Southern man

Business Must Be Booming!

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The escort business must be bucking the economic trend, if my experience over the last couple of days is anything to go by.

I've been trying to organise a punt for tomorrow, and I fancied a change, rather than one of my regular girls. I picked out 4 possible ladies, all with good feedback on the other site, and emailed them askng if they were free Friday afternoon. I referred them to my own feedback which is positive without exception.

 

3 of the ladies concerned read the email, but didn't bother to reply - not even to say sorry I'm busy that day. The 4th replied saying that she's not now working on Friday, could I see her on Thursday?

 

Business must be very good at present, that's all I can say.

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I don't assume every listing on AW is a genuine escort listing. A high proportion are PG scams, no real girl at all. This could account for 3 of the 4 you mention.

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The escort business must be bucking the economic trend, if my experience over the last couple of days is anything to go by.

I've been trying to organise a punt for tomorrow, and I fancied a change, rather than one of my regular girls. I picked out 4 possible ladies, all with good feedback on the other site, and emailed them askng if they were free Friday afternoon. I referred them to my own feedback which is positive without exception.

 

3 of the ladies concerned read the email, but didn't bother to reply - not even to say sorry I'm busy that day. The 4th replied saying that she's not now working on Friday, could I see her on Thursday?

 

Business must be very good at present, that's all I can say.

Posts like this endorse what treacle lips was saying don't you think?

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I don't assume every listing on AW is a genuine escort listing. A high proportion are PG scams, no real girl at all. This could account for 3 of the 4 you mention.

 

You're right, but I would say a couple of things here -

 

None of the girls were cammers, nor did they have large private galleries. I always fight shy of girls whose main income is obviously camming or PG sales.

 

When I check girls' feedback I look for feedback from guys who have feedback themselves from girls that I know to be genuine. (sorry if that's complicated - hope you get what I mean)

 

I've been using the other site for quite a while now, and this has never happened to me before - I flatter myself that I've developed a good instinct for bogus profiles.

 

Just unlucky this time....?

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Yup unlucky coincidence, everyone I know is experiencing a quiet time! 

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None of the girls were cammers, nor did they have large private galleries. I always fight shy of girls whose main income is obviously camming or PG sales.

 

When I check girls' feedback I look for feedback from guys who have feedback themselves from girls that I know to be genuine. (sorry if that's complicated - hope you get what I mean)

 

I've been using the other site for quite a while now, and this has never happened to me before - I flatter myself that I've developed a good instinct for bogus profiles.

 

Just unlucky this time....?

 

If they had what looks like real feedback then that's different. I don't think a large gallery would necessarily indicate a scammer or even an expensive gallery. I steer clear of the ones that are low cost too, as I think those are the ones that cream the most money out of unsuspecting mugs.

 

Perhaps just unlucky. I think some girls join and either don't go through with it or don't use the site "properly". If they stick around they will work it out.

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Yup unlucky coincidence, everyone I know is experiencing a quiet time! 

Same here.  I don't know anyone thats very busy either.

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I would say about 25% of all contacts I make don't reply, but then we as punters have no idea how much mail they get through that site. So if they aren't available on a day then I can sort of understand just marking it read, which sends the message anyway, although the other side of me says that replying I'm not available then sorry, another time perhaps, would be better business practice.

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I started the year with a frantic punting pace (just down to opportunities due to work and to do some things I've wanted to), but I now expect a lull for a few months as my punting fund is well in the red (OK, zero but I'd count that as red). I would punt more often if prices were lower. There - I've said it. In fact I'd probably punt an awful lot more if prices were lower as it would make the spending easier to mask when opportunity arises. As it is I have to build up funds and plan wisely so I probably see half the ladies I'd like to at the moment.

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If they had what looks like real feedback then that's different. I don't think a large gallery would necessarily indicate a scammer or even an expensive gallery. I steer clear of the ones that are low cost too, as I think those are the ones that cream the most money out of unsuspecting mugs.

 

Perhaps just unlucky. I think some girls join and either don't go through with it or don't use the site "properly". If they stick around they will work it out.

 

"I don't think a large gallery would necessarily indicate a scammer or even an expensive gallery."

I quite agree - it's girls whose main income is obviously from PG sales or camming that I (perhaps unfairly) avoid. All the girls that I contacted really did seem above board, with at least a dozen good feedbacks each.

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I would say about 25% of all contacts I make don't reply, but then we as punters have no idea how much mail they get through that site. So if they aren't available on a day then I can sort of understand just marking it read, which sends the message anyway, although the other side of me says that replying I'm not available then sorry, another time perhaps, would be better business practice.

 

If I send an email, which the girl reads and does not reply to, then I remove her from my list of potential bookings.

If on the other hand, she takes 2 minutes to say "Sorry, really busy today/time of the month/sick child/whatever" then, of course I will try her another time.

It boils down to straightforward courtesy, or better business practice, or both.

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"I don't think a large gallery would necessarily indicate a scammer or even an expensive gallery."

I quite agree - it's girls whose main income is obviously from PG sales or camming that I (perhaps unfairly) avoid. All the girls that I contacted really did seem above board, with at least a dozen good feedbacks each.

 

There appears to be some confusion here. Whilst the cross referencing of my feedback thread by Sarah is appropriate (it happens a lot) this should not be taken out of context by clients, whilst my post does state some profiles are photographer scammers it does not conclude that WG's with large private galleries are scam artists, I myself have acccrued hundreds of pictures over time.

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There appears to be some confusion here. Whilst the cross referencing of my feedback thread by Sarah is appropriate (it happens a lot) this should not be taken out of context by clients, whilst my post does state some profiles are photographer scammers it does not conclude that WG's with large private galleries are scam artists, I myself have acccrued hundreds of pictures over time.

 

No confusion at all, so far as I can see - we're all agreeing that large private galleries are not necessarily a sign of a scam.

 

If you read the whole of this thread properly, you will see that I initially said that I tended to avoid girls whose main source of income was obviously from camming and private gallery sales. Which,as I said, is possibly unfair, but that's my choice, isn't it?

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I've been hearing this same complaint for probably the last 2 years, SPs not responding to emails or other forms of contact. I still do not know what the answer is because as far as I'm concerned I respond effectively and efficiently to any enquiry, yet I and other established ladies have noticed business has definitely reduced for most SPs over the last few years. If so many are uncontactable or unreliable then I don't know where the custom is going, because as far as I'm aware paying for sex has never been so accessible or popular.

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I've been hearing this same complaint for probably the last 2 years, SPs not responding to emails or other forms of contact. I still do not know what the answer is because as far as I'm concerned I respond effectively and efficiently to any enquiry, yet I and other established ladies have noticed business has definitely reduced for most SPs over the last few years. If so many are uncontactable or unreliable then I don't know where the custom is going, because as far as I'm aware paying for sex has never been so accessible or popular.

 

Average take home pay has stagnated over many years, but so have SP charge rates. The difference is that despite the average being "stable" in both cases, there are a larger number of people without work, although unemployment has stopped rising, and (I believe) a larger number of SPs. The existing good and popular WGs won't necessarily have noticed a drop-off in work, but at the entry level (new girls, not so reliable girls) must surely be seeing issues related to reduced demand.

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Even when business is booming for escorts, the punter will always have the advantage, because the punter can pick and choose who they spend their money on.  Escort supply will always be higher than demand!

 

So don't take any notice of the 3 ladies that read your message and did not reply.  I used to get upset when ladies read my booking message and did not reply (I now prefer to go through an agency).  You can pick and choose because your the one with the money.  There many amazing ladies out there that would be grateful for your business.  You just need to do the pain in the arse task of research :)

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The escort business must be bucking the economic trend, if my experience over the last couple of days is anything to go by.

I've been trying to organise a punt for tomorrow, and I fancied a change, rather than one of my regular girls. I picked out 4 possible ladies, all with good feedback on the other site, and emailed them askng if they were free Friday afternoon. I referred them to my own feedback which is positive without exception.

 

3 of the ladies concerned read the email, but didn't bother to reply - not even to say sorry I'm busy that day. The 4th replied saying that she's not now working on Friday, could I see her on Thursday?

 

Business must be very good at present, that's all I can say.

I dont bother wasting my time sending emails, i am usually a same day punter having already done my research and require a phone response then chat before i book. I rarely have any problems with this method.

 

Yes a lack of courtesy from those WGs that didnt reply and if i did email i would go elsewhere. It could be the case they were already booked out and only take a short-term view rather than think this guy could be a future punter and be polite by replying.

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I would say about 25% of all contacts I make don't reply, but then we as punters have no idea how much mail they get through that site. So if they aren't available on a day then I can sort of understand just marking it read, which sends the message anyway, although the other side of me says that replying I'm not available then sorry, another time perhaps, would be better business practice.

Thats before you add in those that have English as a second language or are just learning it

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I dont bother wasting my time sending emails, i am usually a same day punter having already done my research and require a phone response then chat before i book...Yes a lack of courtesy from those WGs that didnt reply and if i did email i would go elsewhere. It could be the case they were already booked out and only take a short-term view rather than think this guy could be a future punter and be polite by replying.

 

I get why you only book those with a number but you could lose out, here is my overview hope it helps:

 

Sadly I had no other option than to remove my phone number it was ringing 24/7 non stop! It varied from 20 to 30 calls a day to double this when on cam, or AW home page. Many calls were from people not in my area, some were just wanking about and others were using it as an enquiry line, asking what was already on the profile and just being lazy. It was creating a nightmare of admin for me so I had two choices hire a maid or use email. I chose email because hiring a maid meant somone relied on me for wages and I prefer to know I'm doing this because I love it and not because I have to and have overheads or that anyone depends on me for a wage should I wish to quit at any time.

 

If the escorts profile is lit green on AW stating available today, she should by rights reply. In my case emails are sent direct to my mobile and between set hours mentioned on profile are answered within minutes.

 

Yes she could be rude. She could also be off sick or not even by her computer. It could however be the case someone has just booked her and until he has left she may not get an opportunity to go online or change the status. Once this is paid for (£5 a day unless featured) many leave it running as it creates custom in searches.

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 I referred them to my own feedback

 

Maybe that's why.

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I get why you only book those with a number but you could lose out, here is my overview hope it helps:

 

Sadly I had no other option than to remove my phone number it was ringing 24/7 non stop! It varied from 20 to 30 calls a day to double this when on cam, or AW home page. Many calls were from people not in my area, some were just wanking about and others were using it as an enquiry line, asking what was already on the profile and just being lazy. It was creating a nightmare of admin for me so I had two choices hire a maid or use email. I chose email because hiring a maid meant somone relied on me for wages and I prefer to know I'm doing this because I love it and not because I have to and have overheads or that anyone depends on me for a wage should I wish to quit at any time.

 

If the escorts profile is lit green on AW stating available today, she should by rights reply. In my case emails are sent direct to my mobile and between set hours mentioned on profile are answered within minutes.

 

Yes she could be rude. She could also be off sick or not even by her computer. It could however be the case someone has just booked her and until he has left she may not get an opportunity to go online or change the status. Once this is paid for (£5 a day unless featured) many leave it running as it creates custom in searches.

If i do lose out my bad luck, i wont be changing my punting modus though.

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I dont bother wasting my time sending emails, i am usually a same day punter having already done my research and require a phone response then chat before i book. I rarely have any problems with this method.

 

Yes a lack of courtesy from those WGs that didnt reply and if i did email i would go elsewhere. It could be the case they were already booked out and only take a short-term view rather than think this guy could be a future punter and be polite by replying.

I still email about basics,ie whether near transport links as for me thats a necessity.Bookings however i do purely through calls due to a very low response rate from emails

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Maybe that's why.

Would put me off for sure.  Any guy asking to see me who tells me he has feedback gets the cold shoulder.  I realise this may annoy some folks, but that's the way it is for this girl

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Would put me off for sure.  Any guy asking to see me who tells me he has feedback gets the cold shoulder.  I realise this may annoy some folks, but that's the way it is for this girl

How extraordinary........   A lot of girls won't see guys who haven't got feedback, and now it seems that simply saying "You're welcome to check my feedback....." is wrong too. I've been saying this for over 2 years and only had good responses - one or two girls have even (politely/diplomatically) said "ooh, you sound nice...."

 

Can Pacifist or Sarah explain why this would put a lady off, given that the feedback in question is all good? (Genuine question btw, not seeking confrontaion, because I am genuinely puzzled)

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