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Medical Conditions And Punting.

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I was wondering if anyone around here has a long standing illness or medical condition and how (if) it has affected their punting life.

 

I'm still relatively new to the punting scene. As I said in one of the Glasgow threads, I been with four escorts so far - all of which have been with an agency. In each case I told them up front when I got there about my the disease I had, how I was born with it and how it was of no risk to them. Each time they were all fine with it. Physically I appear fairly normal and if I didn't have a small Gastrostomy sticking out of my stomach, I probably wouldn't mention it all. Nevertheless I hadn't had any problems with the girls I've been with.

 

Not so great now though. After booking to see an independent escort today- one who is quite well regarded around here and on AW but I won't mention her name as she seemed really nice and I don't think it's fair- I told her up front about my condition on the phone which caused her to freak out and call it off. I tried to explain that i wasn't contagious but why should she believe me, right?

 

Anyway, it's left me feeling a bit rejected. I guess I'll just have to keep looking around though.

 

Was just wondering if anyone had any similar experiences.

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Hi Waldo and welcome to the forum.

 

I'm sorry that this lady has chosen to react the way that she did. As punters we have to accept that each lady must be free to accept or decline appointments without pressure. However this one does seem to have jumped the gun a bit.

 

I can only advise going back to the agency through which you have had good meetings and try to make another date there. I assume the ladies you have met have told the others at the agency of your condition and that there has been no problem.

 

I hope the lady who declined to meet you has the good sense to look up Gastronomy and learn more about it.

 

Good luck mate.

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Waldo, first of all I'm sorry to hear of your condition. But you are lying as to why the booking with the independent escort was cancelled and you know you are!

First of all you didn't tell her upfront about it! You waited until she had agreed to see you then dropped it in. You didn't tell her it wasn't contagious, you actually told her it was potentially contagious! She hadn't heard of the condition before, why would she have? And you telling her it was potentially contagious what did you expect her to say?! That's why she called it off! Not to mention that you were coughing and spluttering on the phone! She didn't even freak out with you if you're being honest either! You're making her out to be something she certainly is not!

Just in case you want to know how I know all this I'm a regular with the girl you're talking about and we talk every day! So don't come on here telling anymore lies about her as you also did on the other thread!

A bit of discretion also wouldn't have gone a miss, you exposed who she was on another thread!

Hope you get some answers that might help you!!

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Not entirely honest, Waldo!

As for not mentioning the lady by name, too late as it's already been posted in the Glasgow section!

 

Her understanding is that you told her that you are "potentially contagious" to anyone with a certain genetic background.

 

You have now told me what your condition is, which clarifies some issues for me but most people have a very sketchy medical knowledge and as any WG is going to be completely unaware as to whether she has such a susceptibility you should not be surprised if the majority of them will want to be cautious.

Did this lady "freak out"? I dunno but I wouldn't blame her.

 

Aside from the fact that your underlying condition is NOT contagious (why you are being so cagey about naming it here I don't understand), it is clear that there ARE contagion issues from any number of secondary infections you could be carrying, the catching of which could at least be a risk to any WG's ability to work and earn.

 

I don't believe you have any cause for complaint regarding the way you have been treated and you need to be realistic about the way people are going to react to you, however frustrating that may be.

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As punters we have to accept that each lady must be free to accept or decline appointments without pressure. However this one does seem to have jumped the gun a bit.

 

You should hold off till you've heard both sides of the story before you make such judgements, PP!

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Hi Waldo and welcome to the forum.

 

I'm sorry that this lady has chosen to react the way that she did. As punters we have to accept that each lady must be free to accept or decline appointments without pressure. However this one does seem to have jumped the gun a bit.

 

I can only advise going back to the agency through which you have had good meetings and try to make another date there. I assume the ladies you have met have told the others at the agency of your condition and that there has been no problem.

 

I hope the lady who declined to meet you has the good sense to look up Gastronomy and learn more about it.

 

Good luck mate.

Paul, she didn't jump the gun! The Gastronomy wasn't even mentioned to her! It was the potentially contagious condition that was the problem. There's two sides to every story.

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What to do here!

One, it does sound like Waldo86 is a cystic fybrosis sufferer and he has a Gastrostomy fitted in his stomach. Cystic Fibrosis causes coughing so yes he might have been coughing when speaking to the WG in question. Reading this as an outsider, I do not think this brings the girl down in any way and so what if she was exposed for it, it is no big deal as it is her choice after all..

However, I am quite concerned that both Toxical and Kennymac are obviously discussing clients with her.

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There are two things and the Gastronomy isn't why she cancelled!! It was the other condition you told her about. Post the truth Waldo if you want any help!!

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What to do here!One, it does sound like Waldo86 is a cystic fybrosis sufferer and he has a Gastrostomy fitted in his stomach. Cystic Fibrosis causes coughing so yes he might have been coughing when speaking to the WG in question. Reading this as an outsider, I do not think this brings the girl down in any way and so what if she was exposed for it, it is no big deal as it is her choice after all..However, I am quite concerned that both Toxical and Kennymac are obviously discussing clients with her.

He posted lies about her this morning on a Glasgow thread, I know this girl very well and she asked me to put her side over. He's lied!! I'm not going to not post the truth! And this thread is more lies that makes her look bad!!

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However, I am quite concerned that both Toxical and Kennymac are obviously discussing clients with her.

 

We are discussing posts on PN that refer directly or indirectly to this lady, who (for reasons well known) is not a member here herself.

 

We do not discuss clients with her (except each other maybe lol) and anyway Waldo86 (or whatever he calls himself on AW) is categorically NOT a client of hers.

 

And he started it.

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I don't think anything positive is going to come out of this thread and I'm locking it.

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