspicious after the no show and asked for a pic just be sure).

This was a few days ago and since then nothing, no emails or SMS and no picture for proof. She also has not logged in AW since her last email about sending me a picture so she might actually just be sick or offline for a good reason..for all I know.

So now I am confused and wondering if all punts are this much effort?! should I even be giving her another chance considering the no show?

Thank you for your time and hope to see some feed back from guys more experienced than I.

 

I wouldnt of given such a timewaster a second chance let alone considered a third. Good WGs dont fuck me about like this, i have heard all the excuses over the years, they may or may not be true but i move on and thats my advice to you here. I would also stick to Incalls so you arent coughing up for a hotel room at least for now.

 

You could post a thread up on the Requests For Information board asking for recommendations in your area, if you do give as much detail of the kind of WG you are looking for, size, cost etc.

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No offence meant to the OP but there seems to be a pattern here of guys saying they have read this forum for a while and then decide to make their first post telling us what a disaster their first punt was...........  One wonders how much they actually did read beforehand ?

 

There is no harm in joining and asking questions before you make your mistake, and then perhaps you might not make it ?  No ??

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Thank you everyone for taking the time to reply. I have decided to just not bother with her any more and have sent a lovely "have a good life" email to her, I won't be rude to her or anyone else for that matter since its pointless and she may have a real problem in her personal life for all I know so no need to be a dick about it.

 

The hotel was not really much of a waste for me since I was in the area for a meeting and I also ended up calling someone else around 6pm - who turned out to be a lovely lady of 30, very friendly but some what...chatty :P.

 

If someone could suggest a girl in Derby or better yet, in notts who does outcalls to Derby that would be great. I am intrested in 18-25 age range, slim and a pretty face. May even try feline escorts as they seem to have a good rep?

 

No offence meant to the OP but there seems to be a pattern here of guys saying they have read this forum for a while and then decide to make their first post telling us what a disaster their first punt was...........  One wonders how much they actually did read beforehand ?

 

There is no harm in joining and asking questions before you make your mistake, and then perhaps you might not make it ?  No ??

 

Hi Sarah - none taken, but that's how it normally starts though. It is very rare for any forum to have someone sign up and say they are a know it all. If I didn't have a problem then there wouldn't be much I could talk to you guys about as I have 0 field experience so giving others any tips or suggestions is out of question so for me its all about reading which I was able to do just fine without needing an account.

 

If I did sign up before the event and had asked you guys about the girl, chances are most of you would have said she sounds ok so go for it, her feedback is fine and she even has 2 postive field reports!

 

The bigger reason for me to not sign up earlier is that I wanted to find a community that is active, forgiving and helpful - and that takes time to find and join! I hope I have found that and I hope to be part of it for a long time.

 

Thank you

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The bigger reason for me to not sign up earlier is that I wanted to find a community that is active, forgiving and helpful - and that takes time to find and join! I hope I have found that and I hope to be part of it for a long time.

 

Thank you

 

I feel all moist

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I feel all moist

Tena for men!

DG :eek:

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The bigger reason for me to not sign up earlier is that I wanted to find a community that is active, forgiving and helpful - and that takes time to find and join! I hope I have found that and I hope to be part of it for a long time.

 

Thank you

 

Clearly we haven't been nearly bitchy enough lately!

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The bigger reason for me to not sign up earlier is that I wanted to find a community that is active, forgiving and helpful - and that takes time to find and join! I hope I have found that and I hope to be part of it for a long time.

Clearly been reading the wrong threads!

 

However, in respect of your OP it doesn't sound to me as though you did anything wrong.  Keeping communication channels open with your prospect is the best way.  Unfortunately the best laid plans of mice and punters...

 

There are so many ways to get pissed off, frustrated beyond belief, anxious, freaked out, depressed, broken hearted, and even burned in this hobby of ours.  This is not unlike other hobbies: where rain stops play, where decisions go against you, where you are thrashed by the opposition etc etc. 

 

You play for the moments of glorious victory, and in punting there are extraordinary rewards. :cool:

 

Onwards and upwards RagingTorch. :)

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Clearly been reading the wrong threads!

 

However, in respect of your OP it doesn't sound to me as though you did anything wrong.  Keeping communication channels open with your prospect is the best way.  Unfortunately the best laid plans of mice and punters...

 

There are so many ways to get pissed off, frustrated beyond belief, anxious, freaked out, depressed, broken hearted, and even burned in this hobby of ours.  This is not unlike other hobbies: where rain stops play, where decisions go against you, where you are thrashed by the opposition etc etc. 

 

You play for the moments of glorious victory, and in punting there are extraordinary rewards. :cool:

 

Onwards and upwards RagingTorch. :)

 

i have had a rash of no shows, outcalls.  Suspect girls think an outcall is too much hassle when they can stay home.

if no comms by 2 hrs before i look elsewhere.

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The worst kind of timewaster .The sort that get a guy thinking..."I'll just give her one more ( or maybe 2 more) chances. Best way to forget about her - book another girl pronto.

 

Good luck

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There are so many ways to get pissed off, frustrated beyond belief, anxious, freaked out, depressed, broken hearted, and even burned in this hobby of ours.

 

And I think I covered most of them with this one :P, hopefully now I will have some better luck.

 

I think the girl is trying to loop me in once more, got a text after days of no contact saying that she is sorry and will send me a picture today, so far no picture! I am tempted to send an email to her and ask her why she is wasting her own and my time, that's just damn right weird.

 

By the way, is there wanything wrong with reverse bookings on AW? not many posts about this that I can get information from. The reason I made one is beacuse I got real tired of trying to find any one willing to reply in a timely manner so made a quick reverse booking, so far I've had 11 bids and there is still some time to go so may seem even more. So far I've got one that may turn out to be fun but who knows.

 

Thank you

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