Sarah Summers

Things You Should Not Talk About During A Punt

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I tend to treat my client like a human being and if he asks me a question that is not overtly personal I will answer it honestly.  I do not mind.  Obviously I would not like to be asked something along the lines of 'is your mother a prostitute as well'... that kind of thing :(   However other stuff such as where do you live can be answered politely without actually giving the address away.  Some guys ask me if I live at my flat and I answer them honestly.

 

If I am having a conversation with a guy I might ask him what he does for a living.  It is polite and shows interest in him.  I do not think I have ever had anyone tell me to mind my own business.  A lot of men volunteer the info that they are married and look sheepish.......   I sometimes ask that question but only because it may be relevant to a conversation we are having.  I'm pretty easy going about stuff and don't have a problem with communicating with my client.

 

I know some people think that to ask each other questions is preposterous - we all have our own views on personal privacy.  My take on this is that whatever goes on between us stays within these walls and my head and never leaves it

 

If you can't be comfortable with the other person it's a poor do as they say round these parts :)

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Same here, I treat everone with respect unless they give me a reason not too in which case I would rather they didnt come at all. I had a guy text me that he used to visit me in my former escorting days and he would love to see me again. The little exchange was going well till he text that he wanted to "fuck my cunt hard with his big cock". Kind of put me off a bit, I dont know why, its not an unusual saying in this job, just did in this instance.

 

I happily chat with my guys, they seem to chat back the same to me which is great as I take it to mean they feel at ease with me, its nice to get to know people a little bit especially if they visit you occasionally as oppose to a one off x

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I'll happily chat about pretty much anything.I have no problem with being asked about work,whereabouts ive travelled from.Found out one lady i saw used to work for one of our celebrity chefs.If they're non UK i like to chat about what the countires like they're from,and one lady,we spent ages talking about tattoo's.She wanted her childrens names done and an older piece touched up.Gave her a couple of addressess and names for places where she could easily get to and would do her a decent price for quality work.
When it comes to conversation i'm a strong believer in the old pub saying.Avoid politics and religion and you should be ok :)

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I think we escorts have to judge each man, I tend to ask, if small talk is required 'what line are you in?' rather than a more direct 'Where do you work?' putting the ball in his court. Some men will be vague and say In IT or marketing and some will be more detailed. I take the lead from them. If he looks freaked out that i ask then I stop, if he is chatty about his line of work I will ask questions. Od course that depends. I only have so much to say to someone who says 'I'm an accountant' other  than 'Oh do you enjoy it?' but if someone says they teach waterskiing or they design cat beds I might have questions.

 

Anyway, with regards to me, I am probably more open than I should be ( I can't not be) but I probably have less to be paranoid than some- I don't have another career to protect or kids for example, so am open to questions. 

 

Each women is different though, as is each client, some men ask things I feel uncomfortable about answering and some I am a ease with and will chat away.

 

Like most things in this game, it varies. 

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So what are the things we should not talk about during a punt?

 

That is unless they shouldn't be talked about anywhere else, at any time.

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I usually make a joke such as "Unless it's top secret" when asking about line of work, but I only even ask if it's relevant to the conversation apart from that most of the time I avoid asking about spouses, children that sort of thing.

 

Chloe's post has reminded me about a guy who made contact after seeing me some years ago, wanted to make a booking when in my area but quite similarly suddenly went quite explicit in texts, and mentioned something similar in a phone call. Started to put me off, make me feel a bit off and lo and behold despite saying he was 'excited' right up until the night before, promising to contact me the next morning, I heard nothing on the day. Hmmm.

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I had one lady a while ago who was excited about her new grand-child and wanted to talk to me about it.

 

I suggested to her agency that this was not a good thing to talk to clients about. 

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So what are the things we should not talk about during a punt?

 

That is unless they shouldn't be talked about anywhere else, at any time.

Its never a good thing to start chatting to a lady about your piles, its a bit icky x

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I had one lady a while ago who was excited about her new grand-child and wanted to talk to me about it.

 

I suggested to her agency that this was not a good thing to talk to clients about.

 

FFS! Unless you are a teenager and feel awkward about having it away with a glamourous Grand-Mother, why ever shouldn't she share her pleasure with you?

I remember turning up before the lady (she'd lost her car keys or something) and being asked by the maid to sort out the fuse box - while I was on my knees working out which circuit breaker was which, I had a full on joyous account of the christening, the day before, of the WG's sister's two young sons.

 

And why not? Most WGs are as human as us, and a good few even more so!

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FFS! Unless you are a teenager and feel awkward about having it away with a glamourous Grand-Mother, why ever shouldn't she share her pleasure with you?

I remember turning up before the lady (she'd lost her car keys or something) and being asked by the maid to sort out the fuse box - while I was on my knees working out which circuit breaker was which, I had a full on joyous account of the christening, the day before, of the WG's sister's two young sons.

 

And why not? Most WGs are as human as us, and a good few even more so!

Agree with this.  I am sure we all know where the boundaries lie, and to be perfectly honest when the boundaries start to get fuzzy we are also adult enough to know when to draw them on again..........

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Same here, I treat everone with respect unless they give me a reason not too in which case I would rather they didnt come at all. I had a guy text me that he used to visit me in my former escorting days and he would love to see me again. The little exchange was going well till he text that he wanted to "fuck my cunt hard with his big cock". Kind of put me off a bit, I dont know why, its not an unusual saying in this job, just did in this instance.

 

I happily chat with my guys, they seem to chat back the same to me which is great as I take it to mean they feel at ease with me, its nice to get to know people a little bit especially if they visit you occasionally as oppose to a one off x

That would have put me off too Chloe.  I would have told him I was uncomfortable and did not wish to see him at that point.

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I had one lady a while ago who was excited about her new grand-child and wanted to talk to me about it.

 

I suggested to her agency that this was not a good thing to talk to clients about. 

Really?? You actually made a complaint to the agency because a lady shared some wonderful personal news with you?? I bet they made all the right noises on the phone then put the phone down and said "jeeez what a pedantic old fart"

 

I had a client yesterday telling me about his new little baby he now has and that its the reason he hasnt punted in so long, should i have told him that its not a conversation thats good to have with an escort? I also chat about my children to clients (names and locations not given of course lol), its called treating each other as people and not as if we are each some dodgy murky character we have to watch our words around and be suspicious off.

 

Would you think it better to submit a list of suitable topics of discussion for end of punt pillow talk or would you prefer to go have ladies just tell you straight out "I dont discuss that its personal" when you ask an innocent question. Cant imagine that would be condusive to the feelgood factor of a booking. 

 

Sorry dont mean to sound harsh, its just that what you said seems overly harsh to me xx

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Anyway, urinary infections, ladies, dont mention these to clients, some of them assume its an sti, shit themselves and run for the door. One of the girls at mke once took a week off because of one. When her client asked why she had not been at work the week before she said "oh i had a urinary tract infection so i took a week off for it to clear up". Needless to say he suddenly announced he had changed his mind about the booking and could he have his money back please. I couldnt really argue with him over this now could I, she had used the word "infection" lol...I would have been more surprised if he had stayed after that. She couldnt understand why I didnt tell him off for wasting her time.

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I had one lady a while ago who was excited about her new grand-child and wanted to talk to me about it.

 

I suggested to her agency that this was not a good thing to talk to clients about. 

I remember many [it must be 25+] years ago driving through a Council estate in a city where I worked at that time and seeing at an upstairs window a sheet on which someone had sprayed, "Happy 30th birthday, grandma." :o

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PS: I meant to add that, as one who always tries to be polite to people, I sometimes preface a question to a WG with "Do you mind if I ask you. . ?"

 

That gives her a cue to decide whether what I'm asking is too personal to reply to and can avoid embarrassment.

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I think its good to talk as the saying goes, and dont mind anything being asked, but at the end of the punt when im getting dressed, i seem to always get asked,

 

So what are you doing the rest of the day......

 

Im in the throws of what is still fresh in my mind and im trying to relive as many details as possable, including watching the escort as she puts on some sexy underwear, the last thng I want is to talk about my mundane trip home, or will I be shopping at the market to get something etc.

 

I did once for a laugh, say that I was now going on to see SexySue, and that she was a warm up for the main event, it brought a laugh as she could tell I was only joking, but at least I got out of trying to answer the origional question.

 

Funnily enough, if the lady then asks me to stay for a coffee, and asks these type of questions I dont mind.

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Its never a good thing to start chatting to a lady about your piles, its a bit icky x

Sorry; I'm in a very flippant mood today but does anyone know if there's an Escort [probably a Yorkshire girl] called Emma Royds? ;)

 

Taxi for Bald Rick!

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Sorry; I'm in a very flippant mood today but does anyone know if there's an Escort [probably a Yorkshire girl] called Emma Royds? ;)

 

Taxi for Bald Rick!

I think she lives in crinkly bottom...do check shes still available though and not resigned to the anals of history  ^_^

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PS: I meant to add that, as one who always tries to be polite to people, I sometimes preface a question to a WG with "Do you mind if I ask you. . ?"

 

That gives her a cue to decide whether what I'm asking is too personal to reply to and can avoid embarrassment.

Err, how can she tell if it's too personal until you've actually asked?I find it mildy annoying when people start a question like this, either ask it or don't.

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The one thing that I didn't like being asked but got it a lot was 'how does someone like you get into something like this?'  That really put my back up because it inferred that you had to a lesser human being to be doing this.

 

Other than that I'd chat about pretty much anything and so do the guys.  See nothing wrong in sharing the news that there's a new addition to the family as long as your not giving the babies address out, that's being silly.  Clients chat about their families, some laugh about them, others even sit on the edge of the bed and cry about their problems at home.

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If you don't know what not to talk about, then I suppose the next best thing is to find a wg who can't speak a word of your own language.

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I think that most of the conversation a wg has with me leaves her memory at the end of theday. So, I am happy to share my sad little life. It is great when I describe where I live and I can see their poor little eyes glaze over. Mostly, Somewhere West of London does nicely.

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Fishing.  You must never initiate a conversation about catching cold-blooded slippery things with scales.  

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Really?? You actually made a complaint to the agency because a lady shared some wonderful personal news with you?? I bet they made all the right noises on the phone then put the phone down and said "jeeez what a pedantic old fart"

 

I had a client yesterday telling me about his new little baby he now has and that its the reason he hasnt punted in so long, should i have told him that its not a conversation thats good to have with an escort? I also chat about my children to clients (names and locations not given of course lol), its called treating each other as people and not as if we are each some dodgy murky character we have to watch our words around and be suspicious off.

 

Would you think it better to submit a list of suitable topics of discussion for end of punt pillow talk or would you prefer to go have ladies just tell you straight out "I dont discuss that its personal" when you ask an innocent question. Cant imagine that would be condusive to the feelgood factor of a booking. 

 

Sorry dont mean to sound harsh, its just that what you said seems overly harsh to me xx

 

You are not harsh at all, Chloe! If I replied at the time, when he posted it early in the morning it would be much harsher, lol.

 When I read Zorro's post in the morning I was shocked!  I was in the rush to work and did not had time, so thought I will reply later in the afternoon. But you and Irgeindeiner already posted excellent replies.

 

Mind boggles what pushing the guy to phone an agency after an appointment and complain about that WG told him him a happy news regarding her first born grand child. I honestly can not understand it. This so incredibly petty and sad, and I can not find any explanation for it amd why anybody would do it.  I was also surprised that it was posted by Zorro, as in the past I liked some of his responses on this forum.

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One appointment I had to try extra hard to make pleasant was with a man who (while undressing) told me he was looking forward to continuing his journey after he saw me. I enquired what nice things he was going on to do...... and he proudly told me he was going shooting......... yes shooting birds and animals.

 

:(

 

Another man I had met a few times and knew little about came to see me and within a moment he poured out his heart while relating the very recent death of his wife and her long illness etc.  Awful for him but it certainly altered the whole tone of the appointment.

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