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What does GFE include?

What should a "GFE" from a working girl include?   69 members have voted

  1. 1. What should a "GFE" from a working girl include?

    • Kissing Mouth
    • French Kissing (Tongues)
    • Kissing Elsewhere (Kneck, ears etc)
    • Licking Nipples
    • Fingering (Gentle without protection)
    • Fingering with protection
    • Oral with protection
    • Oral without protection
    • Reverse Oral with protection
    • Reverse Oral without protection

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OK, as my uncle used to say, "let's up the ante!!".

I have attached a poll here to see if we can judge what should or should not be included in a GFE (Girl-Friend experience).

This is because some brothels have difficulty with understanding the term and have suggested using wikipaedia when we have a load of "customers" and suppliers here already.

This is a multi option poll for obvious reasons and is a public poll so voting can be identified.

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I realise that I have not included full sex as I assume that everyone thinks that that is a given and also should be with protection, also, due to poll limitations, I could not include stuff like anal etc.

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Well if you had included them, I would have ticked full sex, but not anal.

I think for the most part it's about trying to recreate a normal sexual experience with someone you're fond of. Without all the I love you stuff, but with all the intimacy (IYSWIM).

Nothing like the PSE which is the other end of the spectrum. Full on porn sex with all the spitting on cocks, 'throat fucking' etc.

Somewhere in between is the 'Full personal service', Less intimate, more functional (for want of a better word) and possibly including some of the porn-like elements.

Well, that's how I interpret it anyway. :confused:

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With GFE in mind, particularly when seeing a lady regularly, I have found it tricky to differentiate mentally between having sex with a whore and making love to a girlfriend. Should GFE feel more like making love?

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I would have thought it would include a good cuddle, thats what I miss most from the GFE experience, especially post orgasm!

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With GFE in mind, particularly when seeing a lady regularly, I have found it tricky to differentiate mentally between having sex with a whore and making love to a girlfriend. Should GFE feel more like making love?

Well yes, I think so, but I'm sure that there are plenty of folks who would disagree with me. Isn't that the whole point of it being named the 'Girlfriend' experience?

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I would have thought it would include a good cuddle, thats what I miss most from the GFE experience, especially post orgasm!

Yes, snuggling up afterwards... Fantastic stuff. :confused:

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I've never had a girlfriend who has insisted on protection for oral!

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I've never had a girlfriend who has insisted on protection for oral!

I ticked that by accident sos:o Though one girlfriend I had did have a particularly pungent minge. It was like radishes and burning rubber :confused:

Definitely should have included the cuddles though G.:)

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I've never had a girlfriend who has insisted on protection for oral!

Personally, I've never experienced oral with protection. Oral has always been without, just as it always was with girlfriends and wife.

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The cuddles and and relaxing together are essential.

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I would just like to add that (contrary to popular belief), the GFE does not and should never include sticking one's tongue in my ear or licking my face like a happy Spaniel.

:confused:

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OK, as my uncle used to say, "let's up the ante!!".

I have attached a poll here to see if we can judge what should or should not be included in a GFE (Girl-Friend experience).

This is because some brothels have difficulty with understanding the term and have suggested using wikipaedia when we have a load of "customers" and suppliers here already.

This is a multi option poll for obvious reasons and is a public poll so voting can be identified.

Did your uncle teach you to do leading polls as well !

Where is my option to say GFE should NOT include X Y or Z ? There is isn't. The poll therefore can only default to the yes vote and there is no way for a NO vote to be counted.

OK Lets leave even that imbalance aside. Look at sheer numbers.

Given that PN has some 3400 active members the poll would need in excess of 1700 yes's to make it a majority.

Somehow I don't think that will happen ! Do you ?

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Did your uncle teach you to do leading polls as well !

Where is my option to say GFE should NOT include X Y or Z ? There is isn't. The poll therefore can only default to the yes vote and there is no way for a NO vote to be counted.

OK Lets leave even that imbalance aside. Look at sheer numbers.

Given that PN has some 3400 active members the poll would need in excess of 1700 yes's to make it a majority.

Somehow I don't think that will happen ! Do you ?

Shouldn't imagine many of them will be going to IP in the future so it really doesn't matter how imbalanced the poll maybe or how many numbers you crunch.

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The cuddles and and relaxing together are essential.

Nice as cuddling is, £200 an hour to cuddle with a girl is not relaxing!

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I really love cuddles, so its very important for me. Also just touching - its great to explore someone else's body with a light touch.

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Nice as cuddling is, £200 an hour to cuddle with a girl is not relaxing!

For one thing, I don't charge £200 a hour, also very few clients are physically able to have one hour plus of high energy full sexual activity. There are times when you are together that it's nice to relax between the full on stuff, just and stroke before building back up. Of course if someone wants a hour plus of high energy sexual activity that is absolutely fine with me:)

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I've never had a girlfriend who has insisted on protection for oral!

neither have I, well not a proper one:D:D

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I've never had a girlfriend who has insisted on protection for oral!

One girlfriend refused me oral at all (though she did deign to accept me giving it to her :confused:). Her saving grace was that she was an adequate cook (for comparison, I am the world's worst).

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Where is my option to say GFE should NOT include X Y or Z ? There is isn't. The poll therefore can only default to the yes vote and there is no way for a NO vote to be counted.

OK Lets leave even that imbalance aside. Look at sheer numbers.

Given that PN has some 3400 active members the poll would need in excess of 1700 yes's to make it a majority.

Wrong. If you leave a service unticked, then you do not consider it a requisite of GFE. So it's pretty clear that currently seven eighths think kissing is necessary for a GFE. Though it's a weakness in the system that currently more people think french kissing is a GFE service than think plain kissing is. And it's a self-selected sample, yadda yadda...

Edited by odysseus
wrong service mentioned

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One girlfriend refused me oral at all (though she did deign to accept me giving it to her :confused:). Her saving grace was that she was an adequate cook (for comparison, I am the world's worst).

What is the adaquacy, (yes it is a real word, I've checked), of your oral giving?

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The cuddles and and relaxing together are essential.

Absolutely ... Cuddling and slow caressing creates a sense of intimacy and as Joanna say's is essential part for a GFE appointment... combined with sensual kissing. :confused:

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Wrong. If you leave a service unticked, then you do not consider it a requisite of GFE. So it's pretty clear that currently seven eighths think kissing is necessary for a GFE. Though it's a weakness in the system that currently more people think french kissing is a GFE service than think plain kissing is. And it's a self-selected sample, yadda yadda...

I think you need to reach a figure of around 1700 to reach a majority of active members (who may or may not have voted).

A long way to go methinks (almost like election night and waiting for the results coming in !)

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What is the adaquacy, (yes it is a real word, I've checked), of your oral giving?

Adequacy :D

Well she came.. unless she devoted even more time to being an actress than to being a cook.. but lack of reciprocity (yes it is a real word, I've checked) will destroy any relationship in the end. Sad to say :D

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