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Maybe it's me but I am finding that each booking is like groundhog day. It's all a bit the same. I dont want to draw up a list of things to agree in advance-- thats just too mechanical and too thought out. I would love to just arrive and not know exactly how things are going to go. Maybe be treated to a nice striptease, a kinky massage, a tie and tease, a shared shower/ bath, some toys , anything just somethimg different without having to  specify it  myself which would take the fun out of it.Any others feel a bit the same or how do youn approach this or do you care ?

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Wrong type of lady then. With a bit of research you can easily find ladies that prefer a free flowing, non scripted session, I certainly do. I have one very memorable punt where the lady was lovely and what she did was very nice but she was so scripted I was almost counting in my own head for the next change of position. 

 

Seek and ye shall find.

 

 

DG

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Maybe it's me but I am finding that each booking is like groundhog day. It's all a bit the same. I dont want to draw up a list of things to agree in advance-- thats just too mechanical and too thought out. I would love to just arrive and not know exactly how things are going to go. Maybe be treated to a nice striptease, a kinky massage, a tie and tease, a shared shower/ bath, some toys , anything just somethimg different without having to  specify it  myself which would take the fun out of it.Any others feel a bit the same or how do youn approach this or do you care ?

I require things to be agreed in advance, if the WG offers something else that can be nice, but i do all i can to seek confirmation that such and such service is on offer to me. Unlike you the fun for me is knowing what i require is on offer. :)

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Just email someone first with your thing you like babe it's hard for girls to know what you want xx

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I don't like to specify the menu in advance, but I do prefer to mention the type of things that I like; and to avoid any potential awkwardness on the day I also make a point of saying that if I've suggested something that the WG does not like, to let me know in advance.  That approach seems to work reasonably well, for me anyway.

 

One other associated point. In terms of asking a WG to wear something specific, I always give a couple of options and leave it for her to decide, that way there is still a bit of mystery until that moment when the door opens :cool:

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1. You could go to the booking wearing a gimp mask and sit in the corner while some other guy has sex with the escort you have paid for.

 

2. Ask the escort to tie and tease you in the way you would never imagine.

 

3. Bring a hamper basket with picnic food, share this with a nice glass of wine for the first 20 minutes of a booking and let the escort show her pleasure.

 

4. Reverse the situation, pretend she has booked you, and start of by giving her a striptease/lapdance.

 

5. Tell her its a quiet booking wth no words being said, (this can be quite a turn on) just animal lust.

 

6. Pretend your on a first date and have brought her to your parents house, and the parensts are in the next room,

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Just email someone first with your thing you like babe it's hard for girls to know what you want xx

From the sounds of it that is precisely what he is trying to get away from.

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The best times I think are when its mutual and go with the flow.I am not suggesting that you lay there like a log on punts but are you quite proactive and passionate yourself when you go see a lady or do you follow her lead moatly?If its the latter then I think moat ladies will struggle to do anything different and it will end up being a bit mechanical.

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How about you just mail her and say 'bored with the same old same old I'm getting with other escorts, can you excite me with something different'.  I'd have loved a mail like that from someone.  Mind you they would need some backbone and be pretty brave. :P

 

On second thoughts, not a good idea... :wacko:

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How about you just mail her and say 'bored with the same old same old I'm getting with other escorts, can you excite me with something different'. I'd have loved a mail like that from someone. Mind you they would need some backbone and be pretty brave. :P

On second thoughts, not a good idea... :wacko:

Bloomin' good idea Holly! :D

DG

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How about you just mail her and say 'bored with the same old same old I'm getting with other escorts, can you excite me with something different'.  I'd have loved a mail like that from someone.  Mind you they would need some backbone and be pretty brave. :P

 

On second thoughts, not a good idea... :wacko:

Thats fine.Except how does that escort know what he's been getting with other escorts?His same old same old might be a carrot up his bum while he puts a saddle on her back and rides her like redrum round the flat.

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Perhaps finding newer WGs as they might prefer a bit of spontaneity until they get into the swing of things?

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Maybe it's me but I am finding that each booking is like groundhog day. It's all a bit the same. I dont want to draw up a list of things to agree in advance-- thats just too mechanical and too thought out. I would love to just arrive and not know exactly how things are going to go. Maybe be treated to a nice striptease, a kinky massage, a tie and tease, a shared shower/ bath, some toys , anything just somethimg different without having to  specify it  myself which would take the fun out of it.Any others feel a bit the same or how do youn approach this or do you care ?

 

I know what you mean, I've seen some very highly recommended and thought of escorts over the years, but most of the time the punt = kissing, oral, and then sex and it's all a bit predictable. Like you I guess I'd just like the girl to mix things up a bit, but without my suggesting it first, though that's perhaps unfair on the escort herself. I guess the only thing you can really do is as Holly suggests above, though word it in a highly complementary and polite way to avoid causing offence.

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Thats fine.Except how does that escort know what he's been getting with other escorts?His same old same old might be a carrot up his bum while he puts a saddle on her back and rides her like redrum round the flat.

I like being the horse with the girl being the jockey.

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Thats fine.Except how does that escort know what he's been getting with other escorts?His same old same old might be a carrot up his bum while he puts a saddle on her back and rides her like redrum round the flat.

 

Bibi that made me choke on my rum and coke.. :D  On account of I've been doing something not that far away from that today. :P   I did say maybe it wasn't a very good idea...   lol

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Maybe it's me but I am finding that each booking is like groundhog day. It's all a bit the same. I dont want to draw up a list of things to agree in advance-- thats just too mechanical and too thought out. I would love to just arrive and not know exactly how things are going to go. Maybe be treated to a nice striptease, a kinky massage, a tie and tease, a shared shower/ bath, some toys , anything just somethimg different without having to  specify it  myself which would take the fun out of it.Any others feel a bit the same or how do youn approach this or do you care ?

 

im finding the same thing i can be shy and with some WG it can be mechanical and i find they hurry me out have been doing alot of half hour punts im thinking maybe do less punts but do longer time and find just 1 or 2 regular ladies to visit :unsure:

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Bloody hell! Now we're expected to be mind readers! Unless the client is a reg you have discussed his likes and dislikes with it would be hard work to surprise a man without possibly perplexing or frightening him.

We do need some vague guidelines because the possibilities are huge!

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Bibi that made me choke on my rum and coke.. :D On account of I've been doing something not that far away from that today. :P I did say maybe it wasn't a very good idea... lol

Intriguing! :eek:

Care to share that Holly? :D

DG

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Bloody hell! Now we're expected to be mind readers!

Yes, we are! You can not be a proper whore and charge above £150 per hour unless you have some psychic abilities regarding what exactly client looks for.

 

I don't have it either. Once client said to me, that he wants me to do "mermaid fantasy".  I assumed that he wants me to do an underwater BJ to him in his jacuzzi.  (which I did). I was wrong: he wanted to wrap my legs in the cling film from the waste down, and only have access my face and upper part of the body. He asked me to whistle too occasionally.

 

Long story, but did not end well (for him). Broke the story of the original Mermaid. I hope Hans C Andersen will forgive him.

 

Cumango: I remember one of your very first posts on this forum, (sometime in 2007/8) where you said more or less the same, as in you OP.  Only then you was more imaginative and compared it to the horse racing in a way of going through the motions. I did tried to find this thread, but it was very long time ago, and probably was deleted. However I am sure you remember it too.

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Yes, we are! You can not be a proper whore and charge above £150 per hour unless you have some psychic abilities regarding what exactly client looks for.

 

I don't have it either. Once client said to me, that he wants me to do "mermaid fantasy".  I assumed that he wants me to do an underwater BJ to him in his jacuzzi.  (which I did). I was wrong: he wanted to wrap my legs in the cling film from the waste down, and only have access my face and upper part of the body. He asked me to whistle too occasionally.

 

Long story, but did not end well (for him). Broke the story of the original Mermaid. I hope Hans C Andersen will forgive him.

 

Cumango: I remember one of your very first posts on this forum, (sometime in 2007/8) where you said more or less the same, as in you OP.  Only then you was more imaginative and compared it to the horse racing in a way of going through the motions. I did tried to find this thread, but it was very long time ago, and probably was deleted. However I am sure you remember it too.

Whistle too.Wasnt this fella was it  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/09/23/malcolm-brenner-dolphin_n_974764.html

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Intriguing! :eek:

Care to share that Holly? :D

DG

 

All I can say is it involved some amazing rubber outfits and really bizarre stuff.  Quite an eye opener for me and a world away from this one but great fun... :ph34r:

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I usually find that, since I try to surprise the lady with something new to her from me, the lady usually responds by trying out something which she has not done to me before.

 

For example, at my last meeting with Bombshell she stripped down to her thigh-high boots, donned a blindfold, then I tried everything I could to teasingly turn her on (less obviously than one might expect) until she reached the point of being unable to stand up any longer. Then I picked her up, placed her on the bed and we carried on....

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Wrong type of lady then. With a bit of research you can easily find ladies that prefer a free flowing, non scripted session, I certainly do. I have one very memorable punt where the lady was lovely and what she did was very nice but she was so scripted I was almost counting in my own head for the next change of position. 

 

Seek and ye shall find.

 

 

DG

 

If I am being honest,I dont really know what a 'free flowing, non-scripted session' means. You say Hi,pay the cash, have your shower and then the lady is waiting either on or beside the bed. Standard booking, you kiss for a few moments , then on to the bed , clothes off, kissing, RO BJ, , sex and  chat, Thanks.  Maybe I am missing something . Absolutely Lovely, but certainly element of groundhog day.

 

 

I require things to be agreed in advance, if the WG offers something else that can be nice, but i do all i can to seek confirmation that such and such service is on offer to me. Unlike you the fun for me is knowing what i require is on offer. :)

Confirmation of services is one thing of course but you can still have those services as well as say a strip tease or something else and they also may be delivered in a different or more exciting way. :)

 

 

 

 

 

I don't like to specify the menu in advance, but I do prefer to mention the type of things that I like; and to avoid any potential awkwardness on the day I also make a point of saying that if I've suggested something that the WG does not like, to let me know in advance.  That approach seems to work reasonably well, for me anyway.

 

One other associated point. In terms of asking a WG to wear something specific, I always give a couple of options and leave it for her to decide, that way there is still a bit of mystery until that moment when the door opens :cool:

 That pre-supposes a willing WG emailer. Very often not the case in my experience.

 

 

 

 

 

The best times I think are when its mutual and go with the flow.I am not suggesting that you lay there like a log on punts but are you quite proactive and passionate yourself when you go see a lady or do you follow her lead moatly?If its the latter then I think moat ladies will struggle to do anything different and it will end up being a bit mechanical.

 

I feel I normally have to take the lead as I dont get the impression that the WG is planning anything different herself. Perhaps I could lead with more exciting suggestions myself, but if these have not already been planned and agreed, then trying to agree it all at the booking itself wastes time and also may not interest the lady and if that happens, you have a major problem on your hands.

 

 

 

 

 

 

How about you just mail her and say 'bored with the same old same old I'm getting with other escorts, can you excite me with something different'.  I'd have loved a mail like that from someone.  Mind you they would need some backbone and be pretty brave. :P

 

On second thoughts, not a good idea... :wacko:

Ok, maybe I will try that the next time I get an emailer.( Bet you though that the lady will seek my suggestions rather than proposiong herself.) 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Perhaps finding newer WGs as they might prefer a bit of spontaneity until they get into the swing of things?

I visit new ladies all the time. Doesnt seem to make a huge difference. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I know what you mean, I've seen some very highly recommended and thought of escorts over the years, but most of the time the punt = kissing, oral, and then sex and it's all a bit predictable. Like you I guess I'd just like the girl to mix things up a bit, but without my suggesting it first, though that's perhaps unfair on the escort herself. I guess the only thing you can really do is as Holly suggests above, though word it in a highly complementary and polite way to avoid causing offence.

Unfortunately, I am not a great politician .

 

 

 

 

 

im finding the same thing i can be shy and with some WG it can be mechanical and i find they hurry me out have been doing alot of half hour punts im thinking maybe do less punts but do longer time and find just 1 or 2 regular ladies to visit :unsure:

My punts must be daytime ones, so they cant be long . 1 hour is about right for daytime punt break from the office.( A long evening punt with wine etc is perhaps a different story )

 

 

 

 

Bloody hell! Now we're expected to be mind readers! Unless the client is a reg you have discussed his likes and dislikes with it would be hard work to surprise a man without possibly perplexing or frightening him.

We do need some vague guidelines because the possibilities are huge!

Excellent-- so try a few surprises. If its not to the clients liking, he can always revert to the tried and trusted if he wants. :)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yes, we are! You can not be a proper whore and charge above £150 per hour unless you have some psychic abilities regarding what exactly client looks for.

 

I don't have it either. Once client said to me, that he wants me to do "mermaid fantasy".  I assumed that he wants me to do an underwater BJ to him in his jacuzzi.  (which I did). I was wrong: he wanted to wrap my legs in the cling film from the waste down, and only have access my face and upper part of the body. He asked me to whistle too occasionally.

 

Long story, but did not end well (for him). Broke the story of the original Mermaid. I hope Hans C Andersen will forgive him.

 

Cumango: I remember one of your very first posts on this forum, (sometime in 2007/8) where you said more or less the same, as in you OP.  Only then you was more imaginative and compared it to the horse racing in a way of going through the motions. I did tried to find this thread, but it was very long time ago, and probably was deleted. However I am sure you remember it too.

 

A horny man is very easily pleased . No mind reading necessary.

 

I only joined in Jul '09 , and dont remember mentioning horses but I am getting older ! ( still one of the best pics on the web though !!! :D )

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I usually find that, since I try to surprise the lady with something new to her from me, the lady usually responds by trying out something which she has not done to me before.

 

For example, at my last meeting with Bombshell she stripped down to her thigh-high boots, donned a blindfold, then I tried everything I could to teasingly turn her on (less obviously than one might expect) until she reached the point of being unable to stand up any longer. Then I picked her up, placed her on the bed and we carried on....

 Now you're talkin' ! :)  ( she ounds like a 'regular' tho ! )

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So you are saying we should just do whatever springs to mind with a totally new bloke then?If he doesn't like it he can revert back to tried and tested..its that simple?So no chance he might freak out,get offended,he might want to leave the booking early or even worse give us a bad report because we did something he hated?This is where communication comes in and sorry to reiterate this but if a guy is unwilling to think of a few fantasies and share them it is not our job to sit there and drag them out of him..or go through the entire gamut until we find something he does like or isn't bored with.Take some responsibility for your own pleasure during a punt,communicate,think of others things you would like and talk to the lady before hand.If a wg is unaware that you are bored with a routine why will she do anything gobsmackingly different?She doesn't know what you may have done or nt done before especially if she has never met you before.

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