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Should I Mention I Am Indian (Do You See Many?)

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hi

 

I went to an escort yesterday and when opening the door she hesitated for a second and said "you are indian man" i asked her if that was ok and few seconds later she said ok come in.   She was ok throughout the punt but just wondering if i should have mentioned when booking?

 

 Is it unusual to see an Asian/Indian guy from girls' experience?

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hi

 

I went to an escort yesterday and when opening the door she hesitated for a second and said "you are indian man" i asked her if that was ok and few seconds later she said ok come in.   She was ok throughout the punt but just wondering if i should have mentioned when booking?

 

 Is it unusual to see an Asian/Indian guy from girls' experience?

No it is not unusual.  There have been countless threads on here which always degenerate into racist topics, so any advice you get regarding this may be jumped on and the point of the thread lost forever !

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No just tell her you want to try all the positions in the Kama Sutra and stay for the 1001 Arabian Nights. She should twig and say 'oh you are ... ' in quite an encouraging manner.

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   You only need to warn her if you have an extra large cock or the ATM machine nearest to her flat isn't working .

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No problem with Indian guys here either tbh x

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Most ladies don't have a race preference and do not need to be informed of what race you are prior to a booking.Some will state no asians or black men on their profile which is a shame they feel that way.Sorry you experienced this but it is not the norm.

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hi

 

I went to an escort yesterday and when opening the door she hesitated for a second and said "you are indian man" i asked her if that was ok and few seconds later she said ok come in.   She was ok throughout the punt but just wondering if i should have mentioned when booking?

 

 Is it unusual to see an Asian/Indian guy from girls' experience?

 

 

I'd say it's certainly not unusual but you may come across problems when seeing escorts. Some flatly wil refuse to see you. All the problems I ever got were from Asian men to the extent that I once had to punch a chap. That and the constant bartering led to a blanket ban. Not worth the risk.

 

If I were you I'd be upfront in an email about the fact that you're Indian and I'd actually go so far as to state that you don't push boundaries and haggle. Let your courtesy show in your email otherwise you do risk getting turned away at the door. Sad but true

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I'd say it's certainly not unusual but you may come across problems when seeing escorts. Some flatly wil refuse to see you. All the problems I ever got were from Asian men to the extent that I once had to punch a chap. That and the constant bartering led to a blanket ban. Not worth the risk.

 

If I were you I'd be upfront in an email about the fact that you're Indian and I'd actually go so far as to state that you don't push boundaries and haggle. Let your courtesy show in your email otherwise you do risk getting turned away at the door. Sad but true

I see where your coming from here as you've had the experience but I disagree with that part. It's only a small minority who will push boundaries and haggle, surely not all asian/indians are like that?

If I were the OP and make an enquiry just simply send a a polite email saying "I did just want to check you are happy to see an asian client before we make any further arrangements" 

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I'm a British born Indian man and have only had one bad experience where the lady shut the door in my face (she said "No Indians, sorry" through the door). I felt awful after that experience and I'll admit that it hurt.

 

I now always do two things:

 

(1) mention that I'm Indian when making contact

 

(2) If anywhere on her website/profile she says that she won't see men of a particular race (e.g. African, etc.) I'll avoid that lady completely even if they still sees Indian men like me because why should such attitudes be rewarded? Up to the conscience of others on how they choose to spend their money.

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When making such enquiries, I use the term Asian (Indian origin) ...note the words Indian origin in brackets (paranthesis), just to make sure they don't confuse me with people from China and Japan.

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It is easy for an independent escort to state on her website or AW page about her race preference, but what if she is working for an escort agency? How would the agency be able to deal with such filtering for the lady?

My apologies in advance if I may have unintentionally upset anyone, but I do not intend to turn this thread into a race issue thread.

Edited by asianbeast

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I'm a British born Indian man and have only had one bad experience where the lady shut the door in my face (she said "No Indians, sorry" through the door). I felt awful after that experience and I'll admit that it hurt.

 

I now always do two things:

 

(1) mention that I'm Indian when making contact

 

(2) If anywhere on her website/profile she says that she won't see men of a particular race (e.g. African, etc.) I'll avoid that lady completely even if they still sees Indian men like me because why should such attitudes be rewarded? Up to the conscience of others on how they choose to spend their money.

 

 

Thanks for the replies, I guess there is no harm mentioning it!  I think some girls confuse asians (indians) with asians (pakistanis/afganis etc) the latter who they have had problems with.  

 

Girls who do not see African men a lot of the time is due to size.

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I'd say do mention it, as I know some escorts who prefer not to see Asian men don't put it on their profiles because when they have done in the past they've been bombarded with the 'you're racist' emails. I've had the same problems as Lovekitties has mentioned above with Asian clients. I still happily see them, as the hagglers are weeded out over the phone. Sadly, bar a couple of chavvy sounding Brits, all the hagglers I've experienced have had Asian accents.

I feel sorry for those genuinely lovely Asian clients who suffer the preconceptions about Asian clients, I just see it as them being in a high probability category for certain behaviours, the same way white British tourists are viewed negatively abroad (I've just watched the whole series of Brits Abroad and for the first time felt slightly ashamed to be British!).

If there's a chance you feel an escort may turn you away for one reason or another its definitely something worth mentioning. I had a client the other week ask if I was ok seeing amputees, that was a first, I went ahead and saw him and he was hot! Asian as well! I had a virgin call me the other day, but I declined to see him as I wouldn't feel comfortable seeing him, I thanked him for being honest and said he deserves someone who can cater to his needs better than I felt I could.

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Thanks for the replies, I guess there is no harm mentioning it! I think some girls confuse asians (indians) with asians (pakistanis/afganis etc) the latter who they have had problems with.

Girls who do not see African men a lot of the time is due to size.

I have no desire in getting into trouble with the moderators here by making this thread into a race debate but I must stress that your post has no merit whatsoever and it lacks (or deliberately conceals) the knowledge necessary to make such baseless remarks.

Unless you are running an escort agency or are involved with an independent escort that provides feedback to you, how can you assume that some girls confuse between Indian clients and the "problem causing" Pakistani and Afghan clients?

Here are my comments that are based on factual knowledge and the fact that I am half Pakistani and half Indian (Born in Pakistan to Indian Gujarati parents):

1. Apart from the Taliban controlled minority of the North West part of Pakistan, the remaining vast majority of Pakistani people and the people of Afghanistan have very little in common, whereas the people of India and Pakistan are identical in every way, except for their main religion.

India and Pakistan (and also Bangladesh) were one and the same country until August 1947, when the British agreed to split British India into three, i.e. India, West Pakistan and East Pakistan. In 1971 East Pakistan became independent and is now known as Bangladesh.

Let's also bring Sri Lanka into this too, as they are also part of the Indian sub-continent. Until 1974, Sri Lanka was known as Ceylon, and until 1948 it was also part of the British Empire. Sri Lankans are generally very dark and resemble the Indians of South India.

People of India and Pakistan dress the same, have the same culture, same food, same currency name (Rupees and Paisas), same physical appearance (except for skin pigmentation variations that depend upon Geographical location) and they even speak the same main language; yes Hindi and Urdu are the same languages but with differences that are akin to the differences between the English language spoken in the UK and United States.

The only thing that separates India and Pakistan is religion, but even then, there are nearly as many Muslims in India as there are in Pakistan. In fact, the mega stars of the Indian movie industry (Bollywood) is dominated by Indian Muslims.

Afghanistan was never part of British India. The Afghan people are quite distinguishable in appearance from Indians and Pakistanis. Most Afghanis resemble Eastern Europeans and the Turkish in skin tone and appearance. Their culture is different and so is their language. An Afghani speaking English has a totally different accent to those of people from India and Pakistan that have the same English accent because their original language Urdu / Hindi are the same. Afghan people speak Pashto which is a language derived from Iran. Hence, Afghanis speak English with a Middle Eastern type of accent.

I also find it hard to believe that there are many Afghani clients in this business. There are hardly many Afghanis in the UK, so the proportion of Afghani clients must be insignificant.

My conclusions in with regard to the poster's comments on Indian clients v Pakistani / Afghani clients are:

1. It is ridiculous to make such generalisations between Indian clients and those from Afghanistan and Pakistan, whom the poster refers to as the ones that cause the problems. From what I have read on the dangerous punter section, problem clients come from all races and backgrounds.

2. The poster is trying to highlight the fact that ALL Indian clients are the nice ones and ALL Pakistani - Afghani clients are the trouble causing ones.

3. By bringing Afghani people into the equation, despite the fact that Afghani clients must be unheard of, the poster seems to be trying to put Pakistanis and Afghanis in the same bracket as a same group of people - for reasons that really should be obvious.

As for African people with "mega dicks", the poster is suggesting that it is the size of the genitals that is a concern for working girls and not the client's attitude.

Africans with big dicks? Is this fact or fiction? I better leave the answer to the girls in this forum!

I want to end this post by saying LONG LIVE India, Pakistan and of course, my beloved Great Britain!

Edited by asianbeast

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Well posted asianbeast.I was going to comment on the stereotyping in that post but you've done it in a far better and more interesting way than i could have.

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I don't see how race/ethnicity is an issue.

 

It's OK to ask at the outset, but just find a WG who has no such racial bias.

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Girls who do not see African men a lot of the time is due to size.

 

Then those women should specify a size restriction not a race restriction.

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I see where your coming from here as you've had the experience but I disagree with that part. It's only a small minority who will push boundaries and haggle, surely not all asian/indians are like that?

 

 

Nope I'm sure they're not but it's risk reduction

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Thanks for the replies, I guess there is no harm mentioning it!  I think some girls confuse asians (indians) with asians (pakistanis/afganis etc) the latter who they have had problems with.  

 

 

Well yes. I would never be able to tell the difference. Remember that lots of people from non-Indian origin will introduce themselves as Indian in the same way that Romanians are always 'Italian'.

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I think it all depends on the area you live in also. If there is a very high population of freshly arrived people from a certain country who dont understand the boundaries or that escorts in this country are even allowed to have boundries then some girls in that area may just make a blanket rule of not seeing anyone from that ethnic origin if its caused them real problems in the past. It is best just to ask on the phone before you make the booking, its not good that you have to do this but it will save you wasted time and petrol money and avoid you being refused at the door. 

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I have no desire in getting into trouble with the moderators here by making this thread into a race debate but I must stress that your post has no merit whatsoever and it lacks (or deliberately conceals) the knowledge necessary to make such baseless remarks.

Unless you are running an escort agency or are involved with an independent escort that provides feedback to you, how can you assume that some girls confuse between Indian clients and the "problem causing" Pakistani and Afghan clients?

Here are my comments that are based on factual knowledge and the fact that I am half Pakistani and half Indian (Born in Pakistan to Indian Gujarati parents):

1. Apart from the Taliban controlled minority of the North West part of Pakistan, the remaining vast majority of Pakistani people and the people of Afghanistan have very little in common, whereas the people of India and Pakistan are identical in every way, except for their main religion.

India and Pakistan (and also Bangladesh) were one and the same country until August 1947, when the British agreed to split British India into three, i.e. India, West Pakistan and East Pakistan. In 1971 East Pakistan became independent and is now known as Bangladesh.

Let's also bring Sri Lanka into this too, as they are also part of the Indian sub-continent. Until 1974, Sri Lanka was known as Ceylon, and until 1948 it was also part of the British Empire. Sri Lankans are generally very dark and resemble the Indians of South India.

People of India and Pakistan dress the same, have the same culture, same food, same currency name (Rupees and Paisas), same physical appearance (except for skin pigmentation variations that depend upon Geographical location) and they even speak the same main language; yes Hindi and Urdu are the same languages but with differences that are akin to the differences between the English language spoken in the UK and United States.

The only thing that separates India and Pakistan is religion, but even then, there are nearly as many Muslims in India as there are in Pakistan. In fact, the mega stars of the Indian movie industry (Bollywood) is dominated by Indian Muslims.

Afghanistan was never part of British India. The Afghan people are quite distinguishable in appearance from Indians and Pakistanis. Most Afghanis resemble Eastern Europeans and the Turkish in skin tone and appearance. Their culture is different and so is their language. An Afghani speaking English has a totally different accent to those of people from India and Pakistan that have the same English accent because their original language Urdu / Hindi are the same. Afghan people speak Pashto which is a language derived from Iran. Hence, Afghanis speak English with a Middle Eastern type of accent.

I also find it hard to believe that there are many Afghani clients in this business. There are hardly many Afghanis in the UK, so the proportion of Afghani clients must be insignificant.

My conclusions in with regard to the poster's comments on Indian clients v Pakistani / Afghani clients are:

1. It is ridiculous to make such generalisations between Indian clients and those from Afghanistan and Pakistan, whom the poster refers to as the ones that cause the problems. From what I have read on the dangerous punter section, problem clients come from all races and backgrounds.

2. The poster is trying to highlight the fact that ALL Indian clients are the nice ones and ALL Pakistani - Afghani clients are the trouble causing ones.

3. By bringing Afghani people into the equation, despite the fact that Afghani clients must be unheard of, the poster seems to be trying to put Pakistanis and Afghanis in the same bracket as a same group of people - for reasons that really should be obvious.

As for African people with "mega dicks", the poster is suggesting that it is the size of the genitals that is a concern for working girls and not the client's attitude.

Africans with big dicks? Is this fact or fiction? I better leave the answer to the girls in this forum!

I want to end this post by saying LONG LIVE India, Pakistan and of course, my beloved Great Britain!

As one who has run a  place in the past I can tell you catagorically that we had a few asian guys we did have to ban...

 

we also had a few black guys that we had to ban

 

we also had a few mixed race guys that we had to ban

 

we also had a few white british guys that we had to ban

 

there is no correlation between good punter and race whatsoever. 

 

Just to knock a few stereotypes out of the window...

 

Not all black guys have huge cocks

 

Not all asian guys try to haggle

 

Not all oriental guys have tiny cocks

 

Not all white guys are mr perfectly nice and safe punter

 

Its all down to the guys personality and that is not dependent on the colour of his skin. A knobjockey is a knobjockey no matter what his colour. A nice guy is a nice guy no matter what his colour.

 

I was embarassed within my own head last year as I let myself fall into the stereotype trap and im ashamed of doing it. Two Romanian guys arrived at our door, one was short and round and a couple thousand pounds in 50 pound notes in his pocket all in a tightly banded bundle. The other guy was about 7 ft tall and looked like he had been specially bred to be in the Russian mafia, complete with huge deep eyebrows and a voice you could only describe as a growl. I shit myself and thought they were a pimp and his heavy. In reality the short one lived here, the tall one was his cousin on holiday to the uk to visit family here and was actually a surgeon back home in Romainia. The short one was a bit vague on how he earns his money but they both treated the girls they visited exceptionally well and came back and had  repeat visit before mr surgeon had to fly off home...and they didnt ask for the girls phone numbers either and were very friendly jolly guys having some naughtys while one wife took the other wife shopping in London. So its easy to trip up on the stereotype tripwire of life. x 

 

p.s event he romanian girl that one requested was a bit nervous at first but she came out of the booking after mr growling surgeon almost swooning and saying "if he comes back tell him to pick me" which is unusual as often eastern european girls avoid guys from their own countries like a plague x

Edited by Chloe Kisses

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Must get my eyes seen too.

 

I read that most Asian guys don't like HAGGIS.

 

Actually most Scots don't like it either.

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Very good post Chloe and I don't think much more needs to be said. 

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