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In the course of small talk in a punt, on most visits I will give a false name or a false job.  I don't know why I do this exactly, but I get a bit paranoid since I don't want the WG to know my business lol..  Of course, she generally wouldn't look me up or scope me out, but I don't always feel comfortable saying truthfully what I do for a living or what my real name is.  

 

From a WG's standpoint, do they care if punters are truthful?  And do many other punters always or predominantly give truthful personal details?

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This has been covered a lot over the years and there's currently a similar thread where a few of us have recently answered this:

Things You Should Not Talk About During A Punt

Personally, I always give my real first name when making contact with a lady. My regular knows my full name, birthday (we ended up meeting near both mine and her birthdays last year). As I said on the above thread, my name is unique and my full address easily found within seconds on Google so I wouldn't tell everybody.

I'll happily chat about business, home, relationships / sex life, family, you name it.

Some guys have a complete punting alter ego with different name, birthday, career, family, holidays etc but that would add infinite stress for me. It's always easier to remember the truth but be selective how much you tell and to who. After all, "most" ladies live an alter ego telling us select bits of information and don't expect any more than that from us.

DG

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To give you my standpoint as a punter i use my real first name,never been asked for any more than that.If asked anything else during a chat i answer truthfully like i would if i was chatting to anyone.I dont personally see the point of fabricating stuff,also i have a bad memory so if i did i'd probably go through four/five names per punt :)  As for them looking or searching me.I'm fairly distinctive so they could probably do that easily enough if they were inclined to do so

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In the course of small talk in a punt, on most visits I will give a false name or a false job.  I don't know why I do this exactly, but I get a bit paranoid since I don't want the WG to know my business lol..  Of course, she generally wouldn't look me up or scope me out, but I don't always feel comfortable saying truthfully what I do for a living or what my real name is.  

 

From a WG's standpoint, do they care if punters are truthful?  And do many other punters always or predominantly give truthful personal details?

WGs can answer for themselves if they care of course, its neither here nor there to me if they care though. I always give false information, its part of my basic security but they wouldnt know if its true or not anyway as i dont give enough info out. It only takes one scumbag to possibly ruin your life, not a risk i would take. A prime reason i have never in 30 years and would never do an Outcall to my home.

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This has been covered a lot over the years and there's currently a similar thread where a few of us have recently answered this:

Things You Should Not Talk About During A Punt

Personally, I always give my real first name when making contact with a lady. My regular knows my full name, birthday (we ended up meeting near both mine and her birthdays last year). As I said on the above thread, my name is unique and my full address easily found within seconds on Google so I wouldn't tell everybody.

I'll happily chat about business, home, relationships / sex life, family, you name it.

Some guys have a complete punting alter ego with different name, birthday, career, family, holidays etc but that would add infinite stress for me. It's always easier to remember the truth but be selective how much you tell and to who. After all, "most" ladies live an alter ego telling us select bits of information and don't expect any more than that from us.

DG

I find it very easy to use a number of punting alter egos, mind you i have had decades to refine them and lying. ;)

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WGs can answer for themselves if they care of course, its neither here nor there to me if they care though. I always give false information, its part of my basic security but they wouldnt know if its true or not anyway as i dont give enough info out. It only takes one scumbag to possibly ruin your life, not a risk i would take. A prime reason i have never in 30 years and would never do an Outcall to my home.

I'd have no problem asking my regular to my home. Also, there are a few ladies who work from home and as such immediately elevate themselves to a different level in terms of security before a punt - a conversation I had recently with a lovely lady whilst booking a date.

There are, thankfully, precious few scam stories about WGs and no respectable and highly reviewed lady would even remotely think of causing a punter any grief if she knew his address.

Obviously we all have to work according to our own security but there's also a lot of paranoia. That isn't aimed at you Smiths, just a sweeping statement.

DG

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I find it very easy to use a number of punting alter egos, mind you i have had decades to refine them and lying. ;)

 

But your name is well known on punting forums, and I have shared information with a  Smiths in a party whom i thought was you, I even went on my knees and placed my head at his feet in his honour.

 

To now hear that this was not you, makes me feel a bit silly, especially as I paid for a future punt in a way of thanking him for all the good tips you have passed on.

 

Dont tell me there are two guys called Smiths......I know there are a few called Hugh, as a few times in parlours I have heard girls call out Hugh's next, and differant guys stand up... :D

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Most WG's do not giving a flying fuck. It's those that do that you want to worry about, they will ask you general questions during a punt much as a barber might. If they seem interested in a particular aspect of your life then treat with caution.

 

Remember most WG's have a 'legend' - this will be a life story where every single aspect is fabricated. Personally I think this is very wise but sadly some give away too much of their real selves . One particular mine field is geo tagging and location services on social media sites and various apps like Twitter.

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Most WG's do not giving a flying fuck.

 

Well looks like that cancelled a few folk from partying on Gibbs's  plane for the next custard party.

 

Makes it harder to join the mile high club now.

 

Does this include a parachute Jump.

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I'm a pretty open book myself. Childrens names locations address and schools are obviously not given nor my real name (although there are one or two that know my first real name but not my surname). I worked out at an outcall place for a night over christmas and the first two guys were old regulars who had booked me for the sole reason of wanting the lo down on my pre-christmas turbulence so to come up with a legend now would be pointless.

 

I have said it god knows how many times but here goes again..

 

Geo tagging, I got caught out myself tweetpiccing with that one last year, turn it off if you want to post pix of your regular dressed up in the frillys you bought her.

 

Voicemail, turn it off as half of you send a number to call but when we do theres a message announcing your name and the company you work for or if its a personal phone...you and your wife saying "leave us a messaaaaageee". Probably better to get a separate sim, phone numbers can be googled if linked to work sometimes

 

Emails,  get a separate punting email as so many of you use your work one or just have your full name and it can be googled.

 

Names, when a girl asks for your name when making a booking dont give out your full name, I have told many a guy not to do it in future when presented with a full name, we only need your first name. The last thing you want is some girl you booked last wednesday popping up as a friends request on your facebook or personal/business twitter, myspace etc

 

Wedding rings, just leave it on unless you  remove it  on moral grounds, we can see your married by the little white band on your finger and we are not bothered, I assume most of you are married anyway and how would you explain a lost wedding ring if it slipped out of your pocket somewhere along the way or worse you left it on the bedside cabinet of someone who is suddenly ignoring your calls after the booking.

 

I love to chat, I ask questions about your life, I answer questions you ask me about my life, general day to day stuff, stuff about the kids with old regs from years ago, I have been doing a lot of catching up latley with guys I saw before my 2 year break, that involves a lot of chatting and I never see the guys hesitate when answering a question. You can tell if someone doesnt want to go down a particular line of conversation as they suddenly get rather vague so you just leave it alone and change the subject. 

 

Lets remember we are all people please. Girls with high feedback or profiles online arent likely to cause you problems as they have a rep to protect which they rely on for their business but at the same time, withhold specific details as you can never be too careful. 

Edited by Chloe Kisses

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I'm a pretty open book myself. Childrens names locations address and schools are obviously not given nor my real name (although there are one or two that know my first real name but not my surname). I worked out at an outcall place for a night over christmas and the first two guys were old regulars who had booked me for the sole reason of wanting the lo down on my pre-christmas turbulence so to come up with a legend now would be pointless.

 

I have said it god knows how many times but here goes again..

 

Geo tagging, I got caught out myself tweetpiccing with that one last year, turn it off if you want to post pix of your regular dressed up in the frillys you bought her.

 

Voicemail, turn it off as half of you send a number to call but when we do theres a message announcing your name and the company you work for or if its a personal phone...you and your wife saying "leave us a messaaaaageee". Probably better to get a separate sim, phone numbers can be googled if linked to work sometimes

 

Emails,  get a separate punting email as so many of you use your work one or just have your full name and it can be googled.

 

Names, when a girl asks for your name when making a booking dont give out your full name, I have told many a guy not to do it in future when presented with a full name, we only need your first name. The last thing you want is some girl you booked last wednesday popping up as a friends request on your facebook or personal/business twitter, myspace etc

 

Wedding rings, just leave it on unless you  remove it  on moral grounds, we can see your married by the little white band on your finger and we are not bothered, I assume most of you are married anyway and how would you explain a lost wedding ring if it slipped out of your pocket somewhere along the way or worse you left it on the bedside cabinet of someone who is suddenly ignoring your calls after the booking.

 

I love to chat, I ask questions about your life, I answer questions you ask me about my life, general day to day stuff, stuff about the kids with old regs from years ago, I have been doing a lot of catching up latley with guys I saw before my 2 year break, that involves a lot of chatting and I never see the guys hesitate when answering a question. You can tell if someone doesnt want to go down a particular line of conversation as they suddenly get rather vague so you just leave it alone and change the subject. 

 

Lets remember we are all people please. Girls with high feedback or profiles online arent likely to cause you problems as they have a rep to protect which they rely on for their business but at the same time, withhold specific details as you can never be too careful. 

 

Good answer.

just go vague when questions get outside your comfort zone. Rare names and small towns are riskier then common names in cities.

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Good answer.

just go vague when questions get outside your comfort zone. Rare names and small towns are riskier then common names in cities.

this is true I guess announcing you are quentin from little bogglesworth would be a bit silly, just give the next big town along instead, its vaguely true lol or the county x It means next time you see that girl you wont tell her something different then upon realisation feel a bit of a twit lol x

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this is true I guess announcing you are quentin from little bogglesworth would be a bit silly, just give the next big town along instead, its vaguely true lol or the county x It means next time you see that girl you wont tell her something different then upon realisation feel a bit of a twit lol x

 

May I make it abundantly clear here and now. I am not called Quentin.

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Only once or twice have I come across guys who say "i dont discuss my personal life thank you" which is fair enough, strangely though these are usually the guys who then say "so how did you come into this business""do you live here""what do you do when your not here then" and tbh the best answer I can then give them is "i dont discuss my personal life thank you very much" which they then get huffy about as they think Im being rude. It has led to a couple of rather silent appointments in the past as the only thing they can think of to talk about is MY life, which I wont share with someone who is like that with me.

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May I make it abundantly clear here and now. I am not called Quentin.

I know that Rhett, dont worry  :P

Edited by Chloe Kisses

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I know that Rhett, dont worry  :P

 

OK Dolores

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Chloe, good hear you are an open book.

 

Was the inspiration Lord of the Rings ?

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OK Dolores

^_^

 

Chloe, good hear you are an open book.

 

Was the inspiration Lord of the Rings ?

Why..are you looking for a fair elf maiden who will not blink twice at golem arriving for a punt, sorry to disappoint but I have no ring of fire, im careful who I do my alevels with x

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^_^

 

Why..are you looking for a fair elf maiden who will not blink twice at golem arriving for a punt, sorry to disappoint but I have no ring of fire, im careful who I do my alevels with x

No nobbit for a poor hobbit then?

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I know that Rhett, dont worry  :P

 

I always thought that CP owned Tara.  I didn't realise that he was just the Butler.  (I know I'm twisting the facts but I couldn't think of anything else.)   :D

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This post has really gone of the rails from what the op posted, but its made me laugh a lot, so thank you for the posts... :D  :D  :D

 

And has given me much info to tell the next escort I punt with whom I am.

 

I have a session booked in with someone called Danni Minogue, anyone know much about her,

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I have been asked a few times which school(s) I attended!  I would never ask that of anyone who visits me!

 

Local clients who may live within a mile or two of me may be curious to know if they may have known me in another life.

 

I never divulge info like schools or past workplaces.... it could spell problems.  I do not want to discover that the man I have just

dazzled with my talents was the lad I threw stones at when I was little'un.... or worked in the next office to and couldn't stand his presence. 

 

Let's keep the illusion please.

 

I get some men's life stories within the first hour of meeting and with others it takes many appointments to learn it all. Generally though I find clients are quite open about themselves.... this is always voluntarily as I try not to be inquisitive but if he tells me something really interesting about his life or occupation then it is natural for me to ask to know more..... names and company names do not need to be disclosed.

 

I tell some a little more about myself than others but have never spilled too much to anyone. 

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This post has really gone of the rails from what the op posted, but its made me laugh a lot, so thank you for the posts... :D  :D  :D

 

And has given me much info to tell the next escort I punt with whom I am.

 

I have a session booked in with someone called Danni Minogue, anyone know much about her,

 

Steer clear!  She is ugly and has smelly feet from what I hear.  

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This post has really gone of the rails from what the op posted, but its made me laugh a lot, so thank you for the posts... :D  :D  :D

 

And has given me much info to tell the next escort I punt with whom I am.

 

I have a session booked in with someone called Danni Minogue, anyone know much about her,

If the mods are worth their salt they will merge this with the other thread .....

 

:ph34r:

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I'm a pretty open book myself. Childrens names locations address and schools are obviously not given nor my real name (although there are one or two that know my first real name but not my surname). I worked out at an outcall place for a night over christmas and the first two guys were old regulars who had booked me for the sole reason of wanting the lo down on my pre-christmas turbulence so to come up with a legend now would be pointless.

 

I have said it god knows how many times but here goes again..

 

Geo tagging, I got caught out myself tweetpiccing with that one last year, turn it off if you want to post pix of your regular dressed up in the frillys you bought her.

 

Voicemail, turn it off as half of you send a number to call but when we do theres a message announcing your name and the company you work for or if its a personal phone...you and your wife saying "leave us a messaaaaageee". Probably better to get a separate sim, phone numbers can be googled if linked to work sometimes

 

Emails. get a seperate punting email as so many of you use your work one or just have your full name and it can be googled.

 

Names, when a girl asks for your name when making a booking don't give out your full name, I have told many a guy not to do it in future when presented with a full name, we only need your first name. The last thing you want is some girl you booked last wednesday popping up as a friends request on your facebook or personal/business twitter, myspace etc

 

Wedding rings, just leave it on unless you  remove it  on moral grounds, we can see your married by the little white band on your finger and we are not bothered, I assume most of you are married anyway and how would you explain a lost wedding ring if it slipped out of your pocket somewhere along the way or worse you left it on the bedside cabinet of someone who is suddenly ignoring your calls after the booking.

 

I love to chat, I ask questions about your life, I answer questions you ask me about my life, general day to day stuff, stuff about the kids with old regs from years ago, I have been doing a lot of catching up latley with guys I saw before my 2 year break, that involves a lot of chatting and I never see the guys hesitate when answering a question. You can tell if someone doesnt want to go down a particular line of conversation as they suddenly get rather vague so you just leave it alone and change the subject. 

 

Lets remember we are all people please. Girls with high feedback or profiles online arent likely to cause you problems as they have a rep to protect which they rely on for their business but at the same time, withhold specific details as you can never be too careful

 

I have to agree with CP.     What a really good post Chloe.  :)   I am very surprised when it is mentioned occasionally that some punters don't have a private e-mail address.     I think it's an essential.    Not just for the secrecy but because when you are arranging a booking with a new lady you can exchange information about how you want the booking to go.     If a tech dummy like me can set up several e-mail accounts (only two that have anything to do with the naughty stuff) then anyone can.

 

I know the full name, first and last, of three ladies which I think is an incredible show of trust on their part.   I also know the real first name of another five.    Which is probably not much in comparison with some punters but I have been at it for less than a year.    There is one lady who knows enough about me to find me within minutes.   There are another three ladies who have personal information about me and I'm sure that it wouldn't take much effort on their part to find me.   I remember seeing one lady and she said "what should I call you" (I can't remember why she didn't already know) and she looked surprised when I told her my name.  When I asked her why she was surprised and said "most men seem to be called John".

 

As for the wedding ring I never take it off.   As Chloe says what's the point?    I've removed it on odd occasions at home and then been hunting for it later.

 

"You can never be too careful".   How true.   After all we married men know what we are.   L***g C******g B******s.   :ph34r:  

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