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An unusual request, what do other punters or professionals think?

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Hi,

I'm very inexperienced sexually (not a virgin but only just...) and what I want is not really sex but 'teaching'.

My fetish really is the female body (and teachers...) and I really want to be able to make a potential partner orgasm (or at least really enjoy themselves) using my hands and my tongue (though I have no illusions about being able to get a professional to). So I'd be looking for someone who would be willing to show a clumsy young man what bits to rub, where to squeeze, how much pressure, clever techniques and all the rest so that I can make future partners enjoy sex and intimacy with me.

First punters how have you found escorts with regards to letting you do things like this? And professionals out there how would you feel if someone wanted an hour with you with you guiding them and letting them play with your body rather than just sex/bj's/etc?

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I started off almost like this myself, asking the girl not to fake anything as I wanted to learn. The first 3 more or less ignored this, and rather obviously faked it anyway. But the next did not, and IIRC it took me at least 4 or 5 times before I managed to get it right and make her climax. Then, as I got more experienced, it was less and less time for reverse oral before she came.

So I guess my advice is to do as I did, make sure she knows you're serious about not wanting her to fake anything.

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Hi,

I'm very inexperienced sexually (not a virgin but only just...) and what I want is not really sex but 'teaching'.

My fetish really is the female body (and teachers...) and I really want to be able to make a potential partner orgasm (or at least really enjoy themselves) using my hands and my tongue (though I have no illusions about being able to get a professional to). So I'd be looking for someone who would be willing to show a clumsy young man what bits to rub, where to squeeze, how much pressure, clever techniques and all the rest so that I can make future partners enjoy sex and intimacy with me.

First punters how have you found escorts with regards to letting you do things like this? And professionals out there how would you feel if someone wanted an hour with you with you guiding them and letting them play with your body rather than just sex/bj's/etc?

I would not beat yourself up about it. Non of us are born with experience, nor as you may think its not expected. Contrary to bar room gossip not many men are good lovers or do they make woman (working or civilian) cum that often.

My advice would be to look at other ways of gathering experience outside the paying arena as some experiences may be not all they are cracked up to be and you may pick up a few mannerisms that will not work well with the love of your life (when she comes along) if not already on the horizon.

Up your Viva:D:D

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I used to see a guy who was very inexperienced, totally lovely guy, sorry if you are reading I cant access my emails, but anyway, he was scared that he could not satisfy a partner, we took things slowly and relaxed around each other and I steered him in the right direction if he went off track. One of the few people I have seen this year but was a reg. Sometimes it is rewarding and empowering for a woman to teach a man the ways of the body. As long as you don't grope and paw all over them and continually say is that okay. Most girls would steer you in the right direction if you were not floating their boat.

Don't be worried about not being experienced, we all have to learn somewhere and somehow.

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I'm a firm believer that great sex or love-making (whichever you prefer) is 9/10 in the head and the seed has to be planted well before any physical interaction takes place. You could be well known for making the best omelette in the world but if the recipient doesn't like omelette's it matters not a jot. I don't think women were designed to have great sex with all and sundry otherwise there would be no need for prostitutes. Why pretend any different. My big let down in punting in that i wish i could have a punt and feel sure that it was a terrific experience for us both but in reality i know that is hardly ever the case.

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Contrary to bar room gossip not many men are good lovers or do they make woman (working or civilian) cum that often.

Ah, i feel much better for having read that.

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I would not beat yourself up about it. Non of us are born with experience, nor as you may think its not expected. Contrary to bar room gossip not many men are good lovers or do they make woman (working or civilian) cum that often.

My advice would be to look at other ways of gathering experience outside the paying arena as some experiences may be not all they are cracked up to be and you may pick up a few mannerisms that will not work well with the love of your life (when she comes along) if not already on the horizon.

Up your Viva:D:D

You've burst a few bubbles there Lou4fun.

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My inexperienced friend has taken a shining to gaining experience from men she meets online. I would suggest trying other methods and getting to know someone first. There are many adult sites that pay is not related to.

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I would not beat yourself up about it. Non of us are born with experience, nor as you may think its not expected. Contrary to bar room gossip not many men are good lovers or do they make woman (working or civilian) cum that often.

My advice would be to look at other ways of gathering experience outside the paying arena as some experiences may be not all they are cracked up to be and you may pick up a few mannerisms that will not work well with the love of your life (when she comes along) if not already on the horizon.

Up your Viva:D:D

lou -- why should the OP have to learn thru' trial and error ? maybe thats why men are such bad lovers in the first place !! should there not be professional ladies that could provide this service ?

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lou -- why should the OP have to learn thru' trial and error ? maybe thats why men are such bad lovers in the first place !! should there not be professional ladies that could provide this service ?

I hear you but if I may ask you a question

When was the last time you made love to a whore as a client.

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I hear you but if I may ask you a question

When was the last time you made love to a whore as a client.

I do not have nor do I want a regular [ although against medical advice] and therefore take your point. but my guess is you would be surprised at the amount of men who either believe they are making love to their regular or would happily do so, if the lady was receptive.

the OP merely says;

I really want to be able to make a potential partner orgasm

even in a real love relationship, there also exist the moments when raw sex has an important part to play. in addition, his motivation is to please his partner, which should be an important part of the love making.

people, including" whores",can get pleasure from pure raw sex and technique must have an important role here---- this is where the OP requires advice from experience and imho,this service should be available.

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I think you may find there are many ladies out there who would be perfectly happy to do what you are asking for. My FRs are under the name Mr. Bloom. If you look at the ones I have done this year, I think every single one of them, apart from the negative one, would happily provide what you are looking for.

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this is an ideal situation for a FFM session, one lady could be at the punters elbow giving direction, instruction & guidance, the other could be the recipient of all this attention, then as aan end of session test, they have to swap over and the punter has to prove how much he has learnt, could make for a nice afternoon all round. sounds like a job for HoD.

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I'm not looking for someone to 'make love to'. Merely some instruction on and practise with techniques and who would know more than a pro?

A job for HoD?

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Can I suggest you just try booking a girl who takes your fancy, then another, then another. You will learn something and get better each time. Tell the girl your situation either at the start or during or at the end.

You're not going to become a sex god in one lesson, let's face it. I'm still absurdly average after 25+ punts and 10+ girlfriends.

The key thing to understand though is, it's not all about your technique, pressing the right buttons as it were, a lot of it is about enthusiasm, confidence, manliness. Women ultimately do not want to be 'made love to' in the bedroom, or caressed etc, they want to be fucked, preferably hard and for a long time. Honestly. This is not a misogynistic view. Behave like a caveman, let yourself go, and it is a turn on for the woman you are with. OK, the ideal combination is to be like that while fucking in the bedroom and then produce flowers, cook dinner and clean the kitchen afterwards. (Let's see if the women here disagree.)

Best use for an hour would be RO, fuck, then explore her body and talk about it, then fuck again applying what you have learned. Forget bj, that won't teach you anything.

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.............. and who would know more than a pro?

Probably any woman you would bump into on the street.

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