Sarah Summers

The 'prossie Bashing Brigade' And Their Hatred Of Us

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They use childish reasoning to bolster their argument and as one example of this  I read that any man who pays for sex does not respect the prostitute because he does not respect himself and he projects that shame onto the lady he is paying for services.

 

In my entire career I cannot say that I have met many guys like this.  maybe one or two out of a cast of thousands........

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They use childish reasoning to bolster their argument and as one example of this  I read that any man who pays for sex does not respect the prostitute because he does not respect himself and he projects that shame onto the lady he is paying for services.

 

In my entire career I cannot say that I have met many guys like this.  maybe one or two out of a cast of thousands........

Twaddle.

 

I don't recognise myself in that description. But I think that they hate us all so much and so viscerally that they will seize on any old argument lying around.

 

It is high time all of them spent a good long period in therapy so that, at the very least, they could be honest about their own motives in their campaign against commercial sex.

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Utter tosh. Been covered here many a time that the vast majority of "us" respect the vast majority of "you". Unfortunately there are some punters and ladies alike that are worthy of every anti prostitution argument going.

Dunno where I'd be without meeting some of the lovely ladies I've met over the years. To start with it's saved my relationship as I'd have left the other half centuries ago if it wasn't for my visits.

It's like all contentious subjects, you have bigots to contend with who will never understand prostitution from either perspective. We punters are all sex mad perverts and you ladies are all drugged up, trafficked, skanky, clap riddled street walkers.

My OH obviously has no idea of my punting but the stuff she says about certain women and likens them to "WGs" infuriates me.

DG

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I have huge respect for the ladies I see, and I see them (for repeats) because they are good at what they do, and provide me with a service that I require, which is totally legal. 

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Respect.

 

I occasionally have reason to reveal my occupation, which I do discretely and only where appropriate. Once or twice the response has been that surely I can't respect myself, that clients must treat me and my body terribly because of this lack of respect.

 

I quickly clear this up by describing how I work and the men I see who are brothers, sons, fathers, colleagues of you the general public out there(obviously without identifying anyone). Response is usually a bit different after that.

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Utter tosh. Been covered here many a time that the vast majority of "us" respect the vast majority of "you". Unfortunately there are some punters and ladies alike that are worthy of every anti prostitution argument going.

Dunno where I'd be without meeting some of the lovely ladies I've met over the years. To start with it's saved my relationship as I'd have left the other half centuries ago if it wasn't for my visits.

It's like all contentious subjects, you have bigots to contend with who will never understand prostitution from either perspective. We punters are all sex mad perverts and you ladies are all drugged up, trafficked, skanky, clap riddled street walkers.

My OH obviously has no idea of my punting but the stuff she says about certain women and likens them to "WGs" infuriates me.

DG

She is just stereotyping is all.............  she has no idea that there is a marked difference between the prostitute and some tart who gives it away, and why should she when the press keep up the pressure?  I do hope she is not referring to young girls though when she talks like this.  They all dress up wearing very expensive nothing when they go out clubbing x

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Respect.

 

I occasionally have reason to reveal my occupation, which I do discretely and only where appropriate. Once or twice the response has been that surely I can't respect myself, that clients must treat me and my body terribly because of this lack of respect.

 

I quickly clear this up by describing how I work and the men I see who are brothers, sons, fathers, colleagues of you the general public out there(obviously without identifying anyone). Response is usually a bit different after that.

Don't know how you dare reveal what you do...  now you do have my respect!

 

Lots of times I have been asked, what is a nice girl like you doing this for?  That in itself speaks volumes x

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Don't know how you dare reveal what you do...  now you do have my respect!

 

Lots of times I have been asked, what is a nice girl like you doing this for?  That in itself speaks volumes x

Some are fine, I don't give it away all the time - just were I feel it's ok or necessary(and where it'll do no harm). Avoids a lot of lies, I usually go bright red, then it's up to others how they take it. 

 

Oh and I won't stand for any cr@p either!

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Shame some people are so small minded, whilst it might not be "the done thing", I personally, respect every woman I have been with and am, if you like, thankful that they offer the service they do, Many of the women are decent ladies trying to make a living and some of them I've talked to actually tell me they enjoy what they do and the money side of it is a bonus.

I for one, am greatful to these ladies, and always treat them as I would a girlfriend or wife, there is no need to look down on them as they are as good as any of us including the holier than thou brigade, in fact I have more respect for them than these hypocrites.

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She is just stereotyping is all............. she has no idea that there is a marked difference between the prostitute and some tart who gives it away, and why should she when the press keep up the pressure? I do hope she is not referring to young girls though when she talks like this. They all dress up wearing very expensive nothing when they go out clubbing x

Sarah,

It could be aimed at anyone. Yes indeed, a young lady dressed up for clubbing (usually an "on the game" comment) or a 30's/40's MILF with a bit more makeup than most and showing some leg and/or cleavage (most likely the "WG" comments). Totally bigoted and stereotyped but only once did I venture a contradiction and it would have turned nasty so I learnt to shut off if she starts. They're out there and live with one.

As per others, huge respect to all the ladies.

DG

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Oh the irony of it all........  her best friend could be a working girl, or the lady who works in the supermarket, next door neighbour, friend of a friend..  mothers, daughters, sisters, aunties... local plod (it has been known)  nurses, need I go on..? ..We are all out there doing what we do in between heavy bouts of shagging and blowjobbing...  and the rest  :)

 

I think working girls should have one of those dodgy  handshakes with fingers like  wot the Masons do.. ha ha !

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I'm sure we punters could help you perfect the perfect WG greeting.

I'll look at all her friends in a new light now and compare them to those blurred piccies on AW :D

DG

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I'm sure we punters could help you perfect the perfect WG greeting.

I'll look at all her friends in a new light now and compare them to those blurred piccies on AW :D

DG

DG  Please promise to laugh at this .... no offence meant.............  you know they say attack is the best form of defence !

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As they say an ill informed opinion is always a bad one.   

 

Its human nature  love to form an opinion about things or people we don't really know much about.  Hell you've seen that happen often enough on here, I've had posters say things like 'I don't like that ******, they seem a bit ******* to me and I've thought how on earth can you know that about someone you have never met.. This is no different.

 

I wouldn't get angry or wound up by it because you know the difference and that's what really matters.

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DG Please promise to laugh at this .... no offence meant............. you know they say attack is the best form of defence !

Nah, she'd be handing out change for a quid (joking really)

:D :d :D :d :D

DG

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Sarah,

It could be aimed at anyone. Yes indeed, a young lady dressed up for clubbing (usually an "on the game" comment) or a 30's/40's MILF with a bit more makeup than most and showing some leg and/or cleavage (most likely the "WG" comments). Totally bigoted and stereotyped but only once did I venture a contradiction and it would have turned nasty so I learnt to shut off if she starts. They're out there and live with one.

As per others, huge respect to all the ladies.

DG

 

well said

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They use childish reasoning to bolster their argument and as one example of this  I read that any man who pays for sex does not respect the prostitute because he does not respect himself and he projects that shame onto the lady he is paying for services.

 

In my entire career I cannot say that I have met many guys like this.  maybe one or two out of a cast of thousands........

Loada stereotypical bollocks, imo, probably expressed by someone who doesn't know what he's talking about.

 

I can honestly say punting's made me a more confident person.  I see Escorts because I have a physical disability and don't have the self-confidence to get back into the dating scene after one pretty disastrous marriage broke up [or down; whichever way marriages break!].  It was about 18 months after my "Ex" moved away that I found punting and haven't looked back!

 

Because I'm grateful for the service WGs provide, I go into every appointment treating the woman I'm going to see in a friendly civilised way and find that they respond similarly. I've found that the Escorts I've seen have been almost without exception [maybe one or two out of a cast of a hundred or so........] empathetic.  My non-punting friends have commented on how much more cheerful I am these days.  Little do they know how little they know! ;):D

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I wonder just how many WG's or punters these bigots have taken the time to talk to.In my limited experience the girls i have had the pleasure of spending time with are intelligent,articulate and independantly minded,not one of them could be forced into doing anything against their will.

It simply suites these anti's to circulate the same old bias arguments as it would not be in their interest to learn the truth,as they would  just have to admit they might have been wrong.

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They have taken the time to speak to ZERO punters or escorts. They probably wouldnt lower themselves even though half of them are probably society dregs. Its always nice to have someone to hate when most of the country hates you. 

 

They are knuckle draggers, men and women both and dont deserve our time to speak to them. They are too small minded and would enter a discussion without an open mind. Let them think what they like. We know better and are probably way happier people than them anyway x

 

From personal experience the women think you will try to steal their precious husband even if he is a lazy dole lout who gets pissed and knocks her about and the guys want to fuck us but either cant afford it, are too scared their missus will find out or that we will try to have their babies and blackmail them into supporting us. The rest are just ignorant. 

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I'm still new to all this, so maybe l've done good research or just been lucky with the law of averages, but I have met nothing but interesting, genuine and worthwhile people.

It's interesting, and bizarre, that this is one of the very few businesses where ill-considered opinion rates something which is 'given away' as somehow having more intrinsic value than something which is paid for.

Purely coincidentally, my own charge-out rate for the work I do ( project assurance ) is roughly equivalent to an independent WG rate. So in basic economic terms we are neutral. WG: 0 me 0

In human terms, there's no contest: my work rarely results in someone feeling they've had a good time, or feeling better about themselves and life in general ( eg Bald Rick) And I certainly can't claim to have kept any marriages together ( eg DG). WG1: me 0

 And morally? I've lost count of the times good professional advice has been sacrificed on the altar of short-term management fashion or ministerial policy-of-the-moment, or sheer personality-based 'undiscussability'. By contrast, a WG's relationship with a client - if it is conducted with mutual respect and regard for the boundaries -  is as clear and as 'moral' a proposition as you are likely to get in personal interactions. WG 2: me 0     

Game over!

Without wishing to get too political or heavy, there was more gross immorality on display in a certain West Midlands Hospital than anywhere on this site.....

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i have far more respect for the wg's i see than for the vast majority of people i meet in the real world

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Every time I read or hear this bollocks about respecting the girl, it makes me think of my early encounters with WGs, which were prompted by unsatisfactory early civvy  fumbles of sexual encounters. What I received, in the main, was a great experience, a bloody good time and in by far the majority of cases RESPECT.

 

Whilst I ( like the rest of us) can't shout it out loud, I respect and am proud to know , and have known some fantastic ladies I have met along the journey.

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I read that any man who pays for sex does not respect the prostitute because he does not respect himself and he projects that shame onto the lady he is paying for services.

 

That's a difficult one. I think it is important to recognise there is very good and very bad about the paid sex scene. I tend to think those that come out with statements like the one you reproduced want to use prostitution as an excuse to further another agenda. I've concluded I am firmly on the fence and think each situation is different. It's apparent to me that some shouldn't sell sex and others shouldn't pay for it but many do so with complete justification - it works for them. I really don't think we know enough about each others situations and innermost thoughts and feelings to make a judgment and correct call before any meeting for paid sex. It would be great if we could.

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Don't forget that they prostitution as voilence against women,as all prostitutes are drug addicts who were abused  as children and bought up in care.This bad upbringing,coupled with the addiction leaves them in a desperate situation and unable to make any life decisions for themselves.Oh,and dont forget that all punters are women hating rapists.
Best argument against prostitution recently was that it was morally wrong because the person found it icky.

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They use childish reasoning to bolster their argument and as one example of this  I read that any man who pays for sex does not respect the prostitute because he does not respect himself and he projects that shame onto the lady he is paying for services.

 

In my entire career I cannot say that I have met many guys like this.  maybe one or two out of a cast of thousands........

You should get onto twitter and follow #whenantisattack then. Makes what you read look like a spring morning full of hope. All I can say is that I dont think a lot of people realise the inadvertent personal sacrifices Brooke Magnanti has made in (deliberately or otherwise) becoming a spokesperson for this industry. She seems to have attracted such viciousness, probably because just by being who she is she shatters every stereotype they try to project onto us. I hope the same thing doesnt happen to Laura x

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