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Inherent prejudice?

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I was reading an FR today where it was clear that the escort offering the service was less than keen on the punter.

http://www.punternet.com/frs/fr_view.php?recnum=94182

It stuck in my mind because like the writer I'm a "middle aged bloke" and have wondered about the feelings caused by age difference.

Later today I was listening to "All in the mind", R4 ( http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b00nqcy9 ). The middle section of the programme contained an interview which was described as follows:

"Why the origins of prejudice might lie in our evolutionary past and the need to avoid infection and disease. Claudia talks to Mark Schaller, Professor of Psychology at the University of British Columbia, about why our need to detect signals that might suggest someone has a disease may have led to us being programmed to erroneously discriminate against people who don't fit the norm."

I believe it's available on iPlayer should any reader wish to listen again.

Now why am I connecting the two? If we follow the Professor's argument then old age, obesity or even just being a little over weight, perhaps even skin colour might be sufficient to trigger discrimination and a distinct reticence to contact. This is not necessarily subjective but a hard-wired, evolutionary response to the fear of infectious pathogens. Somehow or other WGs either get over this response or develop an ignorance to it but how can the client / punter prepare. The only thing I can come up with is a scrupulous attention to cleanliness.

Any thoughts?

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What a strange FR

Cant believe he would return:confused:

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What a strange FR

Cant believe he would return:confused:

Indeed. Besotted perhaps? :D

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Indeed. Besotted perhaps? :D

Would not recommend to anyone else but would return.

Her behavior if we are to believe the poster would suit the environment of a dom and has struck a cord with him he has not yet realized.

I would think that coming away feeling as he says he did would put you off woman not just whores.

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I would think that coming away feeling as he says he did would put you off woman not just whores.

Certainly would.. :D

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after being treated like that , he would still want to see her again :D

hmmm---- i think I'd like to hear her side of the story.

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Yes, I read that rather depressing FR.

This is why I would not see these pretty young things (no disrespect to JRC, NIK and others who will not see anything else). I do not want to feel uncomfortable with the lady in question. Nor do I wish the lady in question to feel uncomfortable.

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Yes, I read that rather depressing FR.

This is why I would not see these pretty young things (no disrespect to JRC, NIK and others who will not see anything else). I do not want to feel uncomfortable with the lady in question. Nor do I wish the lady in question to feel uncomfortable.

Sorry you feel like that oneputt

I feel very comfortable with older guys and do all I can to make them feel comfortable with me. Everyone has their hang ups with their body in some way of another and for a WG to belittle a client would suggest personal issues with the girl and not really a reflection of the age of her.

Lou4fun

pretty young thing

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What a strange FR

Cant believe he would return:confused:

Maybe another slant to this puzzle....

He pays WGs and in general they moan at all the right times, tell him what a great lover he is, smile affectionately at his gentle caresses etc etc

Truth is that he isn't a good lover, doesn't stroke women as (some) women like to be stroked and could do with a few home truths (tough love!)

He goes back to see her, she teaches him a few premature ejaculation tricks, she shows him how to touch a woman, she gives him the confidence that he appears to lack

Hey presto - He turns into a red blodied lover with bags of confidence ready to take on the world (or get himself a nice girlfriend!)

All is well with the world

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I think he just meant he would return to the agency, rather than that particular girl

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Sorry you feel like that oneputt

I feel very comfortable with older guys and do all I can to make them feel comfortable with me. Everyone has their hang ups with their body in some way of another and for a WG to belittle a client would suggest personal issues with the girl and not really a reflection of the age of her.

Lou4fun

pretty young thing

Agreed although in the case of the FR I think it may well have been a reflection on the very young lady in question and her aptitude for the job.

I personally have no hang ups with my own body. But I feel more comfortable seeing ladies who are in their late twenties and thirties.

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I think he just meant he would return to the agency, rather than that particular girl

I dont think you understand, the FR is for the girl not the agency

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Agreed although in the case of the FR I think it may well have been a reflection on the very young lady in question and her aptitude for the job.

I personally have no hang ups with my own body. But I feel more comfortable seeing ladies who are in their late twenties and thirties.

You may be right.

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That's a wierd one.

No, oneput could be right

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I dont think you understand, the FR is for the girl not the agency

He might have mixed up placing "yes" and "no" in the wrong sections. This FR seems to have the hallmark of being "recommended yes", "would I return, no".

He hesitatingly states he would like to see this lady again, but clearly there are inhibitions in his mind about doing so, primarily about the age differential based upon what he has written.

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He might have mixed up placing "yes" and "no" in the wrong sections. This FR seems to have the hallmark of being "recommended yes", "would I return, no".

He hesitatingly states he would like to see this lady again, but clearly there are inhibitions in his mind about doing so, primarily about the age differential based upon what he has written.

No Tony when I read the FR I got the clear impression that although he could not recommend her, he himself might see her again because of her looks although he was unsure whether she would be prepared to see him again.

In other words, he is a masochist.:D

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No Tony when I read the FR I got the clear impression that although he could not recommend her, he himself might see her again because of her looks although he was unsure whether she would be prepared to see him again.

In other words, he is a masochist.:D

1. The deriving of sexual gratification, or the tendency to derive sexual gratification, from being physically or emotionally abused.

2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from being humiliated or mistreated, either by another or by oneself.

3. A willingness or tendency to subject oneself to unpleasant or trying experiences.

I think he has stumbled into something he may want to explore;)

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Now why am I connecting the two? If we follow the Professor's argument then old age, obesity or even just being a little over weight, perhaps even skin colour might be sufficient to trigger discrimination and a distinct reticence to contact. This is not necessarily subjective but a hard-wired, evolutionary response to the fear of infectious pathogens. Somehow or other WGs either get over this response or develop an ignorance to it but how can the client / punter prepare. The only thing I can come up with is a scrupulous attention to cleanliness.

Any thoughts?

I certainly wouldn't discount this as a theory.

There is stuff floating around about how people can 'sense' the diversity someones genes are from their own and are likely to be more attracted to those with a greater difference. I suppose at that level, fat, middle aged blokes like me will present as having lower quality sperm, not being very good at chasing mammoths to bring home the meat and frankly, not being arouns that much longer! Still, I imagine an exception may be made if I own a brand new Bentley

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