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Punters/wg's: Are You Happier?

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Overall would you say that you are happier since entering this world than you were before.

 

Would you say that if you are happier is it because of punting/escorting?

 

Please try to discount the short term sexual high/financial reward

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Hard to say for absolute certain, but the grass that looked greener on the punting side is certainly delivering as far as I'm concerned!

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No not happier but not unhappy either what i thought i would get out of it i havnt.... yet

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Overall would you say that you are happier since entering this world than you were before.

 

Would you say that if you are happier is it because of punting/escorting?

 

Please try to discount the short term sexual high/financial reward

 

Oh its given me a reason to live.  It is a most splendid hobby.

 

not just the actual punts but the research etc.  And thinking about what I was doing last weds evening.

 

Bloody maaaaaaarvelous!

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Yes, on the whole I am much happier. 

 

Not only because some of the financial pressure is lifted, but also due to the friends I have made.

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Since coming into this world I've changed my life massively, for the better so definitely yes. Basic old me is still underneath, but is flourishing.

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Yes, absolutely I feel very lucky to have found my true vocation.

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Yes I am happier than I was before I found punting; trouble is I have been punting for such a long time I cannot remember a time when I didn't!

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Right now I'm very happy! :)

CB

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Well, if you want a story...

 

One bored evening after watching a bit of internet porn I googled the name of a UK pornstar, and instead of more videos, it pointed me in that persons AW page!

 

I was absolutely astounded, yes, I knew people paid for sex, but I didn't realise there were whole websites devoted to the subject, and that you coud even meet some of the models from the top shelf magazines/porn films.  Soon after that I found out I was off to the middle east for another tour, but this time I had an impending feeling that this time wasn't right.

 

So, armed with the knowledge that I could meet some of these amazing looking women, and an impending feeling of doom I made my first booking.  I found the experience quite exciting, and soon after found myself in another desert, with some really great people, and some really unpleasant ones with every intent of blowing me to bits.  However, despite some narow squeaks, I came home in one peice, and after 4 months of being shot at with no women around extremely horny.

 

So, I looked on that website again, and found another pornstar visiting my hometown, so went to see her, and had another amazing time..... and after that I realised that there were some absolutely amazing women on the site that weren't in porn, so I gave them a try, and 3 years later I am still at it

 

And there you go, a potted history of why I embarked on this hobby.  It started off with a fear of dying and I got hooked.  Does it make me happy?  Well, in a way yes, it means I can live out my fantasies, and not hurt or upset anyone (except the bank manager)

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I've just started but so far I'd say it's been positive.  The dating arts still seem to elude me so for the meantime it's the only way I can get attractive women.

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Many aspects of my life were very happy prior to me starting this hobby and those aspects still make me very happy. Obviously there were some areas that made me feel unhappy and punting has filled one or two. This forum being recommended to me has been a good thing because although it can sometimes be frustrating (even annoying) on the whole exchanging views and discovering other peoples opinions on all sorts of subjects has been very interesting.

The sex side is, of course, enjoyable but there are other things to take into consideration. Not only feeling the warmth of the lady's body as she snuggles up to you but also the warmth of her personality. Not in every case but with a sufficient number of ladies to make it worthwhile.

Being able to discuss sex related topics (again not with everybody) with a professional and in a frank and open fashion that you could never do with anyone else even your wife.

My opinions of prostitution and prostitutes have changed very significantly as a result of indulging in this hobby. It's very gratifying to read the views that have already been expressed on this thread by several ladies that they regard becoming escorts as having a positive effect on their lives.

I am sure that when I stop indulging that I will miss this hobby. I am sure that there will be some sadness that I will not see certain ladies again. If a lady that I like retires before myself then I'm sure that I will miss her.

At the moment it is not my intention to give up because I still haven't found the "Horny Grail" that I'm looking for because I've only been indulging for less than a year and I'm not sure what I'm looking for anyway.

At this time last year not only had I never been with a prostitute but I had no intention of doing so. I am very glad that due to circumstances three months later this was not the case and I am definitely happier now than before beginning punting. Strangely enough my normal life is much happier as well.

I look forward to my occasional indulgencies. I enjoy reliving the memory of some meetings that I've had (not all). There are a handful of ladies whom I look forward to seeing again. Yes I am happier. But poorer. :)

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i've long been an unhappy guy. i think i'm still about the same in terms of happiness but will never have to feel sexually frustrated again which is definitely a burdeon lifted. it's definetely made me less agitated and has increased my respect and compassion for women enormously. so yeah i guess it's made me a better person but not a happier one.

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I used punting before I met my partner, and for many years I was in and out of the equation, till the forums started up on the internet, and joy oh joy, we coud discuss with others about our hobby, as before it was hard to have something like this hobby, but not to reveal it unless within the punting fraternity, I think that what makes parlours so popular.

 

Now I am retired, i have much more free time, and at times too much of it, so I find myself looking for female company, and the pleasure of escorts and parlours appeals to me to socialise, as do the forums where we can talk openly about the hobby, and other issues.

 

Has it made my life happier, well I think the partner would say she has found me easier to live with, and I think it has kept us together, as when we had our rough spells, I was able to overcome most of them by giving myself the fringe benefits of seeing escorts, which even though life is easier for me, I still continue to do.

 

I do have an addictive personality, and would rather I had this comfort than many of the others I could have picked up, and though its costly, the price of other addictions is far higher than this one.

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Yes, managing the cost of this hobby is the burden we must carry.

 

Obviously you can't get paid for sex without suffering financial consequences so it is necessary to always juggle between the pleasures obtained and the financial impact on the balance of your life.

 

This aside, punting has been brilliant for me.  Before I started punting I was actually quite miserable, seriously wondering what the point of my life was. 

 

Through punting, I get sex with beautiful girls who look like they are straight off the covers of magazines. I get to pick my dates from a catalogue, which is just so ridiculously decadent.  I can just have sex, or I can take them to dinner, or I can get them to bring a friend.  So many different girls from so many backgrounds.  My life has become a continual adventure.

 

For the first time for decades, and totally down to punting, I am really happy with my life. :)

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Overall would you say that you are happier since entering this world than you were before.

 

Would you say that if you are happier is it because of punting/escorting?

 

Please try to discount the short term sexual high/financial reward

 

Much happier. I now have the time to do the things i couldn't previously

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Yes, managing the cost of this hobby is the burden we must carry.

 

Obviously you can't get paid for sex without suffering financial consequences so it is necessary to always juggle between the pleasures obtained and the financial impact on the balance of your life.

 

This aside, punting has been brilliant for me.  Before I started punting I was actually quite miserable, seriously wondering what the point of my life was. 

 

Through punting, I get sex with beautiful girls who look like they are straight off the covers of magazines. I get to pick my dates from a catalogue, which is just so ridiculously decadent.  I can just have sex, or I can take them to dinner, or I can get them to bring a friend.  So many different girls from so many backgrounds.  My life has become a continual adventure.

 

For the first time for decades, and totally down to punting, I am really happy with my life. :)

I would happily get paid for sex! I can manage the consequences quite well thank you!!

 

I think Thurson meant to say "You can't pay for sex............" It made me smile though.

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I guess the phrasing I was looking for was: you can't get 'paid for' sex...

 

:wacko:

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It will gratify, but never satisfy.

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It started off with a fear of dying and I got hooked.

I've read that an event that makes you aware of the fragility of his life often send a man for "professional" help.  In my case, it was my Mum suddenly becoming very ill (i.e., slowly dying in hospital).  I drove a long way to be near her and found myself a long way from my wife and needing something life-affirming.  Had a not especially good punt with a girl a few miles up the road.  (I hope this doesn't sound too sick, but believe me, when you spend 4-6 hours a day sitting watching your inert Mum in a hospital bed slipping away, you need something else.)

 

Since then I've had 3 or 4 punts and they get better and better, probably as I get better at reading the ads.  I can now get two things that I couldn't get at home from my wife: anal (never) and CIM (once in a blue moon, and then she usually chokes on my tiny amount of cum).  Funnily enough our sex life, such as it is when you've been married as long as we have, has improved a bit, partly because I'm not thinking about how I might go about getting those two items.  Of course, I haven't explained this to Mrs HDB yet.

 

They say that when John Betjeman was on his death bed, he was asked if he had any regrets.  Apparently he said something like "Yes, I wish I'd had more sex".  I don't want to have that regret. :)

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Find the replies interesting as weighing up pros/cons before leaping in and a major consideration for me would revolve around the happiness-effect. I'm of the bucket list mentality and wanting to experience somethings which are never going to happen at home (and very unlikely in most mainstream relationships), but whether this makes one 'happy'...?!

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Overall would you say that you are happier since entering this world than you were before.

 

Would you say that if you are happier is it because of punting/escorting?

 

Please try to discount the short term sexual high/financial reward

 

I am happier in general than I was when I started punting simply because with age comes wisdom and with wisdom comes happiness and I am 33 years older than I was at the time of my first punt. However, none of that happiness is attributable to punting. Not one iota. Certainly, I have had some great sex and some thoroughly enjoyable hours and half-hours with beautiful girls but taken as a whole, punting has contributed nothing of substance to my life. FFS, it's paid sex...what did you think the answer would be?  And if I were to be completely honest, I wish I'd never started...punting has been a waste of a huge amount of money in pursuit of very short term gratification (fun as that gratification has sometimes been to experience). I certainly look back on my punting career and smile at some of the memories but overall? Waste of a large sum of cash and nothing more.

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Happier, yes. But it makes me angry for al lthe wasted years with Mrs Lessingham putting out as and when

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I am happier in general than I was when I started punting simply because with age comes wisdom and with wisdom comes happiness and I am 33 years older than I was at the time of my first punt. However, none of that happiness is attributable to punting. Not one iota. Certainly, I have had some great sex and some thoroughly enjoyable hours and half-hours with beautiful girls but taken as a whole, punting has contributed nothing of substance to my life. FFS, it's paid sex...what did you think the answer would be? And if I were to be completely honest, I wish I'd never started...punting has been a waste of a huge amount of money in pursuit of very short term gratification (fun as that gratification has sometimes been to experience). I certainly look back on my punting career and smile at some of the memories but overall? Waste of a large sum of cash and nothing more.

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Sorry., meant to quote Lohengrin....

So......could you STOP....??

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