RandallPMcMurphy

Naive newbie questions re engaging with a WG

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I visit the UK a couple of times a year on business.

Thanks to Harriet Harman, I heard of PunterNet (!) and had a look around.

I have never used a WG before but loved the idea of a community where I could do a bit of due diligence beforehand and find a girl who was well rated.

I had a conference this week in London so I did a bit of research and decided I'd try to engage with a girl I discovered through this site (Sexymaylondon).

I sent a polite email to the email address on her site and waited to hear back if she were available. A couple of days passed but no response.

Wondering if there were a problem with my email, I tried the contact form on her site. Still no response.

I should have stopped there I guess but I had set my expectations of this meeting very high.

Instead I sent another couple of emails (over the course of several days), just to try to find out if the lack of response from May was technical (was there a problem with my email account) so I sent one from another email account and another just to say, look, at least give me a polite "no" if you are not interested, so I know where I stand.

At all times I was scrupulously polite (too polite?) but I was completely blanked.

Is there some rule I transgressed unknowingly here? Is this common, to be blanked by a WG?

I absolutely understand girls have the right to turn down clients but I wasn't even turned down, merely ignored.

So my questions I guess are -

What should I do differently next time I want to engage the services of a WG and is there someone you would recommend similar to May (better class of WG who you can have a decent conversation with)?

Thanks,

Randall.

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At all times I was scrupulously polite (too polite?)...................

is there someone you would recommend similar to May (better class of WG who you can have a decent conversation with)?..............................Thanks,

Randall.

" in nomime patre.............". what would you like as your last request ,seeing as you are about to face the firing squad :confused:

your only chance is to plead newbie , igorance and get down on your bended knees.

similar but better class than May ?---:D:eek::D

first, i guess theres no lady " similar " to May, you only need to read her reviews and posts to discover that. secondly, she's as bright as a button and I guess your challenge would be to keep her interested in your conversation.!

as a newbie to here and punting in general, I am quite happy to advise you that the vast majority of WGs are bright , intelligent and well capable of holding a decent converation.

best of luck.

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I think you need to check where Randall opened his brackets - he was in fact stating that May IS a better class and is looking for recommendations for similar :confused:

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I visit the UK a couple of times a year on business.

Thanks to Harriet Harman, I heard of PunterNet (!) and had a look around.

I have never used a WG before but loved the idea of a community where I could do a bit of due diligence beforehand and find a girl who was well rated.

I had a conference this week in London so I did a bit of research and decided I'd try to engage with a girl I discovered through this site (Sexymaylondon).

I sent a polite email to the email address on her site and waited to hear back if she were available. A couple of days passed but no response.

Wondering if there were a problem with my email, I tried the contact form on her site. Still no response.

I should have stopped there I guess but I had set my expectations of this meeting very high.

Instead I sent another couple of emails (over the course of several days), just to try to find out if the lack of response from May was technical (was there a problem with my email account) so I sent one from another email account and another just to say, look, at least give me a polite "no" if you are not interested, so I know where I stand.

At all times I was scrupulously polite (too polite?) but I was completely blanked.

Is there some rule I transgressed unknowingly here? Is this common, to be blanked by a WG?

I absolutely understand girls have the right to turn down clients but I wasn't even turned down, merely ignored.

So my questions I guess are -

What should I do differently next time I want to engage the services of a WG and is there someone you would recommend similar to May (better class of WG who you can have a decent conversation with)?

Thanks,

Randall.

I think you will find if you punt for very long, that failure to answer emails etc is a common occurence. I have no idea what the criteria is as to whether you get a reply or not, although I suspect the mood of the girl has something to do with it.

One thing for sure, if you show annoyance at what on the surface is just common rudeness, any chance of a punt will be history.

For this reason, I would suggest you start off by going to a good reputable parlour, whilst you continue to try to make contact with a good indie girl.

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I visit the UK a couple of times a year on business.

I have never used a WG before but loved the idea of a community where I could do a bit of due diligence beforehand and find a girl who was well rated.

I had a conference this week in London so I did a bit of research and decided I'd try to engage with a girl I discovered through this site (Sexymaylondon).

I sent a polite email to the email address on her site and waited to hear back if she were available. A couple of days passed but no response.

Wondering if there were a problem with my email, I tried the contact form on her site. Still no response.

At all times I was scrupulously polite (too polite?) but I was completely blanked.

Is there some rule I transgressed unknowingly here?

Thanks,

Randall.

Sir, I feel sure you haven't been 'blanked'. May is known to a few members here socially. If you had 'hung around' the Chatroom for a while before attempting your booking you would probably have learnt that May has been *very* busy over the past two weeks with a particular client/friend. Some of her 'Blog' posts on this Message Board have spokne of her/his adventures!

Of course, as a Punternet Probationary Member you may not (and still may not) have been able to see the 'Blogs' section. Or access the Chatroom.

I suggest a little patience. In my experience May *does* reply to communication, but it may take a little while. She is, in no respect, a 'production line' worker. But you patience will be repaid with an overall experience that'll live in your mind forever.

hope that helps. Hang in there . . . .

GM

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" in nomime patre.............". what would you like as your last request ,seeing as you are about to face the firing squad

your only chance is to plead newbie , igorance and get down on your bended knees.

similar but better class than May ?---:confused::eek::D

first, i guess theres no lady " similar " to May, you only need to read her reviews and posts to discover that. secondly, she's as bright as a button and I guess your challenge would be to keep her interested in your conversation.!

as a newbie to here and punting in general, I am quite happy to advise you that the vast majority of WGs are bright , intelligent and well capable of holding a decent converation.

best of luck.

I agree Cumandgo this is just blatant rudeness- unless I have misjudged what has been said, but I think not. :D

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Mr Murphy, Have you attempted to pm May before you put post up ???

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If you read the original post carefully, the OP did not say he was looking for someone who is a better class than May, he said he is looking for someone who is better class, LIKE May.

In response to the OP - lots are.

May's quirkiness is, I think, practically unique, but there are plenty of girls here who can give you a top-flight experience.

And I am sure once the boys have all got over what they saw as a slight to May they will recommend someone!

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Guys, the original poster said "Similar to May" not "Better than May".

Chill out, there is no need to be on the back foot.

I can't really speak for or about May but it is likely she will see this thread or be told about it before the end of the day so have patience.

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If you read the original post carefully, the OP did not say he was looking for someone who is a better class than May, he said he is looking for someone who is better class, LIKE May.

Yes, I would go along with that.

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my apologies to the OP,[ thanks to joebananas ], I misunderstood the words in brackets--- you were not calling into question mays class. the rest of my post stands.

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Mr Murphy, Have you attempted to pm May before you put post up ???

As a probationary member some features are not available to him, I think you'll find Natasha. I've tried to 'educate' in my post. I hope he's not offended. And you too, not offended!

GM

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Hey RandallPMcMurphy

Due diligence? lol, bet you work in finance...

Being "blanked" is a common occurence with emails. I know that May doesnt advertise her number but most others do and calling is more effective then sending emails.

The reason is because WGs are often bombarded with emails from the likes of me and you. From what WGs tell me most are timewasters and its hard for them to reply to every email, heck, they probably dont even read all of them so dont take it personally.

The only advice I would give you is that if you havent heard back after a day or so just move on to the next.

You must have more than one WG on your "to-do" (literally) list.

I often contact a few at the same time just in case the one i originally wanted couldnt make the time or didnt reply etc etc

Happy punting anyway

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Sir, I feel sure you haven't been 'blanked'. May is known to a few members here socially. If you had 'hung around' the Chatroom for a while before attempting your booking you would probably have learnt that May has been *very* busy over the past two weeks with a particular client/friend. Some of her 'Blog' posts on this Message Board have spokne of her/his adventures!

Hmm, being in a similar position to the OP (I will be staying in London in Dec and have emailed May with no response, but to be fair it has only been 24 hours at the mo) I get the impression that it might be an idea to not bank on a reply being forthcoming just yet then. :confused:

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This is one of the reasons that going through an agency can seem like a good idea, after all, with email, it is possible to set up an auto reply, or an out of the boudoir message, isnt it, got to be better than leaving potential clients hanging.

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To both the OP and Vampy,

May has been exceptionally busy this past week and if she has not responded to e-mails it is not because she is ignoring you.

I am sure that May will contact you.

As for the OP, with regards to another female, Depends on if you would like to travel or if you want to stay in London.

It also depends if you want an Indy escort or a parlour/agency.

(If you could answer these questions I am sure both the boys, and the girls can recommend someone to suit)

To the Gentleman who said it is common to ignore emails.

Sorry, but I have the time, and had the time when I worked more than 3 days a week to reply to ALL e-mails.

and You can't use either the excuse of, you only work 3 days, because I worked more than that previously, and don't tell me I couldn't have been busy either because I had more than enough work to keep my occupied.

Girls do however have certain ways of working.

As May has been with a client/friend for this past week, can you tell me

Would any of you expect her to answer e-mails when she is working??

You all moan about girls answering calls while working, now you moan because a lady has not answered her e-mails while working/entertaining.

Sometimes you gents can be a little over critical of the way we work.

(And that's not a prelude for you all to say, but there are bad service providers out there. I am well aware there are.)

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I visit the UK a couple of times a year on business.

Thanks to Harriet Harman, I heard of PunterNet (!) and had a look around.

I have never used a WG before but loved the idea of a community where I could do a bit of due diligence beforehand and find a girl who was well rated.

I had a conference this week in London so I did a bit of research and decided I'd try to engage with a girl I discovered through this site (Sexymaylondon).

I sent a polite email to the email address on her site and waited to hear back if she were available. A couple of days passed but no response.

Wondering if there were a problem with my email, I tried the contact form on her site. Still no response.

I should have stopped there I guess but I had set my expectations of this meeting very high.

Instead I sent another couple of emails (over the course of several days), just to try to find out if the lack of response from May was technical (was there a problem with my email account) so I sent one from another email account and another just to say, look, at least give me a polite "no" if you are not interested, so I know where I stand.

At all times I was scrupulously polite (too polite?) but I was completely blanked.

Is there some rule I transgressed unknowingly here? Is this common, to be blanked by a WG?

I absolutely understand girls have the right to turn down clients but I wasn't even turned down, merely ignored.

So my questions I guess are -

What should I do differently next time I want to engage the services of a WG and is there someone you would recommend similar to May (better class of WG who you can have a decent conversation with)?

Thanks,

Randall.

I usually only initially contact a newbie to me by phone as i want to speak to her for a minute or two, its amazing how much you can find out with a brief phone chat in my experience.

In Mays case i already have a good idea about her, and other punters i know have punted with her giving her positive FRs, so if i was going to arrange to punt with her i would persevere on this ocassion with emails. Hopefully she will get back to you soon.

Perhaps Dollymopp who is also a forum member may be of interest, her site is www.thedollymoppfiles.co.uk. She is or at least was based near London Bridge.

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So if May is off the list for a week why does she not say that she is unavailable on her website on any other places she advertises, its not that hard to do is it ?

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So if May is off the list for a week why does she not say that she is unavailable on her website on any other places she advertises, its not that hard to do is it ?

Did I miss this bit in my initial post, oppps, blonde moment there.

I didn't say May was off the list for a week, I said May has been busy for the last week.

Since most of you know forum based members.

Hepburn who is over from the states (and quite a few have met) is being kindly shown around etc by May.

He has travelled to meet other board members, so on those days I would surmise that May has not been entertaining him.

However it is entirely possible that she has been entertaining another gent.

Also could be down to a technical fault.

Or could be that she just hasn't managed to boot up her system and check e-mails.

Could you please bear in mind, oddly enough we do have a personal life.

So maybe she managed on those days to get her hair done, or go shopping, or go and visit her granny.

We are not at your beck and call, we do have a 'normal' life outside of entertaining clients ya kno.

:confused::D :D

(Btw this in tongue in cheek.)

I don't have the answer Guest, however I do ask people to give the benifit of the doubt to a girl who most know has been busy this week, and to understand that yes an e-mail, has gone ignored, I doubt it has been done so on purpose.

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To both the OP and Vampy,

May has been exceptionally busy this past week and if she has not responded to e-mails it is not because she is ignoring you.

I am sure that May will contact you.

As for the OP, with regards to another female, Depends on if you would like to travel or if you want to stay in London.

It also depends if you want an Indy escort or a parlour/agency.

(If you could answer these questions I am sure both the boys, and the girls can recommend someone to suit)

To the Gentleman who said it is common to ignore emails.

Sorry, but I have the time, and had the time when I worked more than 3 days a week to reply to ALL e-mails.

and You can't use either the excuse of, you only work 3 days, because I worked more than that previously, and don't tell me I couldn't have been busy either because I had more than enough work to keep my occupied.

Girls do however have certain ways of working.

As May has been with a client/friend for this past week, can you tell me

Would any of you expect her to answer e-mails when she is working??

You all moan about girls answering calls while working, now you moan because a lady has not answered her e-mails while working/entertaining.

Sometimes you gents can be a little over critical of the way we work.

(And that's not a prelude for you all to say, but there are bad service providers out there. I am well aware there are.)

She last posted yesterday afternoon but she was last on line today and according to someone else she has been in the chat room, surely at some point she could have checked her emails?

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She last posted yesterday afternoon but she was last on line today and according to someone else she has been in the chat room, surely at some point she could have checked her emails?

It's called having technical difficulties.

Just because PunterNet works, doesn't mean the e-mail will :D:confused:

For this you would deffo have to ask May.

I am just giving you guys all the possible answers.

Also I wasn't online yesterday Mikey, and while I am usually in chat I was rather busy yesterday, what with my own clientele, then My 'normal' life dancing lessons, then coming home to have a cuppa and having to go back out and sit with a friend to calm her down because her RAT of a B/F (and in this case he is) decided to walk out on her and her baby again.

I think I got in at about 2am, and fell into my bed.

So I would not know that May was online yesterday as I was not.

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To both the OP and Vampy,

May has been exceptionally busy this past week and if she has not responded to e-mails it is not because she is ignoring you.

I am sure that May will contact you.

As for the OP, with regards to another female, Depends on if you would like to travel or if you want to stay in London.

It also depends if you want an Indy escort or a parlour/agency.

(If you could answer these questions I am sure both the boys, and the girls can recommend someone to suit)

To the Gentleman who said it is common to ignore emails.

Sorry, but I have the time, and had the time when I worked more than 3 days a week to reply to ALL e-mails.

and You can't use either the excuse of, you only work 3 days, because I worked more than that previously, and don't tell me I couldn't have been busy either because I had more than enough work to keep my occupied.

Girls do however have certain ways of working.

As May has been with a client/friend for this past week, can you tell me

Would any of you expect her to answer e-mails when she is working??

You all moan about girls answering calls while working, now you moan because a lady has not answered her e-mails while working/entertaining.

Sometimes you gents can be a little over critical of the way we work.

(And that's not a prelude for you all to say, but there are bad service providers out there. I am well aware there are.)

Well done to you. However there are plenty of emails sent to others that are blanked. Ive heard the reasons given all of which probably have some truth in them, too busy, swamped with timewasters, accidentaly binned etc etc.

Your post shows it can be done, a WG can answer all emails.

I am sure May would not deliberately fail to reply to this guy, but there are plenty who do deliberately ignore emails and a fair many will be for that other well known reason "can't be arsed"

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As another Newbie, I am also trying to find my way round. Has anyone ever posted a "10 tips for a Newbie Thread" or similar? If not, would somebody like to start one?

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It's called having technical difficulties.

Just because PunterNet works, doesn't mean the e-mail will :D:confused:

For this you would deffo have to ask May.

I am just giving you guys all the possible answers.

Also I wasn't online yesterday Mikey, and while I am usually in chat I was rather busy yesterday, what with my own clientele, then My 'normal' life dancing lessons, then coming home to have a cuppa and having to go back out and sit with a friend to calm her down because her RAT of a B/F (and in this case he is) decided to walk out on her and her baby again.

I think I got in at about 2am, and fell into my bed.

So I would not know that May was online yesterday as I was not.

I only know that she was online yesterday and today because I looked at her profile.

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Has anyone ever posted a "10 tips for a Newbie Thread" or similar?

I have posted this before :-

The SaSfan punting guide for newbies.

Personal hygiene: Despite protestations to the contrary, what the lady wants is the smell of a REAL man, that earthy pong of honest sweat. You may be offered the use of bathing facilities, do not fall for this, it is a well known ploy to test your suitability as a regular (accept and you may never return), just ignore it, whip your todger out and say the magic words "get yer larfin gear round that then gal!!", it works every time.

Services: Most if not all ladies are rather shy and retiring, in so many ways they are like delicate flowers that need to be gently and repeatedly questioned before they finally open up and reveal their innermost feelings and desires, hence the need to totally disregard any form of limitations in the area of services provided, they ALL supply, and indeed crave, ALL forms of sexual activity, don't be put off by a list of "don'ts" because the implication behind that list is "well I do, but don't tell anybody".

Payment: Although this part of the deal is of the least interest to the lady (it's just pandering to tradition really) it needs dealing with in a business like manner. I expect that you have seen a couple (almost a rarity these days) of adverts that state that payment is to be in "cash only", well to be frank these ladies are a little bit behind the times, there are major disadvantages to cash and your refusal to use it will be appreciated enormously once you explain the advantages of the cheque.

1. No more embarrassing moments when the lady discovers that she is £20 short

2. No more embarrassing moments when the lady discovers that you have overpaid by £20

3. The dud note problem is eliminated

4. No more having to keep an accurate count of income for tax purposes, just pay it in to the bank account and let the accountant do the rest

The list is endless, the lady will be indebted to you for life.

Security: Obviously the security of the lady is paramount but "what about my security on an incall?" I hear you ask, a very good point and very well made say I, have no fears on that score because the punting fraternity have already got that one fully sussed out. All ladies that do incall are now legally required to have an arrangement with their Neighbourhood Watch Committee, so before you set out just take a note of their number and when you are ensconced inside the dwelling just give the Neighbourhood Watch Committee a quick bell and inform them of the Lady's name, address and mobile number and the duration of your stay, a 2 minute call and you're all done and dusted.

Advertising: This is a very expensive and sensitive area for a lady, getting just that right balance of titillation without straying into the vulgar can be quite a soul-searching task, you can be of great assistance here, by following all the previous guidelines you will soon find the lady of your dreams and quickly become a regular, so why not be really helpful and give her some free advertising, get a T shirt made up using the following template.

LILY OF LEYTONSTONE TAKES IT UP THE ARSE (with her mobile number of course).

Wear that every day and she will shower you (golden if that is your preference) with praise and be your soul mate for life.

Initial contact: I believe that I have already posted information on this subject but I shall incorporate it just for the sake of completeness. This is a much forgotten, misunderstood yet so important feature of punting; as in most things in life first impressions are the ones that stick, they are the very bedrock that will support and nurture future appointments, so get it right. I shall endeavour to cover the two main methods of initial contact and give as many tips as possible, however you will have your own style so treat the following as a guide only and not something to be slavishly followed :-

Email

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The lady logs on and views her inbox, she has 2 Emails, one has a subject of "I would like to arrange an incall appointment" the other has a subject of "r u up 4 it or wot", bit of a no-brainer really. The first is very likely to be from some lily-livered wimp called Tarquin wanting to make a booking for a 3 hour "mutual enjoyment experience", the chances are that the lady will delete that without bothering to open it, whereas the second one will really catch her eye, she will know from experience that inside will be the promise of an hour of good hard shagging by a real man.

Make the body of the Email short, sharp and preferably explicit, don't hint at things you want, be open and upfront, the lady does not want to have to read between the lines or look for subtext, after all what she desires above everything else is an assertive male that knows what he wants and gets it, phrases like "I would like to indulge in a little tradesmans entrance play" is for the Tarquin's of this world and just will not cut the mustard with a WG, be bold and write "your arse will make the Mersey Tunnel look like a drinking straw when I'm done with you", this is what excites the lady, this is what gets her going, you really can't go wrong with this sort of approach.

Phone

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Picture if you can the following scene, it is 3 O'clock in the afternoon and the lady is reading "Bleak House" or working on her needlepoint, as an aside I think this is an appropriate place to dispel a widely held misconception, WG's do not have a "normal" life outside of working, they are on call 24/7, it is not work that they do it is a vocation, her biological clock is in perfect harmony with your sexual desires; they are always dressed in erotic lingerie and will respond well to repeated enquiries as to what they are wearing, but I digress.

The phone rings, the lady answers and hears :-

"Hello Thelma, my name is Tarquin, I wonder if you would be available this afternoon .........."

Not unsurprisingly all he will hear (if he is lucky) is a loud "click"

An alternative to the above is, the phone rings, the lady answers and hears :-

"Get your tits out, get your tits out, get your tits out for the lads ............. Wot u wearin' then?"

Instant rapport, the lady will be overcome with excitement, you've pulled, I rest my case.

So Mr Newbie, there you have it, although I'm sure that more knowledge and wisdom of several experienced punters will be added, just take your time and mull over some of the more salient points and I am sure that you will see the logic and meaning behind them, of course I do not expect you to remember all that has been posted, and you will inevitably make mistakes, but as most of the major pitfalls have been covered I envisage many years of happy and carefree punting ahead of you,

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